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castielo: ok.. dude.. I must commend you, you've done well.. you av a good conscience. Abortion, the way I see, is the same thing as murder. Your friends took the devil's bait.. allow them to face wateva consequence comes. Now.. u've done ur best ok, u've adviced them. Rest ur conscience.

many peeps here don't undastand wat you goin tru.. If eventually, anytin happens to dat chica, you'll lose ur peace becoz u'll somhow feel responsible for her death. but hey, diz is a devil versus deep blue sea kinda scenario.. so be wise.

I'll advise u talk them into meeting a counselor.

damn kids!

I thank you very much for tapping into how I feel..and recognise what a life changing decision I'm making. A lot of people condeming me here as a sell out don't recognise the fact that I'm now in a triangular secret. If anything go wrong, I cannot live with myself.

[quote author=Foxy_Flow]If they want to abort, let them abort. Sake of say he tell you no mean say him need your opinion. All you need to do is stand strong by his side.

You self, your amebo too much, you carry the matter come Nairaland. Dude, you just betrayed him [/quote]last time I checked nairaland is an anonymous, faceless forum.

wordsbase: I see that you really want to betray them... You're only asking this question here because you want a reason to justify it.

Your friend confided in you a matter like this.. The best you can do is what you've done: advice. Anything more than that is betrayal.

Ohh.. I see... You wanted the girl for yourself, and you're hurt she went with him instead..

the last part of your comment was incredibly myopic, disappionting and frankly offensive!!

Sepp360: Whats your fucking business? Ooohh!... Because yhu were told huh?...


Yhu've done the best thing yhu could by advising the both of them!.. Thats enough for now!.. B the way, even if they finally succumb to your threat and decided to bring that child into this world on such harsh grounds, yhu wouldn't be there to help them out!...

harsh grounds? Did'nt they think of that when having fun? If one is old enough to have sex, you should be responsible enough to take care on the consequences.

One of the most important things that binds best friends is the freedom to share secrets with each other and be sure it will never be exposed. If a best friend exposes the secrets of another, it is an unmitigated betrayal but are there cases that deserves and exception?

My best friend(18) recently confided in me that his girl friend(19) was pregnant for him. He told me the secret was burdensome and he had to share with someone, he picked me as his best friend because he was sure I will never tell anyone. He further told me that they were in the planning stages of carrying out an abortion. Now this is incredibly scary, I know both his parents and his girlfriend's parents, and they know mine. We are more or else, inter family friends. The taught of an abortion scares me, firstly I'm against baby murder, and secondly I have been imagining the worse possible senerios, death,destroyed womb,etc and in the event of any of this happening, I won't forgive myself knowing I knew all along about the abortion and did nothing about it, what will my parents say if they find out and knew but said nothing? How will I live with myself knowing I played a role in the death of an innocent baby. I have asked my friend and his girl to reconsider their decision but they are resolute. Now, I have been debating within myself if I should report the whole thing to their parents. They might be angry with me but someday, they'll know I saved them from danger and a grave mistake. Or should I just mind my buisness, respect the trust they have in me as a friends, look the other way and hope the abortion goes well without anyone finding out?

So true! I've been dating one girl since high school. We really love each other and have no problems but at times I wonder what it'll feel like to date someone else. Is the grass greener on the outside?