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Whobeatme:
Shut up.

Nairaland has given you a space to be what you're not online?
I'm not blackpilled, and don't hate women.
I'm always prepared for their shortcomings, and will always do.

She has MONEEEEEY, so what's your excuse? She's with me for money? Hell nah.
Enjoy your fantasies online, while I enjoy mine online..
IN REALITY.
KING KONG ON NAIRALAND, WINNIE THE RAT in reality.

How old are you bros? Must you insult to convey ur point. If I can remember I didn't even quote you. In fact I think I kind of agreed with your post when I read it. As there are always two truths in every situation. You didn't even give the details that it was ur gf and wasn't a gold digger. I just quoted the guy that emphasised that, in every situation there could be another possibility which I also agreed with and added points. How are we suppose to know the full details when you just uploaded a caption of a supposed girl praising her man(you) without giving the full picture of things. Definitely, there's room for other assumptions and submissions.

Lastly why are some Nigerians always quick to use money or other material things to feel confident about themselves and put other parties down. Could it be the economic situation of things or the primitive accumulation of wealth that has been engrained in the society. Always quick to use money as banter which only emphasises the point that there isn't any intrinsic value they uphold other than boasting with stash of fiat or material things.

Mind you, this is a faceless forum before you're quick to divert the topic of discussion and judge my pocket at least I can't remember when I begged anyone for money in this platform. I may not be rich but I'm perfectly doing ok for myself.

Peace out.

luminouz:
E pain dem die

I swear

Look how guyz are attacking this @saasala.

https://www.nairaland.com/7945632/no-man-wants-marry-me

Some funny myth that guyz need to get over with even in this thread:

1. That virgin girls are automatically good girls(character wise) and won't cheat.

2. That those girls with olosho vibes, presumably lose are sluts, bad(character wise).

Some of the most acclaimed olosho vibes are one of the most empathetic and kind hearted ppl I've met and the so called virgins or the ones that carry the decency vibe on their head or won't allow you to hit; presumably the ones that are easy to say I don't visit guys but are ok with collecting favors are one of the most wicked humans out there. (Not generalising though).

Again it's not entirely so for all cases. But you guys should know, the good thing in life, is the ability for two truths to exist.

Now the question is, what is your definition of a Good Girl?

Is the presumably lose Girl a bad human?

Is the acclaimed virgin & girls that withhold s*X a good Girl?

What is the general definition of good human?

Remember that story that luminouz wrote in this thread how a girl named Oge, accommodated him during is time of need and served him good coochie even at the detriment of being caught by her parents.

Also look at the story above of the lady that withheld (https://www.nairaland.com/7945973/he-kept-running-errands-even) s*X from a guy that did almost everything for her to travel to Canada but she ridiculed the services rendered by writing an epistle online how she exploited and uses him. This person I can tell you generally isn't a good person..

There's a girl that said generally guy's are like that if as ladies we don't act in a certain way they automatically think and assume we're olosho or loose(virtue signalling) of easy virtue and isn't worth for something serious. So they act in a certain way.

And I see it in this thread, because you knac-ked a girl easily, she comes to ur home at will and does ur bidding you automatically assume na olosho, she's bad, not worthy of commitment, other guys are already knack-ing, boast to ur friends, treat her in certain way and end up wifing the one that withheld s*X, bills shit out of your life(in a coded and subtle way), doesn't do ur bidding but you do her bidding..begs the question what do human's want or rather what do men want?

"PRETENSE".

One time I was telling my sis, if you know you won't have anything to do with a guy romantically, or go to his house or oblige to s*X, or marry him ensure you never collect any thing from him or accept gestures or favor except when you ask him and he tells you he rendered it altruistically without wanting you. That ones you accept you automatically consent to a contract. When I have a daughter, I'd tell her the same also. Integrity is a must.

luminouz:
The redpill issue? Lmaooo...dem dey talk taya.

Yep. Referring to this thread; How NL have a section for misogynist.

If not for the religious and tribal slurs there're many threads/sections in plain site or hidden/secret that are gold:

i.e Solar DIY thread, Business Section, Travel Section, Redpill Section, Nigeria Federal Jobs Section and many more.

Short of words!

Dizzyyish:
Forget the social media hype. This one is just to stroke the guy's ego and turn his head (while flexing on other females). Women are not romantic, once they start doing "romance" be cautious because it's just to manipulate and make you lose guard.
It's also a common format to hype their man on social media after cheating to make themselves 'feel' less guilty. Her friends too will be commenting "Relationship goals!", "God when??"

Guy A that provides for her is the one she'll be giving this 'verbal love', but Guy B that she'll publicly & prudely shame will appeal to her emotions and tell her to come over, and she'll go to his house to give him the fullest extent of what she has to offer.

Normally it's either one or combination of some of the things you mentioned and not limited to:

1. Billings
2. If the guy is good in the sheets.

Most times submissions like that aren't genuine. Let the guy stop the billings or catch her red handed cheating those sweet epistles would instantaneously turn to hate notes, the normal "what have you done for me".

And there should be a theoretical relation between the level of manipulation of a girl with respect to something like this. If your girl dey write like this my brother, there's 99.99% na odogwu she be, she don tey for the game mostly translates to over experience or inexperience. Judging from her age, I'd infer, an experienced lady. And as a man, if you're moved with such words or they make you to throw more naira stash, you still dey learn.

Remember that Mohbad case, when the guy died and the first thing I saw the girl's post on social media-going through the post I just shook my head. If your close person die---i tell you, you won't have the balls to even come to social media in the first place. The first stage is denial..the denial stage, would take a while before the person come socials..many men just dey do relationship(marriages) with themselves but dem no no or dem even know but can't help themeslves or don't have the balls to call it quits as they're already invested.

luminouz:
E dey pain them die!!!!😉😉😉

The matter sef reach that oversabi platform, Twitter.

Message to the female folks and feminist wannabe's.

"I do my best to keep my body sound & energetic by working out, I keep my personal finances upright, I try as much to keep my soul in check by spirituality & keep a clean and natural look by eating local grown products, taking water and avoiding junks, I have comfy bed and working space even though I don't own a home yet, I pay my bills, I pay my task and I'm law abiding, I try to stay away from trouble as much as possible and I'm a strong proponent of upholding integrity in whatever thing life throws at you as a means to an end; The least you could come up with is a clean puxxy. Alas no!, an unkept puxxy coupled with all the character flaws and billings. Yet, so much entitlement. All we ask is the barest minimum. We aren't asking for much.
1. Clean puxxy
2. Appear natural-no microplastics, beauty enhancement and all the artificial add-ons are a total turn-off.
3. Be kind & empathetic
4. Behave like a woman(masculine females are a turn-off).
5. Know how to cook and keep the house cause I don't eat and buy junks. I cook what I eat from scratch.
6. If we're in serious relationship, heck! will you just stop all the fwb's.
It's time to set the standard in 2024.
Additional snippet: Can't go through all these tough phase of personal dev and deep my precious rod without strapping up...hell na!"

UtilityRational:
Hello Guys.
my first post here. a girl i will be marrying in the next 20 days. i have been keeping all the Redpill by from the days of dating . but i just saw hydens/iamhim saying dont argue with a girl. i have argue with her before and we settle later and continue to move on. she did something that i want to tell her my mind about it now but i dont want to talk/argue with her again as suggested. how can i go about it. what is the best way to tell her you dont like what she did and punish her if possible. note that. every thing is set for the marriage and there is no going back on that. i just need a way to tame her concerning above issues that i raise going forward as a wife also.

This one is a simple thing why making a fuss out it. Call or invite her over. And tell her moving forward you don't welcome & entertain what she did. Normally, if she's remorseful she will apologize in a kind tone. If she tries to start arguing, gaslighting and saying many things to appear as the victim, do not reply her. Just keep mute and let her rant. When she's done ranting don't say anything. Punish her by withdrawing attention. If she truly cares she will call or try to meet to apologize. Different girls have different ways of apologizing might not necessarily be via call could be a booty call or trying to act friendly or get your attention. If she didn't call or try to act remorseful or use any other mode of apologizing..by now you should know you are marrying someone else's wife. If she didn't rant and argue in the first instance but listened to you and was truly remorseful continue like before and don't keep any grudge.

Note: whatever she exhibits at this stage is still what she will exhibit after marriage. Probably even worse. Choose your poison. All the best!

jsp0:
I'm glad i did even kissing her she avoid it or reluctantly kiss me, i even said do i have mouth odour, I'm even in the position i can agree I'm not attracted to her

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I know how u feel right now. But trust me, she ain't worth it. If you're the type that do one girl at a time don't worry, the universe will bring u a better one. Just focus on other things.

Women aren't to be taken seriously. Just have them in numbers and vet then commit to one if she's worth the stress. And when you commit, always never give them that deepest part of your heart in fact no human is worth that part except you will be in for a big shocker that portion is for God only. Only God or whatever deity you hold in high regards, should you commit that section of your life and heart to. You give it to a human (woman) they'd throw it and smash it right in front of your face that's if you happen to be alive. With this mindset no behaviour or disappointment from a woman or any human will make you reactional or disappointed.

Also whenever you're giving something to a human or woman do not expect something in return. Mustn't necessarily has to be money. Could be your time, attention etc that way you won't be disappointed. Also when giving something to a woman also do not expect s*X in return & have it at the back of ur mind she could go use ur money to f*xk someone else or even give someone else that's f*ckin her. So ones you have all of these mindset most of ur acts will be altruistic. And whenever they disappoint, u aren't perturbed cause you didn't place any expectations in the first place.

jsp0:
please brethren I'm i right

im dating this ugly bitch for 1 year now
She make excuses over excuses of not visiting, last night we agreed today,which she failed


i just called her now not to call me again and she responded HA!,i just hang the call

I'm not pained cos I haven't invest that much on her 2k 1k here and there

we are in a sexual relationship for cry out loud

I could have advice you how to smash this one and put her as side chick but make I know teach u bad thing. You acted emotional sha by getting angry at her on the call. But whatever, many girls out there. Move to the next girl. Ensure you have like 4 side chicks and keep one as the possible main. Would help you not to be reactional in such situations.

All the best.

Nice post up there, the guy with the bolded ink. Let's share some redpill romance muvis.

ill go first:

1. Last American Virgin(Comedy-dark humor)

2. Gone Girls ( how that simp died when she reconnected with him to manipulate him to do her bidding..he could have escaped death by simply saying "No".

3. Spread( typical playboy flipping the script)

4. Tyler Perry Temptation( supposedly church girl gone bad)

5. Unfaithful (Good housewife turned bad)

6. Original Sin- Antonio Banderas vs Angelina Jolie( alpha imprinting etc)

Any recommendations Spanish Redpill-Romanace muvi? Quite long have seen a Spanish muvi.

luminouz:
K

Magnoliaa

Congratulations Lumi. You guys should settle this matter in bed - like a one-off something. Revers C-girl

To get a virgin no b bad thing but folks that still capitalize on it might just face a big shock! Just look at the Israel DMW saga. And also folks that judge a girl with her religious attributes might just be in for a big shocker!

Using virgininity or religiousness as a yardstick might just show how inexperienced you're in the game. She isn't a virgin but her eyes, breasts, mouth, clit and rear aren't. Like wtf!

The game is rigged. The game is the game!.

Which is for keeps- a KIND woman, a woman that prioritizes you, feels shy to bill you heavily or can't even bill you, doesn't have problems visiting, doing choirs, when you talk about wedding she's not looking for an elaborate one(synonymous to billings)--that way u know a girl that wants you & the marriage institution not just d wedding occasion and showing off to her friends how her wedding was badder than her peers.

If she has also invested in you- that's another good sign and a plus. When you get a woman that's not easily influenced by illusory things, you should keep am well. Na dogs just full street now.

As for body count or repentant hoezz-demonstrating all of the positive signs listed; you may scarcely know but when you're patient enough & observe the signs are always there. As their real character is revealed especially when you didn't come off as wanting something serious from the onset.

She doesn't have all those traits---kindly shove em to the side chick department.

Karlifate:
The defenders of the religious gods will soon storm your mentions. 😂

me sef believe in God. And do religion. But I don't throw away logic. I believe there's a huge disparity between being Godly & Religious. The fact say u no practice my religion no mean say u go enter fire or face condemnation. Or because u no b my tribe, that makes u a lesser human. I believe there's a reason that God made so much variety in the world, imagine everyone in the world have same thought process, same religion, same tribe, same everything...would definitely be a boring place. Why can't we just embrace humanity & find a common ground. You do your own, I do my own but alas no!

All roads leads to the same God.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
bro which book is this?

from the web. Copy paste part of the text into Google, should take you to the link.

Is the Redpill all centered on women?

Redpiller! Redpiller!, when it comes to religion you suddenly throw away logic & embrace emotions. Everybody will go to hell except ur religion.

When it comes to politics or your tribe you throw away logic & act emotional.

Tribalism
News
Sports
Entertainment & much more. Some of these things ppl go to the extent to kill to make a point(emotional) than using logic!

The world is truly bluepilled, you need to go to the religion section of NL and see folks out there in their full emotional state.

UppaZakum:
I agree. A man has not become a man yet when his mother still makes decisions for him. Moms are generally risk averse. When I finished school, I went against several of my mom's wishes and advice which came from a place of fear and being too over protective. I took risks. I made my own decisions and own up to the consequences which a vast majority of those were positive. The only negative one if I recall was my investment losses. She sounded several warnings while investing in agritech crowdfunding. I was convinced I had done thorough due diligence analysis. Omo I lost all of it. It was the one time my mom was right.

Even that one time she wasn't right. Good one there. I'm so glad you followed your inner voice. No one knows better where you should be than your inner voice. I bet you many ppl don't have the balls to oppose their parents. They're just living their parents lives.

There's no any investment that's a waste. We learn from all investments whether they fail or succeed. That's the mindset of a winner. If not anything you've learnt grit!. When you invest & profit you win; when you fail, you learn. A win-win.

Personally, I don't believe in saving. I take finances like a counter attacking football, less of defense. Than to save, I rather put the money into liquid assets that can be liquidated at will & spend the rest. All those saving BS is bullshit..funny enough the red pill also delves into finance. Show me a man that has billionaire-d his way by saving(fear).

I've virtually opposed all my parents decisions & I'm so much happy; from choice of course, to pressuring me to apply for 9-5, marriage etc. Themselves know, coconut head!

Zabiboy:

I've got a long epistle on this, but would try to keep it short.
Saying a poor man is "humble" is delusional right? Because you dont really someone until they can afford their temptations..
Same thing for me in this saudi case.
The whole conditioning and society values works yes, but only in their country. Meaning you're most likely living in constant delusion about the person you got married to. If for whatever reason you have to leave that society, are you confident the person's values and behaviours wont change?
Of course, people do change, but for me, i'll feel more confident in someone who knows both sides of the coins and decided to stick to one side ( the good side) than someone who only knows one side or rather someone who is sticking to one side purely because of society.
my opinion

djon78(m):

Yeah I understand your point

But take for our clime
They are all exposed to both sides of the coin
But huge majority can't make better choices and end up messed up

That's where these societies like the Arabs come into play

From another angle
You get the Best from a woman more under conservative lifestyle than liberal one


There was this debate that came online about hijab girls doing bad now, especially from the North.
But plenty men in the end still agreed that hijab women being under conservativism are less exposed to being slutty compared to the liberal ones

Some guys that have been intimate with these hijab ladies confessed that the level of sexual aura they exhibit, they have never experienced it anywhere else

Invariably that's why I always argued that women are not meant to be Left to there whims and Caprice

They should be under guide
Even religious books affirm to this by insisting submission to there make authority

I have never really been keen about this. But looking at the harm female liberation is causing in our society made me speak the way I do now.


Although my argument doesn't support female subjugation and maltreatment
Rather women to play there rightful, respected role in the society.

ALTHOUGH THE THREAD IS NOT A RELIGIOUS ONE BUT I BELIEVE THE REDPILL TOUCHES ALL ASPECT OF HUMANITY NOT JUST GAME BUT PSYCHOLOGY ETC.I TRY MY BEST TO STAY AWAY FROM ANY RELIGIOUS POST CAUSE WHEN RELIGION COMES UP, PPL THROW AWAY LOGIC AND DEAL WITH EMOTIONS.

Not that I'm trying to promote any religion. But if one delves very very deep into the red pill, evident from the likes of Tate, it takes you back to the laws of God written in books of different monotheistic religion (Islam, Judaism, Christianity-- etc). That is for those that believe in God. And in these books contains laws also for the female folks. How a female should dress, act, behave etc likewise other aspects of life.

I believe some arabs=Islam=northerners r the ones that strictly try to enforce those rules in their books against the Western societal norms. You see stuff like Hisbah, Islamic police in far northern Nigeria that try to enforce these laws against alcoholism, promiscuity etc. But even at that, you find out these days the western influence is deep influencing those societies as well from movies, social media etc. In the form of women liberation, oppression, wokeness, feminism etc. Not that, the xtians too don't have these in the books but I believe little to no enforcement. The keyword is, do they practice the laws in the books devoid of Western influence.

One last thing, it is important to know these Arabs or the northerners or Hijab women aren't saints aswell. Some are only good in hiding it. Like if they want to degenerate they do it secretly away from every prying eyes that would scarcely know. And when they want to turn over a new leaf they do it privately aswell and outwardly they push the moral vibe. A guy could have fckd all the whole girls in the street & know one would know or a former alcoholic and no one knows because the environment and society frown at boasting or showcasing it. You dare not dress in a slutty way up north and they come for your head. For those that have served in the core north like Kano you'd observe you might hardly see a guy like directly talking to a girl touching or holding in the streets but somehow they connect at his home or at night away from all eyes.

And if u ask me I'd say it's better for a society to be like that. Degeneracy shouldn't be something to be celebrated openly. For those that believe in history and God what do you think made the people of Sodom and Gomorrah to be phased with such cataclysm? These ppl were openly doing it like in the streets, I watched a documentary, and those ppl have all those sxual inscriptions on their plates, cups, door entrance & much more..like when you compare then and now the one word that separates us is SHAME.

Below is a quote from one of the monotheistic books(Quran).

That guy up above that said one should use sxual or vulgar words to show u r a hookup material..the guy try in the submission but if use it too much or too often u come out as inexperienced.

For me, I prefer to stay far away from all those sxual words. When u come over we can practicalize. Better for one to leave no prints behind, ha ha ha! Her simp bf or jealous nigger could go through the chats and Ur life could be in danger. Let alone she could screenshot if matter cast.

Guys up Ur sex game very well & finance. U see all these virgin stuff, olosho etc that they said u should to vet woman these days inside 1000 u would hardly see 1 that is sxually clean. I tell u they're gud at hiding it.

If you're looking to vet for serious relationship look instead for these:

1. Kindness( is she kind to u & other ppl)
2. If you say make she come ur place even in d middle of the night does she objects or she go come.
3. Is the relationship balanced
4. Do u need to do something for her before she come
5. Are u spending & she no wan come
6. She Sabi cook, wash ur clothes, iron etc?
7. If she comes Ur place does she switch off her phone
8. If u call her do get ' this user is already on another call' try again
9. Does she uses business WhatsApp
10. Does she turns off last seen
11. Is she always online on all social media posting her pixs
12. Does she sometimes snap her pix and send it to u
13. Does she removed deliver tick on WhatsApp
14. Hides being online on WhatsApp
15. Uses gbwhatsapp
16. Have premium truecaller

And much more..number one thing you should look for is KINDNESS, KINDNESS, KINDNESS does she goes out of her way to make sure she satisfy u...I don't mean money oooo!

If u see kind woman grab am tight...them no pass 5 for this world again(hyperbole)..hole am wella! Many leeches around.

And d fact say she no dey bill u no mean say she no dey collect money for outside don't let that to deceive u.

No go throwaway kind girl cause she no b virgin..at the same time if u spot olosho vibe run run run! Although many r just into situationships that can b synonymous to hookup like friends or acquaintances with benefit especially in this economic meltdown but I believe if u see a gud woman u go know the signs r always there and number one is KINDNESS.

And when I say KINDNESS I no mean from all those 30+....I mean those ones in their prime with that KINDNESS vibe.

Let me give an example, there was one time Buhari wife lock one young university guy in DSS that was writing his exams because of some comments he made about the economic situation and how they're becoming fat from the govt treasury so this girl that was my friend in the comment section said "Good for him, next time he wouldn't dare such" when others were praying for his release, immediately I know say this one no be kind girl plus she has be giving other vibes like that as well. All these little and subtle things are what make bigger things look out for them!

My oga dem luminouz I greet u, ubunja i greet u..that guy wey make that better comment for up..no no no, I mean the other one, I greet u oo!, All other brosses I greet Una.

Wish everyone productive December. So many typos guys!

twitter..com/drpenking/status/1718188064495857885?t=VoYYssg4bJ5UF9E3oJ5ZIw&s=19

Kindly remove the one dot and paste onto ur browser. Look how this man ended it!

Drink the red pill like water. Drink ko! Stay safe!

luminouz:
I finished late at the interview and Oge sneaked me back into her parents house when they were at work. I was in her room for three days , eating good food and fuqin good pussy. I was notified after 3 months that I passed the interview (a scholarship) and my greatest regret was losing my phone with Oge's number and not repaying that prophetess for her kindness when I went back to Abuja. That is just one of many help I've had from people/women and other tribes/races, which is why racism/tribalism is dead to me.

Well said. Find Oge; the only reward to kindness is more kindness. In my entire life, I've only been gifted the highest amount by a lady.

Infact your male counterparts may see you as more of a competition than a friend. Not all. Cause some have the heart of gold. But many would see you as a competition especially when you tend to be achieving things more than them.

That said, I have a theory the same cheerful givers and easy going girls that y'all condemn to be loose in this thread: Most times, from my experience and observations are one of the most kind hearted. Likewise, chubby girls....But, you see those ones that will make you work ur ass 4d cooooochie r, one of the most wicked! hiding their wickedness as guise of chastity.

See how Oge take care of my nigga! Altruistically and bedmatically.

Pukkalolo:
Women have the same body parts. It's totally foolishness to be obsess over one particular woman because of her appearance.

My brother, Sir; I'd disagree with you on this one. In terms of the other room affairs it ain't the same oo! Especially if you've been with different women.

Some have shallow cooochies, some deep cooochies, there's a way some their cooochies will grab ur stuff ehh, some cooochies are just lame drab, others too wide.

Then come to boobs & booty...though, can't count the amount of doggiii experience but with the few encounters; a soft well curved joggling moderately big buttt with a long natural hair u can hold from the rear will send you outta this world that scintillating mind throbbing experience can't be compared with a tiny flat buttt variant.

In summary God is great and to be praised for the various varieties.

By statistics 20 random women in a selection from various ethnicities in terms of the other room can never be the same.. put simply, the experiences can never be the same.

On being obsessed with a particular woman cause of a particular feature of her body parts; at least a Red Piller that has consumed the whole of this thread should be in a better position to know, out there; are millions of other women with even more better specs. The ABUNDANCE MENTALITY.

But we can never down play the aspects of varieties. Women bodily features can never be the same.

All praise to God the ultimate designer!

Big lesson in here.

Is knacking raw a SIMP move?

U completely trust ur girl with ur life!

Na man wey no like himself go dey knack dx hoez without CD. Like bro u no dey fear ur life-

"I trust ma babe with ma life, she's clean". Ok.

sti, pregnancies, abortions--strap up.

This

luminouz:
I think something is wrong with you bro

We are talking of you behaving like a human being and you changed it to money or class jabs??

Why is it that when we try to advice men like you, we all suddenly become broke,classless redpillers with no game? You talk as if we envy you or something.

I don dey taya to advice men biko...abi which kain nonsense this one dey talk bayi?

Ok, go on please....fuq her and use it to pepper your ex, agba redpiller 😊

Na yim make I no reply the guy. I no get energy to xchange banters. How low would someone assume everyone on NL is broke & struggling on a faceless forum.

And infact some trenches girl r even clean down there than some of the so called high class ladies..I no get energy to argue.

See hw guyz dey mumu demselves

To whom it may consign...try to read the thread on Twitter..u will better understand how females think..u see hw ladies think. Don't try to do nice gestures at the early stage except if she asked for it.

Many lessons from the thread. Ur nice gestures might be mistaken as a proxy to the pussy & activate her defence mode!

heartofcity12:
Of course, a guy that knows what he’s doing knows not to spend heavily on dates, dates must be as cheap as possible, any girl looking for expensive date from you doesn’t have genuine desire in you and only looking for free food, they do this with multiple men just to feed their bellies and ghost every one of them afterwards or keep using these men monetarily.. they go on multiple dates with some, expensive dates are avenues for exploitations, validations and free food, nothing more.. I’m sure most redpillers on here should know all this by now.. Nice input G 👍

I like what u guyz are doing on here..welldone!

U see...I done too simp for this life...like in general I'm the normal mr.nice guy to everyone not just women but everyone..

.But you see one thing I have never done from my primary to university level up till I graduated: u see that 'Mr. Assignment Writer' or to dey do project or course work for babe I've never been that.

Although I'm still nice sha, but with sense! @30 experiences don teach me sense.

heartofcity12:
She stated her own standards without caring about whose ox is gored, fine.. but what baffles me is when a man states his own standards about women, he’s labeled a hardcore misogynist. 🤦‍♂️

The thing is that even if one is a billionaire. One shouldn't spend more than 2-5k on a date. The problem is not spending on women but the aura.

Infact the ideal date sef should be something that would enable contact...like visit a zoo, climb a horse together, boating etc something that would bring u close.

If u be idan sef the ideal date should be a movie date in ur room.

If u spend heavily on a date women tend to run like bolt away from the idea of s*x but there r exceptions... experienced girls. Those one don't care.

But the average girl takes ur overspending like u r trying to put her in a very difficult situation..like she doesn't know whether to agree to date(s*X) u or not.

But u spending much on her is like that's d only thing u have to offer and you want to impress her..and after that much spending her conscience will b like should I date the guy or not or bang him or not.

I'm talking from experience...even u r a millionaire keep that money in ur wallet just buy small drinks & biscuits...move the convo to ur room...if she agrees you give her the good banging or romance(cause some wouldn't let u hit d 1st time)...then afterwards u can flash ur money all u want. In a situation she says she ain't following u home and after the date she starts misbehaving at least r conscience won't judge her that she spent ur money & u also wouldn't feel played cause u also drank something from the 2k date. At least common sense would tell u she weren't gamed enough or doesn't find u attractive or she's still figuring out were to put u(friend, one-off bang, husbie material, personal adviser, prayer helper, assignment writer, jobber man etc). At least u didn't create that pressure from overspending. U let her decide from her actions.

I'm of the opinion even if u r a billionaire a first date if it must be outside should be very small in spending.

okrikaboi:
Una no dey hear word for this nairaland, I only come here to vent and troll once in a while don't take the internet seriously especially a faceless forum. I was just venting but I'm really going to fk her sister silly! Sweet fair girl with shape and soft yellow yansh. She's a baddie and even more rugged and wosky than my ex. Very well travelled and a realist like me. Na losseguard if I no drop her lifeless body on her puccy juice just like I did her sixteen!

I go support @luminouz for this one. My Oga I don't know how old you are. No pun intended! And that's the problem with this thread...the way a man of 30yrs+ will view women and his contributions in this thread would be different from the way a 20yr+ or 18 man will view women.

This your writing just show like say you still view women & s*x has something to conquer. As I dey diz ma early 30s so I swear e get where s*X go tire u....u go dey run...dey run. Ordinary small flash..s*X don show...u know even flash sef...na so phone go dey ring from one butty call to another..that all I need is to say oya 'I'm home you can come'....

Tell me when u get time say one Puna dey special or u pound with reckless abandon as revenge..all those mentality na for 20 boys. U wan chop girl by fire by force say she dey form hard or shakara all those na 20 yr old thinking...

E get stage wey u go reach ma brother na other things go b ur priorities.... I wonder what will be the primary priorities of 40, 50, 60 & 70 yr old men...dem Tinubu dem ..I don't think Puna will top d list...may God keep us alive and healthy to experience that phase also...

But seriously 18-29 yr old men thinking dey different from some 30+ old men...And I believe that would influence different views and contributions in this thread.

When I dey small and them old men dey tell me "son face ur craft diligently women will eventually come.....na now I understand.

luminouz:
You made nice points!!! I agree that there are still very good girls that are not virgins. What I don't like apart from the damage to the pussy is the damage to their psyche, a kind of sexual imprint that it would take years of your own programming her to overcome. Imagine 10 exes or 20... How will you now mould her to your taste?

Lol...that you used CD or don't fuq roughly doesn't mean you didn't imprint on her or her pussy no suffer damage na.

I agree on the abortions and the pills part. Spot on.

I agree. Definitely a girl that has been dug with 10+ exes damn..one can easily tell.

Not a long time commitment option in terms of innocence, playfulness and submission.

As an experienced guy I don't think you would have any issues spotting those kind of ladies. Those attributes are something you can see through however they try to conceal it.

I don't know of the South but over here in the North, still conservative ladies out there though there're exceptions especially the ones from dysfunctional families in Ideal case scenario a virgin or those ran by an ex or two. Don't be surprised if the former ex was once even a one minute man.