₦airaland Forum

TheBillyonaire:
How?

Are the parents the ones that determine the price of the drinks and goat and food? That is food they will all eat that day. The bride price is just 500k/

How many ashawo can he carry for 500k. May be 5 nights with ashawo, compared to woman he will Bleep for a lifetime...lol

Why are we deceiving ourselves. We all know he wants a woman that is he own to be fuccking !

THE WHOLE POINT IS TO ACCESS WHETHER YOU ARE CAPABLE TO CARRY A FAMILY.


THE COMMUNITY WANT TO KNOW; IS HE WELL TO DO? HOW WILL THEY ACCESS IF NOT WITH MARRIAGE RITE MATERIALS.

THAT IS WHAT THIS TRADITIONAL RITE IS ALL ABOUT.


ALSO, MAKING YOU UNDERSTAND THAT YOU WILL BE TAKING CARE OF YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER INLAW, THEY WONT BURDEN U BUT MAKE YOUR EYE THEY REACH THERE.


U SEE THIS DEMONIC GENERATION, THEY WANT EVERYTHING THE DEMONIC WAY.


VERY EVIL!

BRATISLAVA:
Weak, whiny men everywhere.

A woman should come into a marriage as a full package, she must bring something to the table. But with the only thing Nigerian men feel they should bring along, there's still this.

Men aren't men any longer. Especially not the Nigerian specie. They need their "emotions" catered to as well, and then they have the red pill hate for these emotions. If you cannot pay the bride price of a woman, then go and sit at home. You get kids will pay more than that. And will you also run away then? Or come online to advocate for your weak in-law to be (or whatever the tweet maker is)?

Weak, whiny men everywhere.

OWAMBE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN MARRIAGE.


CAN U IMAGINE? GOD FORBID BAD THING...

wirinet:
Very archaic tradition.
When girls from that clan begins to turn to evening newspapers in their fathers house, they would be ready to dash their daughters out to any man come knocking for free.
The issue of bride price is not even the problem but demands from her whole family and clan is outrageous. After the traditional wedding, the guy will still have to cough out huge sums of money for the court wedding for the marriage to be recognised by the state and church wedding for the marriage to be recognised by the church.

Most of their daughters are doing baby mama for random guys and they see a reasonable man who what's to take the responsibility of feeding and housing their daughter, and they are doing shakara.

Acekidc4:
This your comment just confirmed my guess that you're truly one of those useless jobless men in the family waiting to feed on expensive bride price. You're finished Mr Simpleton

DarkJeddi:
You are selling your daughter Ogbeni..

Calculate the price and let the highest bidder buy her..

Tomorrow you will be waiting for that same in law you fleeced to still take care of your hungry family..

Sell her and be done with it.

A LION DOESNT CONCERN ITSELF WITH THE OPINION OF SHEEP.

Acekidc4:
The point here is that it's too much......it's Bleep.ing too expensive. To be honest it's too much irrespective whether am wealthy or not. It's like the family are selling their daughter and it's also looks like greediness on the family part.

IF U USE THAT WORD SELLING, WE WILL CALCULATE THE HOURS SHE SPENT WITH US AND U WILL PAY PER HOUR.


TALKING RECKLESS, U CANNOT PERFORM ORDINARY MARRIAGE RITE, U ARE TALKING ABOUT SELLING.


ONYE ARA!

heysquare:
If the girl still be Virgin sha

U HAVE OPTION TO MARRY FROM YOUR TRIBE AND SHE WILL FOOT THE BILL.


ABI NA SOCKS WEY U GO BUY YOUR FATHER INLAW DEY FEAR U?



WALKING STICK FOR YOUR MOTHER IN LAW IS A PROBLEM?



THOSE ARE TOO SMALL.


I DID NOT SEE RANGE ROVER THERE.


PEOPLE BUY CARS FOR THEIR INLAW.

Acekidc4:
Women deserve more than is on the list naim go make you pack your hard earned money go dey feed jobless hungry people in her family all in the name of bride price. Continue

WHAT IS ON THAT LIST THAT YOU THINK WILL FEED THE WHOLE CLAN, IF NOT OCCASSIONAL CELEBRATION ITEMS.


EVEN THE GIRL YOU WANT TO MARRY, WHEN OTHER GIRLS IN THAT CLAN WERE MARRIED OFF, HER FAMILY GOT A SHARE.


THAT IS THE TRADITIONAL WAY.

IT IS AGE OLD.

Acekidc4:
Am happily married dude and it's poverty and greediness that cause a family to see exorbitant bride price list as a means of temporary escape from poverty. When you demand for exorbitant bride price list like this, it simply means you're selling your daughter. SIMPle🤨

WE WILL TAKE U SERIOUSLY WEN U COMPLAIN ABOUT IYALOJA AND BABALOJA AGBERO TRADITION.


UNTIL THEN, U ARE JUST A DISRESPECTFUL TRIBAL BIGOT.

Acekidc4:
😂🤣Be whinning yourself with all this your weak response............i believe you are part of those jobless men in the family that depends and feed on proceeds from bride price list......guy i get it, too much hunger is in the land, because it's only an hungry family that will be demanding exorbitant bride price as if it's a poverty alleviation scheme.

Y U DONT OPEN THREAD OR SEND THREAD TO FP COMPLAINNIG ABOUT IYALOJA AND BABALOJA?



U THINK IT IS NORMAL TO JUST GO AND EXTORT TRADERS IN THE MARKET OF MONEY THEY SUFFER TO SELL?


AGBERO CULTURE?


BUT U ARE FAST TO OPEN THREAD AND RUSH IT TO FP, AS LONG AS IT IS OTHER PEOPLE CULTURE REGARDS MARRIAGE.



WOMEN DESERVE MORE THAN IS ON THE LIST.

Acekidc4:
😂🤣Be whinning yourself with all this your weak response............i believe you are part of those jobless men in the family that depends and feed on proceeds from bride price list......guy i get it, too much hunger is in the land, because it's only an hungry family that will be demanding exorbitant bride price as if it's a poverty alleviation scheme.

WEN U FINISH TALKING NONSENSE, U HEAD DOWN TO ADEOLA HOUSE SO SHE AND HER FAMILY CAN TAKE YOUR CLOTH AND SHOE MEASUREMENT AHEAD OF YOUR MARRIAGE TO HER.

OTHER TRIBES IN THIS COUNTRY HAVE REAL MEN, WHO FACE UP TO RESPONSIBILITY AND DEMAND THAT THEY DO TO ME AS THEY DID TO THE GUY BEFORE ME.


IT IS CALLED TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE RITE

DO U WANT THEM TO BRING THE FULL AMOUNT OF MONEY THAT THEY HAVE SPENT SINCE THE GIRL WAS BORN.



WHAT IS ON THAT LIST, E REACH ORDINARY SCHOOL FEES ALONE.


LOOK U BETTER BE MARRYING YOUR USELESS WOMEN IN YOUR TRIBE FOR FREE, AS A MATTER OF FACT LET THEM FOOT THE BILL FOR YOU.



LEAVE OTHER TRIBES ALONE.



MARRIAGE IS SOMETHING WE DO FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEART AND WE DO IT WELL, WITH FULL RESPECT.

Acekidc4:
It's Simpleton like you that use 20M to marry a useless woman into your house just for the woman to bring everlasting chaos into your life and divorce you last last or start sleeping around with your neighbors, driver or gateman.

I pity you simpleton like seriously

U SEE, THAT IS PRECISELY THE POINT.


U WANT TO MARRY A WOMAN THAT YOU CALL USELESS.



A WOMAN THAT U DONT VALUE.


FROM THE TIME U ARE HANDED THE LIST, A FAMILY WITH A KEEN EYE WILL ACCESS YOUR RESPONSE.


EVEN IF YOU COME BACK THEY WILL TELL U , NO SHE CHANGED HER MIND.

Ernesthugo:
such a weak man naso he go run from maternal hospital bill.
a winner stays and fight till the end

Objectivist04:
Am telling you, imagine how the family will feel after seeing this list trending on social media.

HE DOES NOT EVEN VALUE THE GIRL.

THE DISRESPECT HE IS SHOWING, WOULD EVENTUALLY BE EXTENDED TO HER.

THEY DODGED THE BULLET ON THIS ONE.

Acekidc4:
Does that list makes sense to you Mr Simpleton?

IT IS A TRADITIONAL WEDDING LIST.

YOU FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTION AND CERTAIN ITEMS ARE NEGOTIATABLE.

U SIT WITH THEM OVER A DRINK TO GO THROUGH THE LIST.

TRY NOT TO SOUND LIKE A POVERTY STRICKEN MOFO.


THEY WILL TAKE SOME OUT CHEERFULLY AND INSIST ON OTHERS CHEERFULLY AND U COMPLY CHEERFULLY.

Objectivist04:
This is the comment I am looking for. You really hit the nail on the head.

I wonder why Yorubas are the ones complaining about high bride price in other tribes while the men in those tribes who marry mostly from there don't complain.

My questions are why not concentrate on your tribe if you feel that the bride price of the other people are high ? Did anyone Force you to marry to marry from that tribe ?
Why do you think that a culture should be changed Bec of you ?
Why always trying to cast aspersions on other people's culture ?
You have cheap ladies from your tribe so why not marry them, why travel for miles to marry only to start crying when you are told what to do ? honestly this is becoming ridiculous and Yorubas should be called out over this treacherous behavior

IT IS A TREACHEROUS BEHAVIOUR TO PEOPLE THAT OPENED THEIR DOOR AND WELCOMED YOU WITH OPEN ARMS.



COMPLETE DISRESPECT!

Acekidc4:
Simpleton will always support a simpleton......so because am rich, i should waste my money on a girl that was probably disvirgined with 2 indomie 2 egg knacked seriously upandan........i think you and the other simpleton head is not correct

HOW I KNOW, U ARE NOT A REASONABLE PERSON, IS U WIILL BE SHOUTING VIRGIN AFTER EVERY TWO SENTENCE.


U WELL SO?

Acekidc4:
So the bride price should be like you're selling your daughter abi simpleton🙄clap for yourself 👏👏

OK, U WIL WALK IN, THE BRIDE AND HER PARENTS WILL BUY AND PREPARE EVERYTHING.

U WILL COME WITH YOUR PEOPLE AND SIT DOWN EAT, DRINK CARRY WIFE THEY GO RIGHT?


RIGHT?

Acekidc4:
So the bride price should be like you're selling your daughter abi simpleton🙄clap for yourself 👏👏

WHAT DO U MEAN SELLING?

YOU ARE GIVEN A LIST FOR THE OCCASSION, YOUR WEDDING.


IF YOUU WANT TO WED IS IT SUPPOSE TO BE FREE?

U NO GO BUY RICE, MEAT, BOOK VENUE, CAKE, BUY DRINKS?


DO U EVEN KNOW WHAT MARRIAGE IS?

oxygeng:
Skit

I HOPE THE CAKE IS NOT POISONED.


I WONT EAT THAT CAKE, IF I WAS HIM.

Tflex01:
You are incoherent.

Tflex01:
Lol funny thing is, after all these braggings and chestbeating, most of you are nothing compared to the people you are bragging to in real life!

THAT IS WHAT U SAID ABOVE, NOW U ARE SAYING SOMETHING ELSE.

PICK A SIDE AND STICK TO IT.

RANDY MARRIED WOMEN

IF I BE THOSE GUYS FOR ABROAD, IF THEM CARRY THE YANSH NEAR ME, I GO THEY DODGE AM LIKE SHIT.


I WILL AVOID ANY FORM OF CONTACT.


THAT YANSH IS MONEY

HIM DON GO TOUCH YANSH?


DEM NO DEY TOUCH YANSH WITHOUT PAYING BRIDE PRICE FIRST.


WESTERN CULTURE IS A SCAM, GO ASK DIDDY.


WEN THEY ARE READY, THEY WILL JAIL U FOR IT.


I WONDER Y JUST FINE AND NOT JAIL.


O GIRL NEED THE MONEY MORE AND THAT IS WHAT THE CASE IS ABOUT, MONEY NOT JUSTICE.

IF YOU WANT TO MARRY WIFE, BETTER DEVELOP A GIVING HEART.


THE BIBLE SAID IT IS MORE BLESSED TO GIVE THAN TO RECIEVE.


U SEE IGBO MEN, WE ARE LOOKING FOR OPPORTUNITY TO GIVE.


SO, U SEE THAT LIST, WE WILL GO OVER IT JUST TO WARM AND WIN YOUR HEART.


Y WONT I GIVE MY MOTHER INLAW MONEY?


I GUESS OUR CULTURE MADE US THAT WAY.


GIVING IS NOT A PROBLEM.

BigDawsNet:
Good point! She has to stop working to care for baby till they grow older… Yes, it’s the job of the father to cover all expenses for that period without any complain… but what happens after the child is old enough to go back to school?

EVERYBODY GOES TO WORK, AROUND THE CHILD ROUTINE.

SOME WILL COME BACK EARLY TO COLLECT THEM FROM SCHOOL, SOMEBODY MUST ALWAYS BE AROUND TO KEEP AN EYE ON THEM.

Mrexcell:
He should go and marry from his tribe where women are very cheap nobody is forcing him to marry from another tribe.

THEY NEED TO RESPECT OTHER PEOPLE CULTURE.



THE DISRESPECT IS GETTING OUT OF HAND.

BigDawsNet:
I agree with you!

But why do parents train daughters in higher institutions just to return home and depend completely on husband to handle all home finances?


Cus my own belief is dat the lady education will get her a job and she would be able to handle at least 35% of home expenses

THEY DONT, IF YOUR WIFE IS A DOCTOR, SHE WILL BE IN THE HOSPITAL WORKING AND IF SHE IS A NURSE SHE WILL BE IN THE HOSPITAL WORKING.

OBVIOUSLY, THE MAN HAS TO BE RESPONSIBLE SIMPLY BECAUSE SHE MAY HAVE TO STOP WORKING TO TAKE CARE OF THE HOME, PRIMARILY THE BABIES UNTIL THEY ARE OLD ENOUGH BEFORE SHE CAN RETURN TO WORK.

THE BILLS ARE ALL ON U.

Matrixoba:
I love the way the list ended: "God bless you, Amen". Very funny. It was signed by Family Chairman, Family Head, and Village Head.
The guy is marrying the whole village.
Guy man use brain move.

NA SO, YORUBA WOMEN GO START TO THEY DO AM FOR UNA VERY SOON.


KEEP HIGHLIGHTING IT TO THEM.


FUNNY THING IS, EVERY TRIBE IN NIGERIA SEEMS TO HAVE A MARRIAGE RITE EXCEPT YORUBA.



MARRIAGE IS THE FAMILY, THE FAMILY IS A CLAN AND THE CLAN IS THE ENTIRE VILLAGE COMMUNITY.


THEY ALL DI IT.


IF YOU NO FIT, U ARE NOT READY, CLEAR WAY FOR PEOPLE WEY DEY PREPARED TO MARRY.

APOPTOSIS:
If marriage is not for the Poor....how then do Bricklayers, Gravediggers and Palmwine Tappers from same communities marry such ladies?
Do they give them expo or subsidy?

THEY PREPARE FOR THEIR MARRIAGE.


THAT IS Y THEY TAKE IT VERY SERIOUSLY.


UNLIKE YORUBA WHERE YOU HAVE BABAY MAMA, ALL AROUND THE CORNER AND STILL BE ANSWERING MARRIED MAN.

WHAT SHOWS U ARE MARRIED? SHE AND HER FAMILY ORGANISE WEDDING, BUY EVEN THE CLOTH YOU WEAR TO COME AND SIT DOWN CHOP RICE, CARRY WOMAN GO KNACK.

HOW IS THAT SERIOUS?

oluwaseyi0:
Did your father pay bride price twice? 500k to bride father and another 300k to bride mother?

WHAT IS 500K TO YOUR FATHER INLAW AND 300K TO YOUR MOTHE INLAW?


U MEAN, U HAVE TO BE REMINDED TO GIVE THEM SOMETHING.


U ARE ALREADY GOING INTO A MARRIAGE WITH A WICKED AND STINGY HEART.


YET YOU WIL COLLECT THE EARNING OF THEIR DAUGHTER THAT IS A DOCTOR OR NURSE AS YOUR MONEY.



MAKE INLAW LIKE YOU NO NEAR MY DOOR WAY IS A A PRAYER POINT.


SOME OF YOU WERE ALWAYS GOING TO BE BAD INLAWS, U JUST WANT TO TAKE AND GIVE NOTHING NOT EVEN A TOKEN OF APPRECIATION OR LOVE. THAT IS NOT A GOOD START.

ednut1:
if she see visa to uk for ground you think she won’t go I have seen it happen in real life many times. Most of them dey abroad now. So for your mind one use village elder you see maybe once in 3 years go stop u 😂

THAT IS A DISRESPECT TO A CULTURE FROM WHERE YOU WENT TO MARRY.

AND U WILL PAY DEARLY FOR IT, ONE WAY OR THE OTHER.


MARRIAGE IS A FAIMILY NOT AN INDIVIDUAL.

oluwaseyi0:
The is just bride list item not the wedding event proper, at this rate the full wedding will cost him nothing less than 20m

FOLAKE IS STILL THERE



MARRYING FROM OTHER TRIBE IS AN EXCEPTION NOT THE NORM.


U ARE STIL A FOREIGNER IN THOSE PARTS.


U EITHER REPSECT THEIR CULTURE AND PERFORM THE MARRIAGE RITES AS THEY DO IT OR YOU STAY YOUR ASS IN YORUBLAND WITH ABIKE.


IT IS VERY SIMPLE, IF YOU GO TO MARRY FULANI IN ADDITION TO BRIDE PRICE THEM GO USE KOBOKO TEAR YOUR BACK.

ednut1:
He was prepared to sponsor her education in uk which costs over 40m naira but cant pay 3.5m? If you love her just carry am go court and promise to come back for the list. Then run 😂

WHO WILL GIVE HER TO U?


U THINK THIS IS YOUR IYABO?