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raphieMontella:
that sadio mane ehn..bad guy

Mane, Cout, Firminho, Sturridge.Chelsea don't even know who to mark down.E don be

The Mane is going to run Chelsea down. Y.N.W.A.

MaziOmenuko:
Lol...i've tried to stand out from the crowd by not captaining him for 2weeks now and I got burnt badly. So you can guess who my next captain will be

Time to change my captain then cause once Mazi captains, the player flops

How much?

mukina2:
Ibime lalaboi fredoooooo A40 raumdauter Bourne007 sod09 Cancity234 Zamzummim Nwikys U1 azpekuliar apoti iPopAlomo nihilist griffon tboy1 MaziOmenuko
etc etc etc

Can I get the slot for most consistent abi notable? Snow squad won the carling 2 seasons ago

mukina2:
code sent.

Muki Baby. Snow squad winning leagues everywhere. You left ,e out last season.send to thomasbassey1@gmail.com

Baboo13:
Good question
You also noticed

The work done at Anfield mainstand will take time. So the club asked for our home game to be changed.

I ASKED FOR CODES LAST SEASON, YOU SKIPPED ME.Am asking again now. Snow Squad send code to thomasbassey1@gmail.com

mukina2:
The new League starts.

The main premier league is open to everyone . .

https://www.nairaland.com/3238264/nairaland-fantasy-premier-league-2016

for FA cup etc please indicate your team name from last season.

Team from last season is Snow Squad. send code to thomasbassey1@gmail.com

goldenruby:
When I hear people spending 2mil or more on a wedding ceremony, I go begin wonder if it's not the same wedding I did with less than 200k! (even this much, I was already telling Dh we have spent more than we budgeted).

My wedding ceremony was glamorous and unique that 2 unknown attendees had to call me to ask how I fixed it, they requested for my budget and planned to do same.

See there is more to making a home than all this 24hours party o.
I can't imagine hustling so hard just to gather some people together one day to came and enjoy my money. Kole werk!

My mate don dey do house warming na apeje I go come begin carry money do

To each is own o, Op I wish you all the best.

Thanks mami. Can I have a glimpse of your budget, please. I plan to be conservative and I believe if I have reasonable information, I can convince her to follow suit. I don't just want to argue blindly, more information and I can present it intelligently.

Thank you all for the advise. My woman is a good girl, am certain. It's just the euphoria ladies have over beautiful weddings

Xiadnat:
Set a reasonable budget within your means and stick to it.

She is being extremely stupid, selfish and myopic especially when she is not contributing a pretty penny.

[/b]I dislike women like that. Very showy and ostentatious. Very immature to focus on a wedding that barely lasts quarter of a day and spend lots on it. Better invest that money wisely in marriage counseling, preparation and saving on a fund for home mortgage, vehicle and kids education.

[b[i]]You are a bigger fool if you comply with her wishes. Selfish people everywhere[/i].

A tat too harsh mate,eii?

thelish:
2million in this harsh economy era?
maybe u have just more than enough. Or u dey form gbogbo bigs boys for her.
Presva is so right with her comment.

That's nice. Attack me some more,shey na me wan marry. Interestingly, if a woman wants a huge wedding it's because the man is forming big boy? You gals have fully functional brain and its cute.

nnamdibig:
wow sorry about that. But still her siblings and Dad will give her reasons to plan with you.

Thank you, chief

PresVA:
Someone that's adamant about having a 'huge' wedding when you're against it, is likely to make such demands in the future.. it's always good couples are in sync when it comes to finance...

From your writeup, I thought maybe she's someone that likes having 'big' while you're a 'moderate' person hence my comment(s)... but guess I'm wrong. ..
Since it applies to the wedding alone, you can easily manage it by standing firm to your decision..

Again, wish you the best

Thank you, thank you. You are far too kind

nnamdibig:
No it won't.
Her mum will give her reasons and also advice her. And that's what she needs now.

Her mum is late, fam

nnamdibig:
I know you love her but you have to be a bit hard on this to convince her. If she refuses, just tell your parents how you want your wedding let them communicate to her parents your plans. after all marriage is between two families not just the two of you. I guess when both families starts working towards your date, she will have no choice.

Oh,well that's a good one. I could get the families involved. Although it sounds like a recipe for an unhappy bride.

PresVA:
Sorry, no insult intended really

As I said before, stick to your budget!. .. I hope your fiancee comes around..

However, hope you will be able to cope with the difference in your financial ideologies when you're finally married?

All the best..

Difference in financial ideologies? Oh, sweetie I don't think that applies. It's the wedding and the expenditures am about. She understands partnership in running a home.
Or is there something you deciphered from my post? Kindly let me know, I can adjust.

nnamdibig:
Bros,
Just budget a certain amount for all and stick to it. believe me, the kind of wedding she wants, even 2million will not be enough. When it comes to wedding and Trad, women are generally unreasonable even when they know its not right but the pressure from friends wont allow them think properly. Make a budget and stick to it, You guys will argue and quarrel but she will understand later. If she wants it big she can bring the funds to supplement the one you have. Mind you doing everything same day is way cheaper and less stressful.

Yeah, its cost effective doing everything on same day but how do I convince her. She says it will be too stressful for her. I know it's just an excuse.

PresVA:
Make your budget and stick to it. . It would be silly to spend beyond your limit on a wedding, instead you should even find a way(s) to know if you can still get some change' from your budget. ..

It's very important you marry someone you have same value with to avoid financial issues in marriage. ..

Also, going by the sort of girls you supposedly interviewed, it shows you 'roll' with flamboyant ladies which isn't ideal for you.. why don't you learn to roll with your 'class' instead of coming here to complain? Sure there are ladies who wouldn't mind a 100k or 200k wedding?
You want to be with the 'big' girls but complain when their demands start coming, as if them force you. .

I recognized the subtle dig. Not cool. Can you not insult? You can see I said I want a beautiful wedding also but not ready to spend beyond reason. Thank you though for the first part of your talk.

toniapat:
Just try to talk to her and I really expect her to understand cos its gonna be just you and her at the end of the talk of d town parry in quote. No woman will like to settle for garri drinking just to impress people

And plsssss its not irresponsible men who ask their fiance to contribute for wedding. I contributed almost half for my wedding not because my hubby wanted me to but because I recognised that the "help meet" responsibility starts even at the wedding and I insisted. Trust me, when u guys start planning and booking, she will contribute. It should be natural.

You however don't need to break your neck to impress people. Unless you have excess cash to lavish. I wish you too the very best.

Thank you dear. I pray it falls into place.

oluseyioba:
Lol Naso all dos feminist babes dey do oh....had same gist with my gf too...she said same tin that it's d guy's responsibility of which she wants big n loud ceremony

Bro pls do wat u can n leave d rest....its not a competition

Thanks man,its not even about feminism. She is a good girl but wants something I don't want for now

Hello Folks,Am engaged to this angel and we are planning our wedding but certain issues bother me.

Am not one to spend hugely on a one day event but my Jewel expects abi wants a talk of the town event. A while back, I asked her how much

i should budget for the event and she said 2milli. 2milli? In this very Buharian Nigeria? So I asked her how much she was willing to contribute

and she goes all "it is irresponsible for a man to expect a woman to bring money for wedding" .I also suggested a one day event for the trad

and wedding and yet again, she said it would be too stressful for her.

Ofcourse I want a beautiful wedding also but I no go spend everything ontop wedding na. So, is it proper for a woman to expect a very big

wedding when they are not ready to contribute shikom ontop the matter?

Its not just my pearl that has this problem sef, I sampled the opinion of several other ladies and the excuses they give is indeed funny. One said she is the first daughter, so wedding must be talk of the town. Another said she is the only daughter, still yet another said her parents spent a lot to grow her up so she must be spent on, e.t.c

Abeg, should a lady expect a talk of the town wedding when she is not ready to contribute financially to it? Since it's the man bearing the brunt of the expenses, shouldn't he take all the big decisions?

Boss,i still saw my ring in your list of pictures o.Lol, good man. Will get those 2 rings you delivered for me this weekend.You remember me now? Nice doing business with you.God Bless

Who else sees the demons in that room.From the bull heads hanging to the manequins

missvera:
[color=#006600][/color] See their lives

swear down,Humans can be gullible.The fear of the unknown is thick

SAINTSAMURAII:
LMAO i can actually relate to this though i dont patronize whoores but wait o even the ones i see as students in schools are secretly doing it for money. abeg all na the same jor. ok back to the matter, open and close, touch your toes. @op i think that she feel at home with your friend, apart from having to perform better than you, i think she feels at home with your friend and can actually discuss personal issues with him. in all an all, she could be gradually fallen in love with your friend.

lol,Prophet,you are doing open and close here and people are there asking for your prophesy.Kai,i no fit laugh

send mine to tboysnowflakes@yahoo.com .ESCOF must be pressed

YNWA. Klopp makes us believe.Win or lose ,am satisfied with Klopp

kokaneprodigy:
We are Christians and it means christ-like.

lol,it is well.

Y'all speaking in parables here.What are the conditions and don't you guys know the renumeration yet?

Eze2000:
PLEASE do remember to leave a comment people.

Boss,am here keep up the good work.How did he detoriorate to this?

Eze2000:
OK sir

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Boss,you are doing very good.Keep it up,may your ink never dry up