Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps
no matter the situation including uncles.
― Avoid getting dressed in front of your child once
he/ she is 2years old. Lean to excuse yourself.
― If you have to hire a house-help please kindly take
them for HIV screening to determine their HIV status,
properly interview them and make up your mind to
treat them well.
― Never allow any adult refer to your new born as
'my wife' or 'my husband'
― Never tempt your husband with your younger
sister. (Else he'd say its hers and the devil's fault)
― Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make sure you
take care of your husband by yourself lest you lead
him into temptation.
― Whenever your child goes out to play with friends
make sure you look for a way to find out what kind
of play they played together because young people
now sexually abuse themselves.
― Never force your child to visit any adult he or she
is not comfortable with and also be observant if
your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.
― Once a very lively child suddenly becomes
withdrawn you might need to patiently ask a lot of
questions from your child.
― If you don't teach your children about sex, the
society will teach them the wrong values.
― It is always advisable you go through any new
material like cartoons you just bought for them
before they start seeing it themselves.
― Teach your 3-year-olds how to wash their private
parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone
touch those areas and that includes you. (remember,
charity begins at home and with you)
― Blacklist some materials you think could threaten
the sanity of your child (that includes music, movies
and musicians) and let them understand the value of
standing out of the crowd.
― Once your child complains about a particular
person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case
and show them you can defend them always!
― Even if you've never shared anything on this page
before, please SHARE this important notice with
others.
- lastly teach them the ways of the lord.

Stay bless.

MEANING OF KISS
Prof. of Algebra: a “KISS” is infinity, because it is
two dividedby nothing (not zero).
Prof. of Geometry: a “KISS” is the shortest
distance between two lips.
Prof. of Physics: a “KISS” is the contraction of
two mouths, due to the expansion of the heart.
Prof. of Chemistry: a “KISS” is the reaction of an
interaction between two hearts.
Prof. of Zoology: a “KISS” is the interchange of
friendly salivary bacteria.
Prof. of Physiology: a “KISS” is the juxtaposition
of two orbicularis oris muscles in the state of
contraction.
Prof. of Dentistry: a “KISS” is bothinfectious &
antiseptic.
Prof. of Accounting: a “KISS” is a credit because
it is profitable when returned.
Prof. of Economics: a “KISS” is that thing for
which the demand is always higher than the
supply.
Prof. of Statistics: a “KISS” is an event whose
probability dependson the vital statistics of two
minds and hearts.
Prof. of Philosophy: a “KISS” is persecution for
the child, ecstasy for youth, and homage for the
old.
Prof. of English: a “KISS” is a nounthat is used as
a conjunction; it ismore common than proper; it
is spoken in the plural and it is applicable to all.
Prof. of Computer Science: What is a “KISS”? It
looks to be an undefined variable, whose
possible value can equal love.
Prof. of Architecture: a “KISS” is a process which
builds a solid bondbetween two dynamic
objects.

Have you ever fried dodo from the beginning of it to the ending without tasting it

Me: I think No and can never be.

Share your review please.

A farmer and his family were shocked to see a calf
born with human face.
They hurriedly went to bury it claiming that the
calf would bring them bad luck and that it was
already dead when it was born.
Viewers Discretion Strictly Advised
They said the excessive use of pesticides in the
region of Centro, Argentina, somehow was
responsible for the calf looking that way However,
one of the farmer's neighbours snapped pics of the
goat to highlight the excessive use of pesticides in
the region and it got online.
When locals saw it they grew suspicious and said it
wasn't pesticide at all, but someone in the
household had been having sex with a goat, hence
the strange offspring.
The farmer's wife Olga Villalba has now been
forced into furious denials saying that neither her
family or friends had interfered with the goat in
any way.
"It was dead when it was born, we just want to get
rid of it as quickly as possible so we buried it in a
hole in the ground.
"It was clearly a genetic mutation caused by the
excessive use of pesticides.
"Another neighbour who was here and was curious
took a picture which they unfortunately posted
online sparking these ridiculous allegations."
The family added they had been bombarded with
extremely aggressive messages on social media
from people convinced that it was only through sex
between human and goat that a calf with human
face could have been born.
Source: Dailystar

PRESIDENT GOODLUCK said PHCN, has improved
with 65%.
Now let do this, If you have
light in your house now TYPE YES. If you dont have
TYPE NO.
Let's take some analysis.
Me: NO
WHAT ABOUT YOU?

Alot of gels hv done dat to me
NB : NT bragging, I hv neva wooed a gel b4, cus m shy. M just like if I got der wat m I gonna say?.

yuncka: The story used to be a captivating story during my years in boarding school, but d OP just made it dry.

My Boss don't be angry if I Made it dry,No one ix perfect, can u through more light on that,xo I can understand it more. thanks

dytbabe: Jst like mine too

Really

Example: A school is close to ur house ,the school has an hostel, And u noticed the school just had their Holiday.
When it was dark that day ,u overhead a child of about 4years crying just close to the school gate, and u remembered the school had just had their holiday, and u decided to go check out the child that is crying.When u got their u saw a child, bent down his head, so u decided to ask 'where is your mummy?, what are u doing here @ this time of the night, the child didn't answer u, and u were like are u not the one am talking to?,so u decided to raise his head and see who you are talking to.To ur greatest surprise u were talking to a baby without a face,and u were like oh ma gosh!!!what the hell am I seeing , U decided to run to the gate man of the school in order to tell him about what u just saw, And u were like come and see a baby without face, and he replied u "LIKE MY OWN "?
Nairalanders what are u gonna do?


pls I need response.

Keeping a man faithful is not as difficult as it may
appear at first. For starters, most of them want to
be true to their spouses, but for that extra boost to
ensure fidelity, try these steps.
Respect him as you would want him to respect you
Remind him from time to time why he's your man.
In other words, take the time to make him feel
special as if he's the only one in your life.
Tell him how handsome he is every now and
then.
Validate your man on a daily basis. Whether he
works outside of the house, is currently
unemployed or a stay-at-home Dad, (if you're
married) your man still needs to feel like a man.
You know he is, make sure he knows it as well.
Appreciate all the things he does for you. It doesn't
matter whether those thingsare big or small, they
are worth, at the least, a thank you. Spice things
up every once in a while. Tell him your fantasies,
listen to his. Don't be afraid to initiate romance.
Live, Love and Laugh. Laugh often with him, not at
him. Tell him a joke that you think he might like
or clip out comics from the newspaper and place
them on the fridge, send text or e-mail messages.
Listen first, and then talk. Let him finish what he
has to say before you interrupt. Ask questions if
you're not sure about what he said. Do not go with
the general notion; all women are nags. Make a
difference. Listen more, talk less. Be his biggest
supporter! Men don't like to admit it, but they need
reassurances as well. Showing him that you
support him and are there with him through day
to day struggles will help to ensure that he doesn't
have a need for someone else to fill that need.
Don't lose your own self respect. Stop blaming him
for everything and understand that some things
are beyond your or his control. Feed him. Men
love when a woman cooks for them like mum
does. You don't have to cook exactly like her but,
it's the action that counts. Women claim men are
dogs but remember if you feed a dog he will never
leave home!!! Hold and Cuddle your man, his day
can be just as bad as your day. Remember they are
big kids and when they got upset when they were
younger, mums held them close.
When leaving him alone make sure he has
everything needed. Remember you are already
dressed and ready to go and he is capable of getting
those things. It also shows you care about his needs
or wants as well. Don't ever baby him. He will pull
away from you. He needs to feel like he's the
provider. If you're married, take the family budget
to give him what he likes. It's the effort that counts.
Work on yourself. Learn to appear neat and
appealing to tour man at all times. Take your time
to get those kinky and sexy undies, night wears and
dressing that will make him want you more.
Remember, if a man has all he needs in a woman,
he will never go looking for another. Be everything
your man wants.
Do you agree?

Timaya, the ‘Ukwu’ crooner has stated that
everything he does when it comes to music is
entirely to get himself a living and nothing more.
Timaya said he tries his best to give his fans the
kind of music they want to listen to and watch,
adding that his desire to do something his fans
want is the reason his songs were banned on
television and radio stations.
Timaya said his plan was never to do secular music
for a long time because of his upbringing at the
Living Gospel Mission as a chorister but he
changed to the person he is right now because of
what people want.
The singer said he in fact started with Gospel
Music, then he went into singing about envies,
which he got rebuked for anyways. So he decided
to try something new and that’s why he got rid of
his dreadlocks.
Timaya went further to say that what people don’t
know is that he never for once disconnected with
God, despite the fact that he now does secular
songs. He added that he did the hit ‘Ukwu’ song
just to make a living for himself and that he goes
back to God in prayers to beg for forgiveness.
However, his statement did not go down well with
some fans, who think he misleads people just to
make money. What is your own opinion ?

According to reliable sources, South Africans are
passionate about the Synagogue Church, always
coming there on pilgrimage.
There is a tour package which cost an average of
10,000 Rands each for one week.
The collapsed building was meant for Southern
African groups like worshipers from Namibia,
Lesotho, Mozambique, Botswana and the Republic
of South Africa.
Worshipers from Malaysia, Taiwan, Singapore,
Japan also use the collapsed building but
investigation revealed that South Africans were
more because Pastor Joshua decided to give more
opportunities for the South Africans who have
remained insistent and shown solidarity to SCOAN.
No fewer than 84 South Africans were killed in the
tragedy.
Healing of sicknesses and diseases also bring
nationals from other countries to Synagogue – all
for miracles. Holy water, otherwise called
anointing water, is sold to pilgrims between N5000
and N10,000 per bottle.
Even thousands of anointing water bottles are
exported to some West African countries.
Worshipers from foreign nations are encouraged
to stay until after seven days. They are always
screened and registered by the church authorities.
Those with financial problems believe that use of
the anointing oil restore their finances.
Meanwhile, it was gathered that the ruling African
National Congress, ANC, Youth Wing had warned
Pastor T.B. Joshua not to come to South Africa.
He should not enter the country until they know
what happened to their compatriots in Nigeria.
According to Bandile Masuku of ANC Youth League,
“we will make sure that Pastor T.B. Joshua is not
issued with a South African visa.”
The influx of foreign nationals into the church
could be explained by the adage that a Prophet is
not acknowledged or recognised in his own
country.
But with this tragedy, many people are becoming
scared of the Synagogue church and more
knowledgeable about what goes on there.
Strangely, however, several South Africans, we
reliably learnt, are still anxious to return to
Nigeria to patronize the church because of their
believed spiritual prowess of Pastor T.B. Joshua.
He is feared and highly respected by politicians,
including prime ministers, presidents and
ministers. Even sports men come to the Synagogue
not only for healing when injured but also for for
success in their outings.
Prominent athletes and footballers have gone there
to seek one form of help or another.
May the souls of those who perished rest in perfect
peace and may God give the living a discerning
spirit.
“Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test
the spirits to see whether they are from God,
because many false prophets have gone out into
the world.” – 1 John 4:1.

Only God knows if they are really going there to
serve the people.
Hope they will do the right thing.

21-year-old Florida woman, Jasmine Tridevil who
claimed she had plastic surgery to place a third
b00b on her rack insists she's no hoaxer .
An incident report filed with the Tampa
International Airport Police Department shows that
she was carrying 'a 3 br**st prosthesis' in luggage
stolen from her in early September. But Jasmine
told British newspaper Sun:
“This is not a fake. I had the procedure done. If
people don't believe it, that's up to them."
The publicity-hungry Tridevil, who hopes to land a
show on MTV, says a film crew recorded her
$20,000 procedure. The massage therapist claims
to have seen at least 50 doctors before finding one
who would perform the procedure.
"I plan to release it on my reality TV show and I
don't really care what people think or say about
me. I know what I have done. As I say, this is not a
fake or a hoax."
She did give a Tampa TV station "a quick flash,"
but wouldn't show more because "I'm not ready to
do that right now because it's in episode six of my
show."

1. Quit procrastinating on your goals.
Some people dream of success while others wake
up and work hard at it. Action and change are
often resisted when they’re needed most. Get a
hold of yourself and have discipline. Putting
something off instantly makes it harder and
scarier. What we don’t start today won’t be
finished by tomorrow.
And there’s nothing more stressful than the
perpetual lingering of an unfinished task.
The secret to getting ahead is simply getting started.
Starting, all by itself, is usually sufficient to build
enough momentum to keep the ball rolling. So
forget about the finish line and just concentrate on
taking your first step. Say to yourself, “I choose to
start this task with a small, imperfect step.” All
those small steps will add up and you’ll actually
get to see changes fairly quickly.
2. Quit blaming others and making excuses.
Stop blaming others for what you have or don’t
have, or for what you feel or don’t feel. When you
blame others for what you’re going through, you
deny responsibility and perpetuate the problem.
Stop giving your power away and start taking
responsibility for your life. Blaming is just another
sorry excuse, and making excuses is the first step
towards failure; you and only you are responsible
for your life choices and decisions.
3. Quit trying to avoid change.
If nothing ever changed there would be no sunrise
the next morning. Most of us are comfortable
where we are even though the whole universe is
constantly changing around us. Learning to accept
this is vital to our happiness and general success.
Because only when we change, do we grow, and
begin to see a world we never knew was possible.
And don’t forget, however good or bad a situation
is now, it will change. That’s the one thing you can
count on. So embrace it, and realize that change
happens for a reason. It won’t always be easy or
obvious at first, but in the end it will be worth it.
4. Quit trying to control the uncontrollable.
If you try to control everything, and then worry
about the things you can’t control, you are setting
yourself up for a lifetime of frustration and misery.
Some forces are out of your control, but you can
control how you react to things. Everyone’s life
has positive and negative aspects – whether you’re
happy or not depends greatly on which aspects you
focus on. The best thing you can do is to let go of
what you can’t control, and invest your energy in
the things you can – like your attitude.
5. Quit talking down to yourself.
Nothing will bring you down quicker than berating
yourself. The mind is a superb instrument if used
right, but when used incorrectly, it becomes very
destructive. Be aware of your mental self-talk. We
all talk silently to ourselves in our heads, but we
aren’t always conscious of what we’re saying or
how it’s affecting us. As Henry Ford once stated,
“Whether you think you can, or you think you
can’t, you’re right.” One of the major causes of
why we fail is due to self-doubt and negative self-
talk. The way to overcome negative thoughts and
destructive emotions is to develop opposing,
positive emotions that are stronger and more
powerful. Listen to your self-talk and replace
negative thoughts with positive ones, over time you
will change the trajectory of your life.
6. Quit criticizing others.
The negativity you bleed out toward others will
gradually cripple your own happiness. When you
truly feel comfortable with your own
imperfections, you won’t feel threatened or
offended by the imperfections you see in other
people.
So stop worrying about the flaws you see in
everyone else, and focus on yourself. Let the
constant growth and improvement in your own life
keep you so busy that you have no time left to
criticize others.
7. Quit running from your problems and fears.
Trust me, if everyone threw their problems in a
pile for you to see, you would grab yours back.
Tackle your problems and fears swiftly, don’t run
away from them. The best solution is to face them
head on no matter how powerful they may seem.
Fears, in particularly, stop you from taking
chances and making decisions. They keep you
confined to just the small space where you feel
completely comfortable. But your life’s story is
simply the culmination of many small, unique
experiences, many of which require you to stretch
your comfort zone. Letting your fears and worries
control you is not ‘living,’ it’s merely existing.
Bottom line: Either you own your problems and
fears, or they will ultimately own you. 8. Quit
living in another time and place.Some people spend
their entire lives trying to live in another time and
place. They lament about what has been, what
they could have done, or what might become.
However, the past is gone, and the future doesn’t
exist. No matter how much time we spend thinking
and lamenting about either, it doesn’t change
anything. One of life’s sharpest paradoxes is that
our brightest future hinges on our ability to pay
attention to what we’re doing right now, today. We
need to live more in the moment. Living in the
moment requires active, open, intentional
awareness on the present. Don’t fantasize about
being on vacation while at work, and don’t worry
about the work piling up on your desk when
you’re on vacation. Live for now. Notice the beauty
unfolding around you.
9. Quit trying to be someone you’re not.
One of the greatest challenges in life is being
yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like
everyone else. Someone will always be prettier,
someone will always be smarter, someone will
always be younger, but they will never be you.
Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself
and the right people will love you, and you’ll love
yourself more too. The
10. Quit being ungrateful.
Not all the puzzle pieces of life will seem to fit
together at first, but in time you’ll realize they do,
perfectly. So thank the things that didn’t work out,
because they just made room for the things that
will. And thank the ones who walked away from
you, because they just made room for the ones
who won’t. No matter how good or bad you have
it, wake up each day thankful for your life.
Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for
theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re
missing, try thinking about what you have that
everyone else is missing.

dejt4u: m confused ooo.. From d post, i cn deduced that Op is either a woman or a GAY??

Bros, no forget dat d tin na 14yrs ooo

A woman told me these things I wrote

tayoxx: and the last one...WE NEED WEED

Boss u too funny oh

tayoxx: and the last one...WE NEED WEED

Boss u too funny oh

Never Tell You [MUST READ]
1. We want men to take initiative
It is a very important thing. We do not like to take
care, to plan and to do all sorts of things by
ourselves. We want men to take initiative. Though,
we never tell about it, you should know that it is
important that you carry out some difficult tasks
or surprise us. When a man takes initiative it
means that he is involved, that he is attentive and
caring. Do it more often, no matter what kind of
thing it is – list of stuff to buy, or prepare dinner,
or plan your next holiday.
2. We want to be surprised more often
All women go crazy with surprises, so we secretly
dream about our partner to show his creativity
and to astonish us as frequently as possible. Even a
small unexpected sweet trifle will make a woman
feel special and loved. It shouldn’t be an expensive
gift, simply showing your initiative, concern and
deep affection are priceless. It is not difficult, just
be open and careful to your lady. When she
realizes the fact that some effort has been taken to
make her feel happy, you will be soon rewarded.
3. We are afraid that another women attract
him more
It is a hidden fear among most women that other
women in their man`s life, coworkers or female
friends, may attract him more. The reason for it is
quite simple, we all want to have something that
we can`t have. So women are afraid that their
man`s heart may be stolen or he will start
fantasizing about another woman. There is nothing
worse for a woman than that.
4. We want men to be sincere
Every person wants his\her partner to be always
open and sincere no matter what. Nobody likes
being fooled. And, of course, women are no
exception. We can forgive a lot of things but not
lies. Irrespective of the situation or how bad your
fault is, a woman will always hear you out and
even help you to solve the problem.
5. We notice and understand body language
Women are known to have a sixth sense, especially
if it concerns relationships. We always notice and
analyze all small details in another person, and
that includes body language of our partners. So we
usually are aware of his sympathy to a colleague,
which we have never met. Once we notice
something suspicious, it starts bothering us, though
we may not be even aware of what exactly annoys
us. And if a woman suspects something, she will be
very upset when her man doesn`t spend time with
her but stays in the office.
6. We agree with “Guy Time”
That is another secret that only a few men know
about. A lot of women actually agree with “guy
time”. We understand perfectly well that our
husbands, boyfriends need some space for
themselves, and that it is very important for them
to spend some time with friends, watching football
matches, drinking beer or playing various kinds of
games. The only problem here may be when a
woman feels lack of attention, while a man focuses
only on spending time with friends.
7. We want their friends to like us
No woman will say this out loud. But it is so. His
friends are very important for our men, so we
want them to like us. This means that we want to
show how we love our partner and what a
beautiful person he is. Such tendency also helps to
avoid unnecessary conflicts and arguments if we
don`t like the friends or vice versa. Another
reason for that is that his friends` sympathy for
you will influence your partner`s decisions in
various ways, which is, of course, to our
advantage.
8. We need space
If a woman tells that she needs space, it doesn’t
mean that she doesn’t want to see you so don’t get
in your car and drive away for hours. She just
wants understanding. Your girlfriend or wife wants
you to know that she has important things to do
and you need to assume that she really means
what she says.
9. We want them to be honest
Every woman wants her man to be honest. So if
your woman looks fat in that dress, don’t say “You
look gorgeous.” Women always know how they
look. Don’t be afraid to tell her that she’s put on
several pounds, but still she looks amazing. Show
your woman that you love her for who she is. You
may even suggest her to exercise together. She will
definitely appreciate your honest opinion.
So these are 9 things that women usually keep in
secret from their partners, but should definitely
know about them. Sure, these are only a few
things; the list may be much longer. What do you
usually hide from your man? I`m eager to know,
and I`m sure not only me!

Moderator fp plssssss

It’s a mixture of medical and social advantages.
1. STI / STDs: There is no way a virgin an be
infected with Se*ually Transmitted Infections /
Diseases
2. HIV-AIDS: There is no way a virgin can have
AIDS or HIV infection, which is transmitted by
intimate interactions. She may still be at risk with
the blood infection through cut skin etc but this
last category forms only 5% or less of HIV
infections.
3. Unwanted Pregnancies: There is no way a virgin
can become pregnant.
4. Falling in love: A virgin does not fall in love
with any and all persons ho comes her way the
way non-virgin do and therefore make some
avoidable mistakes. To most virgins, love is not
blind; it has some sense, although it may be a little
vision impaired.
5. Lust: Most of the activities of non-virgins are
borne out of lust which we shall define here as an
exaggeration of the feeling of love to such a point
that it becomes closer to hate than love. Most
people have seen how those in ‘lust’ have harmed
their objects of affection in the name of jealousy or
anger etc. True love is calm and never violent and
never wants to harm. What teenagers call ‘crush’,
infatuation’ etc are just Unclad lust. And most
sexually abnormal behaviors, which tend to inflict
harm, are all borne out of lust and not love. Here
we define anything abnormal as one that provides
more harm to the biology of the individual (that is
his true nature), than good.
6. Love: There is a lot of true love in virgin
marriages. A woman who marries as a virgin
rarely sees, or complains of problems as often as
the non-virgin. Sometimes (or most times) in
interpersonal relationships, it is our perception of
situation that created problems which ordinary do
not exist.
7. Getting married: It is difficult to find a virgin
who has a problem getting married and usually at
very early age which biology teaches is the optimal
time for conception and establishing long and
lasting relationship. For most female this must be
under 25 years. A woman of the age of 27 and
above is considered in medical science to be past
her prime of having safe first conception.
8. Preparation for marriage: Virgins tend to be
better prepared for marriage than non-virgins
because of excitement. The non-virgins are worried
about the future and have to make conscious effort
to let their marriage work if they so wish.
9. Fun: There is lot of fun and excitement for the
virgin couple on wedding night. I know a couple
he spent two nights trying to break a thick hymen.
The bride jokingly told the groom to please hire
someone to do it for him if he cannot perform.
10. Respect from Husband: Most men tend to
respect virgins throughout their marriage vows.
Virgins rarely have break up marriages. I am yet to
see a man who will divorce a woman whom he
married as a virgin.
11. Intimate deviation: It is difficult to define
deviation in intimate behavior but we can say it is
any form of intimate behavior that causes
biological harm. But it is impossible to see a true
virgin involved in any form of intimate behavior
that may be considered deviant by any standard.
12. Infertility: It is difficult to find a woman who
got married as virgin having problems getting
pregnant. Although there may be some born with
infertility problem, but the acquired ones are not
found in virgins. For example STIs which cause
infertility by scarring reproductive organs in both
male and female are no found in virgins.
13. Beauty: The beauty of an innocent woman is
indescribable. It is like new rose.

Administrator for pls.

He who finds a good wife finds a good thing, but
beyond the success of making a good choice of a
partner, a study has shown that there are other
factors that are instrumental to having a lasting
union and marital bliss.
According to the study, one of the keys to a long-
lasting marriage, successful or harmonious marital
union, is for the wife to be happy.
According to the study, the more content the wife
is with the marriage, the happier the husband
would be, which would improve his well being and
general health. The study, published in the Journal
of Marriage and Family on September 2, 2014
found that when it comes to harmonious marital
union, the woman’s happiness is more crucial
than the husband’s in maintaining marital bliss
and in the health of the relationship.
Above and beyond the key role women play in the
home such as Raising the children and supporting
the husband, their well being, happiness and joy
could determine how enjoyable and lasting the
marriage would be.
The study, led by a Professor and Chair in the
Department of Sociology, Rutgers University,
United States, Dr. Deborah Carr, advised that men
who are unhappy in their marriage should avoid
being selfish and focus on their wives’ happiness.
The study emphasises that the key to marital bliss
is all about women’s feelings, and the happier they
are in the marriage, the better.
The researchers studied about 400 couples in
which at least one of the partners was over the age
of 60 years old and had been married for 39 years
on the average.
The couples were given surveys to assess the
quality of their marriage. The researchers also
assessed the quality of feelings that they held
towards one another by asking a series of
questions such as, if they felt their spouse
genuinely appreciated them, how often they argued
and if they felt their spouses respected their
opinion or point of view. The participants were
also asked to write a diary, which detailed the last
24 hours that they had spent with their spouse, and
to assess their own feelings of happiness during
shared activities like shopping, chores and
watching TV.
Carr and her colleagues found that in general, the
couples that were used in the study reported very
high levels of life satisfaction, which led the
researchers to conclude that long and happy
marriages had some link with high levels of life
satisfaction. For married men, how highly their
wives rate the marriage affects their overall
happiness.
There was also a trend seen with the levels of life
satisfaction reported from both partners and the
happiness of the wife. The couples in which the
female partner reported higher levels of overall
happiness reported greater life satisfaction on both
sides. Carr explained that when a woman is happy,
she tends to naturally want to do more for her
husband, which in turn makes him happy too. She
explained that for both spouses, being in a better-
rated marriage was linked to greater life
satisfaction and happiness and that the study is
important because the quality of a marriage can
affect the health and wellbeing of older people as
they continue to age.
The researchers also suggested that when women
are unhappy, they tend to be more vocal about
their unhappiness than men are. When a woman
is unhappy, therefore, her husband may also feel
so due to her disposition. While previous studies
have shown that happiness has an important role
in a people’s general health and wellbeing, a study
from the University of Wisconsin-Madison
reported that depression was more common in
people who remain in stressful marriage situations.
In addition, this new study showed that the key to
a happy marriage and a happy life might just be to
make the wife happy.
“The quality of a marriage is important because it
provides a buffer against the health-depleting
effects of later life stressors and helps couples
manage difficult decisions regarding health and
medical decision making, hence, the quality of a
marriage can affect the health of older people as
they age,” Carr explained.
The researchers said the study is particularly
important because health and wellbeing can be
impacted by marriage quality and that how happy
a woman believes her marriage is has a direct
impact on the quality of her husband’s life,
regardless of how he feels about their nuptials.
In other words, happily married women are also
more likely to boost their husband’s ego by
praising him and less likely to give him the kind of
tongue-lashing abuses associated with families with
marital problems.
According to 100weddingtips.com , the secrets to a
happy marriage include effective heart-to-heart
communication to understand each other’s needs
and happiness, being a good listener, laughter,
good humour, honesty, which involves clarity of
feelings and intentions, showing love, affection,
respect, and equality, which involves sharing
house work, etc.
Reacting to the study, a consultant psychologist,
Prof. Toba Elegbeleye, said making each other
happy in a marriage should be mutual and not
one sided. He added that when every other thing is
okay, there is the possibility that a little effort
would allow for happiness and that it may not be
entirely correct for somebody to make initiating
and complementing happiness in another person’s
lives his sole duty. He said, “I think it’s mutual in
the sense that when one initiates it, the other
person complements it, it’s not necessary that one
person has to initiate it at all times,” he added.
“There are other things in a marriage that make
for happiness beyond the conscious efforts of the
husband to initiate happiness, such as, if the
woman becomes pregnant and delivers at the right
time without any problem, if the social standing of
the couple in their mini-society is quite good and
they have financial surplus, the happiness is
guaranteed. But when most of these ancillary
perquisites are not there, how can a poor husband
make his wife happy.”
He explained further that men tend to be less vocal
if they don’t have happiness in their marriage
unlike women who tend to show theirs. “It could
be seen as a sign of weakness and failure for the
man if he shares such, not forgetting that he has
several social outlets, unlike women for whom it’s
quite unusual to go to bars or pubs to make up for
a bad marriage, hence, they tend to seek approval
and sympathy from other people so as to find an
outlet for their emotion.
“So, for men, rather than go to meet other
colleagues of theirs to start telling them about the
problem in their marriage, they might take solace
in drinking, going to social club or womanising,”
he said.

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