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Romance / Re: Talk Some Sense Into My Head.... This Guy Is No Good For Me by SunshineNYC(f): 10:24am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Dygeasy: Tbh if it was just sex or looks I would have been moved on a long time ago. He might not treat me well in the sense of our relationship but there is so much more to him. Things that I admire and that's why I've been reluctant to let go. It pains my heart that so many think that it must be the sex. I'm not that shallow. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Talk Some Sense Into My Head.... This Guy Is No Good For Me by SunshineNYC(f): 10:19am On Jul 31, 2015 |
0luwatope: I agree with so much of what you said. You may be just a teen but you express yourself with wisdom. Hoping for the best but being prepared for the worse will probably save me a lot of future heartache. I'm not going to barricade my heart though because that can cause you to shut good people out unless by "barricade" you mean being more vigilant about who I let in an when. If so that's solid advice. Thanks. |
Romance / Re: Talk Some Sense Into My Head.... This Guy Is No Good For Me by SunshineNYC(f): 10:14am On Jul 31, 2015 |
AnyibestDede: Thanks a lot. I'll give the "open my heart to a nice guy" thing a much bigger effort next time around. |
Romance / Re: Talk Some Sense Into My Head.... This Guy Is No Good For Me by SunshineNYC(f): 10:11am On Jul 31, 2015 |
swtdrms: You have made so many truthful statements here, I don't even know where to start. Thanks so much. A lot of this I know in my heart but it really helps when someone helps put it in perspective for you. Much respect. |
Romance / Re: Talk Some Sense Into My Head.... This Guy Is No Good For Me by SunshineNYC(f): 10:05am On Jul 31, 2015 |
raayah: "Unhealthy" is definitely the right word. I hear you loud and clear. Thanks for being honest. |
Romance / Re: Talk Some Sense Into My Head.... This Guy Is No Good For Me by SunshineNYC(f): 10:02am On Jul 31, 2015 |
kilokeys: I guess so |
Romance / Re: Talk Some Sense Into My Head.... This Guy Is No Good For Me by SunshineNYC(f): 10:00am On Jul 31, 2015 |
xpac01: It's not just about the sex. I've tried giving the green light to someone else. Guess I need to try harder. |
Romance / Talk Some Sense Into My Head.... This Guy Is No Good For Me by SunshineNYC(f): 3:52am On Jul 31, 2015 |
I'm in this terrible situation and don't know how to drag myself out of it. I met this guy 5 years ago and we've dated off and on since then. He's always a bit detached and distant in the relationship and I'll admit he's done some pretty messed up things to me. This relationship causes me a lot of anxiety, frustration and heartaches but still I love him.Our last break up was a year ago and it was the worst of all. I don't want to make this too long so I won't go in to detail but it was so bad that for months I hated him, pure hatred and swore I would never speak to him again but he has a hold on me that I can't explain and here I am pining away for him again knowing fully well if I give in I'd be making a fool of myself. What is this grip that he has on my heart? It's just not natural how much I love this idiot that keeps mistreating me. I've tried to date another guy but couldn't make it work because I'm still stuck on my ex. I never thought I'd be in this situation and usually I'm a very level headed and rational person. I'm usually very careful about not accepting any form of abuse from anyone but when it comes to him, all good sense goes out the door. I need some big sis and big bro advice from you guys. How do I shake this stupidity aka love off? 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Advice Pls: Am In Love With An SS by SunshineNYC(f): 2:14pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
skyfullofstars: Yes babies can get the gene if the parents have it. The severity of the babies Sickle Cell (if they get it) depends on the genotype of both parents. Sometimes a baby may have traits of the disease but not the full blown disease. There are a lot of factors that determine whether or not the gene gets passed on and to what extent. |
Romance / Re: What Lessons Have You Learnt From Your Previous Relationship? by SunshineNYC(f): 3:49am On Jul 23, 2015 |
Not everyone that admires your light deserves your shine aka some men/women are just not worth your time. Don't stick around and hope it gets better. If there are early warning signs that you won't get along as a couple just leave before investing more time and emotion and prolonging the hurt. |
Romance / Re: Help! My Girlfriend Wears Chain Around Her Waist. by SunshineNYC(f): 3:44am On Jul 23, 2015 |
It's just jewelry. The waist beads are cultural/ traditional jewelry and people have attached a lot of connotations (some negative) to them, but the truth is these days its decorative. That's my opinion though. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Advice Pls: Am In Love With An SS by SunshineNYC(f): 3:25am On Jul 23, 2015 |
skyfullofstars: It's a genetic (hereditary) disorder that affects the red blood cells. Instead of being a concave disc shape the cells are sickle (half moon) shaped. Hence the name "sickle cell". The shape of the cells caus them to clump together and get stuck in vessels. This affects blood flow and oxygen transport around the body. If cells don't get the oxygen they need a lot of unfortunate things begin to happen in the body including unbearable pain and severe anemia. That's an explanation to the best of my knowledge. There's a lot more accurate information out there. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Advice Pls: Am In Love With An SS by SunshineNYC(f): 3:13am On Jul 23, 2015 |
It won't be an easy road but if you love her and think it's worth it I say go for it. the biggest concerns would be the likelihood of bringing children in to the world that have sickle cell and managing through her times of illness that may come in the future. She is a woman that deserves to be loved regardless of her genotype and you deserve to be with the person you love. Pray, pray and pray some more. God can do all things. Trust him and ask him for the answers and guidance you need in this situation. 1 Like 1 Share |
Culture / Re: What's The Deal With Front Teeth Gaps? by SunshineNYC(f): 5:43pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Fulaman198: You know you're wrong for that one lol gap teeth have nothing to do with care. |
Culture / Re: What's The Deal With Front Teeth Gaps? by SunshineNYC(f): 9:25pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
sassychic: You know I kinda like mine too but the pressure to have straight, perfect teeth is real. Especially since I live in the U.S. People here aren't fans of the gap. 1 Like |
Culture / Re: What's The Deal With Front Teeth Gaps? by SunshineNYC(f): 9:23pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Fulaman198: What about beautiful, straight pearly whites with a nice small gap? Does the gap take away from everything else? |
Culture / Re: What's The Deal With Front Teeth Gaps? by SunshineNYC(f): 9:21pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Chiam55: I've heard about it being a sign of luck and of having a high sexual drive too. I've also heard its a sign of fertility. |
Culture / Re: What's The Deal With Front Teeth Gaps? by SunshineNYC(f): 11:58pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
zigger: Why? Isn't it the same for men? |
Culture / What's The Deal With Front Teeth Gaps? by SunshineNYC(f): 11:27pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
I noticed that when I told my friends that I'm considering braces to get rid of the small gaps in my teeth most told me I'm crazy and it's beautiful while some were indifferent and others encouraged it. I know some aspects of beauty can be cultural so I ask here. Do you think front teeth gaps are attractive or something that should be fixed? |
Religion / Re: . by SunshineNYC(f): 7:15pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
Emteebee: I don't consider myself religious. I don't blindly follow prescribed rules, instead I have a close and personal relationship with Christ and won't trade that for anyone or anything. I've been a part of this world long enough to know what works and what doesn't. Thank you for your response. 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: . by SunshineNYC(f): 7:08pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
kay1one2: Thank you so much for your encouraging words. I appreciate it. I do agree with you and I plan to be a lot more intentional about living right and doing what's right even when it gets difficult. I will "fight the good fight of faith" because faith and a strong will get me through this. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: . by SunshineNYC(f): 7:01pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
AK6464: I agree. I do need to get more involved at my church. I live in New York and honestly not a lot of young people these days have a desire for God and living a Christ centered life. I say that to say, they're aren't a lot of young people at my church so most of my interactions are with much older people and sometimes they are hard to relate to. |
Religion / . by SunshineNYC(f): 6:06pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
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