₦airaland Forum

MrsPhyno:
I only ever go to the crime section to laugh at the lame insults NCAN members give each other.

What they think they are joking with is sowing a seed of discord on Nairaland and by extension in Nigeria.

steryj:
AS HARD AS I TRIED NOT TO AGREE WITH THE NCAN BUT... THE TEMPTATION...!

You don't need to be tempted to join the NCAN thing. The World is watching us, i mean how do we expect them to take us serious when we hardly treat ourselves with utmost "respect".
This is plan of our leaders from all regions and they achieving it big time. Even if the country breaks, the political leaders of South west for instance would still want some of these things to continue so to impoverished the mass more.
Mind you when i say our leaders,i meant the bad ones cos we've got good ones against them. Is this what we intend to pass to them next generation?

rafcrown:
Ebuka Ubajide,
Ifeanyi Okoye,
Emeka Ilebunam

Chibuzor

IBO?IBO?IBO?

And what do you stand to gain by saying Igbo?! Igbo?! Igbo?! Can you tell me you have no good Igbo guys that you have come in contact with that's if you aren't impersonating to cause tribal issue here. For God sake, we don't need this for us to succeed as a nation. Don't use a behaviour or character of one person or persons to generalize a own tribe. If i may ask Yoruba or Hausa guys doesn't steal? Come on guys,by all these comments we are creating more discord of enmity to our fragile democracy. If you care to know, I'm a proud Yoruba guy and i respect other tribe in Nigeria.

AreaFada2:
In case you don't get it, people first of all belong to their tribe and all things being equal, maybe 9ja a distant second.

It is a fact people like to ignore in this country. The harder the economy & life gets, the less people will feel attached to 9ja.

Even OBJ said 9ja has never been this divided since Biafra war.

The fearful thing to me is the fragmentation of the youths.
Even if the country was to break up in 6 nations, I cannot see the current elite suddenly disappearing into oblivion. Rather, they will become the new ruling elite of the new nations. And the youths will find new things to be divided about too.

It beats my imagination to see how the Youths are divided these days along ethnic lines. Our political leaders know that to achieve their selfish interest, all they just need do is to divide the Youths. Unfortunately, Youths are playing to the gallery. We need to rise up and tell them that we know their gimmicks. Bad economy doesn't care about one's tribe as we are all facing the consequences of bad leadership. If the we(Youths) continue like this,there may not be solution in sight.

When someone does something wrong or good, we should please condemn or appreciate respectively that person not by checking where the person comes from. Good or bad persons are peculiar to a particular region. For this nation to get to her "eldorado" it requires the sincerity of the Youths and not being sentimental on issues that require nothing but the truth. Please, lets try to call a spade a spade and shun this NCAN of thing. Condemn what is bad! Be it perpetrated by Yoruba, Igbo or Hausa person, that is only way we can move forward. God bless Nigeria.

chiwetel:
Thanks,its clearer now.

Respect would also entail you accept her in all totality as well as understand why she yearns to be productive.

Yes, cos when she's productive,successful. This is a plus to the Man's name and the Society will respect him for giving the wife free-hand to develop its potentials. After all, a Wife's success is Husband's success too. Basically, i think it's insecure men who are the ones scared of women's success and thus want to relegate them to the back and make them feel inferior. Mind you because a wife is successful doesn't mean she shouldn't respect her husband and vice-versa. Respect is reciprocal.

chiwetel:
And where exactly is our place??
A place where we are intimidated and forced to give up our dreams?
A place where we are disrespected because we are seen as inferior?I could go on and on,that's more like an animal's place..
I am no feminist, wherever that word came from I just don't see any reason why I should subdue my potentials,and give up my dreams because a society of small minds doesn't tolerate otherwise.
I don't know about you,buh I want to be a successful wife,mother and individual and ofcourse am totally willingly to submit myself in wholeness to a man that not only knows my worth,buh is ready to support me to efficiently utilise my potentials.
isn't that what living is all about?

I seldomly leave a comment here, but in response to what you said and @dollyjoy did said too. I think she has said it all by saying "what matters most is
respect and understanding in any form of affair". By respect and understanding,i think she meant a man who respects his wife, support her to achieve her desires,potentials and goals. A man who treats the wife right, cherishes her. Who doesn't relegate the wife, he allows her have a say and her way when the need be, also who understands reason for actions taken by the wife. Above all a man that loves his wife and have good listening hear. I hope with this, you get where @dollyjoy is coming from(point of view).

DammyLucy:
She resemble witch

.....and how do you look? Pot calling kettle black.SMH

Good one

We have a long way to go in Nigeria. To get out of this predicament, we need to support our own by buying 'made in Naija'. By so doing,we would attract foreign interest to our unstable economy.

Esmanhamza:
200 mil bail not 400.

Read it again two sureties each; which means each surety is to pay 200million.

Watching as the truth unveils in due course.

Congrats, i tap frm ur testimony. Mine is on d way.

Bye to era of impunity in Nigeria.