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Anewdawn:
Stop exposing ur ignorance. Are u part of us? Or u just jumped out from the blues? Cos ur moniker doesn't sound a bell.
I never mentioned or referred to u in d first instance so it baffles me what ur grivence is? Except if d oda moniker is same u. If it was a mistake d owner of d moniker made, then she shld apologise and thatz it. We r all from different backgrounds, so we understand, take and see things differently. What I said might have sounded rude to u, u don't know d reasons why I came that way. So enuff already and back off!!!

Thanks mamakendra and apple19, I've heard my sisters. Its all in good faith.

Anewdawn:
U don't know me neither do u know my story. If I say unquote me I have my very strong reasons. Pls park on ur lane and don't act an advocate for something u know nothing about.

Anewdawn:
I didn't tell u I was d one with d infection. Was advising someone else. Why quoting me Unquote me please.

Timbuktou:
1. Hmm. Ok.

2. I'd ask to speak to her husband and ask him to be discreet.

Sophyrocks:
Oh yes i was. But you know divorce is bad for kids. You talked about forgiveness didnt you?

Timbuktou:
I'm not sure a womaniser would be unable to take care of children, even a non-womaniser would find it difficult. It's not like he spends every minute of his life with women. He can always find a level-headed woman to care for his children. By the way, the kids belong to both parents not just the wife.

No, I didn't think you killed your friend's husband. Maybe, erm, you, erm, you know...

Timbuktou:
Yup, the man would just allow her take them like they're hers. Abi, you go help am kill the husband? Seems like something you'd have no qualms with.

Timbuktou:
OP, too bad your husband lacks class and discretion. Feel free to divorce him but, don't forget to leave the kids on your way out.

kreamidiva:
Lol. If he dies after the prayers, then it's his time to die. God doesn't say "oops!" He knows the end from the beginning.

He cannot haunt me after his death because he knows that his life wasn't in my hands.

Even if he tells me to do it, I won't agree.

This is how I feel though.

lafflaff123:
Bros. In Africa, and its not our fault, women take the blame for everything and we men take the Glory for everything. One day it will be the women's turn to take the glory, and we men to take the blame.

But that day is not now.

The child is a female? na the woman fault.

The child turn Ashawo?na the woman fault.

The boy turn ARMU Robber?of course na she cause am.

Food get too much salt? na she nau.

ARMU Robbers come rob us? na she cause am because she dey display her gold everywhere for neck.

If the pikin dey Nairaland dey browse? I swear na the mama cause am.

If we Cheat? na she cause am with her nagging so we find peace go outside.

Bros. Women dey faulty for everything their hands touch.

singlefade25:
hahahahahahaha

lofty900:
who r we 2 condemn others ? "He dat is without sin, let him cast the first stone"

lofty900:
if only he was still single, dis would have been d perfect thing 4 him 2 do but not when he is already married. Asking a married man 2 go with his family 2 see another woman's family is a very fuNny thing 2 do. There's no way he won't be asked 2 marry d girl as compensation 4 everything

DailyNews:
I so much love this sweetlemon; she's too real and honest in most of her comments on this forum; my dear u deserve a sweet gift. Whenever I read sweetlemon's comment, I see openness and honesty, keep it up, eyes are watching.

Unfortunately, most females on nairaland take every topic as an opportunity to prove equality bw men and women even when they know the reality

The answer to this question is simple, but I will give a detailed explanation for those who care to read my epistle

Men become more attractive to women as they become older; so long as he has a stable means of income.

But women become less attractive to men as they grow older.

These are natural instinct in both men and women right from birth.

A girl of 25yrs don't wanna date a guy of 25yrs, she wants 30, 35, 40yrs old man if possible...because to her, men of such age are mature emotionally, financially and otherwise. How many girls here want to date a guy of their age? I am sure none! How many girls here called their age mates in secondary school and higher institution days small boys? I am sure most!

But most guys want to date and marry younger girls with fresher body. A guy of 35yrs for instance, doesn't see it as a taboo dating a girl of 18yrs or say 19yrs, but a lady of 35yrs can never date a guy of 25yrs talkless of 19yrs...to her, guys below 35yrs are too young for her...now talk more of a widowed or divorced lady with kids; which single unmarried guy would happily remarry her Let's be real and honest pls.

It is only older divorced/widowed men that remarry divorced ladies. No young man in Nigeria, America, Europe, Australia, Asia, etc will intentionally go for a divorced or widowed lady when he has option of younger, prettier ladies with no kids.

The quality majority of women all over the world consider most in men is financial capability and sometimes, physical fitness- not even good looks.

But the number 1 quality 99% of men all over the world consider in a woman is- physical beauty only, and to men, a woman who has been married and had issues no longer qualifies as hot, except for few rare cases whereby the lady is looking hot/young after childbirth/divorce.

No single unmarried man in any part of the world will marry a divorced or widowed lady with good eye; something fishy must have led to such marriage, but many single, young, pretty unmarried ladies are so ready to marry an old divorced or widowed man so long as he has a stable finance. So its not just a Nigerian men issue...its not even about maturity, its just about nature and how men are wired.

Nature really didn't favour women in this aspect, and that's why every woman should pray against hubby's untimely death, divorce and marital issues because its not always easy for women to remarry in any part of the world even if she wants to.

All those claiming that it is different in America and Europe...why do u think Nigerian Yahoo boys/Romance Scammers are smiling big to bank? They milk these divorced and widowed American, European, Australian and Asian women because most widowed and divorced women in America, Europe, Asia and Australia don't usually find it easy to remarry, so our unscrupulous Nigerian romance scammers now promise them marriage and love just to milk them dry and get their national visa and citizenship. So its not just in Nigeria alone that women find it hard to remarry, it is a global problem.

I have a British colleague and somehow a friend, JB, he's divorced, and his wife is a medical doctor...JB is in his early 50s and his wife late 40s, but JB has over 30 girlfriends scattered all over d world (he has travelled to over 50 countries) and 1 stable Nigerian girl he plans to marry next year whereas his British ex wife is down there in UK bitter and getting used and dumped by some coogars in London; according to JB.

JB once told me his ex wife is still trying hard for them to get back but he's saying he can't cos the wife is no longer attractive to him...they have 2 issues; first is 25, second is 23.

So let's tell ourselves the truth; its not always easy for women to remarry anywhere in the world.

Huff Hefner, the owner of Playboy Mansion, a white American man in his 90s confessed last year to have slept with over 1000 young women even as he's old...just because he has money!

Oprah Winfrey with her billions can't get up to 10 young guys to happily make love to her and wish to marry her, lol.

To women all over the world, once a man has money and fit to walk, he is a hero to all women! But to men, unless a woman is physically attractive and fresh, she isn't worth any man's attention no matter how wealthy she is, sadly.

Sadly when we look at it so well, this world belongs to men, sadly:-