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Cutehector:
sugarbee u aren't giving anythn a thought here gosh......

I used to think ur somewhat good.. Dis is ur bestfrnd for christ sake... U can go ahead and snatch her fiance tho.. Its all in ur court. Duno why am even gvn u an advice sef

Sassybae:
Lol sugar, and what do you think would be the outcome of such relationship
Sex and only sex dear, you think he loves you? ..don't fall for such tricks girl

vizkiz:
hmmmn...this is serious

But what if she is a sister to you, would you give this a thought? I don't know how it works for the ladies but a guy wouldn't even think about this

Gurgle:
Ok well I don't really have anything more to say than please just forget it, its a line you cant cross. Even if you do like him you have to trash it because that level of betrayal is really something

The real problem here is not even that he loves you, but that he doesn't love your best friend..I mean if he really doesn't love her and he doesn't want to marry her again then he needs to say something...meanwhile try to limit your contact with him for now unless its important because if he eventually breaks up with her im sure you don't want to be labelled the cause of that split

In future try and limit your involvement in your friends' relationships because you may end up doing more harm than good.. even if he was your friend before.. just keep a safe distance because even if the thing was already crashing your name will end up in it

All you need to do is greet the guy and stay in your lane lol

Cutehector:
nw dis is d same advice u should be telln urself against dat fiance!

Cutehector:
Sugarbee, I knw u wish not to be labelled a bittch, frm what I'v observed, ur female frnd is more important to u dan her fiance's "lust" for u.. Now you hav a choice befor u. Ur frndship and loyalty to ur female frnd is being tested, do not fall for this. Its a very simple situation u can handle alone.

I need u to brace up, invyt d fiance for a drink, not in ur house. Some restaurant, tell him u can't do such and mean it.. Dnt allow him explain anythn to u, once your done, take ur bag and walk out. And if he should make passes at u, ur gona tell his fiancee.. Be strict abt it...




Its time ur frndship is bein tested, dnt fall cheaply. Or else, ur female frnds gona call u a bittch

Sassybae:
Lol sugarbee, now you sounding like, you've been waiting for the guy to make such move
Suit yourself dear

jaybee3:
Why are you contradicting yourself and hiding your main intention along the line?

PS: I haven't quoted you outta context!

Mrcdorv:
Dont dere give that guy any chance at all or else your case will be like....he is tired of your friend and wanna switch to you gush.think about it bae If you dere give that guy chance i will surely dump you as your friend and if he eventualy marry you. .you might not end well cos your friend will forever not happy with you.

My case....there was dis girl my cousing brought to my house for a visit they stay for about 2 days...but ever since this girl set her eyes on me see change and she has been tryin all her effort to bring me into her trap... she call,she text and worst she sent me romantic msg on fb,,,lastly she is traveling to SA soon and she said that she wanna visit me before she left that i should not tell my uncle of her coming to my hood that sge wnt to make it a suprise to him which i knw was lieing...am realy confuse and dont wanna do this,,..

vizkiz:
there is nothing for you to solve. Just come out plain to him that you can't do it. There is nothing grey about this...it is either black or white!

Probably like someone typed up there. Maybe you'v gat a thing for him deep down before

WarRLaY:
Do you also love him?

Gurgle:
Wow I thought this was going to be one of those problems pasted from a blog somewhere but its actually your problem..nna men, sorry.
You did well by sending him away, both of you need time to process what has happened.
First of all, this is not really your problem, its his own for getting himself entangled in the mess. So don't accept more responsibility than you actually have, because 6 good months + dating no be beans-and he only said something because he was drunk self
Its not your fault that hes in love with you

[size=14pt]Anyway the first thing I have to say is make sure you don't even touch that guy, Im deadly serious, don't ever try it.[/size]
Let me think about it some more, im coming

Sassybae:
Inlove with him?
Bae that's your bestie's fiancee, I see no reason why you should be in love with him, don't tell me you're confused
Confused over what dear
That's a bad move, you definately gonna regret doing that,

vizkiz:
it is even suprising you are giving this a thought. Have you informed your friend about this?
If no, I think it is still very much early to tell her before things start going ugly.

Have you ever been called a hoe before? NO? Ok, you need to kEep yourself from being the next rated city hoe. Because that is what your friend will call you when she realises what has been happening. She will feel betrayed(she trusts you as a "best" friends)

WarRLaY:
Hmmmm, it will be a something, u gonna live to regret, if you ever make a chance of dating your friend boyfriend, that guy don't love you, I think, he is tired of your friend, and he need a switch, he knows you like him, that's why he decided to give a shot, welda you gonna fall for it,. if you go fall hmmmm, he will also dump you,.

Sassybae:
Some girls sha, wah kinda question is this 1?
Am sure you know the right thing to do,or do you like your friend's fiancee? Why not sit nd ask yourself what if same thing is done to you
You don't wanna hurt him? You mean by telling him you not interested? Lol...babe just tell him its not gonna work besides the gf is your bestie

WarRLaY:
Hmmmm, it will be a something, u gonna live to regret, if you ever make a chance of dating your friend boyfriend, that guy don't love you, I think, he is tired of your friend, and he need a switch, he knows you like him, that's why he decided to give a shot, welda you gonna fall for it,. if you go fall hmmmm, he will also dump you,.

vizkiz:
see as these guys finished this thread

Miss op, are you gonna listen/accept my lil unimportant advice?

ThatVaselineGuy:
bae, der is notin mor posive dan dat ur fresh yansh, chai!

do u no how many tim av try 2 grab dat yansh tru ma screen

now ma screen av crak

falconey:
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WarRLaY:
don't you have ur own boyfriend @ op

ThatVaselineGuy:
See dat yansh u r carry

Bae, u can sit on ma face anytim

Cutehector:
lool shy gurl

Markieee:
Girls will never cease to be amazing..
been using body language since 180 BC

UyiIredia:
Hausa chic, ba ?

Cutehector:
I think she is married, u knw hw it isn't easy to leav a marriage just like dat

donholy28:
Marriage is not something u can just wake up one morning and quit...its not boyfriend/ girlfriendship

Dubemkelly:
And this the Sugarbee that had A' parallel in her WAEC... Lol, Jamb must be over 400 too or its a case of you attending Havard university and finishing with a first class. Now I know you were quite an observant student by spotting the damn thing ordinarily one wouldn't see in the picture

Cutehector:
Wooow.. This is serious


Sugarbee, u can see how badly she wants sex..