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It's Monday morning guys.

Ok you think they're special!

Women are the same whether Christian, Muslim, Idle worshipper, etc..i see some guy's obsessed or have a fetish for a particular sect. They all the same nothing special, it's the same code. The game is the game!

Better classification should be conservative and non-conservative.

KingEarnest:
I won't advise this tho. Remember, don't shit where you eat.

There is this familiarity that comes with having sex with a girl and as they say familiarity breeds contempt. You won't be able to correct her as a 'boss' should and that is when see finish will enter then you are finished.

Thank you.

Martinez39s:
Sorry to ask, have you done this? Or are you contemplating doing this?

I haven't but she offered to work. With reassurance that business is business.

We've had of situations of women using money from other men to finance other men.

I want real OGs that have experienced this first hand. Not just assumptions. How do pimps maintain loyalty from women?

I have a question for the veterans in the house. They will have many experiences in the game. Good and Bad.

Has anyone been in a situation where you entrust your business and monies with a girl you have had something with either currently or actively smashing(situationships). For example, a sales girl.

How did it turn out with finances & other aspects. Is it advisable?

CaveAdullam:
, we are all sides of the same coin; dress from the same material.

12. Women are a reflection of what men permit in society. And men become what women reward.
And don't forget this - SEX IS THE ULTIMATE RULER OF THE UNIVERSE.

13. To your question:

Marriage preserves the sanctity of sex. Because a society without tough rails on sex will turn into a cesspool.

A functional society is built on a sound micro system - a family. A system of similar people and cultures. And family is constructed with the bricks and fabrics of marriage.

Why sex? Without sex, the human population comes to an abrupt end.

The fact that this path doesn't makes sense to you doesn't in anyway makes it less important on a macro scale. It's the same way they will see your path too - useless.

It comes down to you finding a path that you enjoy and seems more meaningful to you.

Thanks.

This is very very very deeeeeep! And I'm sure some may not understand the salient points. But very deep ooo!.

The equivalence of a woman who has money or grown in wealth to men approaching her with money can be said to be as comparable to a man with abundance of sex from various women to the extent that s*x becomes boring.

For in both cases the men are amused of a woman who shows indifference in the face of money and for the women see a man who shows indifference to s*x as surprising which might be translated to ego, arrogance or pride.

How dare my money doesn't make an impression? How dare he not craves my p*ssy like the rest?

She can't be enticed. He can't be manipulated.

Some will avoid you all the way and better not to deal. Some will hate you for that. Since they know you have a plethora of what they seem to be offering.

For men you may end up getting more of s*X or you may end up with more female enemies! Why? Because humans process situations differently.

Likewise, for women, they wade off men whose wooing power is to throw some cash and they attract men that knows sometimes cash is a complementary. And that the female psyche in certain scenarios go beyond just cash.

Badmashiii:
Senior man i gbadun wetin you caprison. You be correct manchi.

As a man you're created to be a head. As men,we should always keep this in mind. Any banny wey try to criticise or reject this your right make sure you free am instantly.

I plaster boss. Twale!

See this one again, them say na PPD. While I believe people suffer depression if it were Davido pikin she go get PPD?

If woman see one like simp, she fit extend am to the kids.

Commit to women that take one like ride-or-die. While doing unserious relationships with the rest.

Rizzputin:
Yup. Let these guys keep dreaming that men have higher sexual pleasures than women.

Women's sexual pleasures knows no bounds. Of course, like many men before and After them, the hard way is the only way they learn

They'd learn.

People that can go consecutive 10 rounds in a go. Even after it's all dried up. Little touch here & there, Bam! Ready for another. And Mr. Big Dixck!, that needs some time to recuperate before ignition again.

All the best @AlphaNugget with your current & future endeavours.

Let me just chip in into the topic a little.

If truly she aborted it. I repeat if truly she aborted it. Whether she was coerced by her mother or not. Infact the best decision was really to end it.
If only we men know the extent to which ladies can go far and beyond for a guy. We will stop making excuses for women. If woman dey feel u, I tell you not even her mother or father can interfere. Them go collect. I've seen this in real time.

Do you think if the unborn were to be CR7's, Messi's, WizKid, Davido etc she will abort it? Even without any marriage rights & yeye conditions.

Again all these lovey-dovey stuff cohabiting etc aren't defining factors to know whether a lady really digs you. Infact they're very good in that. A woman could be all lovey-dovey my bae this that etc..all over you and you will be surprised inside of her you're really not it. And another might not be but she really digs you. It is in critical matters like this you know the ones that dig you or not. The ride or die type.
All those cohabiting when Una do she wan say she know really knows the thing you can do or not. She wan say she doesn't trust you to know whether you go disappoint am or not.

We men should learn to value ourselves oooh. You're also a Messi, CR7, WizKid etc in ur own way. Any woman that cannot see you as her king in your own small hut, free them. We have billions of people in the world. Move on to the next. I bet u, there are thousands of women out there ready to be in such positions.

You sef na king. We think women don't know what they're doing that's how the disrespect will start. It's start subtle. From aborting innocent unborn to more & more disrespect later on.

Do you know what it means for them to remove your baby behind your back if truly they did? They have no utter regard for you & your seed. No be same women they huzzle sperm from billionaires condoms to conceive. Ahaaa.


Men abeg make una see una sef as kings even u dey sell pure water for street. There are many women out there for you. You get to call the shots not a random girl. Have a big ball.

luminouz:
But the Ajoku nigga is still capping bullshhiiit...by not making women take responsibility. That mûmû girl could have returned that money but she kept it...so she is a hoe and is priced as one.

Men need to be men again. Some conspiracy theories suggest there are some hormone disrupting chemicals in many of these modern things we use from herbicides, to foods, to soap, toiletries, drugs etc that's why we have weak men acting like women.

That in a study, conducted in France river, male fishes were exhibiting female traits & having female organs after some chemicals used as fertilizers got into the river.

In another NL news again making it to the top today. A woman is seen destroying her intimacy gadgets as a guise of turning a new leaf. The so called, 'women have less libido' mantra.

Dizzyyish:
This 2025 is to the strength for what we want and perseverance to keep aiming for it.

Happy New Year.

LordIsaac:
Thanks bro....wishing us all the very best of the new year!

Thanks bro. Appreciated.

Philosopher1979:
I can't believe it.
Is that not 1 million naira.
Wow. Just to have sex or us it love with a woman.
ABA Maybe it is a lie and the oerson just made it up. 1 million just to get a strangers attention.
Dangote sef no dey spend like rgat on top woman.
I refuse to believe its true

Some men do more than this* especially in Nigeria. Where do you guyz think most of the nations looted funds go to.

I don't have a problem with what anybody does with his money but to go and use public funds on top these lads is another level of foolishness that has to be studied.

Some men(lecturers) go to the extent of threatening ladies with an F if they don't oblige to their advances. Some deny qualified ladies to get a job if no knacks.

Some deny qualified men to give unqualified women work because of knacks.

There's on popular hookup site like that. I don't want to mention name. You need to see the high price tag those girl's put.

I ran some experiment and guess what? When I asked for short time quickies from 50/100K and above quotation at first; quoted 10K, to them obliging and wanting to come for the 10K after we've video called, establishing social trust and giving off an aura of high value. Depending on how you go about it some can even come for free. Finally, left their chats on read and they pinging back to what seem like I have lost interest already. And truly I did. Perhaps in the future I may hit them again. I'm pretty sure a lot of guyz have been parting with that amount. Why won't hookup culture become mainstream since they've made it lucrative. Like they said, if demand is high price will be high.

Simps are a big problem to the world. To hookup industry, to dating pool, to marriages, to institutions, to public funds and to the entire society.

Those of my colleagues in this thread that read sciences would understand the concept of Kinetic & Potential Energy.

E=mgh

And E=1/2mv^2

While both of them are equal.

E=E

They can vary in many ways but have the same magnitude and severity.

We can compare this analogy to the dynamics of male and female libido.

The male libido can be likened to kinetic energy while the female libido to Potential Energy(having the potential to work).

Some women may have a higher sex drive than men, while others may not. Libido varies on individual levels and generalizations often don't capture individual experiences.

Tonnyray:
Sorry but this is actually mostly because the vagina has a natural self-cleaning mechanism that maintains its health and prevents infections. These vaginal secretions help remove dead cells, bacteria, and other debris. It's mostly not about being lubricated as a phallic receptacle.

They have it just as much as men. The only thing, theirs isn't as obvious as men. Since it's mistaken always as a discharge.

I can never be of the opinion that the gender that their live literally deals 247 on s*X and men are the ones with less libido.

imustsaymymindo:
Lol true. Mostly it's adolescence that have wet dreams.

But my point was to prove how orgasm is so fallible a quantifier to determine whether a man/woman enjoy sex more. Do you understand now?

I already mentioned my take that sex drive is what can be used to judge the arguments. And men have it more. You won dey wine testesterone?

T-levels aren't a joke. It's what essentially makes up a man. And it's on an exponential decline over the last decade. For libido aka sex drive there isn't one way fits all. It's something that is highly personal & varies on individual level. To say men have more sex drive, I beg to differ.

imustsaymymindo:
, men are so sexual that they orgasm in their sleep i.e. wet dreams. I don't know what else could beat that.

I disagree on this. A man that will do that in sleep is a man that has had relapse. Maybe intentionally or unintentionally.

Like I said, most men aren't having it constantly thus the build up unlike women that have several options thrown at them.

A well s*xed guy wouldn't cum in the dream. Cause the balls are empty.

Then we have discharge in females. Some are always so sexually turned on or always wet that they wash undies every. 247--- day in day out.

Adasun:
this arguments self, lols...

there was a time i was with this Ebonyi girl in a factory i was working some years back. while we where gisting, a big booty pass us. cat walking with her nose high up in the sky. i saw her and giggle. the ebonyi girl scoff her nose and said i want her. then i was like this one wey dey pack nose anyhow? she replied, na she e dey hungry pass.

I laugh some people that say women don't have high s*x drive. On the lowkey most of these babes have many options servicing them to stupor. And then pretend. If you see any babe that is withholding sex or romance just know she has someone or a backup option doing it. Some even have spirit husbands.

The truth is that most men are s*x starved. A well s*xed man will exhibit almost the same s*xual control as a woman. Imagine s*xing 4 to 6 women a day. That's like the average some of these damsel can pull effortlessly in a day cause they just need to be women to do it. But for many men to pull this number you have to be the exceptional one and have the means.

Have you guys noticed virgins are more open to sex & want to engage in it or romance than non-virgin. E.g. like you want to touch a girl and she starts pulling away and all that...just know it's a big non-virgin, probably bore-hole. They're very good and have control over their drive--- the borehole. Borehole can deny you entry for several years while feigning virginity while another dude doing the lord's work. Likewise when you compare younger ladies to older ones. Older experienced ladies in the room affairs can feign sexual control more than the younger ladies. On the other hand, virgin will be open to it. Then you'd be the one to find out when you open the place and she tells you she ain't ready during romance. What does that tells us?

Let's do the facts:

If men have higher s*X drive why isn't Love Machine & s*X toy market isn't mainstream for men when compared to women. Infact female s*X toy market is a thriving industry. Some women even put it in their bags like accessories. While for men something like finding relief via an artificial V will be very awkward & might seem more of a psychological issue. Imagine a guy having artificial V's in his cupboard. Seems awkward right?

Then we come to our big aunties molesting us as Teenagers. The so called women have lower drive.

Men, I would say are more visually simulated & are more sexually agile.---Because we need that TLevel for virtually everything. Creativity, War, Endurance, Confrontation, Sex, Protection, Procreation, Creation etc. Men are able to channel their primal and sexual energies towards inventions. You loose that drive-you don't feel yourself as a man. Thus, it seems though we have a higher drive because of our ways of expressing it.

Why is it that industries like Onlyfans, SM, Po*rn target men?

On the other hand the Love Machine/Sextoy servicing market target women. Why is it so?

Then we have cases of men being ran on like a marathon in girls hostel each taking turns till they meet a fatal end. That cannot be said for the male hostels. Infact women are likely to be protected in the gathering of men. So why is it so? So called women have lower drive.

In addition, have you ever eavesdropped on women's groups or chats- how vulgar and raw their conversations are? The so called lower s*X drive. Ahaaa!

This girl is a very good girl from a good family but her something is wide like a borehole. Mind you she ain't a LovePeddler. She has used maybe very big bottle to widen that place cause even cucumber can't do such level of irreversible damage. This is a humble-shy girl from a religious home. End product of constant masturbation.

An average woman can be as sexual as a man. I don't know how they're able to control it such that they can use it as bargaining power or withhold it even during the heat of the moment. Unlike men that find it difficult to control.

I just believe a player is a man with all the machevilian traits of a woman.

Women are as highly sexually aggressive as men if not more!. Like we have men with lower drive so also we have women as well.

Ignore typos, abeg. NL dey rewrite the English.

dontrulee:
Who told you that?
The advantages are numerous and I'm a prime benefactor from applying red pill strategies.
1. It saves me money, a whole lot
2. Girls are willing to cook for me or bring food for me (that puts food on my table)
3. You've a leverage with influential ladies, which In turn opens connection to other opportunities
4. If you decide to marry, you won't make a bad or wrong choice.

Many advantages bro. Even if you're the type that patronize baddies on the web. Men paying 100K Naira above for a round, you pay just 10K.

90%✓ discount you could channel into other things like CHARITY. The fact 100K is like 1 Naira to you doesn't mean you should give them. It creates a ripple effect that distort the natural order of things. Breeding entitled women. Spoiling the dating scene for other guys. And also women who see their body as means to an end.

SpencerForbes:
This folks will be using you to pastime. Funniest part is that I was dating a narcissist. She never apologizes and excretera.
No matter how redpilled you are never date a narcissist. Those folks will love bomb you, then trauma bond you. Make you feel they’re the next best thing after egusi. Men I’m still hurt till date. Don’t know if I should tell her she’s narcissistic or I should leave her to the next simp. I can’t explain, I’m still traumatized.

Eyyah. Take heart. You know what to do.

Na so I nearly wan fall in luv oo with one damsel with big backside, perky front, agile, over feminine and full of radiance; I quicky discipline myself, cause mehn luv is weakness. This girl, the first month jst luv bombed me from no where!, I said haaa! Them still get feminine ladies like this. Someone at first that was being mean during the approach-collecting number stage, maybe her usual approach to intimidate guys, suddenly became so feminine after number collection, calls and visitations to my place, na wetin shock me as par bossy babe she being show at first come dey behave so feminine.

Then she now wants to use withdrawal method after luv bombing me! Ahaaaaa that's not gonna work. She wants me to put in more work and later see finish fit enter. Before he happen, I quickly reinforced oo by creating a scene purposely & riling up her emotions....then japa; up to other options to do the needful.

No be me you go use catch cruise. I just pity the way she go so deal with some simps. Cause as usual many guys will be on her matter.

Philosopher1979:
Na wa. So love in Nigeria is rubbish. Some guys here in Nigeria even place their girlfriend on Salary. Anyway when I date Nigerian girls I don't go on expensive dates at least. So even if I'm rejected u don't feel nothing.
Some guys even woo eomen eith money. I mean you

What are the factors you think that this has become a culture:

I think one of the major factors is many men might be s*x starved in Nigeria. Because it will be very hard for a well s*xed guy to be dishing out cash like that.

They blame the Nigerian women but the men too are the enablers. I think it also has to do with how we as a ppl in Nigeria view s*X as. For example, if you look at the Nigerian culture, you will see like s*X act is very revered. Due to many factors like i.e.

1. Religion.

So we make it to be a thing and women have observed. We've put so much value into it. That's what happen when something becomes a rarity. It increases in value. Therefore, the money thing, men over here have to go extra to get it outside marriage because the ladies will always use the religion card to at first demonize it.

So most guys have to use extra incentives to get it or to convince the ladies to get laid by going extra. Being it some form of provisioning, favor or constant showering of cash.

The funny thing, it doesn't end in the dating or situationships stage it now goes further into marriage. You see grown up men doing their wives bid in order to have access to get laid.

But if you look critically at those societies or country that don't really place value on s*x. It's like food not demonized. You'd notice the psychology of the females are different. S*x is by no means a primary leverage for the ladies to weaponize to their own interest. It's seen as a norm.

Put simply, Nigerian men are s*x starved except maybe for those in tertiary institutions, NYSC, office spaces in closely knitted environments able to explore themselves s*xually. That in some cases, are able to get laid not based on monetary favors but rather mutual interest and a shared cause.

I think another enabler of this is the ECONOMY but again you will argue with me that there are other economies also doing as bad as Nigeria and their women aren't like this.

We know that there are exceptions to these facts. But when you see it's gotten to social media and some of your married friends. You know things have gotten worse.

Or is the population? 10 guys to 1 girl in Nigeria.

So coming back to our point. What is really the cause of this?

I leave this here to the house.

Has all these foreign redpillers experienced Nigerian women. People like Ubunja. E go so shout. Just like Fela waking up in 2024, 100 albums go just drop in one day.

SpencerForbes:
Just broke up with my babe cos of this. Checked her chats and saw some shit. Babe is now telling me she can’t leave people she knows cos of me. She started acting strange immediately she came back from her sugar daddy’s place. I jejely leave the relationship for her.

Actually I'm not a proponent of checking these folks chats like digging up for their sneaky links or multiple partners...I meant just an experiment to determine how many guyz her chatting her up.

Nice one. Very hard bro to see a Nigerian girl that doesn't have several options especially if she set small come get big yannsh. There's how your babe yannsh go be you self will know many 9ja simp no go leave am. I tell you they do have options,. That's why they act like the men in the relationship. When you ghost they may not be bothered. Even if she's resisting, it's just imminent. That's why as a guy just develop ursef to a level you too have as many options as possible. Imagine nonsense, how can a girl have so much options. So you too, have options as well. She moves mad you move madder as well. Too alphas...turn her to situationship, she turns out as other options of several options.

luminouz:
What is OS? It is everywhere

Olosho?

. Bro. 'Oscroch or Olosho'. OS is now a pop culture.

This 'OS' thing has exploded on X. A society in decline.

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There's widespread orientation going on at X about Nigerian relationships amongst youths, tagged "OS"...

I'm still of the opinion that the population of females to males in Nigeria is still a factor for this. To every Nigeria woman, there are 20 to 30 simps on are matter. So they become masculine and act like men since they have many options. So as a guy guard your heart very well don't go and give it all to someone that will play you cause they have options.

Run small experiment, check that your side chick phone or chats or your gf or hookup or any average girls phone in Nigeria, you will be surprised.

These men are offering our women monies and favours that are in serious relationships and marriages in exchange of instant or for a s*x in the future.

Whether the average Nigerian dude is s*x starved in marriages or relationships is another factor to look into.

But the truth is that the hookup culture is exploding at very high rate especially with the advent of social media it creates this illusion of options for our women.

lymelyte:
this is a fact bro. Once you go foreign,to date 9ja girls go be big problem.

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See begging. Once the guy flirted, the only thing she could think of is billing. It is now almost criminal for you to invite them over without you shilling some coins directly or indirectly. Their format, if they observe you're just an average guy in the money echelon (middle class to lower), you don't want to shill some coins, they act uninterested in coming over, always postponing, finding excuses to come over, guilt you in the process, throw religious cards & more..they'd be very ok though for you to both go on eatery dates.

Also note: if you do happen to shill some coins here and there it doesn't still means those lots will still come over. For a fact, they're likely not to come over. They aren't conscientious & would most likely take you for a fool. So if you want to go the shilling route better also apply some cunning cause even when you shill doesn't still means they would respect the contract.

If you have control over your libido and you are looking for an ideal partner just respect yourself and move to the next girl that may not take a romantic relationship as a transaction. Lucky if you find one in this clime.

If you aren't in a close proximity, like very close neighbors, office spaces, institutions, next door girl; to pull a 'Balthapades' on those lots will be difficult and time wasting task if you are an average guy chatting them off via social media without having to shill some coins here and there cause they'd scarcely oblige to come over.

The best time for you to pull a 'Balthapades' on these lots is in the Universities or Tertiary institutions, I tell you with just a small one room apartment you can go as far as banging a 1000 of them in a session with out shilling a coin, just have your physiques, be bold & daring, dress neat, have a bed and nice space, a couple of food as well. Why so easy? cause you all are in close PROXIMITY. Funny enough during my time in the institution, I was too busy with survival & engineering work load!

Truth is coming out. I wonder what foreign Redpillers would write when they give them a dose of 9ja babes...them go so shout tire.

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joseph1832:
was there ever any glory? Gaddafi was only able to tame their wild excesses, but since the West and their loved of shit stain asshole house boy, Obama, had him killed, they have now started to reveal their true nature.

Very miserable asswipes

Now we can see the big picture. These kind of people need a strong leader like Ghadaffi to tame their excesses.

People were calling him a tyrant and that he violated some human rights. We can all see now these kind of people need strict leadership. Sometimes it is not ok to interfere with other countries affair.

Yes, he had his bad sides, perhaps, for the greater good of his people. Now Libya is left in ruins. All thanks to the blood thirsty democrats.

Is it true the team behind the new Jaguar Ad and Rebrand were females?

Happening in real time. Thank God for X, has Elon Musk had acquired it. X is now a pro masculine platform. When I was using Twitter before, so many Redpill nuggets were highly suppressed under Jack. All RedPill accounts were targets and banned. Any account promoting male upliftment were also banned.

Feminist had so much power. See how they were banning accounts left, right and center. All these Wizrab, Agba, Shola and co mehn cannot survive during those days..Andrew Tate & co ran away..Donald Trump etc.