₦airaland Forum

You can type "Haitian Adoption" into you tube ,to watch families that have gone through the process.
You can also check out this blog http://livesayhaiti..com/ (they are a missionary couple who live in Haiti , they have also adopted from Haiti). Start here and you will get more links from their page.

Also checkout weloveourlucy..com ( they adopted from Ethiopia)
a couple of years down the road,I plan on having my biological children and also adopting an orphan. I am currently in my research stage and trying to learn about all it entails. I think more Nigerians should not be so judgemental of those who choose to adopt, I am still trying to figure out why some view it as a taboo.

You have to be extremely confident in your decision making process, otherwise, you might get sidetracked by people's discouragement.

During the ceremony, You can project pictures of him (slide show), e.g from when he was young, got married, with children till now.


Opening Prayer
Welcome of guests
slide show
Children can share something about their dad, e.g what they have learned or admire about him
Menu, menu
Dance
cutting of the cake
pictures
dance, dance

caliente--this is eerily similar

I really can't remember if it was my dad's fault or the drivers. On this one occasion in primary 1, they forgot me in school and i was  literally the last person and I had to go home with the headmistress. My parents did not know where i was until the headmistress called them. I ate lunch and had a good time playing in her house till  my mum picked me up. she was quite relieved that i was with the headmistress and not a gbomo gbomo (kidnappers)


the 2nd time I was forgotten, definitely the driver's fault.  i was much older and had my cousins as companions.   We trekked to an uncle's house.  My cousin was smart enough, to figure out  we had an uncle in the area and they (my uncle and his wife) were quite shocked to see us.

Both instances, were quite terrifying because my schools were in  isolated areas.

she reported you for assault on what grounds? Although I don't condone your going there in the first place, i understand your situation

In your initial post, you said nothing happened between you guys. Just make sure you have evidence that nothing happened. She might be trying to incriminate you, because you did not marry her, but you stopped by to see her. e.g she is not good to marry,but you don't mind hanging with her

Besides, why did she let you in her house, if she did not want to see you.

Instead of running away from your wife, everytime you disagree, Pray for wisdom to deal with your wife.