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I am a female @ r231


But I see other females that find it easier and have lots of female friends so why's mine different?

But it seems to be affecting me making me look anti social and i'm not. I'm just not too outspoken like the others.

i always find it easier making more male friends than females not because i like it that way, but it just happens that way. i could go out with a group of females and have fun but that's where the friendship ends most times but when it comes to guys, they laugh and enjoy my company. i don't think i'm doing anything wrong, i'm just being myself. Does any other female notice that too?

I've found out this is who I am and can't really change it else i'll feel like someone else. I am on the quiet side mostly around people i'm not too familiar with because i have friends that say i'm not quiet or shy but i know i am. In my work place, they also think i'm so quiet or hardly talk but i try to conversate and join the little i can. Is it a bad thing to be on the quiet side. Not sooooo quiet but little quiet? And what can i do to change that?