Dante

I'm kinda concerned for you cos i actually was in a situation very similar to yours.However, for me ,the lady was only pretending and after a few months , her real nature sprang up!. Trust me, i ran for cover sharp sharp!

I think you should take your time before commiting to the lady in marriage. Why? you've said  a lot of things abt yourself which will make any smart lady to persitently pretend for as long as she can to get what she wants, especially the kind of chicks that hide under the umbrella of religion!(born -against! )

Premise no1:you are a young man that has always had it smooth, nice job , nice car,[i presume]. what else does  a lady want? she may pretend to be a saint if that's all she has to do to get you. but then she might just be her real self and might just be a very good girl.

Premise No2: your story sounds like your parents are no longer together? if they are seperated/divorced, then YOU might just be the one with the problem.You made a very potent statement , ''your mum is like a demi-god and nobody can talk to her'' if thats true , then you are in deep shit!.

You may just have to take your stand or else if your mum makes you lose this one, i can assure you , getting another good girl may  take a long time and it may be very difficult as well!.

Search your heart, pray very well, set up situations where this lady's sincerity and love can be tested and proven, if she consistently passes them, then she's the right one for you!. Most importantly, GOD has given you and every other person the gift of discernment!. you have your conscience which will always tell you if you are right or wrong!. dont deceive yourself because you love this lady, do a thorough soul- searching and if you are convinced, go ahead and marry the love of your life!

If you dont stand up to your mother, she's gonna mess up your life!.Why did your dad change his stance towards this girl? i'd really like to know that, most likely because your mum manipulated him!. Most domineering women will eventually do that.

Finally, it's your life!, you are the one that has the final say!, if you allow someone's advice to mess it up, only you , i repeat, only you will bear the consequences.

A word is enough fopr the wise!

Guy,
dis price is not realistic!
review pls,
i suggest you do a market survey and find out how much this spec goes for in the local market,
hint,  i got mine for less than 2m here in naija  and its in excellent condition.Just a piece of advice though
cheers

nah wah o!

i find the discussion between lord reed and harakiri so stimulating!
even though the grammar plenty o!

Hmmmmmm, that's a very touching story.

I feel you my brother, however, to make any rational deductions and hence be in a position to advice you, i daresay your story has a few missing lines,

No 1: Why is your mum against this lady? has your mum even met her? cos according to your story, it seems like your mum is not even in your immediate vicinity?

No 2:most times when parents object to their wards chice of a life partner, there is always a very potent reason for doing that.There is an adage that says ''what an elder sees whilst sitting down, a youth even while at the top of a skyscraper never sees''.So, it might not be obvious to you right now, but you may likely thank you parents later on in life.

Whenever anybody is in love , the level of 'pheromones'' and other activated hormones as a result of that condition actually blurr the lines, hence there is a propensity not too see clearly. Sadlly enough, you might just be blinded at the moment by the arrows of cupid.

i will advise that you shed more light on this lady, what are her strengths, why do you think your dad and mum are against her?, talk more about her weaknesses, how does she handle conflict? have you ever had quarrels ?

In a nutshell, i think nairalanders need more information before we can reasonably make cogent inferences.

Cheers dude