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yanabasee:
OP, never hold back a woman who wants to move forward... You will end up making her frustrated and confused.....


If he mind is outside...And if she sees another man whom she likes and wants to date on with the guy...Why stop her??

You are forcing yourself and your love on her.... Give her a breathing space....



Never love a woman more than she loves you...

My fault, I agree, but why the sudden silence, I'm really concerned.

Jonathan:
When a girl starts tasting different dicks...

I doubt this for now although she has lots of secrets which I know. She's just too different and special to me.

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I shouldn't be posting this because of the type of comments nairalanders post here most especially tagging you a sissy. Notwithstanding, I just have to do so because I really need help.

She's presently 22 and I'm 27, I have dated her for about 4 years which was all through her university days from her first year. We had the best relationship even though we were both from humble backgrounds. We shared everything we had and we were truthful to each other.

The complications: When she was in year 2, she met a guy who she fell in love with, unfortunately, the guy didn't ask her out, she infact asked the guy out by herself, (dat was where my mistake came from, I knew i shud hv sent her out of my life by den but I helped her overcome the lust)

Last year January, I caught her in a romantic chat with a guy which almost cost us the relationship, she was in love again but my extreme love for her pushed me to fight for her to come back again. We resolved and came back stronger after 3 months.

This January, the school released the list of graduating students and her name was excluded. She told me about it and I told her she disappointed me because I told her to meet with someone who could have helped check if her results were good but she was just postponing it. She later termed it that I said she is a disappointment. Although she later found out she failed a course. From that moment, she blocked me off all social media, blocked my numbers and hv never spoken to me since then. I hv reached her sisters, friends and mum, all she tells them is she will call me.

Not to sound too saintly, I wouldn't mention the sacrifices I have made for her throughout her stay in school.

I hv continued to try to reach in 2 weeks interval yet she wouldn't pick my calls.

I have planned all my life, my future with her, this is too shocking and I don't know what to do. Not a goodbye, not a breakup.