Christianity Etc › Re: I Have Lost My Zeal For Attending Church by Strafudeen: 7:24pm On Jul 13, 2025 |
Firstorderwizard: Back in the days, not attending church for just 1 sunday in a month makes one feel so guilty and incomplete but nowadays, one can stay months without attending church or any church program. It is even getting more worst as one gets more learned and exposed. Can I maintain my relationship with God without attending church on Sundays? Could this affect my faith?if yes, how can I rekindle my zeal for attending church on Sundays? Denominations are not the true church God is not responsible for Denominations |
Politics › Re: Senate Backs Green Future As Orji Kalu’s EV Bill Passes First Reading by Strafudeen: 4:53pm On Jul 01, 2025 |
Nonsense When even America is throwing out EV mandate. Nigeria and mispriority are 5 and 6 |
Foreign Affairs › Re: President Trump Announces Strikes On Nuclear Sites In Iran by Strafudeen: 1:30am On Jun 22, 2025 |
Wow Perfectly decoyed While the world was waiting and analysing. Wow Bizarre intelligence |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Drags Woman By Hair Like Stubborn Goat During Deliverance (Photos) by Strafudeen: 12:20am On Feb 13, 2025 |
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Education › Re: UNIZIK Female Student Bites Lecturer For Interrupting Her Dance Video Recording by Strafudeen: 9:35pm On Feb 12, 2025 |
franchasofficia: Pretty girl  You're very very stupid A very hopeless idiot animal. |
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Celebrities › Re: Omotola Jalade Ekeinde Celebrates Her 47th Birthday Today by Strafudeen: 11:02am On Feb 07, 2025 |
othermen: Growing up, I wanted to be independent, and I thought a fulfilling career would be difficult to achieve at the cost of love and companionship.
I have seen a mother sacrifice her potentials to serve a man, sacrifice all that she could achieve just to raise some kids. I have seen senior residents forgo opportunities, tied down by their families to less.
We were like-minded in Alexander Brown Hall: to travel the world unrestrained, to practice across oceans, and must feel no obligation to a society that should judge us by our marital status.
Family was some form of shackles to be rid of - and first we must acquire power over it, such power that any time it’s desired, it was something within our power to get or be relieved of. Boys and men would always be around, and with the successes and accomplishments we craved, we were bound to be greater ultraviolet light, while the best of men would be insects attracted, always courting us.
But winters and summers, or seasons of rains and harmattans. How brief they stay, how quick they come and go. A consultant loses the bearing of her brains for want of love and companionship. Now happy to settle for less, for men they cannot love.
If I could do my life once more, I would be married 12 years ago. For now, I know, I could be married and yet cultivate character, brilliance of mind, and all the depth of contribution I have made. I just had to seek a suitable partner that could give wings to my aspirations. But now I must live, knowing my chances of a suitable partner are not necessarily better off by the additional qualifications or resources I have earned.
Your best chance is when you are ripe for marriage, for when you are overripe esp as a woman, you are less desirable. Let Omotola, Okonjo, Adichie be betters exemplars- they show that we can strive for a life where our professional ambitions and personal desires need not be in disharmony.
Do not seek the lies that we have sought that marriage would imply you sacrifice your aspirations, and that marriage is but an altar of conformity. Do not forge the self-deceptions we made as loneliness creeped in, that loneliness is but a specter to deter from our purposes, and that with work, we would always be in the midst of people. Be more critical, for you may find that the embrace of matrimony is fleeting, but consider it is not fleeting in other places.
Now that I am done with all the self-discovery, branded about with honorific titles and status, I yearn and cry at night, beneath the make-up to shield my wrinkles, for a spouse, for kids… and the presence of this misery beclouds all the other sources of my joy. Sadly your gender never learns even after all is said and done. It is what it is. Let them continue to make wrong decisions and regret. It seems to be the curse of the feminine...at least the majority |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Named Finalist In Occrp's 2024 Corruption List by Strafudeen: 4:18pm On Jan 01, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: First Class Kings In Nigeria by Strafudeen: 4:45pm On Nov 16, 2024 |
Paupers Hungry lazy fools Useless thrones Outdated institutions Shame!!! |
Politics › Re: Israel Retaliates. Strikes Iran by Strafudeen(op): 1:29am On Oct 26, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Israel Retaliates. Strikes Iran by Strafudeen(op): 1:24am On Oct 26, 2024 |
Happening now. Updates as things unfold
Israel reportedly attacked the location of the headquarters of the Islamic Revolutionary Guards Corps in Iran.
Several of the strikes in Tehran targeted military bases across southern and southwestern Tehran, according to Iranian media. |
Politics › Israel Retaliates. Strikes Iran by Strafudeen(op): 1:24am On Oct 26, 2024*. Modified: 1:46am On Oct 26, 2024 |
https://www.timesofisrael.com/liveblog-october-26-2024/In response to months of continuous attacks from the regime in Iran against the State of Israel—right now the Israel Defense Forces is conducting precise strikes on military targets in Iran. The regime in Iran and its proxies in the region have been relentlessly attacking Israel since October 7th—on seven fronts—including direct attacks from Iranian soil. Like every other sovereign country in the world, the State of Israel has the right and the duty to respond. Our defensive and offensive capabilities are fully mobilized. We will do whatever necessary to defend the State of Israel and the people of Israel. Israeli defense forces X post |
Politics › Re: "I Cannot Deceive Myself" - APC Chieftain Joe Igbokwe by Strafudeen: 12:17pm On Sep 24, 2024 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Pagers Explode Across Lebanon, Injuring Dozens Of Hezbollah Members (photos) by Strafudeen: 6:51pm On Sep 17, 2024 |
tinkernut: https:///NzH9HcMSWn
Whoever planned this is a diabolic vindictive genius. How does one even come up with this? I tell you bro. I weak |
Politics › Re: Dangote Please Sir, Build Your Own Filling Stations by Strafudeen(op): 4:43pm On Sep 13, 2024 |
Sapasenator: Nigerians do not realize Dangote is a capitalist businessman who is in it for profit. He is not in business to solve Nigeria's problems.
Check his antecedents with cement and rice. And what are the marketers |
Politics › Re: Dangote Please Sir, Build Your Own Filling Stations by Strafudeen(op): 2:52pm On Sep 13, 2024 |
Elliotwaveforec: I support this! I didn't think of this before o The marketers seem to be engaging in national witchcraft against the rest of us |
Politics › Re: Dangote Please Sir, Build Your Own Filling Stations by Strafudeen(op): 7:27am On Sep 13, 2024 |
Localemperor: At least 8 in each capital city and 2 in second cities within the states. Around 250 stations across the nation. 💯 |
Politics › Re: Dangote Please Sir, Build Your Own Filling Stations by Strafudeen(op): 7:27am On Sep 13, 2024 |
CodeTemplarr: How many did the Singaporean refiners build?
He shouldnt. The cabals are gradually showing face. Nigeria is a different ball game |
Politics › Re: Dangote Please Sir, Build Your Own Filling Stations by Strafudeen(op): 7:26am On Sep 13, 2024 |
Shadomaan7: No be only filling station. He should also start selling his products directly from his company. Why do you think that won't work? |