When I finished my O'level examinations, I had looked forward to going to college. I didn't want to spend long time at home. When I finally got admitted I was so happy. I shared a room with two other beautiful girls, Amara and Queen. We had contributed money to pay the house rent.

From roommates we became good friends and from good friends we were like sisters. Amara was the extrovert type. She knew everyone in our lodge and she never missed any party but Queen was a stoic. She loved reading more than talking.

We shared our clothes, meals, accessories, books and everything together. We were just inseparable. Although there were times we had misunderstanding but we ensured we settled it amicably.

In our first year in school, I didn't have a boyfriend, neither did Queen but Amara had a boyfriend from home. He used to visit her and brought her food stuffs. It was not long before they had misunderstanding and broke up. So the three of us became "boyfriend less"

When we got to year three, we had a new assistant lecturer that was posted to our department. His name was Frederick. He was cute, brilliant and single. Everyone liked him. On a certain day, I and my friends had gone to his office to submit our assignment. After which he asked us our names and requested for Queen's phone number. She couldn't give him her number because she was shy. I was the one that gave him the phone number. Of course, I liked the guy and didn't want my girlfriend to miss a chance.

After that day, he called to hang out with us and of course, the three of us went to the restaurant where he bought us food and drinks. Then he asked Queen to be his girlfriend. She was shy to accept his request but trust me, the guy was so irresistible so she said “Yes!” I and Amara were happy that our girlfriend had got a cute boyfriend.

Apart from being cute, Fred was nice. He loved her with all his heart and she loved him too. They were just like love birds. Fred was the open type and declared his marriage intentions even from the beginning of the affair. He introduced her to his friends and family members. He wasn't the stingy type too. He always gave her money and even left his ATM card with her. She could make withdrawals anytime. He bought her an expensive blackberry phone. He was such a darling.

Well, I was jealous of their relationship and wished I had a man like that. Someone who was willing to sacrifice everything for my happiness. Queen always had this glow on her face. The glow that comes from being in love. She completely released her body, mind and soul to him. He was her first love so you can imagine how she felt. Well, the love story didn't last. Just as the beginning was magical, the break up was even more magical.

How did it happen? Well, as sisters that trusted one another, Queen always shared with us her relationship issues and everything he did for her. She was also very free to ask any of her girlfriends to talk to her man whenever she was busy. I think that was her biggest mistake.

Recall that I said we were three friends so the third girlfriend, Amara was actually the bad egg among us. We didn't know she was envious of Queen’s relationship.

We were preparing for our final examination and Amara's birthday fell during the time. We had a light celebration in our room but a birthday party was fixed in a hotel. I and Queen were supposed to attend the party but we couldn't since we had an examination to write the following day.

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Love is a beautiful thing and when it happens to a couple they wish it lasts forever. Conflicts and misunderstandings are part of relationships. They help to build the relationships but when not properly managed, they crash a relationship so soon. Relationships are like planted seeds. They need nutrients in order to grow and bear good fruits.

A person is expected to have a clear purpose before embarking on a relationship journey. Your purpose should be to make your love feelings last so you can enjoy spending the rest of your life with your partner. Below are some of the things you should do in order to keep your love and relationship glowing.

1) Be intimate
There are many ways to be more intimate with a person without necessarily talking about sex. Being intimate with your partner is being completely open and able to understand every attitude of your partner even their silence. Intimate couples are best friends that are in love.

2) Trust that you are with the right person.
If you have made up your mind to be in that relationship then you must believe that you are with the right person. If you constantly make your partners feel they are wrong for you, it would make them uncomfortable. Besides, they would not want to release their best to you because they feel you could leave anytime.

3) Always show affection
Showing of affection goes a long way in binding two hearts. It shouldn’t always be about the sex act. Give a tight embrace, a kiss, massage, a hair stroke, a smile and always look into your partner’s eyes. These little things are very medicinal in a relationship.

4) Have fun together
Most couples have busy schedule but you should value your relationship as to create time to catch some fun with your partner. You can go to museum, amusement park or even sit out. If he loves exercising, make out time to join him. If she loves painting, paint along with her.

5) Ask intellectual questions
The creation of intellectual bond is effected by a good knowledge of one another. Take out time to ask your partner some intellectual questions. Go beyond asking about his favorite color and club and ask him about his secret life. Ask him about his goals and dreams. Ask him about his weakness and strength. Listen but never judge him from whatever he says to you.

6) Never make promises you cannot keep
Your partner should know you to be someone who keeps to his/her word. On no condition should you make promises that you can’t keep. It breaks trust. You can only break your promises when an unexpected situation arises and prevents you from meeting up. If you don’t mean it, don’t say it.

7) Accept the Imperfection
It is better to accept that your partner isn’t perfect. He might have some attitude that would irritate you but you need to learn to overlook those attitudes. If it is something that is correctible you can calmly tell your partner to work on it. With patience and love some things can be changed. You should be aware that you aren’t also perfect so when the need to make a change to suit your partner comes, you should be willing to accept it.

Do not betray your trust
Trust is a vital ingredient for every relationship. If your partner trust you don’t give him a reason to stop. A broken trust is like a cracked egg, no matter how you try to fix it, the cracked line still remains. Value your partners trust and don’t ever give into deceiving your partner, it hurts.

9) Appreciate your partner
You don’t need to wait until your partner does big things for you before appreciating him/her. Instead of complaining about what he or she didn’t do, appreciate the ones done. It will propel the person to do greater things for you.
10) Avoid using abusive words
If you are fond of abusing someone, you would need to change. Let’s assume your partner has got a deformity, like a big head, big eyes, etc. Reminding your partner of his deformity would hurt him and reduce his self-esteem. So avoid such attitude.

11) Reduce the blaming act
Some people are quick to blame another even before hearing from the accused. If your partner is at fault you can say it nicely to them and try to make them see reasons why they shouldn’t repeat such act. Shouting and complaining actually does not change the damage that have already been done instead it creates a rancor between the couple.

12) Respect each other
The power of respect is beyond imagination. Irrespective of the age or caliber difference, there is need for respect. No one has forced you to date her, so if you had chosen her, respect her. Never be violent with her neither verbally, neither physically nor psychologically.

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