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PoliticsRe: Recent Supreme Court Rulings: Farooq Kperogi Shares Bunch Of Plantain Photo by spafu(m): 9:33am On Feb 14, 2023
Ik
RomanceRe: Man Wins $30.5 Million Lottery 24 Hours After His Girlfriend Dumped Him (Video) by spafu(m): 11:23am On Dec 22, 2022
Magnoliaa:
Nice one.

See?

All men too should dump their gfs and move forward in life and leave women alone. They have no use.

I hope this man never go into a relationship at all and cut ties with every single female in his life.

He should find a men-only locality to relocate to and thrive.
Why are you pained with the man?
PoliticsRe: Tech Firm Launches Quickvote.ng To Improve Digital Voting In Nigeria by spafu(m): 6:59pm On Nov 06, 2022
Ok
RomanceRe: If Your Boyfriend Comes To Me, He Is Gone, Lady. Photos and Video. by spafu(m): 3:36pm On Oct 21, 2022
Ok
RomanceRe: My Pre-wedding Photos by spafu(m): 2:27pm On Oct 15, 2022
FORWARDEVERLY:
Shut up Axxhole SIMP.. he is going to marry a virgin..
Your father was our class monitor in the school of Simplicity.
PoliticsRe: Kaduna Residents Welcome Atiku In Zaria (Video) by spafu(m): 2:25pm On Oct 15, 2022
Ok
SportsRe: Mason Greenwood Arrested For 'breaching Bail', Contacting 'alleged Victim' by spafu(m): 12:10pm On Oct 15, 2022
Wetin dey do this guy
PoliticsRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Council Appoints Dele Momodu, Others As Directors by spafu(m): 4:34am On Oct 07, 2022
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PoliticsRe: Economic Blueprint: Atiku Tackles Lai Mohammed, Demands Apology by spafu(m): 12:57am On Sep 23, 2022
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SportsRe: Ime Udoka Faces Suspension Over Consensual intimate relationship With Team Staff by spafu(m): 2:21pm On Sep 22, 2022
Ok
Foreign AffairsRe: King Charles III Makes First Address To Britain & Commonwealth by spafu(m): 7:05pm On Sep 09, 2022
Ok
Foreign AffairsRe: Bridge Collapses With Officials On It While Being Commissioned In South Africa by spafu(m): 9:23am On Sep 06, 2022
Africa with substandard contract execution everywhere.
RomanceRe: My Girl Just Broke Up With Me For No Reason by spafu(m): 11:06pm On Sep 05, 2022
HRHQueenPhil:
She is playing a prank and wants to see if you're serious enough to know she is joking
Ur reaction will confirm if she was a side chick or u were having real feelings in d realatio ship
May someone plank her head with a two-by-two plank. Prank keee her there.
SportsRe: Chelsea Complete Signing Of Wesley Fofana For £70m by spafu(m): 2:32pm On Aug 31, 2022
This is Southampton induced fire brigade purchase.
SportsRe: Pierre-Emerick Aubameyang Beaten, Robbed At Home by spafu(m): 2:32pm On Aug 29, 2022
Eayah
TravelRe: 2 Air France Pilots Suspended After Fighting In Cockpit by spafu(m): 10:33am On Aug 29, 2022
Hnmn
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Two-Million-Man March In Rivers State (Photos, Video) by spafu(m): 6:30pm On Aug 27, 2022
Ok
SportsRe: Moment Anthony Joshua broke down in tears after losing rematch with Usyk (Video) by spafu(m): 3:50pm On Aug 21, 2022
Sorry, it's the bad luck of Buhari that precipitates everywhere. I trust you can bounce back as we get prepared to boot the ill-luck party called the APC.
RomanceRe: My Pre-wedding Photos by spafu(m): 9:37pm On Aug 20, 2022
FORWARDEVERLY:
Shut up Axxhole SIMP.. he is going to marry a virgin..
Ani.mal, a virgin goat Abi?
FamilyRe: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by spafu(m): 5:58pm On Aug 19, 2022
JudgeNotHi:
I need help. Could she be saying the truth or she's trying to hook.

I'm in a very stable relationship and as a matter fact, I'll be getting married to the love of my world, the one whom my heart continuously long for daily in next month.

Nevertheless, there's this lady whom happened to be an old friend for about 2 years now. We've been very close chat buddies and virtually could discuss anything online to each other (I mean anything). On one occasion, she suggested we meet up at my place to watch a movie Twilight together. Well, since I wasn't doing anything in particular for the weekend and my fiance wasn't in town, why not? (Trust me, my intents was pure and genuine).

The Saturday came, and we did have a lovely time together until the devil struck. One thing led to another and we both ended up kissing and eventually had sex. I wasn't careless not to have not used a protection but I could remember the condom coming off at a Point and was quickly replaced with another new one. Trust me guyz, we both felt bad immediately after the incident and both apologized to one another and that was it.

Fast forward to the present, I got a call from her for the first time after that incident (I had to cut off all communication with her after what happened) and she broke the news to me that she was feeling a little different which prompted her to go do a test, and to my greatest shock, she said it came out positive, SHE IS PREGNANT!!!

How is this even possible? We made our precisely on the 30th of July and the test results shows she's about 2weeks pregnant (Note: the test results shows it was carried out on the 12th of August. Moreover, I never even released when the condom came off into her and we had to remove it. How is it possible?

Now, the mother called and even asked to see me in person that, the daughter already explained all that ensued between us, and I should come and let's discuss our next move, that no daughter of hers gives birth outside wedlock.

In all these, I am so confused. The honest truth is, I never told the lady in particular I was getting married in the month of September. My wife to be does know her as just a friend and that's all but kept my wedding plans away from the lady despite how opened we were to each other.

Nairalanders, I am so confused. I have cried, begged her, pleaded with her to come clean with me, but she insists I was the only one she meet within that time frame. Even in the presence of her mother, she kept asking her, are you sure? She kept insisting I was the only one she had sex with last month.

My world is presently on pause mode as I don't know what to thing anymore. But I am 99.9% sure I am not responsible for the pregnancy. I even requested she used my hospital for a second test and it still came out positive.

I am currently, planning on telling my wife to be the whole truth and before then, involve our counselling pastor. I can't bring myself to tell my family despite the fact her mother keep insisting she comes to see my mother.

My inner most being tells me I am been set up, because I remember vividly on that night, she kept insisting I remove the condom that it was hurting her but I insisted.

Could the pregnancy be truly mine? Do I come clean to my babe? Do I just runaway? So many questions and I am deeply depressed and sad on how I got myself into the terrible mess. At this moment, I deserve whatever insults is thrown at me. I truly deserve them, BUT I NEVER FOR ONCE DOUBT my love for my wife to be, I truly love her...
If you slept with her on the 30th of July and coincidentally she was ovulating, then on the 12th of August when the pregnancy test was conducted, she should be 4 weeks pregnant, and not two. Pregnancy is counted fom the last time she saw her mense which is two weeks before her ovulation.
So she may be pregnant,but definitely not for you.
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Receives Chadian President In Aso Rock (Photos) by spafu(m):
Buhari welcoming his brothers from across the border.
PropertiesRe: Man Returns From Dubai To See The House Built With Money He Sent Home by spafu(m): 5:47pm On Aug 19, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Wow great!

What kind of job was he doing over there and how much was he earning?

Congratulations man.
Go Dubai go ask nah.
RomanceRe: My Pre-wedding Photos by spafu(m): 5:39pm On Aug 19, 2022
Steve0979:
My guy don chop dis babe b4 ,u for no show her face na
Somebody else done chop the one you and your friend will settle down with.
RomanceRe: My Pre-wedding Photos by spafu(m): 5:38pm On Aug 19, 2022
MyVILLAGEpeople:
Your wife though.. just this weird feeling about her.. anyways congrats cool
Yeye talk from a child.
RomanceRe: My Pre-wedding Photos by spafu(m): 5:38pm On Aug 19, 2022
madridguy:
Congratulations bro. Your wife is cute. If she get a sister abeg link me up kiss
God forbid, an APC zombie will not make a good husband.
FoodRe: How I made Spicy Concoction Vegetable Noodles. Photos by spafu(m): 9:21pm On Aug 11, 2022
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PoliticsRe: Keyamo Disagreed With Lagos Assembly On How Tinubu Was Cleared ( by spafu(m): 8:09am On Aug 11, 2022
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PoliticsRe: 2023: Shettima Told To Resign As APC Vice Presidential Candidate by spafu(m): 8:05am On Aug 11, 2022
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PoliticsRe: Nigerians Know The Truth, Peter Obi Replies Tinubu by spafu(m): 11:18pm On Aug 10, 2022
YorubaIsGreat:
Dem lie dem no lie, Obidient cretins should know that hoebidaft will never smell aso rock.....
Hand dey shake, leg dey shake, Baba wey no well dey shout emilokon .
Christianity EtcRe: Odumeje Holds His First Crusade In Plateau by spafu(m): 6:28pm On Jul 29, 2022
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TV/MoviesRe: BBNAIJA: Dotun, Sheggz, Adekunle Use Fellow Housemates As Weight Lift (video) by spafu(m): 10:07pm On Jul 26, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Una don start ba?


Before you know now, they'll use preek to lift someone clitoris. E no de tey.
Someone done lift yours like that before?

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