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Jamyle, i must say that i am [color=#990000]HIGHLY disappointed in you and your handling of the issue. It's very evident that you're a kid and is highly inexperienced in dealing with relationships, especially matters of the heart and the opposite sex. If your girlfriend decided to call another man, in your face, doesn't that send you a message? There must definitely have been something you were doing wrong, which you might have known about but pride got to you and now you have fallen. You obviously do not have what it takes to manage the lady in question and possibly other ladies who might mistakenly venture into your jinxed aura, which probably prompted her to seek attention and all the other good stuff elsewhere.

Furthermore, if your girlfriend chooses to have a male friend, is it a crime? You should count yourself lucky to have a girl who openly lets you know that she's getting attention from other guys because of your lack of understanding WHAT WOMEN WANT, as compared to those who will give you all the attention and still be two-timing at the same time. You should give a woman freedom of expressing herself and relating with the opposite sex so long at she doesn't disrespect you in the process. Speaking of respect, it is a two way traffic and is also reciprocal, in case you didn't know. Have you ever stopped to question the man (or in your case boy) in the mirror to see if he was preempting certain pointers before concluding and painting the white house black?

You have crucified her for a crime she "might" not have committed, what assurance do you now have that she will not go all out and commit the crime to justify the punishment and justice you have already meted out to her? What if she was testing you to see if you could truly withstand trials, tribulations and temptations for her sake as you may have professed to her when you were trying to woo her?

In my opinion, you have failed the first rule of engaging conflict. You were rash in your decision and relied upon your egoist, male chauvinistic head and not heart in analyzing the situation. I also believe that you must have gotten the wrong counsel from immature friends and peers to further strengthen your resolve to descend on her the way you did.

I advise that you apologise to her and make up since you never caught her in the act. You could still salvage the situation if she still loves you and has not let your suspicion drive her far into the other man's arms; afterall that's where she might presently be receiving warmth, attention and affection since you slammed the door in her face and left her out in the cold, heartbroken and at the mercy of players.

If you lose this girl, know deep down that the fault was from you, only you and no one else but you because you didn't stop to assess the situation before acting or rather reacting foolishly.[/color]

YOU HAVE BROKEN THE FIRST AND PIVOTAL RULE OF BUSINESS SUCCESS which says "Never disclose your business plan to anybody & everybody. Others can build on your idea and run you out of business"

Abeg nairalanders, has anybody who went for the Maersk test on the 2nd November, 2006 been contacted for interview?

If you want to know how much i miss you,
try to catch raindrops.
The one you catch is how much you miss me
and the one you miss is how much I MISS U!


I sent my cares to the wind ans asked the wind to pass them to you,
When you feel the wind blowing against your face, thats me saying
" I LOVE YOU"

I don't think it's going to be any different from the aptitude tests u already had, except of course if they want to test based on your discipline. I took an aptitude test with them & was called for an interview. I'm still waiting for them to get back to me. Don't worry, if they're calling you for a third test, then they need you. Good luck!

Has anyone taken an interview with these guys and gotten employed? I took an interview almost 2 months ago and i haven't been contacted. If there's any other vacancy, please fill me in.