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Bally Balat simply known as Bally, is a Nigerian-born entrepreneur. He hails from Jos, Plateau state, Nigeria. A housemate in Big Brother Naija

HUSBAND SCARCITY!!!
This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of
misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. “Husband Scarcity” has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner.

And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a “Husband Scarcity” problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequatecorresponding numbers of both genders. I don’t think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed
himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say?

We created what we now see as
“Husband Scarcity” for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like “he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable” and then she adds “God fearing” in order not to
sound so worldly. Then, check the
number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, “I cannot suffer in my father’s
house and then go and start suffering with a man.” What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big
and end small.

The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just
1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of “Husband Scarcity”. Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our
economy to find a man who is of
marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity.

The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete
and fulfilled MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth.
For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS… DON’T CONFUSE A MAN’S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is
today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow.

Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS
DESTINATION. Join in alleviating
“husband scarcity”. PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is
that you should stop setting your
standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And
that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. cc; lalasticlala

guys please vote KEMEN, the house cant be complete without him, TBOSS is arrogant, URIEL is fake, Debbie rice/beans is boring, if kemen leaves, we'll have no one to laff at again. VOTE KEMEN

Is it just me or does anyone else find this quite confusing

When are you gonna put down that blunt?
Shatter that bong? Stop going to the bar?
Stop numbing your pain?
GOD IS CALLING YOU!
When are you gonna take that Bible off the shelf, dust it off and read it? When are you gonna stop running?
GOD IS CALLING YOU!
When are you gonna start paying some attention to the things of God and stop living for yourself and what you want?
GOD IS CALLING YOU!
When are you gonna make that separation from the world and commit to Christ?
Tomorrow may be too late!
GOD IS CALLING YOU!

we are breathes away from eternity, repent for the kingdom of God is at hand

am really in dire needs of beard, guys any tip

There are those who genuinely like Efe, but most of his fans just have crowd mentality. They aren't sure y dey support him.

ammyluv2002:
Nigerians fit do am o

na u go lead the gang, #teamKemen

Good thing #BBNaija is in SA. If not, Nigerians will storm the live show just to shout "Bisola! TTT is a married man!!!"

ijechikky:
iranu- abasha

lol, u no go shift with dis ur nose wey be like 4 corner tv

#teamTBOSS, teamMIYONSE, teamGIFTY, teamCOCOICE, na only tboss remain for our coup oh, the ttt, bisola, marvis coup want to clear our camp clean, let us all stand back and gve all our votes to TBOSS, put the efe gang to shame

Team Gifty/Soma/Miyonse/CocoIce let's all rally behind Tboss.

smarteez:
Kemen needs to be evicted the guy is a bleeping pervert

aunty o, the program is plus18, perverts are allowed

enemmo:
Nope.

When they kept insisting she play the game.She told them already that she didn't like any of them.

Then Oga Ekemini said something like maybe cos she already feels majority of the guys in the house already have babes they like,then she started by telling them she comes from a town where they snatch guys from babes,and if she had been interested in any guy in the house,she would have made the move. Debbie and Bisola were giving her morale.

make she cme snatch me abeg, anyway thanks

enemmo:
I go snatch am. Ese 2017

TTT Don invite Bisola upstairs.

Game Don end,all man Don scatter

what made her to say such, dey annoy her?

kowema:
Give the guy a break... Someone is grooving along side the party n u say he is Rapey.Rubbish talk.

i like the way you think, being a lady..... Some pple are just hypocritical

that ese twerking ehh, i forget indomie wey dey fire cme dey watch yansh and tomorrow i go dey claim born again...... Bt the ese yansh sha

Dhaffs:
Atleast ah qot wat ah needed

lol, so u waited all 90 minutes to quote me, haha, anyway, e be like say u go dey drop tips for me oh, boys broke

arsenal fans be like

Dhaffs:
All ah nid in vhis match is or 2.5

see your life, so the one wey barca do you yesterday no dey enough baa

COYG

slap1:
Will Gotv show the game, who knows?

no they wont, na viewing centre sure pass

NiteCrawler:
Like if you want to see the video.

Share if you don't

if only nairalanders hustle for money the way they hustle for likes, Nigeria would have been a better place

what goodnews has this buhari administration brought??

Ayokunleayoolashakirudeen:
Biggie said.... at least one housemate will be evicted.

so expect one or more than one

its going to be three, they want to reduce the number of housemates to the number of weeks left

Ayokunleayoolashakirudeen:
yes she is also up... efe added her.

they are 5 in total
sorry for the mistakes

how many would be evicted

pearl360:
It was an error. Bassey, Bisola, Coco, Debbie and Gifty are up for eviction.

thanks dear, so that means three would be evicted right??

Ayokunleayoolashakirudeen:
List ofHousemates -Who they Voted
Bally- Bisola ,TTT
Debbie-Marvis,Bisola
Kemen-Bisola,TTT
Cocoice-TTT,Bassey
Tboss-Marvis,Bassey
Bassey-cocoice,Kemen
Uriel-TTT,ccoice
Gifty-Bassey,Cocoice
Efe-Tboss,Cocoice
TTT-Debby rise ,Gifty
Marvis-Cocoice,Debby rise
Bisola-Debby rise ,Coco ice
So far: Cocoice 6
Bassey:3
Bisola:3
TTT:4
Debby Rise:3
Efe:0
Bally :0
Uriel :0
Tboss:1
Gifty:1
Kenen:1
Marvis:1
Igwe just swapped TTT withGifty.....Am loving this game
Meanwhile
Bisola,Bassey,cocoice and Debby rise up for Eviction

bro i dont understand o, is gifty also up for eviction and how many in total re up for eviction

Ayokunleayoolashakirudeen:
when does voting start?

who and who re up for eviction