Car Talk › Re: Suicide & Car Keys. by swazpedro(m): 8:40pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
HeavenlyBang: euphemism ˈjuːfəmɪz(ə)m/Submit noun a mild or indirect word or expression
I have no stake in this, and possess absolutely zero interest in embarking on a psycho-philosophical discourse on the concept of suicide. you Sabi English bros.. |
Food › Re: Gas Safety Tips Everyone Should Know by swazpedro(m): 8:17pm On May 16, 2018 |
ok, was expecting something new though |
Webmasters › Re: Facebook Closes 583 Million Fake Accounts by swazpedro(m): 2:43am On May 16, 2018 |
and how did their blocking add to our data |
Crime › Re: Pastor Arrested In Imo For Robbery & Kidnapping Of Baby Boy (Picture) by swazpedro(m): 3:35pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
See as they have been judged by all the comments, nobody wants to listen to their own side of the story, what if they are telling the truth, una dey here dey shout kill, castrate, amputate... This na the same people wey go complain if Sars harass them, we all know Nigerian police.. My take is, what if, just what if they are both saying the truth? |
Crime › Re: Promising Young Man strips Naked After running Mad in Lekki Lagos (Video) by swazpedro(m): 7:34pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Lies |
Politics › Re: Ojukwu's Bunker To Be Converted Into Tourist Site by swazpedro(m): 1:35pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
johnnyvid: lol how will you build that hmm? Do you want to build yours... I build bunkers |
Politics › Re: Ojukwu's Bunker To Be Converted Into Tourist Site by swazpedro(m): 10:25am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Holla at me if you want to build your own bunker |
Family › Re: 198 Million: Fellow Nigerians, Let's Go Easy On The Sex Please by swazpedro(m): 10:23am On Apr 13, 2018 |
What do u expect when one guy is willing to have seven baby mamas and still plan on getting married to give birth to 5, |
Celebrities › Re: Yvonne Nelson Finally Reveals Her Daughter’s Face by swazpedro(m): 10:16am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Bebe mama.... Giving birth out of wedlock now a norm |
Christianity Etc › Re: Traders At Ladipo Market Beats Out Demons Out Of Their Unsold Car Spare Parts by swazpedro(m): 10:14am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Hehe my country and religion... Smh |
Politics › Re: How I Will Tackle Problems Of Insecurity, Power If Elected President - Sowore by swazpedro(m): 10:11am On Apr 13, 2018 |
He should better use his money to do investment oo, but I might vote him, if PDP brings out a stupid candidate too |
Career › Re: Building Technology/ Engineering Forum : A Thread For Builders. by swazpedro(m): 9:01am On Apr 11, 2018 |
Let me stay here... |
Family › Re: My Sister Got Married Without My Knowledge -- Now They Need Me To Mediate by swazpedro(m): 10:48pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
KOPT33: I am the first son of my father who is now late.
When my father died some 11 years ago, I relocated to Lagos to finish my schooling. I lived with my aunt then but I had to leave their home because I was being abused. Upon leaving my aunt's house, things became so difficult for me but I persevered with my education till I finished my bachelors.
During my lean years, I fell out with most of my family members. My mom refused to speak to me for three years, I was essentially the outcast of the family. During this period, my mom and some elders in our family gave out my sisters hand in marriage.
The couple had a trad/white wedding. Bride price was paid, all the customs of our people were followed save for one: the consent or knowledge of the first son. I wouldn't get to hear about this marriage until six months later. That night, I cried because their action proved that I was nobody, a nothing to my mom and siblings.
Anyways, I kept on working hard and soon became comfortable. I mended fences with everyone in my family, but even at that, no one offered an explanation why things unfolded the way it did or an apology. I didn't make any noise, I just picked up myself and moved on after committing the lessons learned to mind.
Six years and two children later, my sisters marriage has hit the rocks.
Now they're asking me as the first born to mediate and talk to the man.
I REFUSED.
The man (sister's husband) won't speak to my mom or the other elders he had been dealing with regarding a possible reconciliation. My family know me to be a good mediator and peace maker and they are not wrong.
I refused because there is no point mediating in a marriage that was done over my head.
As it stands now, I have no interest in playing head of house or anything of such nature. I send money, I help make connections, I foot bills for everyone in the family but I leave their decision making to them since they discounted me right from the very beginning. I have no interest whatsoever in becoming a leader in that family.
What would you do if you were in my shoes? The true meaning of forgiveness is doing what you would have done, if the incident didn't happen, I you have truly forgotten the past, then mediate and let everything be like it didn't happen, I feel your pain though |
Travel › Re: Arik Air Caught Fire Airborne On Lagos To Accra Flight by swazpedro(m): 11:54pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
How come, you no keep evidence, and where you the only one in the flight? |
Politics › Re: Defence Headquarters Replies Ekweremadu: "Who Says The Military Can’t Take Over by swazpedro(m): 11:52pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
It happened in Zimbabwe, it can happen here too |
Politics › Re: Idris Ajimobi Spotted Praying By The Roadside With His Shoes On by swazpedro(m): 11:50pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
How this one go take affect election? How are we even sure it is a governor's son? |
Health › Re: Boy Ends Up With Steve Johnson's Syndrome After Taking This (graphic picture) by swazpedro(m): 10:29pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Chai sickness plenty oo |
Politics › Re: VAIDS: FG To Name, Shame, Prosecute Tax Evaders From March 31 by swazpedro(m): 5:48pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
It's a lie, it won't happen, fg always talk but never act |
Politics › Re: Bayelsa Information House That Houses The Ministry Of Info And Other Parastatals by swazpedro(m): 5:37pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Bayelsa to the world |
Crime › Re: Zenith Bank Robbery: IMSU Graduate Arrested by swazpedro(m): 10:22pm On Feb 23, 2018 |
ruggedtimi: with ur phone number nigeria security personel go follow u anywhere, even NDLEA. U wonder why Evans bought a satelitte phone. Anyway if as far as u dey nig and ur name enter bad book dem must catch u. Brother leave phone own, na either jazz or them don beat the person brother to stupor or even shoot am for leg, em go come disclose where em brother dey... |
Crime › Re: How My Electrician Almost Raped My Nanny – Nigerian Lady Reveals by swazpedro(m): 5:08pm On Feb 23, 2018 |
Hehe see konji morale... Choi |
Crime › Re: Zenith Bank Robbery: IMSU Graduate Arrested by swazpedro(m): 4:59pm On Feb 23, 2018 |
It's like police don dey use jazz oo |
Family › Re: Man Dumps His Blind Wife In Port Harcourt, Packs Out Of His Home With Housemaid by swazpedro(m): 8:26am On Feb 22, 2018 |
Why? ...... Choi |
Phones › Re: Nigerian Man Recounts How A Strangers Rudely Ask For His Charger While Using It. by swazpedro(m): 2:37am On Feb 22, 2018 |
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Phones › Re: Nigerian Man Recounts How A Strangers Rudely Ask For His Charger While Using It. by swazpedro(m): 9:25pm On Feb 21, 2018 |
purem: You're the IDIOT here, HOW only an IDIOT and a broke FOOL walk around with charger crossing his neck. WHY
Think you're different from the person asking you charger? WHEN Sorry bro you may even be worser than him. WORSER! WHERE?
SMH How, why, when WHERE.... choi |
Politics › Re: Yobe Government Confirms Over 50 School Girls Missing After Boko Haram Attack by swazpedro(m): 9:18pm On Feb 21, 2018 |
Another chibok story loading choi |
Politics › Re: Another Of Hunkuyi's Property Set For Demolition by swazpedro(m): 9:17pm On Feb 21, 2018 |
This same El rufai wey pursue men from Abuja wan pursue men from their own state too. Choi |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Announces Release Date Of First Song Of 2018 (photo) by swazpedro(m): 11:34am On Feb 10, 2018 |
Make e sweet oo |
Politics › Re: Governor Ikpeazu Receives Obasanjo In Abia As He Arrives For A Burial Ceremony by swazpedro(m): 11:32am On Feb 10, 2018 |
Obj |
Car Talk › Re: Range Rover Goes Up In Flames Near Third Mainland In Lagos. Photos by swazpedro(m): 6:09pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Keep fire extinguisher for motor, u complain say road safety dey worry, well it's none of my business since no life was lost |
Car Talk › Re: Cold Mornings, Expect Battery Failures. by swazpedro(m): 12:04pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
bigass: 1 I just saw the reason he doesn't reply... World people Sha... Typing curse words because someone ain't replying you, |
Politics › Re: How Cn I Become A Full Member Of Political Party(pdp) by swazpedro(m): 10:05pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
empire2017: are u doubting mei? okay if u must know,i am from assa in ohaji/egbema local government Area imo state.Go nd do ur verification Thanks. OK no need of verification, your state don't even have functional lga.. And you are from a militant oil rich lga... So you don't have I accept |