₦airaland Forum

thorpido: Yea,ignorance indeed pays more.There are quite a no of ignorant women who find out they are HIV positive when they come to the hospital for routine antenatal screening.

God bless you.

Serves him right, men thinking with their dick since 1800, wonder what he will tell his creator? am sure fela's mom lived a long beautiful and fulfilled life,am different tho.

synergycom19: The wife doesn't have the same rights like the husband.It's not biblical, rather it's the westernised import into christianity that makes it seem so

Rights to do as he pleases abi? rights to do wrong cos he has a dick? What kind of rights are you talking about mister?

[quote author=wealthinfos]Hmm Great contribution there. @smokescreen are u a lady?

Always baffles me why men don't like being cheated on but yet they cheat, justifying it with useless excuses, things are changing though women too are beginning to up their game, I can't feel sorry for a man whose wife cheats on him. polyandry would be a good idea in naija tho.

Men should treat women like humans and partners, do unto them(wives)what they want to be done to them, men should also know that women will never accept or condole cheating even if the wife doesn't leave the marriage because of the stigma of divorce in naija, she will stay there and HATE you till death. Women be submissive to a good husband.

This story might be fake but these things happen, the biggest lie most nigerian men tell themselves is the'my wife cannot cheat lie'.whatsapp and other forms of social media has made cheating a little easy for SOME married women, some cheat emotionally with dirty sexy chats others do the koko,soo sad though men have bin in the game for too long time to hand over the baton.Hehehehehehehehe, I HATE CHEATING.

Chillisauce: Nigerian women, is this true?

Thank Goodness i'm Japanese.
Sucks to be a Nigerian woman this century

I tell ya it SUCKS being a nigerian woman.

I swear I hate bin a female in Africa especially naija see as guys dey reject the tin, in my next life ehn.

UPDATE:I really dug up the cause of death he died from thromboembolism it occurs when they is a sudden cut of blood supply to certain parts of the brain, dat his was caused by cerebral ischemia. A young doctor related to them was more than happy to give the information to my source, he said it was same thing goldie died of.

love is wicked.

will do some digging about the illness that claimed his life, she didn't kill the husband no one around her have suggested that even from all the talk about her not mourning, the issue is why she isn't soo sad.

freecocoa: So what has been stopping her from leaving? That's even more reason to suspect her.

I don't know, on a second thought may she grieves differently like at night when she's alone? it's just that she looks so darn rested and pretty during the day.

freecocoa: So what has been stopping her from leaving? That's even more reason to suspect her.

I don't know, on a second thought maybe she grieves differently like at night alone? she just looks so darn rested and pretty during the day.

bennyrazz: yes, there are countless stories of how some devil incarnates kill their spouses all cuz they want to take possession of their properties. They do it through using local charms, hired assassins e.tc its really sad and I use to tell people that if the basis of a woman's love for you is the materials you have to offer, then you are doomed if not now but in future

so now it's about her killing for the guy's property? they say she has bin wanting to leave they were married for six years, she has a job it's not about the money and she didn't kill the guy he was sick for like a week nobody even think he was going to die.the thing is she is not as gloomy as we expect most widow to be, she is very pretty sha.

bennyrazz: so you are capable of taking your spouse life cuz she cheated? what is wrong with separation and moving on with your life? All I can sense in the story of the op is foul play and it wouldn't be long before nemesis catch up such people if that's what they actually do.

Lol I do hate cheating but I wouldn't kill cos of that she didn't kill the guy, it was a brief illness though.

bennyrazz: there is more to this matter @op, are you sure your friend did not poison her husband due to his cheating nature?

nah I don't think she did but if she hates cheating as much as I do then she might have ......

@aisha2 you are so on point someone even said at least she gets to keep everything as oppose to losing almost everything if she divorces.one thing I have heard from some married women is them not loving their husbands when they begin to Philander, you can't miss who you don't love, I might be wrong though.

I want to hear from married folks especially women, would you sincerely mourn a man that cheats on you. I have a friend though we are not very close I had spoken about her on another thread she lost her hubby some months ago and she seem to be having the time of her life, I have ran into her a couple of times since her hubby's death and she has never looked sooo pretty and sexy. Sources close to her said her husband's cheating has always bin an issue she had told some people she would leave the marriage, the guy died suddenly he was 42 so I heard, personally I HATE cheating but this lady seem to be soo happy she is letting it show, a lot of people are talking about it, she is now a rich sexy widow with two cute kids.Over to you ladies would your tears be that of hurt/sorrow or tears of relief.

MY beloved country would be on that list soon cos dis year alone the number of couples that parted ways that I know are like five, women are beginning to understand that you mustn't die in a bad marriage because of society.

@op when you bin get job you bin dey flex dey do anyhow abi? women no dey forget o, all dis men we dey Waka and their wives dey look the other way don't get too comfortable o, if situation change small una go see something.

Caseless2: smokescreen4 must give me a lapdance.

In your dreams.

Caseless2: i need a lapdance!

nah I will give that cute corper behind my house dat dance, you guys make it easy for married women dis days, unrepentant cheats.

I will and can never love a man who cheats on me, the truth is I would wish something bad happens to him . It's good op keeps herself busy with other things dat makes her happy.

Caseless2: If you've vowed that you'll stick together for better for worse , i dont know why ordinary cheating should call for divorce of one's partner.

So cheating is ordinary wow!I've got work to do then.

Am sooo sad, it's well dear, I hate it when some men play God in their wives lives, mere mortals,in dis life where nothing is certain, does he own his life? does he know tomorrow?kai I don't even know what to type, be strong for your kids if you die his ex would move in less than two weeks and treat your kids anyhow.i have since learnt that my happiness does not depend on anyone not even my spouse.

SAMBARRY: thank you o.so I can finally see a reasonable man on nl

Am a woman and am your biggest fan

@5minsmadness something is most definitely responsible for the way the man is treating the wife, you made it look like the wife brought it upon herself by her actions or like she deserves it, men don't just do this, or do that again I say speak for yourself.

5minsmadness please speak for yourself, we are not babies we see these things happen all the time, dat man don get babe outside e no dey think straight he just need time to play well dats why he drove her, cause and effect my foot.

3cycle: Culture does not allow women fight for their kids, you either stay and endure or you leave and forget them.
You talk like you are not Nigerian

it sucks to be a woman I Nigeria then, in my next life am most definitely going to be a man.

Culture does not allow women fight for their kids, you either stay and endure or you leave and forget them.
You talk like you are not Nigerian
It sucks to be a woman in Nigeria then, in my next life am most Definitely going to be a man.

Am happy you remarried, if only my beautiful young cousin would do same.