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Lol, ManUtd na falling hand team las las
To win na problem

Life doesn't get easier when you get a woman. It gets harder. Honest people know this.

Yet one of the most unpopular truths that provokes ridiculous reactions even in men is to say that women drag you down more than they help you.

People hate hearing this. Makes them defensive.
You get all these nonsense replies like

"Maybe you've just met the wrong kind of woman"

or "Men and women were made for each other and complement each other equally"

Or some other nonsense

All total cope, if you think women help men as much as men help them, you're delusional
It's the same with kids. Kids make life harder and drag you down as well.

In the hierarchy of neediness, men are least needy and children are most - with women in the middle.

Needy people make life harder, as they take up time and energy you'd otherwise allocate to building.
Does that mean you shouldn't have kids or get a woman?

No. These challenges can provide fresh meaning, and produce their own unique spiritual rewards.

Just realise every time you get with a woman or have an extra kid, you're increasing the difficulty level of your life.
Women are always the ones pushing for more. They want a baby. They want another baby. They want to get married. Why are the women always pushing for these things, rather than the men?

Because it's the men who bear the brunt of the increase in difficulty - not the women.
Don't get me wrong, a woman who's just had a child has certainly made her life harder. Before nobody relied on her. Now a child relies on her. But for the man, before it was just a woman relying on him, now it's a woman + a child relying on him. He has more people relying on him.
An easy life bereft of meaning is not a life worth living - and yet as with all things, difficulty should only rise in line with one's competence.

You don't jump straight from beginner to expert. You work your way up slowly.

Jumping into the deep end is how you wreck yourself.
Bearing all this in mind, you would think the needier sex would be the more grateful one, right?

Wrong.

It is more common for a man to be deeply thankful just to have any woman, than it is for a woman to be profoundly grateful for the man who cares for her.
You will hear "he's lucky to have her" or "I'm lucky to have her" more than "she's lucky to have him" and "I'm lucky to have him"

Women are far less modest, yet men are more pathetic. For women are more desperate than men when single, yet less grateful than men when taken.
The key to a lasting relationship is a sense of mutual appreciation, irrespective of the disparity in difficulty. If we accept we're a hierarchical species and that gender's a strong delineator of hierarchy, then it's absurd to be upset about "one having it harder than the other"
So it's not a matter of fairness in so much as it is a matter of gratitude, and readiness to endure and take on additional burden

Man's life is just one unending series of mounting burden, and a man who takes on more burden than he can endure collapses under the weight of it all
But given that man's burden is indeed the greatest, for he has not only the children, but the eternal adolescent, the woman to care for - he deserves the deepest gratitude and greatest thanks. Men build great empires and move whole oceans for little more than profound gratitude.
In this sense women make men better, not because they are an asset, but because they are a challenge, and, when they are the right kind of challenge - they moralise rather than demoralise. They give him a sense of purpose, even if they slow him down by making his life harder.
So you can think of a good woman as a gracious cheerleader. Her beauty both inside and out inspires the man, irrespective of the imposition of her needs. The beauty of her loins and the modesty of her soul transcends the ugliness of her neediness to invigorate him.
That is a best case scenario.

When such beauty is absent, the partnership loses its wholesome spiritual component and becomes parasitic. The man is demoralised, drained, like an unappreciated slave. He grows resentful, so he begins to crave freedom. He is slowly checking out.
A truly wise woman then is not only modest enough to accept the burden she represents - but mindful enough to actively counterbalance it by showering her man in beauty. She realises she keeps a man by showering him in the beauty of gratitude from the depths of her soul.
Women who fail to do this & allow themselves to become resentful (whether rightfully or wrongfully) will fail to keep their man in the long run.

There has to be some advantage, some reward, some positive for the man. You can't just endlessly mount him with burden with no thanks.
This is why narcissism although a terrible ugliness in general, is particularly ugly in woman.

Because at least narcissistic men provide.

What does an immodest woman have to offer a man at all in any meaningful spiritual sense?

She will cause him nothing but pain and problems.
All a woman has is her gratitude. She lives + dies by it, because it defines her immaterial beauty.

And so modesty for that reason alone is the chief + primary attribute women should cultivate and men should covet.

For without it, there can be no permanence, only temporariness.
This is why it's important for a man to cultivate a culture of appreciation within his relationship, and to set the pace at which he adopts additional burden.

Don't let women pressure you into taking on burdens you're unsuited to, and yet at the same time, do not lead her on.
Women feel anxiety about their fleeting fertility, but Rome wasn't built in a day. As such, your timescales are at odds and one party is forced to compromise.

The only real solution is to ensure a wider age difference.

Older, more established men with younger, unanxious women.

#Copied from @tellyoursonthis.

Nice move

Nigeria and NTA is a disgrace, showing nonsense meal/health tips when Nigeria vs Liberia match is ongoing... Nonsense

It'll never stop cos d government is in support of it

Isorite

jmoore:
Anglicans pray through Jesus.

Catholics pray through Mary.

Try to use ur brain most times and stop commenting trash

All CR7 haters will hug transformers now
Their midget Pessi went trophyless this season while CR7 ended with a trophy

IYANGBALI:
I said these boys are playing beautiful nonsense some people are busy shouting GGMU e go shock una

You lie oga, nothing to shock ManUnited there, the 6-2 don already choke Roma
Na ur biased mind go shock

Roma 2-2 ManUnited now
GGMU!

Goooaaalll baalll Greenwood
Tottenham 1-3 ManUtd

Gooaaall Cavani
Tottenham 1-2 ManUtd

Gooaaalll Fred
Tottenham 1-1 ManUtd

That na their wahala

WallStreetfx:
Why cant he score those 2 goals against psg. Your coward goat

Hahahaha na real coward goat, men get bad mouth sha

We need laffing column in this NL, not only like and share jor, make person fit dey laff and waka pass

I think its crossing over wit the light

For once, the peoples voice has been heard
More to come if the govt doesn't sit up

Good, I hope they don't disregard the memo and go about troubling the masses

BREAKING: Oshiomhole’s Ward Executives lift suspension

ABUJA: Seventeen out of the 27 members of the executives of the All Progressives Congress APC in Ward 10, Etsako West local government of Edo state have lifted the suspension slammed on Comrade Adams Oshiomhole.

Details later…



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/06/breaking-oshiomholes-ward-executives-lift-suspension/ BREAKING: Oshiomhole’s Ward Executives lift suspension

Is it a competition?

Yenefer:
Ok I'm eating at a breakfast diner, and there is an older gentleman sitting next to me at the counter.
He stands up to leave, and another old man sitting near him looks at the guy's plate and I guess he noticed that he didn't really eat a whole lot. He says to the old man as he's leaving, "people are starving, and you're leaving food on the plate."
Old man turns to the guy, looks at him for a second, and says, "people are starving, and you're fat. What's the difference?"

You are beautiful

Another one hmm

Nice... He's taking precautions

He should prophecy on wen Nigeria will be a better place for it's citizens
All dis political pastors causing hardship on d masses
Nonsense

Phoooool.... Yu call nudity confidence, then we shud be clapping for porn stars

MrWTF:
Her confidence is something most y'all can't buy cheap in Yaba Market.

Hypocrites and Buhari

Chaaiii... PDP jux lost in dis tribunal, even chidoka

Phenomenal16:
But wait I tot men like nurses,doctors n teachers...
What am seeing here is opposite

Men likes the profession, it's decent and Noble... But those practicing it are something else, so many of us are living witnesses by experience

Mumu Mikel, cant even pass d ball well, h shud resign already
Enjoyed other players sweat at Chelsea and amassed trophies making him think he's good

LuciferYaweh:
Nonsense.

So I'm supposed to mourn a yahoo ritualist that made a living off other people's sweat & blood?
How many times has he shown his friends chats from his "clients" crying to him that they have sold all they had before blocking them off & proceeding to pop champagne & fvck oloshos?


If you ask me, I think all those he has scammed have finally caught up with him.
His death does not change anything in my life neither will I remember him tomorrow.

Can't waste my remaining RIPs on this lot.


*spits

May God purnish ur generation for dis ur comment n you'll die same way... Idiot

[quote author=LuciferYaweh post=77167917]Nonsense.

So I'm supposed to mourn a yahoo ritualist that made a living off other people's sweat & blood?
How many times has he shown his friends chats from his "clients" crying to him that they have sold all they had before blocking them off & proceeding to pop champagne & fvck oloshos?


If you ask me, I think all those he has scammed have finally caught up with him.
His death does not change anything in my life neither will I remember him tomorrow.

Can't waste my remaining RIPs on this lot.

May God punish ur generation for dis comment... Idiot. You'll die same way

OddsIsland:
Rivers is the home if cultism. When Amaechi was Governor these killings reduced drastically.

I tell yu, wike tenure is full of killings cos he using dis so called cultists, especially Icelanders ateke boys

Another Police Brutality: Civil society group calls for justice over death of Comrade Cedar Evangrin
By iReporterOnline - June 27, 2017 0101



In what seems like another extra-judicial killing by men of the Police Force, Civil society groups in Nigeria are calling for the immediate probe of the death of this activist, Cedar Evangrin who was the Benue state coordinator of Pan African Federalist Movement (PAFM).

JOINTS LEGAL ACTION AIDS an NGO has cried out for justice, The said activist was reportedly killed after a student protest by Officers of the Nigerian Police Force stationed at Sabon Gari.

See Protest letter below

Good afternoon, I am Fisayo W Okuboyejo Esq, the General counsel 2 of THE JOINTS LEGAL ACTION AIDS, we are basically an NGO and we have our head office in Lagos.

I want to officially lay a complaint/Petition as regard the recent barbaric incident which occurred in Kaduna as regards one Benjamin Wankaa otherwise known as MC WAnkaa…which forthwith would be regarded as our client.


Its with great distrust and feelings of downheartedness that we heard about the untimely demise of our beloved and illustrious Client who lost his humble soul as a result of the crookedness of the Nigerian Police Force.

Benjamin Wankaa Dede who was a 300l (HND1) student of the department of mineral resources, Kaduna polytechnic, Kaduna before his death was killed on the 25th of June 2017 as reported by his friends who the Nigerian Police officers from Sabon Gari police arrested along with Our client.

Our Client apart from schooling, was an MC of events, as this was what he does as a part-time job to sustain his educational carrier.

As stated earlier, Sabon Gari Police Station was the Police Station whose officers carried out this dastardly act as reported by our Client friend whose identity we chose not to declare for now as perceived and directed by the friends and family of Benjamin.

We regret such actions from the members of the Nigerian Police Force and we stand to condemn this unjustified killing of an innocent soul by the Nigerian police force.

As stated earlier, it was reported that our client Benjamin (Cedar) alongside his cousins and some friends when they were coming from a night party where our Client anchored as an MC. On getting to a check point at Magangi Gari, Sabo Ngari, his vehicle was accosted by the Police Men for check. It was later reported that for reasons known to the Police Men on duty, they had to call for reinforcements after which the students in the vehicle whom some happen to be Benjamin’s cousin and sisters identified themselves as a student of the Kaduna Polytechnic, by producing the school ID card, including Benjamin him self.

Further more, it was reported that the other patrol van which had been called earlier whisked the Four (4), other students, away to the Police Station while Benjamin was left with the standby patrol team still on ground.

Our client’s cousin with his other sister and friends were kept in the custody without Benjamin and later, the Police officers reported that Benjamin had escaped from them, only to break the news of the young man’s death at a later stage.

The Nigeria Police Men claimed that Benjamin’s body was found along the high way dead with some parts of his body broken, more especially his Legs, Hands- which indicates that there might have been forced torture and brutality on the innocent young man.

We later got information that the father of Benjamin’s cousin sisters who came for the bail of the two cousin sisters was mandated to sign the closure of the case before the two cousin sisters could be released which the helpless man did.

Benjamin’s body has since then been deposited to the state mortuary which Benjamin’s family, friends, and representatives were all denied to examine the body.

This afternoon, the family approached the Police Station where the incident happened to claim the body for proper examination, wherein they were made to sign a statement which depicts that Benjamin’s body is not further examined for reasons unclear.

There was no coroner report about our Client death either.

From the above inferred, it reveals that Benjamin’s has been unjustly maimed by his assailants happen to be men of the Nigerian Police Force.

We submit that, Its possible,that there might have been excessive torture and Benjamin had no choice but to give up the ghost.

We are quite sad and heavy-hearted that such a brilliant future and promising son of the soil’s life could be cut short for reasons unprofound.


We implore the Nigerian police force to immediately look into this petition as the family member are greatly grief over the Demise of their son, besides we submit that the Nigerian police force has no right to take any body’s life unjustly except as provided by the constitution.

Fisayo W Okuboyejo Esq

General Counsel 2

THE JOINT LEGAL ACTION AIDS (JLAA).

Does dat mean he can't play football for dat same period of time?