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lefulefu:
oyindidi wat have u to say?

i so much pray that this should not be another brighter day for you to wake from and start displaying your madness because this time eh.... I will make sure I disarrenge that confuse letters of a name of yours to something more stupit and embarassing than the one your parent gave you already.

ikp120:
You're surely insinuating that girls are prostitutes who should be paid for romance?

Money for romance is called prostitution.

some girls make it seem as such... Can you tell me one reason why a girl that claims to love you demand money from you anytime you guys involves in little romance

CIOSYLVA:
If u must pass a police check point u must be ready to give them N20/N50. That is to show that police is ur friend. If u did not drop d money, is either u are arrested for nothing, or be delayed or even sometimes will be shot. It is only a law abiding police man that will do his job without looking at ur pocket


The same thing is applicable to dating a girl..

hahahahahahah lolzzzz....... You're there bro, I love that.

ikp120:
Nope!

Guys please borrow sense and stop spending on these girls. Imagine if she has 10 boyfriends and each dey spend 10k on her every week.

Abeg help me do the maths.

Say no to "magarism". Girls are human beings and should work for their money. Relationship is not a job.

fine piece bro....... You're on it and I love that...

This is a very devasteting issue that has claimed my mind for too long,and because of that,the curiousity to know what people especially the ladies think on this area was concived. Please this piece is not for any reader to start dellibrating on others affairs. I just want to know the truth about how ladies feel about guys spending for them;if it's one of the ways to show how much they care and vise versa.

Benita27:
You're welcome. Thanks for the compliment.

I will love to have a link with you on nairaland.... You can share with me any of your post.

Benita27:
Most people don't know why they're getting married in the first place. We tend to conform, and this is dominant among ladies. Society has made it seem like marriage is the only life achievement a lady could get, other prioritise are inconsequential, so with this mentality they go in not knowing what they want or the task ahead of them. Secondly, "I love you" isn't enough to marry anyone. How well do you know yourselves?. This is the major reason they realise down the line they're not compatible. Lastly, the issue of infidelity...I'll put it that a man/woman who lacks the fear of God would most definitely not honour marital vows.

I would urge singles to read. Things I wish I knew Before I Got Married by Gary Chapman.

You're a total rear gem sent from God to men in his vast green earth as a solution to the problems of their love lives. Though I've not read what you've ever written before other than this,and with this,you've wow me. You know exactly the point to hit and am not just going to say that am impress, am also going to say that you're somehow the answer to so many peoples questions as to why their home break...
I will advise you continue reading a lot as you always have been doing,it will reveal you to a certain level of knowledge where you will not even be able to doubt your mistakes.
I LOVE YOU.... Thanks for your answer.

MissRaine69:
Most relationships have no solid foundation. Some women are all about the wedding not the marriage and some men find themselves married but not in a relationship.

I've rietrated here that I was confused on some post, either to say if I'm impress or not. But with what you post here,am highly haywire and you've succeeded in flabacasting to begin to wonder how you manage to gain knowledge over emotion,marriage,love,relationship,etc.
Foundation: that is the word I've long waited to hear. Everything in life needs a proper beginning for a successful end. You can't lay a foundation of a building on sand and expect the wind not to sweep it off the ground; you've said it all and am very impress and I want other readers to learn from your answer that internet love quote and guide is not all we need to build a good home, it's in you,just take a time out to know the meaning of what you intend to do before you go into it. Foundation... On what foundation is your marriage,relationship,love life and life build on? Don't tell me,you know better. But if you don't.....hmmm sort it out.
My queen, you're the best for this answer, I LOVE YOU.

cerowo:
D matter tire person....
Some Pple dnt see it as a bad thing anymore, it is nw a norms 4 them...
Some persons even do it publicly, there's no shame again in this world

sweetheart they do it because they don't feel satisfied or after a year of being together,one person will begin to feel like he or she get married to the wrong person.
The question is; why did they even agree to be together in the first place when they knew they don't trust thier instinct?? Its what we want to find out.

Fresca:
Nigerian marriages are a joke lately because of the few following reasons:
1. They marry to please society
2. They marry for material things
2. They are not educated on marriage so they don't understand the real meaning behind it.
4. They want a WEDDING instead of marriage
5. Let's take it Back a notch.. "do Nigerians understand what love is?"
6. You don't meet a lady on the street and start saying "you're my wife God told me"
7. You don't cheat on your wife or leave your wife which you made a commitment under Gods eye because she didn't give you a "male child"

I could go on and on and on..... Marriages will continue to fail and it has been falling for years just that men cheat back then and ladies keep quiet, but now social media has given people a chance and a voice to be more vocal...

I did say someone droped a piece that got me falling in love,but now that I've just read your's,am just speechless neither to say that am inlove or to say am lost.
It's like you have a strong hold on internet for being a remedy for love,relationships,marrital issues and others. Dear you're hurting yourself if what am assuming is true because, there things we need to know about ourselves when it has to do with love that internet can not tell and can never have.

Naqade:
Marriage was never intended to work. I don't even know who invented this bullshit idea.

No intelligent person looks at the world, at the complexity of human emotions, at the natural promiscuity of the human specie, and at the volatility of feelings like love, and thinks: "Hey, this marriage thing can actually work. Two people can actually love each other and decide to stay together for ever."

The thing that keeps marriages is not love or the internal desire between the couples to stay together, but it's external commitments like raising children in a healthy environment, financial or social interests, or religious piety that encourages adherence to religious edicts on marriage, and that in most cases, proscribes divorce.

A rear great pice which you've got me fall inlove with... But with what you said and how you wrote it, it seems you dont trust this policy of evalasting marriage or you can't lay your marital foundation with trust because you don't believe that marriage was for any other thing than having children

Macgabe:
The truth is that most marriages this days have their premise on deceit. We fake our personalities just to suit our partner and wow him or her to accept us as life partner. Mostly when it comes to our sexuality. We wouldn't want him or her to see us as perverts so we keep quiet. This is a major bane in marriages today mostly on the part of men. God help us!

fine piece... But are you trying to say that most married couples envolved blindly?? If so why and how??

robosky02:
internet marriage..... reason for modern break up

so are you sugesting a total disagreement to mariage councellors and air station hook ups

It's not everything we see that we can explain yet our eyes are open.... One of this things is the secret behind why we have higher percent of broken homes now compare to yesteryears. The question is; dose it mean that we fake marriages or our depending on webster love book writers and love guide really misleading us It's a very rear important question that really needs an answer....

AgbenuAnna:
I can't live a fake life of Lie's, if I am with am with you, no need of hiding my phones,passwording my phone,deleting messages and all that.
Dating 2 or more guys is like taking pain killers, it solves your problem and become a bigger problem tomorrow

i love you for that.... Can we hook up

MrCork:
...no oofeense to yorrr foto profile but u loooooklike a praise bus condoctor....bro u kinda dyamm skinnnny mennnnn..u eaten?!(no oofeense)

you are a jobless sick product of a broken condom

ImaIma1:
How many ladies did your friend date before reaching that conclusion?

And he could be using a particular set of girls to judge the others probably the slay queens,air heads,etc.

There are so many ladies that keep one guy. But some guys keep falling for the same type of ladies. What u see is what u get

its the nature of maturity of the ladies... And its hurting us.

ImaIma1:
But your write up already generalized it to every lady

are you one of them?

Sierusvirus:
A girl can never never keep one guy even if he has all those qualities and more. it's in there DNA so nobody can change it unless they lie to you, making you to believe what she wants you to believe but looking deep , she not sincere.
A girl keeping even five guys, others girls will advice her to have more.
Only 2% out of 100 or unless can stay without one guy.

fine one my brother.... Its the truth.... Girls are really funny, only God will help us.

MrCork:
...ermm corrrrecttion...am in London..u in Ondo state ...u need food..I don't!!(no oofeense)

keep dreaming and u will die dreaming

rebirthforgoody:
Please you are disturbing me.

get lost bram

djpop100:
will rather walk away, bitch worth not to fight for

fine one brother, love that

rebirthforgoody:
Not really free.

you knw who I be?? Am king solomon 1 of Akwa Ibom land... The small boy with a bigger God.
O girl na me u de form for ontop my money
I no de begg u oo but remember say 2moro na another day oo so if u go cum eh, you go see the change for you own body.
You no say pple wea get no sabi,but me I get and I 2 sabi and I no de claim say I 2 sabi. So tell me wetin u want make I do for u,but remember say if I do for you,you go do for me oooo.....

MrCork:
... sweeery plisss ignore that young boy wit milk teeth.....meet me in entertament section so we can talk about sexxx

that's exactly how disown children like you talk..... Keep roaming the street, you'll die of cold and hunger... Prodical son.

MissRaine69:
Fighting solves nothing, and will most definitely not fight with the other women .will make the best pepper soup and invite the new family member to dine .......

like you can do as you brag........ My dear na u go first start fight.

MrCork:
.^^°^ see this bus condoctor wannnna :be.....u take foto posing in front of burial ground an then u claim u are graduate??...I giv up!?(no oofensece)

you are a symbol of disgrace to parental heritage.... I choose to remain childless than having a frustrated and a wayworth street hawker like you for a son.

Stevengerd:
ah Don See Her Pics.

you sure?? Ehhh one bottle for your head ooo you na badt man

rebirthforgoody:
Yeah thanks for that.

maybe we can hook up some day nw.... You and me for cool joint enjoy.

lilmaydee:
you might be 100% naija. But are u sure that guy is the only person in your life? No magas, no fwb? Oya answer me.

you are one of those guys that flunt , I knw u nw.... Bad boy

Prettythicksmi:
Na to join them sure pass,God forbid i kill bcause of dick.

seriously, we've got some sick people posting here today....

midehi2:
That is my fantasy sef

whattttt? Na ur type de kill thier husband with sex ..... If am your father I will disown u.

Stevengerd:
Hmmm! I See. We Sabi Gals Like U Wella

hahahah o boy stop mocking that sure girl oo na area she be....