I once came upon a piece here and ds Nigerian guy complained bitterly about Nigerian girls being stubborn and too materialistic. It's understandable to want a few fine tins but at Wat expense really? Been going smoothly with my gf for a year plus and we were frnds before we became a couple. I had previous bad relatnshps and made it quite clear dat I wanted sumtin serious if it wouldn't hurt anymore. We had dat closeness for d first few months. Later discovered dat well, she lied about a lot and it was looking like an attitude. D worst hit me wen she moved to abj for an interview and decided to just stay der. She turned on me so quick I got confused. Went to visit her to talk about a few tins and she kept rolling her eyes at me and all. I started dating her and lost my job after about 9 months. Tried to get a better gig and after failing to, decided to settle for a mediocre job with not so bad pay. Problem is I just feel like I'm struggling with a pseudo side piece. She talks to me anyhow and could tell me bluntly not to call to ask where she is or wat she's up to. I shuld call wen I miss her and want to hear her voice. Ds coming from someone who lies a lot and had promised to keep me updated so I don't worry so much.
A survey I did personally indicates dat most guys my age still struggling financially are having a hard time keeping d peace in deir relatnshps. I intend to work hard and get a better gig.. but I don't c myself marrying ds person and I feel she feels same. She's probably just counting down to when she'll blow it to my face.
Ds is a serious problem most ladies struggling in deir marriages might never get. U treated a gud dude with disdain and settled. I've ended it a couple of times and we still talk, she promises, fails to pull tru. I can't easily disconnect and wish der was a cord to just rip out violently. Frankly I've thought about hitting her a few times cos of d insults she has lavished me with. I'm just not d type but...... ders always more to d story sha.

Naughtysite:


Please Shattap

Thanks..

jmaxjohn:


Nna nigga what guy saying na?
He's fvcking his niece!!!!!
Babe, op, run.

if d tori na true no matter wetin u tell dat girl she go settle wit d guy.. so na to give her OT for managing d douche bag..

nennyjacob:
... Pls run for ur life dear. Forgive wat na?

he didn't kill somebody.. she shuld forgive him.. dey have come far..

funmisticqueen:
I know you will quote me again becos you like to have the last word, take it as a gift. I know you wont resist like the mangy, malnourished dog you are.

before i go one more thing, please go back to your village and beg the witches there for the remants of your intellect and future cos it seems they sucked your brain from your joystick and used it to make peppersoup and small chops in their coven meeting.

Because i am sure your brother has a better personality, mentality and future than you. I wish him all the best.

u expected I read dat. . Lol... c o... ds is my problem wit u.. u think shallow and foolishly. . Cock fighting and trying to brag about Wat is meaningless.. u keep talking about accomplishment's and all dat... niqqa we all Nigerians. Walk into a mall wit a million and u won't leave wit a trolley full.. and u r here probably making millions a year and bragging about accomplishment's. . U are very stupid myopic foolish black Ape with a very lowly mentality crippling ur very existence to a very stupendous end.. u r a typical afonja demon ( all talk and bullshit)... tryna make me hate my fine self.. u must b very daft and idiotic to come on her trying to sound intelligent and as one who has gotten any reasonble artifacts in life.. u are bragging about Wat? ? Ur naira. .?? Or telling me I shuld feel bad cos someone is making more naira.. granny! U are stupid. . We are all broke nigga... now go eat ur miserable change away... always bragging!. Typical village chump.... bastard afonja.. fvcking reject.. probably bleeped ur entire staff roster and relating dat to ur life's accomplishment.. else WTH would make u slip like dat.. bit*h

eyinjuege:


You said you were not intimate, right?

So what is the taboo there? Things didn't work out between you guys. You can let your brother know you've dated before, and weren't intimate.
However, don't think he will leave her. Its also alright if they decide to take their relationship further. It shouldn't be awkward

. . Good.. u understand to an extent.. I do not hold any grudge.. I would not say anything on a regular day n dats why I brought it here.. to know if it's OK if I didn't say or did.... I wasn't going to tell him so he leave her but just so he knows now and not later and probably hold a grudge towards me for knowing n not saying anything.. it's myself n him dats my concern...

funmisticqueen:
Look at this pot calling kettle black, spawn of the dark ages.

u don't want to swerve.?!. Why did u do ds to urself... already a baboon... first time I'll c one rounded like a balloon.. it's ur type dey mount to have coitus with.. I was spawned.. u were pawned.. no one wanted a dark fool for a kid..

funmisticqueen:
Such a fool

from a primitive uncultured baboon...

Give him some time to clean up his mess.. den keep a close watch on him and b sure he's repentant.. most men cheat. So b open to forgive him cos u might not find any better...

funmisticqueen:
Now you've stooped so low to insults, mark my words boy, i am not someone you can annoy. Call me old, call me fat, yet i am more mature than you and i am sure, i've accomplished far more with my life than you will ever do with yours so please deal with your inferiority complex.

take yo granny old rickety sobby inferior crooked self out my bleeping thread.. d mileage on u oozes a stale offence.. so full of urself u recycle ur remnants by rim jobbing wen it trickles down. Now choke on dat maturity and local hoodity u so proudly call accomplishment...

Lalas247:
She needs a man ! Sorry she just taold u in bulk nd white
Instead of u to find corner to cry .. you feeling somehow

Stop hating ! Mind ur biz! It's between her and ur older bro
Shebi na u end am ...

not hating.. ds was certainly d wrong place to bring ds.. I don't care about her.. not her.. but my sibling... why u wan force me to care?? I don't. . I don't. Dnt.. lol... I care about sibling.. a frnd would reveal ds info.... (Bro code).. yo a lady... I'm sure u urself wouldn't date ur sisters ex... if u would.. gud for u.... tnx for ur advice tho.... enuf said... I wasnt intending to say anything frm my opening... wanted to check if my conscience shuld b at rest before everyone went sour.. romance land is filled wit sadists sha. . Dang

funmisticqueen:
Is it simple correction you are calling condescending? You are truly a child.

windows 8.. windows 10.. ".. not condescending... I didn't ask for ur correction .. but advice. . I'm done actually wit d topic at hand.. but if I'm a child den u must b a granny with dose loose fat hanging all around.. how long did it take u to gather dem up. . One life time.. u Want to troll? ?? Not me ma .. in an age where we are all trying to stay young , why ih go pain me say u call me pikin... ?? All ur comments have either been half witty or carelessly aimed... spent so much time on fast food dats why u are a fat fool.. rsvp...

funmisticqueen:
Did you open this thread for your brother or my sister,please dont lose focus here. I offered my advice, TWICE, yet you still disturb me with mentions.

Now you are jumping to conclusions, i guess you are now a virus infested windows xp

i will not tell you what you want to hear. You wont get that here. If you want to tell please go ahead instead of looking for approval here. Just do what you want to do instead of disturbing us with this thread. You are obviously not a mature person. Please dont mention me again good day.

another condescending statement. If u offer ur advice without any sarcastic tendencies will u die?? Or because I brought it here for u to view and comment means u can talk however u feel like..?? It's too early for another exchange but I honestly expected better even though ur advice will come different from my laid down principle, yall need to come correct about it.. not sound all so condescending. Check all d comments here... virtually everyone is trying to be either rude or act like it's a cock fight.. really ma. .. too early... if u can't handle d mention yoself, den just swerve..

funmisticqueen:
Oh well! some are windows 10 while some are windows xp, slow to boot, pls just leave your brother alone and face your relationship, if anything is wrong with the girl your brother will find out on his own like the adult he is. Chikena.

I don't get why u must resort to demeaning statements.. first u said yoself ur sister won't date ur hand me downs.. does dat come from understanding dat she's not suppose to or u just know it...?? U have differnent taste in men?? Do u exist in her mind to know how she would reason. ?? If u know her so well wats wrong if I know my sib so well to know he's falling for a wrong kind also..?? Der u go... pentium 1!

marisdgreat:

u get luck say na your aba made shoe u show us for your pix if not ................

there it is.. how u look rubs off how u come off..

marisdgreat:
your teeth, mouth n
lips na something else. abeg when I check your pix I dey find handsome for there but the thing wey I see con make d worms wey dey my belle to begin to dey disturb me. handsome kor handsome ni

after all ds, and u look like dat...

funmisticqueen:
Simple! chop, clean mouth, throw away container, bye bye!

still not making sense....

HelenBee:
I understand what the OP is saying. I personally can't allow my sis to date my ex. Even if we never had any sexual relationship.
I know a guy that was staying with his bro sometimes ago,his gf always visit then. After a year and some months, we were told the elder bro is getting married to the girl. They couldn't celebrate it sef..just lowkey.

was beginning to think I was way way back..

dacblogger:
Battle of words,me likey...


On a more serious note,snitch41...dnt be a snitch.allow your brother to enjoy his relationship..you sound so pained n jealous ,it's written all over your comments.

I am pained.. but for d very wrong reasons.. didn't expect a lot of comments here.. look... even before ds I've got frnds and we maintain a certain bro code.. doesn't matter Wat went down its just said.. I'm applying dat here... frankly over time I won't even know she exists anymore... I am equally a busy person and was home for d break... but it's disappointing to know how society now views a lot of dese kind of issues.. dat der is my pain...

funmisticqueen:
Cant happen, we have different taste in menbesides she doesnt use my hand me downs

Wat r u implying ma?

ikp120:
You're already throwing insults. You are really very intelligent and very very mature.

Yeah bro you expected me and other low IQ niggas on here to be licking ya ass even when you're clearly being vindictive? That's very mature of you.

You're watching out for your siblings indeed!

You asked what I will do if I were in your shoes?

Here is what I'll do bro: I will mind my fvcking business and just be cool with her. That's maturity. That's commonsensical. That's bliss bro.

Your bro is in love. Don't kill a flower that is just blossoming simply because the one you planted before died due to the incompatibility of the flower and the soil, or because of poor handling.

Be happy for your bro and work towards the success of his relationship with your ex (of indeed you're looking out for your siblings). That she's your ex doesn't make her a bad person or not good enough for your bro.

mister u started wit d insults.. or Wat do u think obnoxious means.. ?? I have no beef with her.. she's a lady.. a good one. . But even after realising it's my sib (twin BTW) , yet decided to date and take it slightly far.. she's got a hard morally incorrect mind I cnt fathom.. maybe u cnt understand ds but I have very recluse values wen it comes to certain people. I won't date my sib's ex.. my tots.. so he definitely doesn't know. . If she can b at least bold enuf to tell him and den it's known I'd b more comfy. . But WTF would u think I v a problem wit her is d annoying thing.. rightly said I've got my life to live, but same way I suppose people should look out for me is how I would for dem.. I would prefer my sib tell me sumtin like ds as well.. cos if I eventually find out after a while it may b difficult to accept...

ikp120:

Mr man, just take a look at your username:Snitch. So you already know that you're a snitch?

Bros, leave that girl and face your babe. Who do you think you wanna fool here? Some bunch of zero IQ kids who don't know that you're just being obnoxious and following up on your personal vendetta with a girl who has already moved on with her life?

Listen and listen very attentively Mr Snitch (which is coincidentally your username), that she is your ex doesn't make her your brother's ex too. You probably wanna cook up some one sided story and dish it out to ya bro just to give him a biased image of her.

Since you guys don't discuss your relationships at home, what da fück is the reason you want to get into this if not for some personal shít?

I repeat, move on with your life! Relate just fine with her. Stop bearing grudges against her. You didn't even get intimate with her in the first place.

Just tell us that you don't like her. Your bro mustn't like what you like. You're pained that she's dating your bro, ain't you?

I am certain u just want to get on my nerves.. who's being petty now?? Even after stating dat I'm looking out for a sib emphatically u insist on ur own crooked tots. U have no idea how tins operate with me so I can't state dem to u... but oga abeg, not by force to force ur own belief's. .. just stroll on if u have issues urself.. it's clear d kind of home u were raised in and how ur people operate... sorry I have to say ds.. but u r d one pulling out ur low, very uncouth thinking. . Jst move along if u can't b reasonable. Was it said I would cook up a story..?? It's already late in d day... now wake dat brain to borrow u sense u haven't used in ur comments so far.. why d fvck won't ds b personal... but I really expected better from u o... on a serious note... seen more mature comments from u before....

ikp120:

Bros, wetin work for you may not work for your brother. Wetin no work for you may work for your brother.

What are you even feeling like? Like you can block her chances of dating your bro?

No be you talk say you didn't love her again so you broke up with her?

You're just being obnoxious and trying to use the western world to justify it.


I repeat, move on with your life. Your ex is your ex, not your brother's ex!

That your last paragraph, in the comment I just quoted, gave you out easily to be on some sorta selfish mission. Just face your front.

I repeat.. understand before u speak Mr ikpi.. I'm in a satisfying relatnshp.. have no attachments to any ex.. my sibling dating an ex is a first for me. If it's acceptable den I shuld b able to tell him we had sum tin and he decide.. which is Wat is my debate here.. u sounding ds way shows how shallow u are and have been since I've been viewing ur comments on other places.. it isn't a must to comment here.. if u had little reason to give u would have viewed and passed... u are very correct to assume I am selfish.. I always protect my siblings and love to think dey would do same.. If I am petty den u must b from a loose family.. morals are still valuable here..

herlarho:
I will off ur shoe and wear my own

lol... from the looks of u we were never d same size anyway..

funmisticqueen:
Guy mind your business

so I guess ur sister cn date ur exes.. ??

ikp120:
Wetin concern you? No be you break up with her? Shuo!


UNIBEN expelled you and then AAU accepted you. It's none of UNIBEN's business. Move on bro.

it's not on all threads u must comment and so half intelligently a times. I was d one who broke up wit her.. I'm tryna look out for a family folk here... I DON'T CARE about her.. d fact dat little info was given here doesn't mean u shuldnt comprehend wat Was stated... it's getting serious and if it's more serious Dan it is, I broke up with someone and now probably going to b a family member. Even in d western world it won't fly Bro.... all shades of awkwardness over ds...

Wat r y'all saying.. I said I'm worried about d kind of person she could b.. not being interested in her doesn't mean I care about her. I care about my sibling. Maybe ds was d wrong place to bring ds.. dang....

I once had a thing with this girl for a few months. We never went intimate. We kissed once and we were close but just never got intimate sexually. After a few months I wasn't really feeling Wat we had and I split. A year later and she comes visiting to my family house. She came visiting my immediate elder sib. He stays in abj and came home for a holiday. I really didn't pay any mind to who it was and caught a glimpse of her face. Really never imagined some one would b dat ballsy anyway. I went tru his fone and dat was wen I clearly saw her pictures litterd. Been seeing dem hang at night and he used her pix as his dp. . We don't normally talk about our relatnshps at home. We were raised dat way. Even though we get to know who one is dating we just silently know without making comments. Ds is d first time Ds kinda sh*t is happening and she even saw me once while standing wit my sib and said a casual hello. Jst wondering Wat I shuld do. Can't step up to tell him about it cos we really don't have dat kinda convo. Or shuld I Jst ignore.?? My major concern isn't about Wat dey have... it's about d kind of person she could possibly be...

Someborri advise dat niqqa arguing for d ladies not being d same. Wen dey deal wit him he will go to TB Joshua for deliverance.

Use d tin for money ritual.. problem solved..

mostsimpliest:

thanks bro...buh wait ooh do yhu realy mean a ghanian?

a Ghanaian will treat u better Dan a Nigerian chick

mostsimpliest:

thanks bro....will give time its grace buh dont tink i can double date....wanna start developing mysef on ma principles....dont judge me with my past coz they hurt me more than yhu tinkin

not in Nigeria. Nigerian chicks are stubborn if u are a broke guy. Don't listen or give u d proper attention. Dey clING to the loaded or player types. Bad boys sha. . Build ur principles, if yo lucky u meet a gud girl, else marry a foreigner. Even tho its a Ghanaian.