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hmmm, i have spent abt 2hours reading this thread, so many answers suits me(infact i felt like shaking hands wit sum guys response) and some didnt realy go down wel.

First of all I APPRECIATE EVERYONE FOR TAKING THEIR TIME TO DROP THEIR EXPERIENCES. MANY THANKS.. YOur comments has given me a sense of direction to appoarch this matter.
I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN PROVIDING FORHER NEEDS 100% . Although i earn more than she earns and i dnt ask her how she spends her money,infact she tels me all abt her earnings.

Regards my wife, we love each other very well and she's ready to listen to my own point. she said "she's only tryin to erase d western world mentality i have abt mariage wer couple share financial responsibilities. she also said it speak less of a man to do that! although she agreed she cant watch me doing d spendings alone, bt it shouldnt be mandatory"
she made an illustration. if she agree to d idea,it wil make me loose my respect as d husband and d marriage wil b a "business transaction" where we share percentage 80% to 20%. (my head bowed down,i smiled). I think she makes sense, innit?

My Own, Although,I have lived in the UK sum couple of yrs and i have been to marriage seminars n counsellings in the UK b4 coming back to naija to settledown. I DNT ASK HER FOR MONEY, i asked her wot she tinks if husband n wife share financial reponsibilities BECAUSE OF THE ECONOMIC SITUATION. .
BUT MY PEOPLE, IS IT A BAD IDEA Or I've got d wrong mentality ni (hard sayin)

@poster, pls scrap d car n get ur money

THANKS TO ALL DAT HAVE RESPONDED.

PLEASE, MY wife agrues dat am not man enough to take care of my responsibility thats y i tried to share d financial responsibilities, she believes women should ONLY CONTRIBUTE IF THEY FEELS LIKE,VOLUNTARILY, BUT NOT MANDATORY!. (because she's an igbo and they believe d man should do all financial burdens).

I STILL DONT KNW HOW TO MAKE HER REALISE THIS POINT, THOUGH SHE's DOING HER MASTERs RITE NOW,
PLEASE IF ANYONE KNOWS ANY MARIAGE COUNSELLOR TO SPEAK TO
i wil apreciate.
I STIL WELCOME MORE ADVISE FROM YOU ALL

pls share ur experience. very important pls

Hello wonderful people, There's something i stil have not understand especially when it comes to "financial responsibilities" of a relationship or the family altogether.
my wife argues: A wife SHOULD NOT have any financial commitment in the relationship/family ONLY IF SHE VOLUNTARILY WILL., then she can contribute. BUT NOT MANDATORY!

my own agruement: I believe d husband should take about 70% of d financial responsibilities while his wife should assist 30% of it due to d economic situation of country. since d husband and d wife are working.

I hope everyone understands my point here? howeva i believe nobody knws it all.
Am willing to hear ur take on it.
Thanks n cheers

pls Ademola, I would like to knw d total cost of toyota avensis 2000model , Ac,auto-trans,mileage not more dan 100K, etc. pls u can send me email: sunky21show@yahoo.com (jst d total cost so dat we can have a deal)

dis guy must b dreaming or wot? pls be honest to urself, can u use ur own buy dis jetta at 400k? not to say 550k. mstchew

wots d current mileage pls

pls wots d current mileage? vry quick pls

oga poster, can u show us mileage,enigine pix,interior,? u dey show us tires, shey na tire we go buy abi na car?

30k wit one gallon of palmwine, my guy i don try 4u o. no complain!

pls tell me d current mileage of d car? vry urgent pls?

pls what is d mileage? so we can proceed for inpection

@poster, u knw wot?u shld have start from 1.5m abi? 960k is too small for 199999966666 car, One Word!

@Ayo, i have sent u a mail pls reply... any other offer pls?

I dnt mind any nearest specificatn, as far its durable, n good pls

my budget is 50k:
specification: harddrive - 250gb or more
OS -window7
memory- 3gb
webcam
screen size 15inches
etc : - - - -

PLEASE< I WNT RELIABLE, TRUST WORTHY INDIVIDUAL to make me an offer.
THANK

@OP, for ur mind... u don put picture

wots d mileage? are there anytin to be fixed on d suv? pls get back to me

pls can u upload d interior pix 4me to see?

its true o, bride price starts from 250k. i witnessed one,

can it be used on generator?

wots d mileage pls?

send to sunky21show@yahoo.com

pls how much does it cost to refill d AC gas? is there anyother electrical/mechanical fault? pls let me know. tx

ok guys, its actually a black colour BB, (i dnt realy knw abt torch 1,2 or 3). i saw a new one in a shop in london for 240pounds (61k naira), so am wondering if its cheaper in naija,rite? bcoz i wil like to get it wer its cheap. tnx

pls guys, i jst wnt to have an idea of d price to get a new BB TORCH. pls post d least amount i can get it.
tnx

@femi4,reloboy and others dat saved my laptop, I AM SO GLAD ! i finally resolved d issue wit it. i followed d instructions u gave me, thus its been working perfectly.infact i feel like a computer guru after all, hehe , tnx guys .-- 3 gbosa for those names mentioned above. wa gba yi !

cheap indeed.

pls what is d mileage?

@JPWORLD,YOUR PAPA MAD MAN!!! IDIOT !

YOUR PAPA MAD MAN!!! IDIOT !