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Lionessza:
I will let you believe your friend then

dear it's not like i believe my friend. But on the other hand i don't doubt him. I know you might not behave that way and it hurts when men critizise women,i do feel that way too when women say that men are heart breakes becus am not like that but it dosn't mean that there are no greater number of guys that dose that. So my pretty queen girls does it.

When i look at how so many families crash as a result of unfaithfulness and lack of trust it really pains my heart because i strongly believe that marriage is not a one day affair and for that,they should be able to build and keep their home but i don't know why they have to cheat on each other and who is to be blame?

Raine80:
Not where I live.

you must be seriously joking or even lying... Do you knw all the girls in your area?

lilmaydee:
Op, don't mind all these ladies telling you they are dating only one guy. If you see any naija girl dating only one guy, check her family background very well. She is not 100% naija girl.

hahahahahaha my man.... But it's not all o we stil hv descent ones

lefulefu:
one guy can have these 3 qualities na

lefulefu.... Did your parent give you that name? Hmmm bros your name don't have any meaning oo as well as your comment.... You mean you are ready to be all this for a lady you've nt marry? Sit and talk like a silly woman,spend money on her like you own glo company or you don't have dream and be a sex machine.... You de early grave

moorevic:
Honestly i find that hard to believe because none of the ladies i've dated was ever loyal. The had quiet a number of other guys the bleeped and confessed to love.

thanks bro... Nw the ladies cn admit their error

Lionessza:
I know you are not. I was trying to correct on the "girls never date one guy" statement . It is wrong. Girls have turned relationships up side down how ? Please explain.

hahahahaha dear you won't just force me to open my mouth wider than it is.. But to be very realistic,you know what am saying but you are only trying to defend the fact that you are a woman

Nomfanelo99:
but your friend is not a woman . why is he speaking on behalf of all females

most of my friends are females.... Once i had a crush with this girl that meant so much to me just on a beautiful day i came to realize that this girl was a flirt.. Keeping guys as many as possible was one of them.

Lionessza:
I know there are ladies who have more than one bf, but there are also many who have one guy .

am nt trying to accuse you. But i doubt it base on the look of things nw. The way girls turned relationship up side down

Raine80:
You can have one that's all three ....why would I want anymore?

if you look around you will know that there are people in your neighbourhood,girls like you who are keeping more that five guys. What will you have to say abt that?

Lionessza:
Your friend is a liar, there are many girls dating only one guy. By the way , all the things you mentioned can be found in one guy if they are important to that particular lady.

maybe you are free of the assume accusation but it dosn't mean that it's not true.

Oluwasaeon:
What kind of covfefe is this ?

my guy are you normal? Hope you didn't take some wrap of weeds before posting here?

Most of the time,one of my favourite male friend always say to me that a girl can never keep one guy. He said that every girl needs three types of guys
1)A talkatiue:a guy who makes her laugh and always feel happy and tell her much about how she looks.
2)A spender:a guy who takes her outing when ever she needs it and spend enough money on her and satisfy almost her financial needs.
3)A horse power raider:a guy that gives her the mind blowing sex. Is this true?

Severally, I've gone through so many post on instagrams, youtube,facebook and other famous net related social medias just to see how ladies advertise theirselves on net to be use by celebrities and yet remain unmarried.
I think it's ignorance because some of this popular celebrities are happy married to descent women whom has not in any way exposed their unclothedness to the world before for any amount of money. Yet so many girls are still into the business of being a tool to be used and after has the mouth to say all me are the same. This is what i have to say to all this ladies.... Stop being foolish and get yourself some standard. What do u have to add?

When i was young,most imparticularly during my early stage in secondary school. I had almost involved in dating all the girls in my class:this is how it happends.
I was a young boy with exceptional abilities who was trying tooth and nail to survive my academics like any serious mind student would do and it earn me the price of being one of the brilliant student in my school. Most of my time i spent it with women trying to be their guide to a good relationship. I was romantic as wall as being smart to always arrive at a reasonable answer to their questions about love and relationship. In the other hand i wanted a good brilliant girl who will understand me,please note i say who will understand me. To call my own but somethings meant more to me then than just dating and being romantic and each time i found a girl who really loved me, i hardly give in to the demands of being there always because i felt i needed to fix so things first but that did not mean i never loved her in return but she just didnt understand me.

Now,since then,I've heard girls complain about how cruel boys/men are for breaking their heart upon the sincerity they gave and i took it upon myself to reserch just to found out that out of hundread percent of heartbreaks women/girls suffer,eighty is being caused by them. How?
1) You have to understand that our love is never like your love: when a woman is emotionally attach to a man,her sense of judgemen can't easily be battered,she think quit sentimentally about her prince charming and she will be ready to sacrifice everything just to be there with the man her heart beats for;her time, honesty,loyalty,love,and money if possible and in return expect a greater portion of what they gave from the man they love and when it dosn't come as expecting,disappointed they become.
Ladies i sincerely appreciate the fact we have you around but we don't think,act,react to external forces,or love the way you do. We act differently because in every man there is a drive in him that he always wants to fulfill in other to fill like a man that he was created to be.
A woman can be very angry when she dosn't get the time she needs with her man to discuss and hear him tell her how gorgeous she always look in the pink gown anytime she get in it. But a man hardly have such time because we are made to fix,provide,protect,work hard and come home with a good paycheck,and to love you; only until then will we fill satisfied as men and know we can provide for you and fix anything that is needed to be fixed. So any woman whom had settle down with a man who has not arrived or hit his set goals,she should be able to endure those times that the man will be out almost all day trying to make it better just for you and the children. We love you,any man values the woman he keeps at home and providing for you in full measures makes him feel fulfilled as a man.

2) Being ignorant about the first approach:this is a very severe diseases in an early stage of any relationship. I have seen and watched many girls fall victim to boys pranks because they are ignorant about the devices of young boys.
Please and please never you give in to any boy that toast you on the fist day, just like,he might things like this to you on the first day( hello beauty, how you doing? I would love to know you more so please can we go for a seat-out just to have a few talk,don't worry about money i can deal with the spending) please that guy is not in for a serious date,he need sex from you and walk away. A good guy will not wants to sleep,kiss or romance you even after three days and you as the girl don't give him reason to believe that you are not the kind to keep for a serious date by the way you will answer to his questions about you.
Any boy that meet you for the first time,he dosn't know you before,all he want are two things:
1)If he can keep you as his girl. And thats depends on how descent and understanding you are.
2)If he can sleep with you and walk away. And if he founds out he can,he will wants to know what it will take.

If you are a boy/man,girl/woman who is undergoing difficulties with your relationship or married life,chat me on watsapp for solutions on how to build a healthy family and dating life.09094736773 please serious minded people only.

during our race for a better place life bring us people that we meet, mingle with and at a point live them and move on bearing only the memories of them in our heart because in one way or the other,they were the people we spent at least one important moment of our life with and this are the people we call friends.

Another thing is,the same people we call friend sometimes makes us cry,betray us,walk away from us when we need them the most because we made a mistake of shaking the wrong hand and let's go off the one that we are not suppose to let's go making a huge mistake because we never take a time to make findings of what makes a good friend before we can call them friends so let's take this time out and discuss what makes a good friend. Let's go there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TrapQueen77:
Yes.. I don't mean that he will prioritize the cooking unless he's a chef but he must have a magic wand when it comes to kitchen

hahahahahah I understand where you are driving at,it's true women like romantic, sexy, caring, kind,and loving men but mostly men who can cook just as you had said of which is very possible in as much as you keep to your own part as a loving wife OK I would so much love to chat you on Facebook or watssap if you don't mind here is my number for watssap 09094736773 and for Facebook Solomon Samuel thanks for your contributions.

bibijay123:
Someone who has all the qualities I listed is bound to have other good qualities as well. Besides it takes two to make it work.

woaaaaaaaw!!!!!!!! you have blow my mind with your answer that's exceedingly great. Of course it two to make it work wow if the man and the woman can share their dream then the possibility to live in peace and harmony is high because there will be understanding between them. Alright dear thank you very much for your contributions and I would so much love to chat you on Facebook or watsapp because you are reasonable so here is my number for watsapp 09094736773 and for Facebook, Solomon Samuel if you don't mind.

TrapQueen77:
I wud say YES...

My best example is my own father.. If he knows my mother is busy with something coz they both working class couple , he won't wait for her to cook. He will cook for all of us..

hahaahahahahah my dear am very much proud of your answer it shows you know exactly what you want and I pray God grant your heart desire. Another thing there is that you must not always expect that from a man because they don't tolerate that just pray the man understand you but it's not his priority OK sweetheart

wizrose:
I no u find that person in the grave yard

wizrose you must be insane....... please if you know you have no good thing to say I beg you excuse us because this is no place for children so I advice you go play around in the street where you belong

bibijay123:
A man who can make me smile even when I'm having the most craziest day of my life, believes n supports my dreams n makes me feel like the only woman in the world.

it's often said that people can make you smile but it takes a special person to make you smile with tears in your eyes. Smile is a very good thing it adds value to our face and make us look young but I want to know if smile all you want in a marital home?

TrapQueen77:


Haba baba... We're in the new millennium since year 2000...modern men shud know how to cook too.. Don't depend everything all the household chores to ur wife..

hahahahahah sweetheart I know but please let's be realistic.Is cooking suppose to me a priority accord to a man in a marital home?

gabinogem:
... & at the end of this tale will be guys bashing the ladies & vice-versa.

guy nobody is here to bash another we are here to say our mind so say yours if you don't mind.

Ayodeleseyi65:
Ok, Am Here To Read Comments, Ladies Hop In

here to read comment you say, I pray you continue reading till your marriage crash

Martin124:
Someone who can trust me,I will be loyal to her but female will be mostly addicted to me, but onething is for sure,I can't cheat on her especialy when our relationship is serious,it just hard to find a girl that will see u as a simple human and also hard to find a man that can love her beyound expectation

my man you say it's hard, hard in what aspects?
hard that there are no good ladies or men?

ikombe:
A lady with a mixture of Trapqueen77 , Twaci , Ivyy and Gracito


Thats all i need

then u will end up in the lions den......... don't you have a specific kind of a woman

TrapQueen77:




Ladies know that it's very rare to see men that's loyal, loving, at the same time honest and know how to cook proper food..

A lot of men these days juz like to whine & complain but ofcurz they won't admit that ...

my goodness trapqueen did I hear u say men that can cook good food? do men suppose to be the one cooking or women!!!!!!! meehhhhn this is getting more serious

please don't take offense with this question because I've had the privilege of being with so many people especially ladies discussing mostly marriage tips and when this always happens I get disappointed because I do come to realise that almost all the ladies can't tell what kind of a man they want to get married to which is very disappointing. So I want to use this medium to ask the ladies what kind of man,kind as in character Wise. They will love to marry likewise men so let's go there,......,..............!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

smellingmenses:
do you trust yourself?

Its a kind of simple but hard question to answer but ofcourse yes i trust myself

smellingmenses:
sadly nope.... you need a time out because u gave too much of yourself to someone who did not appreciate you.... and did not love you back

all girls are the same,there are really non ever to trust........anyway thanks bro

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go to the market square and bath with sand

smellingmenses:
you are on what is called a rebound... be careful you dont destroy yourself and others... not worth it

rediscover your self worth and self esteem..so you can have normal relationships with people and the opposite sex in particular...peace

I understand it just that I had not look down on myself before ...............is there no other option rather than low self esteem of a thing?