i always find it easier making more male friends than females not because i like it that way, but it just happens that way. i could go out with a group of females and have fun but that's where the friendship ends most times but when it comes to guys, they laugh and enjoy my company. i don't think i'm doing anything wrong, i'm just being myself. Does any other female notice that too?

are you male or female?

Guys typically have more social skills than girls.
They are also more realler and are less judgemental of themselves and others.

^^^ TRUE TALK, it's easier to become "one of the guys" than to associate with those gossip mongers who spit venom at you the minute your back is turned.

I am a female @ r231


But I see other females that find it easier and have lots of female friends so why's mine different?

^^^ A lot of times those friendships are fake. They'll hehe and hawhaw with each other but the minute they're out of sight, they'll be talking about them like a dog.

A very wise man once said, "women make the worst friends".

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SooNicee11:

i always find it easier making more male friends than females not because i like it that way, but it just happens that way. i could go out with a group of females and have fun but that's where the friendship ends most times but when it comes to guys, they laugh and enjoy my company. i don't think i'm doing anything wrong, i'm just being myself. Does any other female notice that too?

It's simple. Females have a lot of dramas. We fight from the color of sky to Dbanj's latest shoes. Guys on the other hands are not like that so some females connect with them, just on friendship levels. I know so many people that have guys as their best friends and could discuss about anything with them without fearing that it will be out the next day. Watch any gathering or place with guys and girls, you will notice there are more females in the group/site/forum or even church fighting with each other than the  guys. The guys can fight today and tomorrow they are on the field playing soccer and relaxing at the bar afterwards, but it takes a long time for us females to make up, that is if we do at all. So there is nothing wrong with having male friends my dear.

Your probably a tom-boy, a girl that has a more 'male' approach to life. lighten-up, girls like this are the coolest, and they spicen up any group of friends.

another added benefit you wont be looked at like a intimate object  but just one of the 'guys' that happens to be a sexy girl.

To find it easier making male friends than ur fellow females doesn't mean you're a tom-boy, man.

someone is asking others why does he or she gobble gobble gobble.

how in the frigging world are internet strangers/others supposed to know you better than you know yourself?

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Abeg ask am ooo

At OP may be u are not the gossip type so gals dont find u good enough for gossiping like other gals who take gossiping as their hobby I know alot of gals like u who dont want to associate with their follow gals cus of gals wahala u need to see the way they quarrel every week at my lodge u will pity them

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tpia@:
how in the frigging world are internet strangers/others supposed to know you better than you know yourself?

i quite agree with that post, OP, u know urself better, u know y u tend to associate with guys more, we dont know, we can only guess, could be that u ve inferiority complex? your are not fashionable? so many guesses OP, but u know y u dont easily make girl friends

it is just that people can easily befriend people of the opposite sex. i also have more male friends than females.

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It only happens mostly with girls.

yea, guys who have all girls friends are usually gays. but girls who have all guy friends usually arent.

Women are typically emotion bound creature. We are more expressive, spiritual, soul connecting, and literal.

So when you have a bunch of women that are alike in nature some things bound to explode the same thing with the men. You get too many men together spending time for a period of time without properly releasing themselves it like watching a pack of wolves fighting over some gum.

Knowing what TYPE of friends you have and HOW TO DEAL with them usually the trick to a long successful friendship.

Everybody ain't friend material both male and female.

SooNicee11:
i always find it easier making more male friends than females not because i like it that way, but it just happens that way. i could go out with a group of females and have fun but that's where the friendship ends most times but when it comes to guys, they laugh and enjoy my company. i don't think i'm doing anything wrong, i'm just being myself. Does any other female notice that too?

Chai. See my long lost twin. I don't have any female friends. It only goes as far as socializing as well, but to call one up and ask "how are you doing? wanna hang out?" I can't. The attention groups of girls attract is too much for me anyway.

Usually, they say, a chick with no female friends got something wrong with her. I beg to differ.
Some ppl just dont like female wahala, even females themselves. Most females are emotionally clingy and feel the need to attach themselves to something/someone. Which is a negative factor.

Poster, no need to ask why. It's nothing new.

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And this is Coming from a female

Mynd_44:

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And this is Coming from a female

yep!

@ pOSTER, IT IS BECAUSE YOU TOO LIKE MAN!!!! NOTHING, new,

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