...

https:///DFj3oDdSiW79GPICGAWmgL[/quote][quote author=Dazgrace post=89839142]Here's the WhatsApp link to d group

The link isn’t working please repost

This isn't recent...was b4 she got married sef

This isn't recent...was b4 she got married

Could you please stop spewing trash and get d pic of som1's adorable baby down !

Why is it so difficult and in some cases impossible for guys to forgive when their woman cheats on them?

No matter how much a man loves a woman, once she cheats, it's usually over! Why?

Guys cheat all the time and they expect women to forgive them. But when it's reversed,they don't forgive.

Why? Is it their ego?

Morayo747: Shut up pathological liar. So you're female(according to your profile) and you have a wife?? Keep dreaming about 25M ode oshi

see this bad belle o!did I say its my story?or that I was looking for 25M? Ode!didn't u c d link to d story??you should stop spewing nonsense!Idiat!

SLIDE waxie: I was expecting a link though!
Try again swt@!

there is a link hun

caught my father in bed with my less than a year old wife.

Ironically this happened a day after she told me that she was carrying my baby. The strange thing is that my father and wife are behaving as if nothing out of the ordinary happened. My father simply got up from my matrimonial bed and ordered me to follow him.

In my living room, he gave me a cheque of N25m to buy myself a car of my choice while my wife went into the kitchen to prepare dinner. The whole thing appeared to be like a movie as I looked from my father to my wife. A presence more powerful than me held me down, preventing me from going after either my father or wife.

I eventually summoned the courage to move and found myself going towards my mother's apartment. When I got there and narrated the whole incident to her, she begged me not to fight or say anything about it to anybody. My elder brother who came into my mother's apartment while I was narrating the incident, laughed and patted me on my shoulders without saying anything.

My immediate elder sister, who has refused to come back to Nigeria from London since she left eight years ago, wasn't surprised by my story. She only told me to take things easy and not try to make trouble with my wife if I valued my life. I am the last born of three children and the favorite of my father in particular. That night, my mother came into our apartment to take my wife with her. I didn't sleep throughout the night wondering what strange things were going on in my family.

The next day as early as 6a.m., my father came over to my apartment to more or less warn me about trying to make trouble. He told me what I witnessed was beyond me and that it would continue to be the pattern until he got tired. After he left, I ran to my friend's place who in turn took me to Epe to consult with a spiritualist. Without much ado, the spiritualist, told me that I will learn to live with the situation else I would become insane if I try to challenge my father.He said, not even my mother can challenge my father. He said, my father has gone too far to change and that things have been damaged beyond repairs in the things he has done to us; that it would take the grace of God for my siblings and I to overcome the spiritual problems my father in his quest for power, money and fame has done. He too advised me to continue to tolerate the situation by accepting to live with my wife who he said, was brought into my life by my father for his purpose.

Two days after our visit, the friend that took me is critically ill in the hospital. doctors are yet to say what precisely is wrong with him. I don't need anybody to tell me where the attack is coming from. This has made me very determined to fight my father to a standstill. I want to confront and expose him for all his friends and associates to know who he really is. I am yet to return home after that day. At night I keep seeing my father in my dream telling me to come home for my own good. My mother and elder brother have been relentless on the phone urging me to come back home.

We all live within the massive family compound which is actually a mini estate as all our domestic employees with their family live within the compound. My father doesn't allow anyone working for him in the house to live outside the premises. He insists on it and has a school bus that takes all the children of his staff to and from school, my mother runs.

Please help me as I am so confused. I feel sorry for everybody in that house. How do I challenge my father and still be alive to tell my story. I feel so helpless and lost. Do save me[color=#770077][/color]http://m.naij.com/news/32269.html

Princess zoe: If you were the one that did it, will he wait for you? Will he still love and call you his wife? Make the right choice today.

Ijeoma Okeke100: the funny thing is that they expect us to put our lives on hold for them until they decide to comeback find a way to divorce him and marry a man who will hold you during those cold nights because aint no use being married to someone just by word but not activity

Interesting....

tanidabi: i have an aunt in the same situation infact it's been over 10 yrs and they don't even have kids,she's already 45 and the man has settled down in us and has kids but my aunt is still hopeful that she will go and join them.

wow!ur aunt is one hell of a patient lady!

MRbrownJAY:

why the need to go back home?! isnt a plane ticket and visa only whats needed? i see this as simple time wasting tactics.

True!but what about what d oda poster said about taking 10yrs to gain citizenship thru marriage?

MRbrownJAY: @OP
the guy left with the purpose of getting this lady to join him later, now he says she should give him time so he can COME BACK?! was this not about THE LADY going there?! when did the plan change?! and was she informed?

if the lady is serious when saying that she is tired of waiting, then whatever this man says shouldnt matter.

I think he meant coming back home,so they can all go back together