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Here is my sad story:

Met a woman who came on VERY strong 7 weeks ago.  We spent a blissful
weekend together.  She lives in another state and had to go back as she
was on vacation.

But she said she was going to move here in the fall.  Sweet, so we kept in
contact via the phone and she told me to come fly out and see her.  So I
bought a ticket and waited for a few weeks till the flight day.

During the wait, she made many comments that sounded like she had
marriage on the mind.  Ya know, living together, her co-signing a loan
for me, stuff like that.

So I get there on Friday morning and all day and nite was great.  Then Saturday
during the day was weird.  She was acting cold and distant.  I asked her what
was wrong in the evening and wow, was I shocked to hear what she was saying!
She said something reminded her of her ex and she now realizes she isnt over that
relationship yet.

Also had to throw in that she wish I hadn't come out there (er, it was her suggestion),
denied that she ever said she was going to move here in the Fall.  Admitted that she
talked about living together, but simply said she never should have said that.  Oh yeah,
she had to throw in "I am not the one" (referring to herself)

I got a bit miffed that she was pulling this stunt, but decided to be somewhat civil as I was stuck
at her house til Monday am.

So Sunday we just hung out with her friends, then we ended up being intimate at nite.

She takes me to the airport monday am and gave me a really long hug.  I get picked up
at my home town airport and called her just to say I landed safely.  She said what a great
time she had that weekend.  umm?

I called her Tuesday, can't help it as I am crazy about her.  We talked of pleasantries for a
short while.  Things seemed ok.  My good friend says I need to back way off and not call her,
let her call me.  Well, couldnt help myself and called her today, Friday at noon.  Got her voicemail
left a message, 7 hours have since passed and no call back.  I am very upset.

What in god's name is she doing??

btw, she is a Scorpio if that is any help and I am an Aries