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I suggest you stay just for a little while so you can gather money to buy the basic amenities. It's necessary thank you very much. I will try @divineblessed

Does money come in frequently? Yes @divinelyblessed

Hi nairaland, please i need serious advice, am lving with my step brother for they pass 3years now, but am considering lving him as he will gat married next week but they problem is, i have d required amount of money i can use to rent house but no property like bed,chairs etc to start with i think dis will be a big challenge to me, pls what should i do to avoid making wrong decision?

SEX IS SWEET BUT.
Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a thiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”. Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched? Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken? Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE! It was God (our creator) who set that blood- filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening. Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day. This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges into this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward. Little wonder why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only and only after the marriage contract is sealed. The one who made the body (the hormones, organs, nerves, tissues, e.t.c)God said it in clear terms, the body is not for fornication”. Anyone who chooses to use the body for fornication must know that he/ she is working directly against God’s plan and there would
definitely be a consequence either now or at old age!There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the first guy that enters in to her especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks. There is no covenant without blood: this is why the membrane contains enough of it. As a matter of fact, what happens the first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness! The first time this happens just marks her opening day covenant ceremony and each subsequent experience goes on to further refresh or strengthen that covenant or establish another version of it with another person. Many have washed useless boys with that hymen-blood. Many have struck irreversible covenants with men that have nothing to do with their destiny. Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual activity with demon-possessedmen while some others have struck such precious covenants with candle sticks as they exercised sex with it. If only they knew,many girls who carelessly allowed themselves to be disvirgined in a bid to be among the so called “big girls” would never have done so. The let me says it in clear terms: “Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot (through sexual activity) is one with her ? This is why many girls are not yet married yet their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men. Dear Singles,know today that there is a definite proportion of your virtue that leaves you each time a man enters into you and when that man leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how much of yourself would be lost each time a man enters into you without any properly signed marriage bond or contract. Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to another. All of these things have strong and terrible spiritual implications. A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of the man that broke it, any other spirit whatsoever that may have mingled with that man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs with him and the spirit of any other man that enters into you thereafter. The fun part is that pre-marital sex is not funny at all. What happens between the lines could be deadly and dangerous. The very first day a lady, or a man does that there will be spiritual transfer of destiny. The sin of fornication gives demons and occultic people direct access into your God's given destiny.So guys,zip up! Girls wise up!! It doesn't matter but it matters a lot. BIG THINGS COME FROM LITTLE THINGS WE DO!!! I know a soul has been touched today, remain blessed! N for those who have lost it may d Mercy n
Grace of God find u to sin no more. #spiritofGod #fall on you. Say no to sex befor marriage.

Withdraw from alcoholic.moreover get close to God it may be in spiritual realm.

Can dis happen to a man, permature sex is rampant in society today. But i do observe dat anytime i want to have sex my heart will beat during penetration and i will lose d hard erection, but wen i relax again i will stay hard but during penetration i will lost d erection again. Am a virgin i have been trying dis for 7month now but still cant penetrate. Its so frustrating i just run all sort of medical test but nothing wrong. Please nairaland helpers, have anybody experience dis in dia life befor, could dis be fear of having sex and can it cause such thung?

Please i just have problem with my girl but she just think i will come and beg her as usual, but i just want to strong my mind dis time till she drop dat her aGo and begg me. I just send her breakup sms to her just to threaten her because she always hurt me.but since den she has been calling and call over an over again till she called my friend den my frd told me i shud pick her calls, den i do. befor i walk to her house dis morning and ask her what is d problem again. Though we tried to explain some issues befor i walk out because i was shot of time. Please my people how should i follow dis step because i dnt want dis girl to use my head as dis is my first time in relationship.

Please nairalanders, i have issue here, my girlfriend Ex. Still bothering my gf to setle issues but my girlfriend brokeup with him since last year but d guy no agree because of d love he had for her, he started by always beating her up during d brokeup d issues get heating up everyday till finally d guy came to begg her for forgiveness and d girl forgive him but not in mingle again. But d guy do hold strong communication with my gf,which i do scared at times an nag my girlfriend, anytime d guy visit her she will tell me, like today when d guy visit her without calling her, she text me on whatsapp dat d guy is here, dat i should not fear she wont do anything stupid she swear down, i said okey if she say so, she said please i shouldnt lve her because of dis. Please my people my mind just cut when she told me she was with d guy, please how do people handle case like dis without been hurt because i love d girl sha, but i do scare when smbdy get close to her like dat.

Thanks for all d advice, i appreciate it. I will try to work on dis to make thing right. Cos am just a jealouse type who wont like to see a lady fool me in d name of love

you are not worth been trusted too. You thinking she cant be that loyal also implies you have skeleton in your cupboard. Trusting someone Is supposed to be a decision..made out of love. If you truly love her then you won't be doubting . How i wish u wey in my shoes, i dont want to discover something dat will hurt me. Wen i realise she has been cheating wen we wey togeda.den i make her know dat i struggle to trust her

Please try to trust her before she makes your worst fears become a reality.

She probably is the type of girl who is outgoing, has a lot of friends and guys who like her. Trust me it's hard when you date such type of girls but most of them are faithful and they mean it if they say they love you.

Just tell her to create boundaries with those guys so it will be clear enough she has someone. (if my description is correct though. U must be a carpenter my brother cos u nail it. She is exactly what u wrote, but i cant help. And dis create problem btw me and her. D girl love me no be here oooo but

Hello nairaland users, am struggle to trust my girlfriend but she trust me very well. I love her but am stressing to trust her and she knows i dont trust her, she will nag, upset anytime i acuse her of flirting or cheating. Its just that d lady is easy to love but difficult to trust depending on how she is. Despite that she do sit me down an tell me to count on her that she cant do anything behind my back but at the end i will still think she cant be dat loyal enough and it kill me inside, she even say if i should follow women like that then i will soon die. Though d girl love me but i cant gv her my trust. Please experience people what should i do??

Cheating on your girlfriend doesn't mean you don't love
her.. You're simply using another charger to charge your
phone because you left your charger at home!

apart from the deliverance part, your suffering from porn induced erectile dysfunction PIED. dude, you need to stay away from porn..i mean it.. anything that might arouse you visually if it's not a living breathing female.. don't look at nudity in music videos, softcore or hardcore porn, magazines, twerking videos. don't even open a thread on massive curves causing commotion on instagram..Let your brain heal and your body and peenis will follow..Also do a lot of exercise to build up will power and self restraint and with time. your body will heal..
Also, don't forget to eat very well to replenish lost energy and make sure to pray too. Prayer helps.
just take the step and you'll beat this bastard addiction!! be strong bro. Thank u very much my broda. I dont watch porn anywey. I will try and get rid of it, if dat will help me out.

Please nairalanders, what is the best way to treat heat out in d body, i run roasted chicken and plantain business, i expose my self to fire everyday now is like it weaken me, please experience people should give enlighten me on how to treat it outa my body. It effect me woefully

Bro, its simple... You need deliverance.! God will help you. Mmmmmmm, how i wish u wey in my shoe, u will know i need serious help more dan dis. God will deliver me sha. Thanks

Ask her for blow jòb before sex until your your carrot becomes very hard. Thank u boss. I will try if help

Please nairaland help a brother, i dont know if masturbation could be the root of my problem, am 23yr now, i can remember i startd masturbation right from my primary school days during my puberty growth till 2016, anytime i see beautifull lady i will put her in mind nd lata lust her n mastubate though i tried to quit d habit in 2017 but i still find my self doing it but not everyday as bfor, i will feel very bad anytime i find myself mastubating and pray to God to change me. I didnt wanted to commit fornication till am married due to my believe, but now dat i have the opportunity to have sex with a woman, i find out d level of my erection is not hard enough to enter a woman body, i tried over and over again, and due to pressure i run to do urine test and nothing happen to me when d result is out, doctors advise me to start eating healthy diet and immune booster drugs though am yet to be sure if dat will help, thats why i run down here for advice. Pls help me my people it kill my self esteem.

Ok, let me educate you quickly... A sugar mummy/daddy is an older person who pays a younger person for outings and/or sex. So, unless this lady has ever offered to PAY you for your time, you guys are in a RELATIONSHIP!!! She begged you to be her bf, so what do you think you guys are together for, if not in a r/ship?!

Wake up bro, she is your GF, lol she is my broda, she even said if i have money now dat she can marry me but she is older dan me oooo

Bwaaaaaaah, you thought it was easy to fukc repulsive grandmas?! There is NOTHING wrong with you , the day you get in front of a sexy attractive nàked woman, then you will be hard as steel.dont be ashamed to be turned off by repulsive old women.But you should have known that. Some of these sugar mummy are really old (75 and up) and you normally get a bonus if you Can make these walking corpse cuum. Ahajahahajaja but i swear, d lady is still young n very fresh 27 of age now, she asked me out den begging for me to be her BF an then said she want to be d one to break my virgin, i always scared of her but gradually she succeed in wining my heart, she alwaays call me to come around, but bleeping is what my joystick cant do ooo

Stop fukcing old sugar mummy for free.... Every time you bring your dilc out, she must bring a Wallet out, so you GET PAID, if not then what is the point?! If it is just for fukcing sake, You might as well go smash young fresh innocent and sexy babes. Am not fucking her bfor though we do engage in romantic play but wen sex want to happen my joystick will not penetrate, she den told me to treat my self dat i will be fine that is d reason i asked her of money. Which she said she dont have and now frowning i want to get d money from another girl. /mrbrown

You Must be doing something wrong.... Sugar mummy are just fukced then you collect your money/gift and bounce... But it seem you are mAking this mammy feel like she is your gf or someone of value/worthy to you, that's why she has the audacity to even get mad. Nonsense! It must be true, so what can i do now

Bro, 1st thing first, why the fukc would you have a sugar mummy if she cannot help with your financial needs?! She is useless, old and on top of that getsmad at those who wanna help you.... wtf?! My broda, dont know ooo help she dont but always make sure i dont get close to any lady. She said i shud go an get money from my girlfriend, i ask her, what about u, she said she is more dan a girlfriend to me. Dont know what to do ooo @mrbrown

My people dont know where to start but i will start from somewey, as am not feeling fine always looking for money to treat my self though i ask my My suger mummy to borrow me some money that i will return it to her but she said she is not with money, i always cried for help. There was dis girl in my vilage who love me very much though i didnt love her that much, as i told her about my health she willing to assist me with money and then told dis my suger girlfriend about d girl, she now advice me to start developing feelings for d girl dat she may got married anytime n leave me i said ok, if she say so. But today when i told her dat d girl in d village say i should come n collect d money, she is now seem to get angry and frowning, saying, go to her na. Please my people why is she acting like dat?

Your problem might be psychological. See a therapist. I dont think dats d case here, why is my own different when others are having sex very free. I used to think its psychological problem even been in d influence of alchoholic still cant do anything. @ragged

am facing the same also.... na pile I guess even this one is not standing in early morning gan seriouly, have u ever had sex befor?

u mean say whenever u want use am do like dat, d machine gun no dey fit c@ck? Yes boss, when i want to insert it, it wont enter.

Please my people, help ur fellow brother for serious advice, seriouly e no funny. I will completely get erect for a very long time when am with my girl but it will not straigth foward or standing attention for me to Bleep. Don.t know d cause of that am always frustratd have bein trying dis for over 6times now, stil dsame thing. Please somebody should help a brother!