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Romance / Re: Hilarious : Woman In Tears Downs Bottle Of Beer While Mourning Relative by stephcat: 3:22pm On Jun 16, 2020
���� real shit
Health / Re: Man Electrocuted To Death In Aba Few Weeks To Traditional Wedding (Graphic Pic) by stephcat: 12:23pm On May 29, 2020
Joycekkh:
Are we going to call this village people?
Its no joke....R.i.p to the dead
Romance / Re: Rema Was Truly A Mechanic Before He Blew by stephcat: 8:34pm On May 25, 2020
[quote author=invectives post=89935665]and u had to put the liquid metal in the photo...[/quote
You got eagle's eye bro]
Career / Re: My 50-Year-Old Boss Shows Massive Cleavage Whenver We Meet, What Could She Want? by stephcat: 2:10pm On May 20, 2020
Sugar mummy things...
No need to ask...I know you are interested

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Romance / Re: I Need A Woman’s Opinion. by stephcat: 10:31am On Apr 28, 2020
realdickoflife:
So this has been a long time coming. I am basically asking for opinion mostly from the women folk.
I had this ex that we dated for about 2 years. We both live in the United States. We met in 2017 and started dating in 2018 February. It was love as we were head over heels in love with each other. She was younger than me by about 7 years and I was like a friend and confidant. We took each other seriously. During that time a few incidences occurred that shook our relationship. I will try my best to lay out the story and also underline my faults as I need an honest opinion on if I was right or wrong.

Late 2018 I caught her talking to an Ex and she confessed that her mother being a Jehovah witness told her specifically that she wanted her to marry a witness. We were living together and she apologized and said it was a moment of weakness. She had planned on moving out to live with him. A few months later she claimed she got a job that required her to move. We had a big fight and I forcefully got a check I had written in her name back telling her since she wanted to leave my house she was no longer entitled to my money. She left but we settled things 24 hours later.
We then decided to mend what we had. I kept working and helping her with bills. I tried ti make her a better person educationally but being the young 23 year old gal she was she was head strong. I particularly dont like confrontation and sometimes when we fight I just keep mum in the house or go play video games. Fast forward we had another big issue and I realized she was getting attention from some make folk that made ger act that way. We settled it and I decided to get her a gift. It was expensive almost $1300. Later in the year 2019 We got a new 2019 model vehicle for her. It almost cost me my job as I had to falsify some documents to ensure she was qualified for a Vehicle that was way above her means. Towards the middle of the year she decided to quit her job and come back to my place so we could move out together elsewhere. 2 days after she moved I woke to dress up for work about 5 an and realized her phone kept ringing so I picked it up and it was calls from a guy she always claimed was a friend. I saw the chat and all the plans to move in with him in another state. I confronted her after coming back from work and next thing she called the police and claimed her life was in danger. I explained what happened when the police came to my house and they then said I should let her move out. 3 weeks later I got a letter in the mail saying I was charged for assault. We went to court and both judges on separate occassions Told her I wasnt guilty and they felt her story was false. I involved her mother and the mother outrighlty supported her daughter. I reminded her I have always been there for her. 3 months into the relationship I had to go with her to the hospital has she started bleeding profusely and we realized she aborted for her ex before we started dating. She also claimed she has mood swings from a rape experience at 8 years old that made her go through vaginal repair. I knew all of this when I went into the relationship head first. Now my friends who told me in the start not to date a gal they saw as not being in the same class moneywise and societal wise based on status and experience mock me. Everyone I knew in my area and life knew about us. I had to take all my pictures down from my social media. Her defence was that I was too harsh on her when she had an accident. She had 2 accidents within the space of 7 months and a car I bought for my dad also she also hit it and I had to repair it before shipping to Nigeria. At that point I requested for a 60 day break from her to figure out her life as she kept making mistakes that were costly. She ran to that other guy who consoled her and then planned her exit. I pointed out to her that a man who knows you live with another man and tries to get you to move out and move in with him either has self esteem issues or has no plans for you. My question is where exactly did I go wrong? Lastly 2 weeks ago I called her mother on a whim and the mother picked my call and even spoke to me for 2 hours I was shocked, that told me she either was burnt where she went or it didnt work out. Do you think its okay for me to mend fences with her? I have moved on and I decided to take a break from dating, but the death of a recent family member just made me want to make up with any and everyone I had an issue with.
So after everything you've narrated here you still need someone to tell you what to do....
Bro don't be a disgrace to my specie...weak clown

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Romance / Re: I Cooked This Rubbish This Morning [Picture] by stephcat: 11:01am On Apr 17, 2020
u don start this early morning

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Romance / Re: Share Your Experience With Uncircumcised Men by stephcat: 3:10pm On Apr 10, 2020
Don't ask me bro....the guy below me might have
the answers�
Crime / Re: Lockdown: Policeman Kills Fuel Attendant In Abia (Disturbing Photo) by stephcat: 10:38am On Apr 07, 2020
Hoodbilonia:
Fool
Cant u see it was a stray bullet
May you die an untimely death for making such kind of useless comment....dog

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