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walepackage:
@op,this is my take on it.You have to consider that this is africa,as such our culture varies with that of foreign land.Marriage is nt a childs play,their are roles and responsibilities attach to bein a husband or wifey as such there's expectation that it get fulfilled.Age is number truly if u understand her personality wella and you can overlook somethings.I hope shes not the one bringing the marriage issue?

No ofcos

Vivly:
Why are you fixated on the myth that women age faster? Death no fear age o. If you love her enough to marry her fine. If you know you'll spend your marriage days looking at her for signs of aging please let her be

Pls advice me. I need to get that mentality off because that was how I lost my EX to another man

Kowor:
So why the thread?

The thread is to help me see reasons. Why I should give up my fears, with all sincerity

Nwodosis:
Who's footing the relationship bills?

Me ofcos

Nwodosis:
Guy, be honest to yourself, you don't love her for real. If you do, there is no issue in what you are saying. What we all need from a wife is respect and obedience. It is the believe in our own part of the world that younger respects the elder brought that notion of the men marrying younger women.

Honestly I love her and she knows that

soberdrunk:
Just '6 years'?? The French president is '39' and his wife is "64", "25 years" difference and we all know it isnt about the money because he is "Mr president" so my brother if you love that woman you better marry her before you end up with these remote stealing runs girls that are all over the place.......

Good noted

She's mature and beautiful but it worries me every time I remember women get old faster than men.
Pls I need ur advice that's why am here

Pls I need advice.
I have a girl friend who is 6years older than I am, I always have this feeling of making her my wife but then the thought of she's older than me comes up.
Presently am in my late twenties while she's in her early thirties and somebody said women get old faster.
She's really beautiful and does look as if she's 24.
pls what will I do. Should I continue cos I really love her or look for someone younger

is like they have swear 4 dis one

NwaAmaikpe:



I don't feel any pity for them
No need,

I know they will reincarnate before Tuesday.

Slaykid

All this people self n removing na so dem take remove buharia... Say na osimajo go replace sowi Conduct nigeria selF

Law does not fit him jooor. Let korede bello kwontinue him muzik na

After the march by the youths of our country, for the #NotTooYoungToRun Bill. This has promted the Senate yesterday to pass the bill making the new age qualification to run for
President as 35years,
for Governor as 30years,
for House of Representatives as 25years,
for State House of Assembly as 25years,

In which 86 Senators voted "Yes" for it,
10 Senators voted "No" for it & 1 Senator vote "Abstain" for the bill…

Yuji $ durucee close ur eyes let me pray 4 u

U motherfvckers need jesus in ur lives.
Even on sunday!

Chai

Amen
Wen *sh*wo repent
Maybe she look for husb*nd

Dah, 8 yrs
hw many abortionz

MzJin:
As in bro....my mouth just open.......

Real life gossipist. Xpose yasef

ItchingPreek:
Having money is the gate the leads to all this characteristics. Once you're broke, bross....OYO

Not true. Most ballers don't have liquid cash. Just package wella with sweetmouth and ur rules. U r gud 2go

Dooo

Women

adonbilivit:
Our tongue may be a piece of kpomo but trust me it can destroy everything we have worked for if not bridled.


PS: expect NwaAmaikpe to come through with some comic relief...never take him seriously. Se.un hasn't banned him coz dude is full of controversy and that sells(drives traffic)

How easy u predict NwaAmaikpe come nd predict bet9ja 4 me mbok

prestige2013:
One of the reason why i don't bathe.

Secondly, Bathing washes away melanin, i love my black skin colour.



Black is Beautiful!!!

Just chilling
Since there's no new story 4 day

Hian .....Seven cha!

Summarise pls
. Dis oyinbo don wash oh

Men of the underworld indeed.
And u said no jungle justice
I donate my last card to buy fuel dat would sent them back to where them belong

"Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid."
Not sure what Einstein meant or even if he said it, but I have always likened this quote to schools and the poor standards by which we judge smart and stupid in our students. Einstein also said this about formal education "Education is what remains after one has forgotten what one has learned in school" and "It is a miracle that curiosity survives formal education" and finally "The only thing that interferes with my learning is my education". So I think this quote is in the same genre.
Nonetheless, it's a good point. I think it basically points to the ways in which learning should be creative and without boundaries, responding to individuals and their context. However, organisational matters (quality control, large amounts of students, etc.) mean that education is usually structured in a manner that does not allow for a high degree of individual self-directed exploration,
I believe everyone is different, has a different talent, interests, weaknesses and strengths. In order for one to thrive and excel, one needs to be put into the right environment where they get to exercise their strengths and passion, not their weaknesses.
For example, a creative, visual person would struggle in a data-driven environment. A superb accountant would probably do a poor job at coming up with a logo design. A designer would also do poorly at crunching numbers.
Commonsense is so Uncommon...
Each person has intelligence. But it will be developed for specific skills depending on the environment they grow in.
A fish is a genius at swimming but “stupid” at climbing a tree, because that was never required of it in its growing environment.
An extension to that thought would be if climbing trees was the yardstick for intelligence, then monkeys would be the supremes, and if grunt-work was the yardstick, then donkeys!
Albert Einstein understood that intelligence is a choice.
For example, lets say you have an IQ of 100, you might argue that you are average and can not choose to be more intelligent. However, if that is your belief than you are already in the stage Einstein referred to at the end of the quote, "it will live its whole life believing it is stupid". A false believe has already been formed in your mind, most likely because too many times in your life you were judged, quantified and measured incorrectly. Everyone is genius, anyone can be as smart as Einstein. It takes the right mixture of passion, direction and focus but those are not genetic predispositions, they are environmental factors.
I can go on for hours on this topic but i'll leave you with some food for thought. If you read the biographies of some of the most successful men in history you'll find a common theme, it was some person(usually a woman) who altered the course of their lives. In the case of Steve jobs it was a grade school teacher, she effected him so dramatically that he said if it wasn't for her he would have grown up a thief and ended up in jail. Really think about that, if it wasn't for the influence of one woman Steve Jobs would have done nothing with his life, computers as we know it, wouldn't exist, all his talent and genius would have died with him in some jail cell. Similar stories with Henry Ford and Warren Buffet who were hideously insecure men who's wives brought out their best. Most people simply never get the right nurturing based on their characters and they flounder through life. Einstein understood this and this quote was a testament to his humility.