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Romance › Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by summerflame(m): 10:42pm On Jul 06, 2025
Ab025:
What do you women really want sef??

You said you don't want sex, he stopped asking for it.....now you come here complaining he is no longer asking for sex!!

Allow the man to breathe na...haba
The Confused gender .. He's only abiding by her rules
Romance › Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by summerflame(m): 10:41pm On Jul 06, 2025
jackals:
Our relationship just ticked the 1yrs 3months mark. I told him at the beginning that I’d love for him to propose to me b4 we start getting intimate as most relationships built on intimacy don’t last. He agreed. But as we get along, we eventually started having sex even tho it’s not how I pictured it. But I had to because I didn’t want him to leave.

At the start of this year, I made a resolution to stop giving in to sex and see how much affections he has for me looking at the fact that he’s not even asked me to be his wife. It’s always promise here and there.

If he initiated it, I always find an excuse..and most times he convinced me and I’ll give in. I won’t lie I know it’s hard because he’s had to initiate a couple of time which I denied and he’ll mostly beg and assure me of his commitment to our relationship.

However, I noticed since the beginning of the month of May, he’s stopped showing concerns. When he asked And I said no to sex, he will just say “ohh okay” and then sleep if it’s night time or pick his phone and off to gym. Nowadays he doesn’t even initiate anything nor ask for it. I asked him if he’s okay and he told me “he’s having some heavy back pain due to his recent workout routines” but I know he’s lying. He’s always like sex even after workout.

My intuition says he’s cheating and my friend confirmed same since her last relationship also ended the same way.

Tbh, I’d just stop getting worried about this and stop asking him since he’s decided to keep mute.
We need to hear from the guy before the council of elders will know what to say
Politics › Re: Nyesom Wike: A Bull In The China Shop: Dele Momodu’s Response To FCT Minister by summerflame(m): 1:12pm On Jul 05, 2025
enemyofprogress:
Chief Dele Momodu’s response to Nyesom Wike:




https://www.instagram.com/p/DLszK8YMJkR/?img_index=5&igsh=eTFhNzB3aWJsN2U1
Wike the FCT tyrant. His arrogance is out of this world
Food › Re: What Is The Most Popular Food In Nigeria by summerflame(m): 8:07pm On Jul 04, 2025
Akpu and fufu. The original life saver in time of needs grin[color=#990000][/color]
Politics › Re: I’ll Actualise All My Campaign Promises – Tinubu by summerflame(m): 5:51am On Jul 01, 2025
hopexter:
You’ve allowed hatred to blindfold you that you only see failure.

Atleast you can still enrol into uni and get a degree while the government pay you tuition but you wouldn’t know that out of hatred.😂😂

Is there ever fuel scarcity or school strike since Tinubu became president?
I have passed my message to you son. People like U are so blind that U can cover act of robbery
Politics › Re: Wike Ought To Be Celebrated On A Daily Basis For FCT Transformation - Akpabio by summerflame(m): 5:55am On Jun 26, 2025
gidigbam1:
Why didn't you say Otti is only doing his work? You come here and praise Otti who hasn't done 3% of what Wike has done in 2 yrs in FCT, but are quick to say he's doing his work. Why didn't all the previous FCT Ministers also do their work? Wike is very outstanding and if he continues at this rate, Abuja could make it to the top 20 most beautiful cities in the world.

I live in Lagos and work in Abuja, and I can tell you that the work Fashola, Ambode, and Sanwo Olu did in Lagos combined together is not up to a quater of the projects Wike delivered in FCT in less than 2 years.

Only those who've lived in both cities for years and have traveled to both cities frequently recently can relate.
He wasn't the person that awarded the contact or paid the contractor sir. He's only doing his duty and deserves no single accolade.
Politics › Re: I’ll Actualise All My Campaign Promises – Tinubu by summerflame(m): 5:52am On Jun 26, 2025
hopexter:
He hasn’t achieved much as expected doesn’t mean he failed.
Name his failure
Name his achievement(s).

I think U are a die-hard-fan?
Politics › Re: Delta Trains Over 4,000 Female Business Owners by summerflame(m): 9:07am On May 23, 2025
Audio
Travel › Re: Where Is The Cheapest Place To Live In Nigeria? by summerflame(m): 1:02am On May 22, 2025
Benue
Family › Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by summerflame(m): 4:42pm On May 03, 2025
Dopeboy8701:
Since u refused family planning, the bandits have help u plan ur family.
not really, they only regulate the family
Family › Re: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by summerflame(m): 4:41pm On May 03, 2025
Sharpsharp00123:
that guy go still give him wife belle before d end of this year
lol.. u are mad walahi . Na konji dey control my guy. Man must knack .
Crime › Re: Diddy Is Due To Go On Trial Monday, May 5th. by summerflame(m): 4:33pm On May 03, 2025
Sultty:
p.diddy the baby oil marketer from idumota😂
From orile iganmu
Romance › Re: Return My Shop! – Man Confronts Girlfriend After She Gets Engaged To Another Man by summerflame(m): 5:28pm On Apr 14, 2025
virginprincess:
Werey man huh huh
Why didn't he at least proposed to her so she would know he is serious, most men think women are the same with them biologically, they don't know that women clock tick faster.
Now, he is pained because another man sharply did what he couldn't do in three years.
My own is that he should give her time to return the money he use to set her up instead of collecting the whole shop 😒😒
I am not disappointed cos majority of you are always looking for who to feast on
Celebrities › Re: Annie Macaulay Spraying K1 The Ultimate Bundles Of Money(video) by summerflame(m): 12:37am On Apr 13, 2025
ChiefOloye:
I hope she wasn't on drug?
she's a colleague with K1 in drugs . Both of them are junkies
Foreign Affairs › Re: Manchester Arena Terrorist Attacks Three Prison Officers by summerflame(m): 12:34am On Apr 13, 2025
A religion of peace indeed. Most of them are having ready made in heaven virgins waiting for them . Gullible miscreants
Politics › Re: Sowore: 3 Most Dangerous Nigerian Politicians - Tinubu, Akpabio & Wike by summerflame(m): 6:33pm On Mar 23, 2025
Great100000:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FrPUNbagjj0?si=bMOpU68ClpwBRPn6

Former presidential candidate of the African Action Congress (AAC) in the 2023 general elections, Omoyele Sowore, has condemned the declaration of a state of emergency in Rivers State.

Speaking during an interview on News Central TV, Sowore described Senate President Godswill Akpabio, Minister of the Federal Capital Territory Nyesom Wike, and President Bola Tinubu as “the three most dangerous persons in Nigeria.”


He criticized the declaration of emergency, calling it an attempt to sacrifice the entire state structure.

“The declaration of emergency was purely an attempt to sacrifice an entire state structure — not the first, but one of the first that is more brazen. In this case, they want Wike to control one of Nigeria’s richest states, Rivers,” Sowore said.

Sowore further explained the situation, stating that everything had been leading to this moment since Siminalayi Fubara was appointed as governor.

“So everything has been pointing to that process ever since Fubara was appointed—or selected, whichever way you want to put it,” he added.

According to SaharaReporters, he alleged that Wike had to involve President Tinubu in order to take control of the state from Fubara.

“It got to a point where Wike had to reach Tinubu, who is his principal in this case, to move in and take the state from Fubara so they can have it for themselves. That’s what they executed,” Sowore remarked.

Sowore also pointed out the roles of the three individuals—Wike, Akpabio, and Tinubu—in this political maneuvering.

“There are three individuals we must watch out for: the FCT Minister, that is Nyesom Wike; the President of the Senate, Godswill Akpabio; and Nigeria’s president himself, Bola Tinubu. These are guys that are very dangerous. They are dangerous because they have lived a life of crime and impunity — whichever way you want to call it — and got away with it,” Sowore said.

He claimed that these figures had risen to power through criminality without facing repercussions.

“The reason why these guys are different from every dangerous person you have ever met in your life is that they have risen through the ranks of crime and impunity and gotten to the top without consequences. That’s what you are seeing them doing now,” he added.

Sowore also predicted that the Nigerian National Assembly would support the state of emergency.

“This morning, I was invited to a media interview by Channels TV, and I did predict that the Nigerian National Assembly would not do anything — they would endorse Bola Tinubu’s state of emergency. They are all in on this, and that’s why Nigerians must understand that there is no way out. They gang up against us; we must gang up against them too,” Sowore concluded.

https://x.com/YeleSowore/status/1903068560970207457?t=FBiwmJUiS3iXjODNoT1ASA&s=19[/quote]U are worse than them . Sowore is even worse than those miscreants
Celebrities › Re: Queen Latifah With Her Wife And Son by summerflame(m): 5:44pm On Mar 23, 2025
meobizy:
A mongrel is going to type something which'll expose that Sango Ota still remains in the 12th century.
Are u normal at all?
Celebrities › Re: Queen Latifah With Her Wife And Son by summerflame(m): 5:43pm On Mar 23, 2025
meobizy:
A mongrel is going to type something which'll expose that Sango Ota still remains in the 12th century.
She's not normal nah
Crime › Re: Prophet Kills Member, Removes Body Parts For Rituals In Lagos by summerflame(m): 9:10am On Mar 04, 2025
Mbanda:
You mean yoruba land? Because na una call gbadebo "omo ale" that means if you mofos can call somebody like that omo ale that means, omo ale full your land.
I don't need replying to a lost generation like you
Crime › Re: Prophet Kills Member, Removes Body Parts For Rituals In Lagos by summerflame(m): 6:01am On Mar 03, 2025
Mbanda:
And once again beerfraud did not post this because the devilish pastor is not Igbo and, the state where the killing and ritual took place in not an Igbo state.

My problem with yorbads is that they lie so much and they are hypocritical in nature.
How will I even respond to a person from a land that is filled with bastards ?
Crime › Re: Prophet Kills Member, Removes Body Parts For Rituals In Lagos by summerflame(m): 6:00am On Mar 03, 2025
GOFRONT:
Chaii..........I know it must be a CCC church......Very ritualistic church

You see these white garment churches, Esp those ones whose churches are mounted on a low Mountain inaccessible by the people within that surrounding

If you see the slaughtering alter in those churches uphills, Timileyin's slaughtering alter dey learn work.
It shall never be well with you for this statement. Don't be denominational ijiot
Politics › Re: IBB's Book Filled With Lies, Allegations Against Dead Persons- Chidi Odinkalu by summerflame(m): 5:16pm On Feb 22, 2025
Thewrath:
Yes,he also lied about abiola winning the June 12 election!
Brain dey pain you
Christianity Etc › Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by summerflame(m): 12:44pm On Feb 02, 2025
Imagine me waiting till wedding night only to find out that I have been keeping a bore hole or a badly used product.. e go loud ooo
Crime › Re: Nigeria Man Arrested For Cocaine Trafficking Worth ₦32M In India by summerflame(m): 5:13pm On Dec 18, 2024
Crime › Re: Police Arrest 2 Suspected Ritualists, Uncover Human Remains In Ogun (Photo) by summerflame(m): 5:12pm On Dec 18, 2024
Romance › Re: Man Cancels A Date Because She Wouldn’t Send Money For His Haircut: Thought? by summerflame(m): 12:52am On Nov 26, 2024
Okortor:
Only if most men can man up like this nigga , most bannies would learn the hard way...

Naso one undergraduate requested we meet, so I invited her over to my area which is on the island at lekki but she insisted i come to her side at ikeja but I declined stated she wanted meeting me so she should be coming over not the other way round. Eventually she came down, I told her we meet at a lounge or bar but she insisted eatery so clearly told her she would be footing her bills if that's her preference. Naso banny begin provoke. Lol. I kukuma blocked her after the meeting. No time for nonsense!
U deserve a national award sir
Romance › Re: Man Cancels A Date Because She Wouldn’t Send Money For His Haircut: Thought? by summerflame(m): 12:47am On Nov 26, 2024
Magnoliaa:
Materialistic men everywhere with no iota of value to bring to the table. Wokeness and redpill have destroyed all the good values our fathers used to have when dating back in the days.


The gigolo with a shrivelled dick did her a world of good as it's obvious he's only coming to leech off her. That's the only thing in the chicken brain of these modern males. I'm sure she'll find another homely, submissive, virginal and virtuous man she'll be a protective Queen to.
I am not disappointed cos I ain't expecting anything better from u as a naija bannie with sense of entitlements
Romance › Re: Ladies Share Their Biggest Relationship Mistakes (Photos) by summerflame(m): 7:39pm On Nov 19, 2024
Women : weapon of mass destruction
Romance › Re: Ladies Share Their Biggest Relationship Mistakes (Photos) by summerflame(m): 7:38pm On Nov 19, 2024
oluseyiforjesus:
Let's listen to d beautiful daughters of EVE
U mean the beautiful daughters of LUCIFER?
. GONE are the days of our mothers where there is decency and contentment
Romance › Re: Ladies Share Their Biggest Relationship Mistakes (Photos) by summerflame(m): 7:36pm On Nov 19, 2024
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
All these ones are nothing compared to what Nigerian men are passing through in the hands of Nigerian bannies...

TBH,since I handicapped my relationship,I've noticed how fat my neck has become angry.
Since I divorced my ex wife, peace of mind has been sweet, no nagging, no aggressiveness from her. Nothing but peace of mind ,
Celebrities › Re: Van Vicker Celebrates 21st Marriage Anniversary by summerflame(m): 6:59pm On Oct 16, 2024
oyekanwahab:
How old come be the guy
maybe 60 years.. 😂

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