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Jacksparrow0712:
My apologies. Not my faults. Just that I can have so many trolls and males in female accounts. Pathetic huh? Na so we See am o

So what's the name?

Jacksparrow0712:
Oh! Poor thumb

I'm good just that.................. Hope I wasn't sounding rude last night?

pickabeau1:
Ladies thoughts?

I will like to hear from the modern women
MizMyColi freecocoa Kimoni edwife ewuro4 Sugarbee misssclassy Ujsizzle Tohpahz

Jacksparrow0712:
Lol. Why you staying ghost mode?

Sorry bout the boring day. Mine wasn't boring but stress filled. Just trying relax my brain and head here

Jacksparrow0712:
so yur online.
How you today?

BoboYekini:
You think.
Btw, why couldn't you get your own boyfriend all this while instead of playing footsie with your girl's man? You drove him to this so you can look like some irresistible siren. Yeah, this was all about your ego. Now you've made fools of them both, you happy now?

Jacksparrow0712:
Sugarbee

vani86:
i dont get all the harsh replies here, would it have been easier if the girl was not her friend, and her fiance asked the OP out.

that you are engaged do not mean that you are meant for each other.

it is obvious the OP got feelings for the dude and vice versa, what if, just what if they are the once meant to be. will you force the dude to marry someone he has fallen out of love with.

on the other hand, he has proved he can be deceitful already, there is no reason to say that he wont do the samething to the OP, when he has SHHaged to his heart content.

if i am in your shoes i will be scared shit though and i do not envy your situation at all.

so ask your self, which will hurt the most, losing your friends friendship and facing the fall out as a result of your action or losing this dude you are actually attracted to.

kinglekan:

Sugarbee you have your answer right above.

There is absolutely nothing to think about. From your post you seem to be interested in this guy and you are probably shocked it took him this long to open up to you.

News flash dear, it can't work. You have a conscience don't you? Even if you don't, what guarantee do you have he wouldn't wake up someday and tell you he made another mistake with you?

Wake up already and stay away from him. Quit your advisory role and do other things to get your mind off him.

Kapeeshh!!

francizy:
I actually wanted to read thru this thread and move on as it mostly is meant for the ladies but the bolded caught my attention. You deserve a hug and a handshake.

Now lemme comment in line with the bolded, I've noticed that it seems like a norm for ladies out there to always expect the guy she's dating to do things like her ex. You know, the things he did in the past that made her smile. Even if the guy is trying in his own ways to make her smile, women can't always refrain from comparing a guy with their exs and I ask, if the ex was so perfect and she was so into him, then why did they break up?

I guess a man is supposed to pen down all the things that a lady's ex did and then read it as a manual in order to be able to have a smooth relationship.

There's this ex of mine that complained bitterly and said I wasn't romantic just because I wouldn't carry her hand bag and her past bfs carried her hand bag for her. So my question to her was "you called them your exs but am not your ex, so why tell me to do things your exs did? To her, I was to do it since her exs did it bearing in mind that I hated such with passion. I can help my woman carry anything other than a female handbag cuz am not a gay dude for crying out loud. Well that's the past by the way. Although she wasn't the only girl that compared me with exs.

Sometimes women get mad at a guy for doing things they usually did and the guy overlooked it. This is probably because they feel we men are supernatural beings and can handle being hurt while women should never be hurt. They nag at every opportunity and at anything not giving a hoot if the said guy can take such for so long.

Women complain a lot about men but when they finally meet one who wants to stay true to them, they disappoint such person then why won't they eventually end up with the wrong man.

Like Miz said, women should do a soul searching and know what they really want, then do that thing that makes them happy. If they wanna date a man, they should go ahead, if they feel five at a go will make them happy, then they should consider that. The fact is, at the very end, one shouldn't expect to receive what one didn't give.

Cutehector:
naah, am just lookin out for u... Wouldn't want ur pretty body to disfigure u knw... We all love and care for u...

Cutehector:
great.. I hope his fiancee wouldn't do dsame to both of u..

Gurgle:
You're very welcome sweet...just prepare yourself both mentally and emotionally, be sure of what you want to say to him and remember what is at stake here. Its a very delicate situation but im sure you can do it

Remember that its not your fault since you have been acting all along with a clean mind- its him who didn't say what he wanted in time

Don't let yourself be dragged under by him, because at the end he will still have his own best friend but you will lose yours...

Cutehector:
Sugarbee, shey u can see this.. Dnt say I ddnt warn u...

blogoratti:
No need to give it any thought really, if you feel the same way about him then you will definitely have to tell your friend about it (I suspect you do have some feelings for this man).
Its morally wrong like most folks here have said --and rightly so. Is it a line you would want to cross? What if you do go ahead to be with him, and he does the same thing to you with someone else? If he can say such things about your friend, then he's not worthy to be with her -neither are you.

Cutehector:
he was drunk for christ sake... Cmon.. I can feign seriousness to convice u I love u.. Any fvckin body can do daht.. Alryt.. Giv in to his plea... Its easy as dat.. Am done here

Sassybae:
I can imagine dear, that's still not enough reason, to do anything with him.
Ok why not ask him why the sudden change of mind? Ask him why he dint come 2you @1st..think about how your friend will feel if she finds out, put yourself in your friend's shoe, you're an adult, I don't expect you to be falling for such.

Cutehector:
am already pissed off sef... I feel lyk given her a slap so she gona come bak to her senses.. She can go ahead and steal her best frnd's fiance.. Its her call.. I dnt see any reason why people should be beggn her to hav sense