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I think he should know. But before you tell him let me ask.
Did you try letting him know about this when you were still dating him?
Did you teach him how to slow down and control his breath?
Drugs for me are not advisable.
If you did all these and he is still wondering why you left then he should be daft.
But if you didn't try to improve him then you never lovedhim in the first place.

Its not really easy being an aging girl.
Coupled with the type of society we have. I wish girl would wake up to realise that a times being single is better off than even getting married to some idiots. Marriages are failing these days and it really worries me.

I lost a lot of friends because of her. I wish we never even met. I wish I dumped her before she dumped my sorry ass.

I really don't like it. Maybe its because the first girl that tried it hurt me. But later on, I found out that I prefer giving than receiving. I mean, who doesn't like it when they start to moan and try hard to pull you up with one hand while the other hand is busy searching for the joystick to insert.
Cool mehn, cool.

I'd like to meet EroticAngelica

sweetorgasm:
FUFU boy lyk u

Hey count me out boy.
Am just watching you guys stroke yourselves that all!

EroticAngelina.
Sweet girl with loads of punchlines..
Hope to see her Someday.

sweetorgasm:
TOTOCOCK

Lmaooooooooo.. Mumu boys

EroticAngelina:
hurt me? i laf in japanese. totally opposite.
it didnt hurt me coz im nt a harlot lyk ur mum nd sis.

Lmaooooooooo... You've got punchlines sister. You go in hard. Cool

EroticAngelina:
Just lyk ur ugly mum did when a man gave her N100 for 10 rounds of banging?? ouch

Lol ... Didn't know it hurt you that bad. Sorry sha

teflonbuzz:
That's the problem. If I dump her,who will I get next that I am sure won't cheat? A nun? This is like dumping the last 2 yrs of my life. What bothers me more is that I don't wanna see her happy with someone else. Ain't gonna lie, taking her life crossed my mind for a minute not out of hatred but just so I can live with this. It still feels like it's my loss....this damn girl gave me some of the best years of my life.

Something like this happened to me. I didn't just leave, I tried, I fought for her love back. But distance really shows you how much some pples love can last. I cried for years. I stayed single coz I know I won't be able to love another person so easily. She left with no reason. I even paid her sch fees ones back then in sch. Brother, you are in for a long time of pain, but it will help you prepare and understand love better. Just make amazing friends. Don't force yourself to be in love for you will just end up hurting the new girl. Take your time.
Later on she even called me to tell me that the reason she left me was that I couldn't foot her bills. She broke my heart with that call. She broke my heart. But that was my ginger. I thank God it happened that way and I was able to hold myself. I stayed strong. At some point I was taking drugs to sleep. I think you should channel your pain to your career like I did. It help me go in hard into everything I did..... Been years ago and I am still single and loving it. I promised myself that my next girl would be my wife for I think my experience has helped me become a better person and would be able to spot a girl that would hold me down. Marriage isn't a bed of roses and I am prepared to make it work with who ever I end up loving.
Be patient and endure your pain. Learn from it

Nneka123:
uglyness? What is that?

Anyway, I already told you the truth . You can as well bite me if you can.

Nneka you sef! You dey talk sha oo

EroticAngelina:
A peck and a 'thank u' will do

Your name is enough to tell us that you would gladly spread your leg like mat for 5millon days

She's a child and children are friends of Jesus.
So I can imagine her in heaven. I know she is there.

coolhamid:
Where is the love? Is it not for better for worse again?? To all men outside there, May God never retire your Dickson while you are still alive ...

Amen brother. Amen and amen

queencalipso:
If u really mean what u wrote up there then I will gladly be ur girl friend

You look like the type that would wake the op up with a Mouth Action and leaving him crying for sex

[quote author=elantraceey post=33942209]I can't stop loving my own child not for any reason in the world .

You have a child?

elantraceey:
Are you sure you quoted the right person ?

I couldn't have been more specific.

[quote author=elantraceey post=33883353]Congratulation


As regards to your last statement I guess you are gonna be spending the money you'll make on ladies

#just kidding

Its seems to me you're trying to book your space. Next you will ask. ' how much are you being paid self' and now #just kidding.
Yimu

this shit happened to me 1c. she even told me pump and plain that ' i couldnt foot her bills'. my heart was cold.
tell you the truth, you should be glad she has shown you her real self. she never loved you.
move on happily, pick her call. like me, i pick her calls, chat witg her self but i anytime she starts to talk about us i just let her how glad i am to have gotten ride of a fake person around me.

victoria kimani

she is just dating you because she needs to heal. not because she loves. she would even accept to be a second wife to that her ex at the slightest opportunity
and wouldnt hesitate to dump your sorry ass.
dont dump her, she is a girl and she is tender. talk to her about it. take her on holidays, trips to unknown romantic places. teach her of a different way to love a man. teach her she should never depend on a man for her happiness.
then, even her ex would be amazed and see the beauty in the girl he dumped.

bro, to me you have a full time job. continue banging her toto. and the toto of other women. money dey comot from toto.

zealot4me:
I'm dating a banker

then am sorry for you.
better use protection if you really want to be with him and get ready for the heartbreak hotel when you guys finally get married.
hope youre working and earning too, so you would have a life when the drama starts.

SPMCNIGERIA:
www.spmcnigeria.org

huhhh

blym4real:
That is if he is addicted. Gambling can be done moderately. Binary option trading and forex are also gambling.

youre blabbing mehn

tbaba1234:
How many times do people make such winnings?

Do you know that gambling is addictive and has destroyed homes and families?

I am a muslim and the ruling for us is clear:


O you who have believed, indeed, intoxicants, gambling, [sacrificing on] stone alters [to other than Allah ], and divining arrows are but defilement from the work of Satan, so avoid it that you may be successful.


Satan only wants to cause between you animosity and hatred through intoxicants and gambling and to avert you from the remembrance of Allah and from prayer. So will you not desist?


Surah 5:90-91

wow, thanks. more thanks for backing your claims up religiously. pretty cool.

[quote author=Anas09 post=33302856]Wealth gotten by Vanity shall diminish, but he that gathered by labour shall increase. When I was younger, my uncle who lived in port harcourt at the time, will always return to the village with plenty of goodies. Everything indicated he was doing well at his business. He came home, bought land and started buying buliding materials. All of a sudden, everything stopped. He won't come back home, nothing was heard of him again for yrs. I finished school and came to ph, only to discover why my uncle wasn't coming home anymore. He was so brook that, he couldn't even pay his rent. He lost his business, his children were out of school. The wife was the one feeding the family as they were moving from one friend's house to the other to sqaut. His friends all left him because they knew he will come to borrow or to ask to move in with them. One early morning, I woke up to see my uncle with his entire family and propertise that my small room could not contain, in my house. He moved in with me without even asking me if it was ok by me. Now, what brought my uncle to this state? Sport betting. He kept telling himself that he was very close to winning, he kept trying until he lost everyfin. He borrowed, sold everyfin that anyone could buy. At last he joined O.O.Obu. Believing they will give him luck to win. My dear another name for Gambling is Covetousness, and coveteousness is a sin against God. Work hard and u will bless u.


my brother, that your uncle life bend pass indomie. your story is all i need to be convinced.
thanks

gracespeaks:
As many dat r led by d Spirit of God r d sons of God. Am sure of all ways God can use in blessing a man,gambling isn't part. Wen u gamble u hope,but God wants us to work by faith.

thanks.... noting all the points.

ifeomaekol:
Whatever that takes the place of God in your life is a sin, moderation is the key to everything. Life itself is a bet, if u become addicted to anything that it stops your good reasoning its a sin.

Hey, am at sea at your explanation...
But you seem to be a pretty girl.
The kinda pretty I like...
Invite me.

Its no more news to Nigerians that since buhari won, people just started trekking. Its hilarious really.
A well meaning Nigerian that understands the idea behind the trekking should please, for sake of clarity, speak to me and to all who are still are sea as to why hamisu trekked.
Thanks.

Syncan:
For your sake, I will advise you not to take lightly the sacrament of penance, prepare yourself for it with the neccesary examination of conscience, contrition for your sin and resolution not to commit mortal sin again. When you do this, you'll be able to put into consideration the parish set time for confession, and make your preparations towards the day. If you can, get a spiritual director. I will not advise you to try force a priest to hear your confession. Let me stop here for now.

But do you agree with me that the priests neglected there duty?
I mean, I don't own my life and can be called at anytime. What if other people have died as a result of the negligence!