₦airaland Forum

1Sharon:
Mr 3 spoons of milk, we are waiting on a new story brah!

a lot has happened since then. maybe i will write about one soon.

keepingmum:
https://www.nairaland.com/3881070/friend-wants-chase-me-out


Op remember how you were angry with your neighbor who asked you to move out of his house after he accommodated you for months despite your jobless and self entitled state?
Yet you can't house X2 relatives for a month but your neighbor who isn't even remotely related to you fed/housed you for months on end and all you could do was to come online and bash him

insult me very well sir. it is not your fault.

baby124:
Na wa o. OP, I know it's very annoying and disappointing but do the best you can. Don't get frustrated and angry. Inform the police and start rationing the boys food. Where is the mother of the boys? Can you trace their grandparents in the village? All they need is shelter and food. I pray God blesses you. They must have been really hungry. If school is free around you, government school, enroll them so that they are not at home eating you dry. That their father has run away and won't be coming back any time soon. Do your best to how your conscience permits. Try to treat them well but keep your money and ATM cards safe.

both grandparents are dead. I am considering giving out the older one as house boy

eyinjuege:
Wonders shall never end..

Since you can't afford to take care of them, it's better you inform the police and any orphanage around your side.

Maybe they can temporarily look after the children till rjeir father arrives. Please what of their mother?

according to people i contacted they said in ph. I have even flogged these boys they refused to say where they live in port harcourt.

I am a hustling young nigerian and although i am comfortable, i cant afford to cater for another. One of my relation from the village visited me last 3 weeks here in calabar. I dont really know him well but i have met him just once in a meeting back in the village.

He came with his 2 boys of 7 and 11 years, begging me to take one and school him while he helps me with house duty. As i am a bachelor i declined and said i did not have money and also did not need a help. He begged that they cant even see food to eat and such things but i still refused. I dont even know how he got my address. I allowed them to sleep over since it was late and told him to go back the next day.

When the next day came (a saturday) he said let him go to the atm to get money to transport them back to the village. He left the boys and went out. Afternoon came and i started getting worried as he had not returned. He wasnt picking calls until 10pm when he called me and said i should not be angry that let the boys just do holiday in my house, that he will pick them the next day and then switched off his phone.

i havent been able to reach him since then. He just disappeared and abandoned his sons with me. Its more than 15 days now. I have called people, nobody knows his wearabouts. Nobody in the village agreed to collect the boys. They said he and the family moved to PH years ago. The boys are finishing my food and they are not telling me where they live. I even threatened to throw them out but they still refused to talk. I am just confused and angry. What do i do? this man has disorganized my life

15k for what? from a jss1 boy? when i was her age i have not seen 500 naira to my name. children of nowadays sef

oga please can i have the bank job when you travel?

lepasharon:

you see what am talking about. No respect

ifyalways:
Oga three spoons of milk

You Don rent house now now or squatting with another family? If you are squatting with someone jokingly bring up her insubordination and antics to the main house owner and watch their reaction. That should give you pointers on your next step. No go fight/invite trouble that would get you thrown out again.

However, if you rented your own house then go report her to her dad

of course its my personal house. i even have generator.

sisisioge:
OK o. If I were him, anything she does will no longer be acknowledged. Nothing go reach level wey I go wan woz am. As I don know say she be rudie...I go just gently mind my own. Besides, the girl fit dey crush on am sef

let me try ignoring her for now. i like to mind my business . thanks

Ishilove:
Ha, he should report her so that when sheet hits the roof her parents will know that water don pass gari. If he wozes her, people will ask him 'why didn't you report?'

I can't stand rude people and I will do what I have advised him if I were in his shoes.

i dont really relate with the parents. just normal everyday greeting. this is not the kind of things i want to talk with them on first discussion as the look like petty things.

Richy4:
The best way to deal with this situation is to hit the ignore button.....Stooping a little bit low to her level is not an option here.......she is into you....It's up to you to show some class or not to...Remember, dating a neighbor got a lot of disadvantage.

HenryDion:
A 22yrs old girl isn't a child. Deduced from your write up, I think the girl is just seeking an attention from you. If you like her, give her a hint.

Jiang:
The girl likes you, she wants you to notice her but too prideful to make a direct move

i never saw it like that o. what you guys said might be true but i dont want to involve myslef with anybody in that compound not to talk of a girl still living with her parents.

dayo2me:
deal with her thoroughly in accordance with the ehm.....

in accordance with what?

decatalyst:
Op, from the tone of your write up, I think you are single

You can't blame the poor girl for youthful exuberance or youthful inquisitiveness, it a way of trying to figure out who you are.

Besides, who knows if u are already giving the impression that you have a big banana and the little girl has been praying for the fulfilment of Davido's song in her life .

So, let banana fall on her!

please nothing like this.

I packed into a new compond last week. Everybody is okay or minding their business which i like about the place because i like to mind my business too. But there is this family that has a child that don't have single respect in her.

One instance is when i washed my cloth and spread on the wire. When she washed her own she pile my wet cloth on each other and spread her own. i didnt say anything.

second time is when i kept my rat gum in front of my house and went to get pipe to remove the rat. she was sweeping and swept sand all over the gum and useless it. when i protest she said it is a mistake and she is not going to apologize for an ordinary mistake. i almost flog her with the pipe.

This is a girl of 22 that claim to be a graduate but no sense at her age. I dont want to involve the parents but i want to find a way to deal with her and teach her respect for the elderly. how do i go about this?

Oyindidi:
Anyhow u want to do it.

okay

Halfpenny:
I have laughed finish! 1st taxi is shared as in the driver picks up more passengers as he goes along, like a bus and then people are grabbing eachother's groins to combat evil! I am going to piss myself! I need to visit this country. I never laughed so hard

where are you from?

Oyindidi:
Hmmm...I'm serious

in private?

Oyindidi:
Tell me about your journey

nothing special. i used agofure

AngelicDamsel:
Op, You have a point but........
















I suspect you, how did you know her intention and tactics??

its what they call sixth sense. i know people that do this thing. they steal virginity too.

Oyindidi:
You don reach calabar?

yes ma

Splinz:
Ahem!

Mbok, how did you know that your blokos will be taken

that is the tactic they used to use. they try and touch you in the groin

Am going out today so i stop a taxi. There was a lady inside so i entered. On the way going we picked someone else and i am now in the middle of them.

So in holdup the lady by the window buys buscuit and collects her change. As the car starts moving the money falls on my groin area and she quickly reach for it and handle my blokos in the process. Sensing danger i immediately get on alert and place my hand on her groin area immediately and look her in the eye to counter the effect. I now check and my blokos is intact. I quickly dropped and flag another taxi.

how i know she is evil is when i handle her groin she look guilty and did not protest. people have to careful as evil happening in this country is much. if i did not have knowledge to counter this now, i will be in deep mess.

StevensJojo:
What is with the servile beggarly attitude?Mtchew.I hate it when i see men who can't hustle.
Look at the way you are even talking.You cant even ask for a job.You cant list things you can do in exchange for money, you just want someone to take you in.You are even an ingrate complaining about food and milk.If you want to rise above you need think of the value you can add to society and provide it.The world will beat a part to. Your door.And don't be too proud to do anything.
Here is coming from someone who has been broke, hungru and trekked unholy distances before.And im a woman so please-as they say-be a man

thanks for the advice. it is clear. i have to leave that house. i will pack my things today and leave for calabar first things tomorrow. Why i say ordinary is because these people are not suffering at all, they live well. i did not live there free. i did various jobs for the man and even stayed in the wifes store where she sells provisions. This is someone i senior with over 5 yrs. such behaviour was not so at the beginning now i am almost treated as if i came to do househelp. so i will never rely on anyone again as man can fail, but God never fails.

i cant wait to get married

frostland:
Bros I feel ur pain it is nt easy to live wit som1 who is married, firstly the wife dont like u, secondly u should hav reduce the amount of food u take becus ur friend will always choose his wife over u

they put my food for me. i dont take by myself. Anyone who can take me in should pm me. am fed up.

I888:
Don't you have brother or sister or relatives?

my closest relative is in calabar. i am in lagos

modify: please all the insult am getting is not called for. am on my way to calabar. you people are mean!

Pls nairalanders, I am in deep mess right now. I have been living in my compound for 6 yrs now but due to some money issues I was evicted and my friend/fellow tenant was kind enough to take me in for the time being. It is him the wife and their small baby son that stays.

The problem started when the wife start complaining that am wasteful. i have never remained food they give me. from then they reduced quantity of food they give me and i dont complain.

Now just this morning am making tea and take 3 spoons of milk in her presence and all hell break loose. she starts shouting and call her husband that even them dont take more than 2 spoons. the man called me later and said it is time for us to part ways.

Am devastated now. i even used my last cash to buy a tin of milk for them. what do i do now? i have no where to go.