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Hocus Pocus. Financial freedom goes beyond some of these things posted.

Its an innate knowing' that your effort would pay off.

Numbers 1, 2, 3, 4, and maybe 5. Yes, getting financially free is not black nor white. Its a variable, create a plan, follow the plan rigidly with enough sense to be flexible where it matters.

You read my mind, his name was the first name I looked for. It appears the list is somewhat 'genuine' because some of the governors quoted carried out a lot of transformation in their states.

I can swear for the governors of Akwa-Ibom and Rivers state respectively.

hollypagan:
UNA NO add that Abia goat

You mustn't like what I posted you know. By the way, your premise is flawed.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Rubbish, so if your parents were divorced and your mum raised you all alone till adulthood were you attained wisdom before marriage....who takes credit after two years of marriage your mother or your wife??. [/color]

Charly Boy, crazy, intelligent, unrepentant "Agbero", the peoples' Agbero. Intelligent trouble-maker, non conformist extra ordinaire.

What more can I say?

Seun Kuti, please go and debate with your grandfather.

Things like this are bound to happen, get ready when the court begins to up-turn many sitting governors and legislators a few months from now.

No offense, but I beg to differ. It is the individual that makes up the party, the party does not make the individual.

A man of integrity is a man of integrity, whether he is a member of PDP or APC or KOWA is a moot point.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] As biased as this ranking is pls be well advised that rotimi amaechi's strides back then was done under the umbrella party...So it should be fair to credit this to the PDP and the national leadership of Goodluck Ebele Jonathan. [/color]

Change is what we need. Yes! President Jonathan has given his best and his best has been found wanting. IT IS NOT ENOUGH!

I don't want 10Naira change.

#Jonathan_Must_Go

With all the hullabaloo about virginity, I begin to wonder why folks are so fixated on the status of a girls vagina.

Going by the root meaning of the word 'virgin', it paints a different scenario from the meaning of the word as it is being used now.

By the way, I've experienced what the poster talked about twice. Each lady purporting to have been raped when the issue o sex came up.

I guess its their fall back story so as to save face, but I wonder why they want to save face in the first place?

What exactly do you want to drink? The bobby or the milk they are hawking?

Abduletudaye:
Nice...I wanna drink

What were you expecting?

cuteniva:
she asked 4 help n not 4 u 2 find errors.sm guys tho

You asked for it. How do you expect a bunch of strangers to know what you truly want?

Anyways, here goes nothing. You just stepped out of a relationship (according to you), believe it or not going to his house will start giving him ideas.

Ideas you never intended for him to nurse, unless you are one of those girls who say one thing and do another (Which happens to be every girl)

Or you might be feeling lonely, due to one thing or the other.

There are some ladies who can't help themselves when they are alone privately with a guy they've got an attachment (no matter how flimsy) to. Now, if you are one of these girls who "fall" because their body and/or mind betrays them when they are all alone with a guy in a room, please don't go.

If you feel you can bear the "heat" by all means go.

On the other hand, dude might just want company and not sex. But how will you find out if you don't go?

Weigh it sensibly or as sensibly as you can, then decide for yourself.

Whether your bride price came late or early is beside the point man.

If the child is yours, nwanne you have every right and authority to demand for her custody.

I don talk finish.

guyinpain:
Thanks yungchop, but i don't pray to be. Somehow, their kinsmen have argued, i was yet to pay her bride price at the time the baby was born. But if that were to be true, is it completely a situation impossible to redeem? I paid the supreme price training the mother in school and getting married to her eventually. How well do you believe that i cannot lay claim to the girl because my bride price came rather late by Eastern culture?

Then by all means go for it. Meet with your wifes' folks and iron out the issue. It goes without saying that you should also inform an elderly member of your own family and let him know about everything, then possibly you in the company of your kinsmen should meet your in-laws.

As an aside, you should also try to find out why your wife is kicking against bringing your daughter into the house though.

guyinpain:
At the time i reconciled with my wife (two years after the baby was born), i was still in my early years in school and cannot assume responsibility. Yes i am aware when the girl was given to my sister in-law to hold, so my wife can return back to finish her school. And, my intention here is not actually to be ungrateful for what they did for me. In fact i told my wife if the girl feels better to stay with her foster parents, i will oblige her. But she has to be aware officially who the father is, take up her rightful surname, visit us often and i be allowed to train her (education wise) the way i want.

I've experienced it before, and before you could blink your eye twice, we were now in that phase where you both feel like you are dating again.

Crazy ish I swear.

Honestly, most do it not because they aren't disciplined enough, but because of emotions and countless memories good and not so good.

PS: This no sex with your ex has also been debunked. Thank you for reading.

I can't really say I feel your pain, because that would be a blatant lie.

But, I've put myself in your shoes and I don't like the way it pinches.

First of all, I've got some questions. You said the baby was given to her sister who just got married? Were you made aware of it? Or did you find out later?

If you found out later, please remember that the "girl" - your child is all grown now, who might have been brought up with the knowledge that your wifes' sister is her mum and now you want to turn her world upside down with your news.

I don't know if I'm making sense, but I digress. Nothing stops you from asking for your daughter, but remember the time, resources and emotional care that was put into her by her foster parents (Your wife's sister & hubby). Some things cannot be paid for.

I suggest you take the slow approach. Does the girl in question know you are her biological father? Is she ready to leave her "parents" for you?

I recently had a similar experience. She drives an Avalon. Mind you, I also came along with a car. Albeit my fathers car.

When I noticed that the parked car was "hers", guys all my liver just turned into mush. I wanted to speak with her, I wanted to. But, I never did and she gave me various IOI's (Indication of Interest), but I just turned a blind eye. I was thinking, mehn this girl na bills o and I don't have that kinda money to spare (Imagine my limiting belief)

But I hated myself that day though, because I would have just said hello and kicked it off from there but NO. I didn't.

I just stayed within my comfort zone and lost out.

My advise (whether its needed or not ;-D) just do it.
I intend to start doing it.

rubey:
I notice this act a lot from men. Whenever I go out with a car, guys kind of feel intimidated only in few occasions do some sum up the courage to approach me. I don't understand this

You kwazy! [sic] either that or you've got a hidden agenda.

What do you do? Who are you? What are your peeves and interests?

You don't just go online and dictate, I want bla bla bla.

Nah sweetie, you are only gonna get rejects!!

08109914002 - Jones is the name. Give me a call if you are within Owerri or Umuahia.

Strictly casual encounters.

I did a course on MCSE at NIIT, just haven't written any certification course, and I heard its been phased out.

How TRUE is this?