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happy new year my pals.ope u guys re cool,am nt doing so well cos i have a problem dats rily weighin me down,if u guys remember, i told u how i broke up wt my bf,later found out i was pregnant,told him but he wants nothin with the baby whom i cnt abort,now my problem is dat my ex's olda bro who stays abroad came around during xmas,he paid me a visit,said his bro told him wat happened btwn us dat he,s sorry and happy at the same tym,i asked y?he said cos he loves me and wants 2 marry me,i knw he had a thing 4 me b4 he travelled bt i didnt knw it was serious,he said he had loved me 4rm wen he first saw me,i told him abt the baby being his brother's,he said its even better cos its the same blood,my dilemma now is dat,tho he is a nice guy and all,am nt in luv wt him and i dnt tink i will eva be,i nid a father figure 4 my baby cos i dnt want him 2 grow up witout 1,i dnt knw if i will eva see som1 who will be willing 2 marry me and my baby if i say no 2 him,will it be a mistake 2 say no 2 him even tho i dnt tink its ryt 2 say yes.could he be the saviour i nid?he's been spendin most of his tym wit me,helps me tru my chores,does my exercises wit me,just makes sure am comfortable but am getin afraid of the whole thing,i told him his family wnt be happy wt the whole thing,he says his family cnt decide 4 him,he's rily serious abt marryin me,says am d 1 holdin him in dis country now.i dnt knw wat 2 do/say.he says my word is all he nids 2 start making arrangements 4 us 2 travel out.he also said he saw my brk up wt his bro as God's plan 4 us 2 be 2geda.guys wat do u think?shld i say yes?am rily confused.

I recently broke up wit my bf of 1 yr,now am more confused dan confusion itself cos i found out am 4 months pregnant,i didnt know cos i was stil seeing my periods untill last month i waitd 4 it 2 com bt it hasn't & wnt com,doctors say it hapens sometimes,i told him but he doesnt wanna hear it,says since we re no more we cnt keep it,i've beged & beged but he wnt budge,i hear abortion at this stage is dangerous so am fearfuly,totaly & completely scared,dnt wanna hav a fatherless child & i dnt wanna die,atleast not yet.what do u thnk i should do?ur candid opinion matters alot please.

Am heart broken and i dont know wat 2 do guys plz help me get out of this state by advicing me on wat 2 do.i just broke up with my bf dat am crazy about.i think he stoped loving me so i had 2 walk.

I'd luv 2 spend mine in paris,carribean island or miami.

I love dis joke.

My bf dat i love so much is acting up,we've been dating 4 1 year now,i've always suported him financially & ortherwise.these days he doesnt call,wen i call he's cold,if i ask wat the problem is he says everything is fine,now am tired of feeling lonely while in a reletionship.My problem is dat i cant seem 2 leave him,i've tried but its just so hard,out of frustration i tried 2 sleep with some1else just 2 get my mind off him but i cldn't,pls wat should i do?has he stopped loving me?y do i feel like i can never have sex with some1else(belive me i know wat am saying cos i cant get wet if its not him)i love dis guy 4 real.pls i need your urgent advice.

Y not try finding out y he left,den u'll know wat 2 do.