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RomanceThis Pastor Nailed It... by specialjude(op): 8:23am On Sep 06, 2023
That he should suspend the reasoning and choosing capacity of the type of man you want (and it usually rich men you want) so that even when your attitudes, character, and personality are not what he wants, he will close his eyes to all of them and marry you?

Omg!!

https://www.civian.com.ng/2023/09/its-disgusting-catholic-priest-fr-kelvin.html
RomanceBlack Is Beautiful: Read What Was Said Of Her by specialjude(op): 2:48pm On Aug 29, 2023
She's so beautiful. Her extraordinary black beauty captures the attention of all who set their eyes on her.

https://www.civian.com.ng/2023/08/too-pretty-to-be-ignored-extraordinary.html?m=1
PoliticsPastor John Nyamadi: A Woman Is Not Supposed To Be A Pastor by specialjude(op): 6:51pm On Aug 21, 2023
Pastor John Nyamadi, the general overseer of christian ministry of reconciliation (Grace and Truth) , has said that a woman is not supposed to be a pastor.

Pastor Nyamadi, who moved to Nigeria in August 1978, stated this in an interview with Punch when asked about the doctrine of his church.
Pastor John Nyamadi

Pastor Nyamadi, who moved to Nigeria in August 1978, stated this in an interview with Punch when asked about the doctrine of his church.

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“Our doctrines come from the Bible. We believe that God is one, which is the Lord Jesus. In creation, He was the father; in redemption, He was the son, who came for the purpose of saving us, and after accomplishing salvation, He promised to be in us, which is the Holy Ghost.

Even the apostles asked Him why He didn’t stay till the Holy Spirit came and He said if He didn’t go, the Holy Spirit wouldn’t come.

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So, He came back in the form of the Holy Ghost and that’s one of our beliefs,” he said.

“We also believe in baptising in the name of Jesus Christ. We also believe that a woman is not supposed to be a pastor because it was not so in the beginning.

I know many churches are trying to adopt what suits them, but biblically, a woman is not supposed to become a pastor and we are following exactly what the Bible says,”
Romance14 Reasons To Love And Marry A Woman Who Reads Books by specialjude(op): 12:50pm On Aug 02, 2023
1, She's intelligent and continuously expands her knowledge
2, She's curious and eager to learn new things
3, She makes a great trivia partner with her collection of random facts
4, She's low-maintenance and knows how to relax
5, She's an expert conversationalist with a wide range of topics to discuss
6, She's more intimate and attentive in personal moments

Read up here..
https://www.juilal.com/2023/08/14-reasons-to-love-and-marry-woman-who.html
WebmastersRe: Is There Automated To Share Blog Post On Blogger Spot? by specialjude(op): 11:21pm On Jul 27, 2023
Hi. Thanks so much. Which platform please.
Pennywise2:
yes. But you need to use another platform. Then when you post to the other platform, it will auto share to That's the one i know.
WebmastersRe: Is There Automated To Share Blog Post On Blogger Spot? by specialjude(op): 11:21pm On Jul 27, 2023
Thanks so much Penny wise.. I'm referring to . I know there are plug-ins for WordPress. Dose Blogger have anything of such?
WordPressExper:
Hello! Yes, there are plugins and tools available that can automatically share your new posts on various social media platforms immediately after you publish them. These plugins are designed to save you time and effort by automating the sharing process. Here are a few popular options:

Jetpack: Jetpack is a comprehensive WordPress plugin that offers various features, including social media sharing. It allows you to connect your WordPress site to your social media accounts, and once you publish a new post, it can automatically share it on platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and others.

Buffer: Buffer is a social media management tool that integrates with WordPress through a plugin. It lets you schedule posts in advance and can also automatically share your new blog posts on connected social media accounts.

Hootsuite: Hootsuite is another popular social media management tool that can be integrated with WordPress. Like Buffer, it allows you to schedule posts and automatically share your latest content on multiple social media networks.

Revive Old Posts (formerly known as Tweet Old Post): This plugin focuses on resharing your old content, but it can also be configured to share new posts automatically as well.

Social Media Auto Publish: This plugin is specifically designed to automatically share your new posts on various social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc.

Before using any plugin, make sure to check its compatibility with your version of WordPress and read reviews to ensure it meets your requirements.

Always remember to customize the sharing messages and schedules appropriately to maintain an engaging and effective social media presence for your website or blog.

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RomanceRe: After 15 Years Of Masturbating This Is What I Discovered. by specialjude: 10:48pm On Jul 26, 2023
Please I nerd two people that can update my blog daily.

Chat me up.
WebmastersIs There Automated To Share Blog Post On Blogger Spot? by specialjude(op): 10:39pm On Jul 26, 2023
Hry guys. Unlike WordPress, I want to ask if there is a plug in or something in that can automatically share your new post immediately after posting.
Looking forward to your reply.
RomanceThe Rising Trends In Sustainable Technology: "A Green Revolution" by specialjude(op):
The world is witnessing a significant shift towards sustainability and eco-consciousness. As technology continues to advance, there is a growing emphasis on finding innovative solutions to tackle environmental challenges.

Awareness of sustainable technology

In this blog, we will explore the latest trends in sustainable technology that are driving a green revolution across various industries.

1. Renewable Energy Breakthroughs: Discuss the latest advancements in renewable energy sources such as solar, wind, geothermal, and tidal power. Highlight how these technologies are becoming more cost-effective and accessible, leading to a global shift away from fossil fuels.

2. Green Transportation: Explore the booming electric vehicle (EV) industry and its impact on reducing carbon emissions and combatting climate change. Cover the developments in EV technology, charging infrastructure, and the efforts being made to make public transportation greener.

3. Circular Economy Innovations: Investigate how companies are adopting circular economy principles to minimize waste and maximize resource efficiency. Share examples of innovative recycling and upcycling techniques that are transforming industries like fashion, electronics, and packaging.

4. Artificial Intelligence for Sustainability: Delve into how AI is being leveraged to optimize energy consumption, improve waste management, and enhance environmental monitoring. Highlight the potential of AI to revolutionize sustainability efforts on a large scale.

5. Green Architecture and Urban Planning: Showcase cutting-edge sustainable architectural designs and urban planning projects that prioritize energy efficiency, green spaces, and eco-friendly infrastructure.

6. Climate Action and Policy Updates: Provide updates on international climate agreements, government policies, and corporate initiatives aimed at combating climate change. Analyze the impact of these measures and identify areas for improvement.

7. Eco-Entrepreneurship and Startups: Feature inspiring stories of eco-conscious entrepreneurs and startups that are making a positive difference in the world through their innovative

Sustainable solutions:

8. Environmental Education and Advocacy: Highlight the role of education and awareness in driving sustainability efforts. Showcase NGOs, schools, and individuals who are actively advocating for environmental protection and climate action.

Conclusion:

The green revolution is gaining momentum, and sustainable technology plays a vital role in shaping a more eco-friendly future. By exploring these rising trends, we can inspire readers to be part of the positive change and contribute to a healthier planet.
Science/TechnologyThe Rising Trends In Sustainable Technology: "A Green Revolution" by specialjude(op): 10:22pm On Jul 26, 2023
The world is witnessing a significant shift towards sustainability and eco-consciousness. As technology continues to advance, there is a growing emphasis on finding innovative solutions to tackle environmental challenges.

Awareness of sustainable technology

In this blog, we will explore the latest trends in sustainable technology that are driving a green revolution across various industries.

1. Renewable Energy Breakthroughs: Discuss the latest advancements in renewable energy sources such as solar, wind, geothermal, and tidal power. Highlight how these technologies are becoming more cost-effective and accessible, leading to a global shift away from fossil fuels.

2. Green Transportation: Explore the booming electric vehicle (EV) industry and its impact on reducing carbon emissions and combatting climate change. Cover the developments in EV technology, charging infrastructure, and the efforts being made to make public transportation greener.

3. Circular Economy Innovations: Investigate how companies are adopting circular economy principles to minimize waste and maximize resource efficiency. Share examples of innovative recycling and upcycling techniques that are transforming industries like fashion, electronics, and packaging.

4. Artificial Intelligence for Sustainability: Delve into how AI is being leveraged to optimize energy consumption, improve waste management, and enhance environmental monitoring. Highlight the potential of AI to revolutionize sustainability efforts on a large scale.

5. Green Architecture and Urban Planning: Showcase cutting-edge sustainable architectural designs and urban planning projects that prioritize energy efficiency, green spaces, and eco-friendly infrastructure.

6. Climate Action and Policy Updates: Provide updates on international climate agreements, government policies, and corporate initiatives aimed at combating climate change. Analyze the impact of these measures and identify areas for improvement.

7. Eco-Entrepreneurship and Startups: Feature inspiring stories of eco-conscious entrepreneurs and startups that are making a positive difference in the world through their innovative

Sustainable solutions:

8. Environmental Education and Advocacy: Highlight the role of education and awareness in driving sustainability efforts. Showcase NGOs, schools, and individuals who are actively advocating for environmental protection and climate action.

Conclusion:

The green revolution is gaining momentum, and sustainable technology plays a vital role in shaping a more eco-friendly future. By exploring these rising trends, we can inspire readers to be part of the positive change and contribute to a healthier planet.
RomanceRe: Did You Know... by specialjude(op): 4:40pm On Jul 25, 2023
virginprincess:
Nice write up,and op you see that no 7,you are very correct in that aspect,Nigeria men especially always misunderstand of caring nature and kind heart for sex.
Thanks.
RomanceRe: Did You Know... by specialjude(op): 4:36pm On Jul 25, 2023
Anny69:
Who was the dog waiting for?

That number 7!

itanimulli.com, oh wow.
It will redirect you to national security... Nsa dot gov
RomanceDid You Know... by specialjude(op):
1. 250 dead people are currently frozen, waiting to be revived with future technology.

2. After making 1.4 billion Crayons, the senior Crayon maker for Crayon admitted he was color blind.

3. If you type ‘illuminati’ backwards, followed by ‘.com’ as a URL, you will be directed to the US government’s national security page.

4. On average, a 4-year-old child asks 437 questions a day.

5.. The happier you are, the less sleep you require to function in everyday life. Sadness increases the urge to sleep more.

6. In 1920, a dog waited for 9 years after the death of his master outside the train station every morning until he himself pass away.

7. A study found that, on average, a woman’s friendliness will be mistaken for sexual interest 3.5 times a year.

8. Crocodiles do not die of old age because they do not age biologically. Instead, they die of either starvation or disease.

9. “Tom and Jerry” was a British slang term from the 1800’s, meaning “to fight and cause trouble”.

10. If a friendship lasts longer than 7 years, psychologists say it will last a lifetime.

11. Nike’s slogan ‘Just Do it’ was inspired by the last words of a murderer on death row

Ps: with reference to 7, many ladies also confuse a guy's caring nature to mean attracted to them for a romantic relationship.
FamilyDid You Know... by specialjude(op): 1:06pm On Jul 25, 2023
1. 250 dead people are currently frozen, waiting to be revived with future technology.

2. After making 1.4 billion Crayons, the senior Crayon maker for Crayon admitted he was color blind.

3. If you type ‘illuminati’ backwards, followed by ‘.com’ as a URL, you will be directed to the US government’s national security page.

4. On average, a 4-year-old child asks 437 questions a day.

5.. The happier you are, the less sleep you require to function in everyday life. Sadness increases the urge to sleep more.

6. In 1920, a dog waited for 9 years after the death of his master outside the train station every morning until he himself pass away.

7. A study found that, on average, a woman’s friendliness will be mistaken for sexual interest 3.5 times a year.

8. Crocodiles do not die of old age because they do not age biologically. Instead, they die of either starvation or disease.

9. “Tom and Jerry” was a British slang term from the 1800’s, meaning “to fight and cause trouble”.

10. If a friendship lasts longer than 7 years, psychologists say it will last a lifetime.

11. Nike’s slogan ‘Just Do it’ was inspired by the last words of a murderer on death row
Nairaland GeneralWhat Are Some Or Any Shocking Facts That Surprised You Today? by specialjude(op): 1:00pm On Jul 25, 2023
1. 250 dead people are currently frozen, waiting to be revived with future technology.

2. After making 1.4 billion Crayons, the senior Crayon maker for Crayon admitted he was color blind.

3. If you type ‘illuminati’ backwards, followed by ‘.com’ as a URL, you will be directed to the US government’s national security page.

4. On average, a 4-year-old child asks 437 questions a day.

5.. The happier you are, the less sleep you require to function in everyday life. Sadness increases the urge to sleep more.

6. In 1920, a dog waited for 9 years after the death of his master outside the train station every morning until he himself pass away.

7. A study found that, on average, a woman’s friendliness will be mistaken for sexual interest 3.5 times a year.

8. Crocodiles do not die of old age because they do not age biologically. Instead, they die of either starvation or disease.

9. “Tom and Jerry” was a British slang term from the 1800’s, meaning “to fight and cause trouble”.

10. If a friendship lasts longer than 7 years, psychologists say it will last a lifetime.

11. Nike’s slogan ‘Just Do it’ was inspired by the last words of a murderer on death row
RomanceRe: Your Answer Could Be Very Useful by specialjude(op): 8:44pm On Jul 22, 2023
Wow, this so insightful. Thanks so much for your response @pansophist
pansophist:
Yes, you can always love a person that doesn't love him/herself, just that you, the lover, will be burdened by their inability to love themselves.

So expect them to be only happy when you're actively proving that you love them. Since their self-esteem is externally based (from your constant validation), it makes it easy for you, and others, to manipulate them.

You don't want to be with someone that others can easily manipulate due to their insecurities. If you're their partner, youre in a big trouble. They will be your weakest link, and trust the enemy to always spot it.

Not loving yourself can be compared to being cripple, you'll always need other people to function well. Your default mode will be sadness, negative energy, and to be around such a person will be burdensome.

You don't want to be in a situation where someone else can't be happy without your input. It's bad for both of you. And since they can't love themselves, it also means they can't love you. They can't give what they don't have.

And if someone doesn't love you, don't expect them to be empathetic towards you. Relating with your human suffering will be difficult, and even in your lowest state, they still want their usual dosage of love from you.

Like a child, his mother being sick doesn't release her from the obligation to take care of him. For a child, it's understable. He is young and full of potential.

But if life unfortunate circumstances happens to you, you'll still carry the obligation to show love to such an adult that doesn't love him/herself. It's a tragedy.

An adult or a child, an idiot or a wise man, a thief or righteous man all needs food for example. But if one can't hustle and feed themselves, they become a burden to those that can. It's the same dynamic with not loving yourself.

Also, don't confuse the intense feeling towards you by someone that doesn't love themselves with love. Their feeling is tied to their need to feel better. If you travelled for example and someone's else give them that feeling, they can easily migrate

Most importantly, you can't love someone that doesn't love themselves in the right way because love is a combination of stick and carrot. Loving you doesn't mean I must always reward you with carrot, it also mean I can always punish you with a stick to make you better.

A person that doesn't love himself will only appreciate your love when you give them carrot. So when you tell them how awesome they are, give money, then it's perfectly okay and the only way they understand love.

Now give them the stick by tell them that it in their hand to resurrect themselves from their predicament, then you might come off as a hater. After all, they only approach life from the external.

So loving a person that doesn't love themselves is unsustainable, and both of you will suffer. Iron sharpens iron, but iron destroys wood, which makes the iron rusty afterwards. The lover is the iron, the person that can't love themselves is the wood.
RomanceRe: Your Answer Could Be Very Useful by specialjude(op): 9:26am On Jul 22, 2023
falcon01:
Do your path, show them love and They'll realise it. But if you get tired and discover that person is lost, you can leave them people. Some people are way to gone to be saved.
@falcon01, thanks so much.
RomanceRe: Your Answer Could Be Very Useful by specialjude(op): 8:01am On Jul 22, 2023
Say for instance, you love this person and getting close to this person, you realize they don't just like themse9. They hate their body, color, height... Everything. How will you handle the situation? How will you make them love their personality?
duro4chang:
Your question is not clear
RomanceRe: Your Answer Could Be Very Useful by specialjude(op): 7:58am On Jul 22, 2023
Thanks falcon 01. The issue is convincing this person to even love themselves. The more you try to talk them into loving themselves, the more they seem lost.
falcon01:
Yes, you just have to convince them they are worth Loving and deserve happiness. Show them what it feels to love and the Value of self love.
RomanceYour Answer Could Be Very Useful by specialjude(op): 7:47am On Jul 22, 2023
I want to ask, Can you love someone who doesn't love themselves?
RomanceRe: Love At First Sight Or Love After Being Friends by specialjude(op): 2:12pm On Jul 21, 2023
ideamonster:
Love after you're sure he can support a family.

All these love at first sight or love after being friends is useless if the man cannot provide. These are the lies we tell young women.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pzWY98kIUqE
Okay. You're selling your market. 😂
RomanceRe: Should I Block This Girl? by specialjude: 2:06pm On Jul 21, 2023
Move bro. And chg ur gender... 🤣
RomanceLove At First Sight Or Love After Being Friends by specialjude(op): 2:01pm On Jul 21, 2023
Love can happen in many different ways, and both love at first sight and love after being friends can be valid and genuine experiences.

Love at first sight is when two people are immediately and intensely attracted to each other upon first meeting.

While it may seem like an unrealistic or superficial concept, it is possible for two people to connect deeply and quickly based on a strong initial attraction.

Love after being friends, on the other hand, is when two people start out as friends and eventually develop romantic feelings for each other over time.

This type of love can often be built on a foundation of mutual trust, shared experiences, and a deep understanding of each other's personalities and values.

Ultimately, the way in which two people fall in love is unique to their individual experiences and circumstances.

What's most important is that both partners are honest, respectful, and committed to building a strong and healthy relationship, regardless of how it began.

Read more here for better and healthier relationship.

https://www.juilal.com/2023/06/love-at-first-sight-or-love-after-being.html?m=1

RomanceWhat A Cutie by specialjude(op): 1:50pm On Jul 21, 2023
She's just cute...

RomanceHow To Differentiate Between Love And Obsession by specialjude(op): 1:40pm On Jul 21, 2023
Determining whether a strong attachment to someone is love or obsession can be pretty challenging, but there are some key differences between love and obsession.

Take a look at the following factors to help you differentiate between love and obsession.

1. Mutual respect: Love involves mutual respect, where both partners value each other's opinions, feelings, and boundaries. In contrast, obsession can involve a lack of respect for the other person's boundaries and desires.

2. Control: Love involves giving each other space and allowing for independence, whereas obsession involves a desire to control and possess the other person.

3. Communication: Love involves open and honest communication, where both partners feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and feelings. Obsession may involve a fear of communication or a need to constantly check in with the other person.

4. Selflessness: Love involves putting the other person's needs and well-being first, even if it means sacrificing your own desires. Obsession can involve a self-centered focus on one's own needs and desires, without consideration for the other person's well-being.

5. Trust: Love involves a deep sense of trust and mutual understanding, where both partners feel secure in the relationship. Obsession can involve jealousy, possessiveness, and a lack of trust in the other person.

It is important to note that love can involve intense feelings and emotions, but it is not usually characterized by unhealthy or controlling behaviors. If you find yourself exhibiting signs of obsession, it may be helpful to seek the advice of a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional

Guess you're still asking : Is it Love or Obsession?

Love is characterized by a deep affection, respect, and concern for the well-being of another person. It involves wanting the best for the other person, even if it means putting their needs ahead of your own. Love is based on mutual trust, communication, and the desire for a healthy, balanced relationship.

On the other hand, obsession is characterized by an overwhelming and compulsive preoccupation with someone. It may involve an intense desire to control or possess the other person and can lead to jealous, possessive, or controlling behavior. Obsession is often based on an idealized or fantasy version of the other person and may not take into account their true thoughts, feelings, and desires.

If you find yourself constantly thinking about the other person, checking their social media accounts or messages, or feeling unable to function without them, it may be a sign of obsession. On the other hand, if you feel a sense of mutual respect, trust, and openness with the other person, and are willing to work together to build a healthy relationship, it is likely a sign of love.

It is important to note that love can involve intense feelings and emotions, but it is not usually characterized by unhealthy or controlling behaviors. If you are unsure whether your feelings are based on love or obsession, it may be helpful to seek the advice of a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional.

Check here for more interesting treets.
https://www.juilal.com/2023/07/how-to-differentiate-between-love-and.html?m=1

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