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Trivia:
Nigerian marriages have become marriage between families. It is difficult to divorce your nuclear family from the extended especially when you live in the same state, and your spouse cannot drink or eat without contacting the parents. How the other spouse deals with that is rocket science.

Sending her packing is exactly what her parents hoped I would do. In the end, na me go lose, with my kids in their house and my wife under their roof, I would be the bad guy. As a matter of fact, parents have one way or the other been instrumental in many broken homes. These ones believed I couldn't cater for their daughter as much as they wanted. Funny thing is, they also were struggling at the beginning years of their marriage. But now, are quick to despise days of little beginnings.

You cannot underplay[/color] the part of money in getting your wife's respect, and her family. It is very essential. Else you will be as good as that guy who is just living with their daughter, calling himself her husband. I can tell you, the respect has changed massively now. Im not saying other things are not involved o. I wish I could tell you more here. But take it from me. Money is very key. A husband should never lack it

On the part of marriage of convenience, I strongly disagree. It was simply love and compatibility. I think I mentioned that earlier.

[color=#006600]May you never lack bro. I can relate very well

U must be vely vely stu-pi-di.

pocohantas:
Nigerian men and the overflogged, 'what you offer is sex', then in the same breathe say if you can't give sex...stay away from relationships. It's not about what she can offer but what you willingly accept. If you give the average guy everything, without sex...lots of them won't be satisfied. Face it and stop the 'it's all you can offer' talk.

When will you guys realise that sticking with a girl who offers just sex and isn't ready to improve, makes you as stupid, if not more stupid than the girl? You reserve the right to walk away from these kind of girls with your values intact...but you stay, because what you also want is sex.


I just imagine how angry some people will be if a girl says guys without money shouldn't think of romantic affairs. Don't give me that, so you sell your body. Good number of Nigerian relationships are fukcd up, guys in it for sex...girls for money.

Tueeh!!!

May God bless u my sister

The op is 100% correct! They don't! My cousins r JW,and I also have couple of JW friends too. They don't,they rather listen to their own hymes

100% truth. Got couple of JW as friends,they will rather listen to circular music than listening to any Gospel music. The same goes the preaching,they don't listen to any other preaching except theirs.

na true talk o

rochas okorocha joke silva late pst bimbo odukoya

well it dpends on d agreement u both have,bt as husband n wife;i do not c anytin wrong in dat

[quote
author=Nightshift]But the law must be respected. He might even be good
like Chime, or better. We will find out if he gets there. Nigerian
politicians must learn to respect our constitution. It's not just a
piece of paper....[/quote]tell dem ooo

wen i failed my 4 units load course,i so cried like i neva cried b4,it gave my G.P k legs

baba God,me dey 400L final yr,me no want extra yr oo,n me no want park ma load bak 2 my mama house after skl cos e get as e b,u know wetin i min na? i won MARRY.

they call demselves 'P.C' coined frm d word PEACE! n dey av bin living in peace 4 28 yrs now. though old fashioned

guys,u mustn't buy her d whole world,a li2 gift is jst enuf,n let her also reciprocate,dats love. pls don't shy away frm li2 responsibilites. dat makes u a man!

its jst a way of punishing us, instead of hitting. cos dey knw hw painfu it is wen dey refuse 2 eat our food,best tin is jst pamper him n c it works though am nt married o

d man com class? d man com class

a man dat ll b my BEST frend,very close 2 God,sensitive 2 my needs, n also play wit my kids lyk he used 2 do wen he was a boy.

jst got in2 1 recently,i op i enjoy it.

non,instead dey claimd i did

but seriously dis is not fair,dey sud b considered if not der wud b increase in crime rate

chai,too bad may her gentle soul rest in peace

yes dear,cos it helps to boost ur spiritual life

heew,alarming!!!!!!!!!!