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Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by summerflame(m): 9:59pm On Mar 29, 2023
Dindondin:
Send her away n let your daughter in-law send you away in future

The most useless comment of the month
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by summerflame(m): 9:57pm On Mar 29, 2023
Neweramify:
Op your wife was wrong, but try and understand her fear. Most women feel inconvenient around their mother inlaw. Not because she hates her mother inlaw but for the fear of the unknown.

Let her know how you feel knowing she wanna bring her mum in when she rejected your mum. I'm sure she will feel remorse of her action.

Permit her to bring her mum, cause if anything happen to the old woman, she may accuse you of one thing or the other.

Will her remorseful bring back the mother in law she killed indirectly by denying her the son's care ?
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by summerflame(m): 9:56pm On Mar 29, 2023
Darammliveth:



Kill that suggestion before it arrive! This case is very simple. Your wife should know better. What goes around comes around. Karma is a bitch! How can you be hostile to your mother in-law.

Let her mama stay with any of her eldest siblings. Thank God she's not the only child. Then you can send her money monthly for her upkeep. Lobatan.

Or thy should employ someone to live with her just as she made her husband took in a maid for his own mum too cos of her hostility
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by summerflame(m): 9:54pm On Mar 29, 2023
ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.

However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.

Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.

What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?

Her mum staying with us will always arouse the hatred and the anger in me cos everytime I see her own mother, it will always remind me on my own mother which she killed indirectly cos she didn't allow me to take care of her till she died . An eye for an eye
Science/Technology / Re: Jpmorgan Will Let Consumers Pay With Their Face Or Palm Instead Of A Card (pic) by summerflame(m): 10:46pm On Mar 27, 2023
Righteousness2:
Bible prophecy is unfolding right before our eyes. But the world is too blind to see it.

The mark of the beast technology is being tested right before our eyes.



Everything is converging so quickly all over the world.
The Rapture of church is much closer than many think
JESUS Christ is coming.
JESUS Christ is coming..
JESUS Christ is coming..
Make your ways right with JESUS Christ to avoid had I know.

Technology na mark of the beast?.. u are truly mad
Romance / Relationship Question by summerflame(m): 6:06pm On Mar 23, 2023
*Question for the day :*

Babes
Wat the highest amount u spent on a guy and u later regret it and why ?
🗣🗣🗣🗣

Guys, what's the highest extent u have gone to show your love to a lady ?..

*Let's discuss please*
Politics / Re: Tinubu Should Just Appoint This Man As A Chief Of Staff. by summerflame(m): 11:47pm On Mar 17, 2023
SoftP:
& Later u will carry protest placard
"Give youth a chance"

U dey mind that mad man ?
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Politics / Re: GVR Visits Makoko Slum In Lagos (Photos) by summerflame(m): 6:43am On Mar 11, 2023
helinues:
GVR the oni failure of failure land...

grin

Snipper is still 700 bro

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Business / Re: How Much Is A Litre Of Fuel In Your Area? by summerflame(m): 12:31pm On Mar 07, 2023
warlordd:
How much is a litre of fuel in your area?

195.. Abuja

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Career / Re: VIRAL PICS of SA Doctor Looking Like a Thug - Union Defends Him by summerflame(m): 11:42am On Mar 07, 2023
Smitaro100:




Looks more like a national werey. undecided

This is tinubu's family member .. 😂
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Elon Musk Fires Senior Twitter Employee Who Slept In Office To Meet Deadlines. by summerflame(m): 11:38am On Mar 07, 2023
omale88:
its against ethics and unprofessional to do so,also a bad habit.she deserves to be fired.if she had died doing so the case would have been elon musk senior staff dies while working in office overtime.when he strictly kicks against it,if you fail to meet your target do what is left and let the rest slide, receive the queries at the end of the period and be better not taking risky decisions.

This is the most useless comment I am reading this year ..

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Politics / Re: Abdullahi, Sani Abacha’s Son ‘Dies In His Sleep’ by summerflame(m): 4:56pm On Mar 04, 2023
Toluwanise247:
Your father done sow long time ago… harvest time

Sincerely, u are not a human being but an animal with this statement
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Drop Your Phone Number And You Just Might Get A Date by summerflame(m): 7:30pm On Feb 25, 2023
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Hmmm
Celebrities / Re: Kemi Olunloyo On Tiwa Savage Sextape: Any Fan, Friend, Ex Supporting You Is Fake by summerflame(m): 4:17pm On Oct 23, 2021
TOPCRUISE:

She was blackmailed into it. And to shame her blackmailers she had to. Don't blame her because she never wanted to.

Ignorance is not an excuse for wrong doing ..

Her ex husband complained about the same thing in the past..
Celebrities / Re: Kemi Olunloyo On Tiwa Savage Sextape: Any Fan, Friend, Ex Supporting You Is Fake by summerflame(m): 5:56am On Oct 23, 2021
TOPCRUISE:
Only someone that wants you dead will leak your sextape and nudes on the internet.

She leaked it herself to gain grams and more popularity based on her new song..

Tiwa is really wayward. I remember when her ex husband alleged her of sleeping around that year
Celebrities / Re: Yul Edochie Reacts To Tiwa Savage Sex Tape by summerflame(m): 10:03pm On Oct 22, 2021
kambili999:
Can we just stop promoting this woman's misdeed?

Continuously talking about it is granting her the attention and audience she wants.

The whole idea of people trying to want to console her and pat her back for the so called 'blackmail' is funny indeed.

She wasn't doped when the whole filming was going on. So what was she expecting That it will be used as a souvenir for she and her lover?

Now coming to play the victim and claiming its blackmail??


Oh please undecided

I’m proud of u sis

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Politics / Re: Activists Announce Venues For EndSARS Protests Across Nigeria And Abroad by summerflame(m): 9:39am On Oct 19, 2021
numericalguy:


Why are you yeebos so evil and full of lies. I live and work in Abuja and there is no SARS in Abuja. Why must you lie to destroy Nigeria.

This was how your evil DJ switch was telling lies a year ago which lead to the death of so many innocent Nigerians.

Well mr. Tribal fool, I’m a Yoruba man by tribe and when a car of a friend got stolen here in Abuja, they refer us to the sars about two months ago.

For your information, I live in Asokoro.

I won’t say more than that sir
Politics / Re: Activists Announce Venues For EndSARS Protests Across Nigeria And Abroad by summerflame(m): 5:20am On Oct 19, 2021
Philipponzaghi:
Lekki massacre lol.

Who will they now be doing remembrance for when the victims are unknown since 1 year ago?

Personally I think the theme of the protest should be changed. EndSarz sound dumb because SARS was already abolished and 1 year after there is still no SARS.

Trust me, they brought them back.. Here in Abuja, there is still SARS

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Romance / Re: Uber And Bolt Drivers Are Harassing My Girlfriend by summerflame(m): 8:04am On Oct 09, 2021
Billyddude:
grin grin grin

Typo error I guess,, you meant OP doesn't have a wheel cover,,talk more of tyre.......car was a typo error.

He doesn’t even have a wheel spanner talk less of screw driver
Politics / Re: Pictures As Tinubu Returns To Nigeria After Undergoing Knee Surgery In London by summerflame(m): 6:51am On Oct 09, 2021
promzy555:
Next President of ?

Bourdillion estate

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Romance / Re: Uber And Bolt Drivers Are Harassing My Girlfriend by summerflame(m): 6:48am On Oct 09, 2021
sisisioge:
Haha! She must be one heck of a hotie hotievfor them to be chasing her like that. I'm not sure if I should congratulate or sympathise with you grin

He needs our sympathy cos his foolishness is a top-notch..

Imagine one useless idiot that has never work hard and swear for money before calling Uber and bolt driver broke..
Romance / Re: Uber And Bolt Drivers Are Harassing My Girlfriend by summerflame(m): 6:43am On Oct 09, 2021
BigYash:
How old are you? If you are more than 20,just know say you be mumu. Wise up streetwise,no let girl dey manipulate you my gee. A word is enough.. She sees you as a fool.. That's the fact.. No umber harras nobody, she just want you to be using ur car to show up. Go dey carry her na. Na you love pass..

This OP wey dey talk like person wey dey suffer from complex doesn’t have a car.. I doubt it

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Romance / Re: Uber And Bolt Drivers Are Harassing My Girlfriend by summerflame(m): 6:39am On Oct 09, 2021
Monaco2:
I honestly no understand how those guys wey first comment Dey think o, she told him she is in a relationship n yet he find her come house, if that’s not a pervert move I don’t understand wat is....... this is probably how stalking starts, b4 u kno he might harm her..... y on earth should d driver go to her house unannounced...... wat nonsense
So because he never marry her he shouldn’t protect her against perverts n stalkers disguised as Uber drivers?!? U guys need ur brain examined, I’m not sure u lots a matured

Don’t ever believe words that comes out of woman’s mouth.. it has been like that from the time of methuselah..

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Romance / Re: Uber And Bolt Drivers Are Harassing My Girlfriend by summerflame(m): 6:36am On Oct 09, 2021
Ofadaman:
During the course of the ride, you have no idea what she discussed with them or the kind of vibe she gives to them, most woman hears news of Uber driver trying to hook up with their passengers and they also try to spawn their own stories and experiences.

Sometime ago,after work I decided to pick a few riders going my.way to make a few bucks, I picked up a working class lady(banker) ,unknowing to her that I'm also in the profession, she began to flirt with me and make many suggestive stuff, later on ,I dropped her off. She called me late in the night an hour later, telling me.she left her necklace in my ride, I checked and found it on.the seat, I told her I'd bring it over to her tomorrow that's when thing got ugly she made up a story that she doesn't go to bed without it and it also doubles as a key to unlock the cabinet were she keeps her asthma drugs, so I had to drive to her place ,that's when she formed being sick and asked me in, she dress so skimpily and I knew it wasn't about the necklace key, she offered me wine and spaghetti, we watched Netflix and had sex.

The next day I reached out to her and she acted as If I'm harrasing.teling.me.shes engaged and all.

She used u to cure her konji but if it’s the other way round, those daughter of Lucifer won’t let us rest here tagging u a rapist and all sort of names..

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Romance / Re: Uber And Bolt Drivers Are Harassing My Girlfriend by summerflame(m): 8:59pm On Oct 08, 2021
Decryptor:


Are you the only one dating a fine girl in Nigeria that you should come here to disturb us? Or you just want to tell us that you have a fine girlfriend. Getat bro

He’s suffering from self esteem.. a lady that is another men’s intimacy gadget

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Romance / Re: Uber And Bolt Drivers Are Harassing My Girlfriend by summerflame(m): 8:58pm On Oct 08, 2021
Bobxin:


Definitely, I pity him. He should buy her a car if at all. It's illiteracy to dehumanize people just for a girl. I'm disappointed.

The same car she will drive go Bleep another guy?

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