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Efna55:
First of all, it seems you're not man enough, she feels you need her more than she needs you.. Whenever a woman tells you she want to leave you, tell her to go ahead, encourage to carry on, if she didn't move out push her out and watch her come back begging, if she didn't back, move on, you both are never meant to be, but in this your story she must come back and beg, it seems she has nothing of her own even... stop being a simp and you'll be taken more seriously.

Bahamas95:
One thing with me is that I hardly talk to strangers irrespective of who you're. Women crave for attention and if they notice you don't give a damn about them they get irritated.

Whenever I find myself in the midst of guys and pretty girl(s) I am always the last person to talk to the girl(s), most times they talk to me first.....If a girl truly finds you attractive she would do anything within her power to get your attention.

I have NEVER chased any woman in my life and I dated many pretty girls before I finally got married. What I discovered about women is that the pretty ones are easier to get, just be smart.

Do whatever works for you.

lacasera14:
I like your perspective. Quite thoughtful. However, this reverse psychology hardly works for a couple of reasons.
1. Women have ego, especially the beautiful ones with a ton of admirers.
2. Unless they love you to a fault and that's because of something you possess that none of her courters have. Even at that, the ego in her won't allow her return the attention you didn't give.
3. I believe a woman can love you and crave you after she's known you for who you are not what you're not by distancing yourself from her. You only create an aura of mystery and if she's interested in you because of that, it's because of curiosity not attraction. When she eventually finds out there's nothing special about you she'd leave.
4. If you must roll by the scarcity and ignoring principle, then you have something special about you that when she draws close she gets glued.
5. Also, you have to be lucky that while you're creating scarcity another guy doesn't emerge from the blues and sweeps her away.
6. This theory of ignoring is brazenly dumb and doesn't worth even the sheet of the paper it's written on. I've put out a challenge let's try it. We create a WhatsApp group and share our results let's end this sharade and deception once and for all. It'll be fun while it lasts.

lacasera14:
So when a gurl tells you all these and sees a better guy who's giving her attention do you think she'll still come for you? She may even dump you and settle for less. You see why I said girls who do this don't have admirers. They're hardly chased after and that's why they cling unto guys who are clearly rejecting them. What caliber of women are you guys dealing with? I roll with women who believes they are the prize and any man that's too busy for them should be left alone to continue his busy life. We can do an experiment to end this argument once and for all. Who's game?

Ehinjuola:
Hello House...

My situation is actually a funny one.
I met my lady virgin which we maintain till we eventually make vow on alter last month.
King, I don't know how to say this but I will eventually say it as it's.
I can't penetrate my woman, king, it as if she doesn't have a place to penetrate, we've tried possible best, use lubricant and all sort but the pain is actually unbearable for her.
I don't know what to do
Help me push it to gain more audience for ppl to come to my aid.
I love my wife and I can't do without her. Pls.


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imampope:
MY TWO FRIENDS

I have two friends who are almost alike. As in, they resemble themselves for many angles.

I will call them James and John (Not their real names)

Both of them are average income earners. In Fact, they earn almost the same amounts. Both of them are average looking guys, both of them are about 26 years old, both of them are generous, they both live in a flat and both of them drive the same type of cars.

Here is the only difference between them…

Girls flock around James like flies. They love him, they throw themselves at him, and about a couple of girls had even fought over him in the past. Some of the girls even go as far as buying things for him and trying to tie him down by getting pregnant for him.

As in, he is a real player who effortlessly gets girls interested in him.

But John’s isn’t that lucky…

Getting a girl is a big wahala for him. And for the ones he MANAGES to get; the way they play him is very touching.

He buys them things, tells them how much he loves them, shows them that he really cares for them. And these girls hang around for a while then either dumps him, tell him they don’t love him or out rightly cheats on him.

Some hang around him for a while, allow him to spend on them and then they send him an IV to their wedding with some other dude.

So what is the difference between the two?

Why are they so alike, and yet, have different results with love?
What is James’s secret?

That is what I will show you…infact he uses ONE main trick.

THE TRICK is this: He becomes emotionally superior to the babe

BECOMING EMOTIONALLY SUPERIOR TO A BABE:

Girls love to be chased. They love to play hard to get – it’s their nature.

Sometimes their shakara is quite normal.

But some other times; they do the shakara for you because you irritate them and they don’t want you around. They do it so they can put you off.

If a girl ignores your calls,

Ignores your chats,

Doesn’t want to go out on a date with you,

Never agrees to visit you,

Cheats on you,

Acts cold on the phone with you,

Talks to you in a harsh tone when you talk to her,

Doesn’t agree to give you her number after you have asked her twice for it…

She is not playing hard to get this time, bro, she actually finds you irritating. That is the hard plain painful truth. She finds you so irritating that the only thing she wants to do is to give you those attitudes so you can just free her.

If you get this same behavior from MOST girls you approach, then you are like my friend John

But don’t worry – I am about to show you what will put a stop to it forever (Yes, I said it. forever).

So what can you do to put a stop to it?

By becoming emotionally superior to her.

How do you become emotionally superior?

Here is the trick; To get a girl interested in you you have to do the opposite of what other guys do around her.

Other Guys praise her.
Other Guys try never to offend her.
Other Guys say only nice things to her.
Guys call her to ask her why she doesn’t reply their calls.
Other guys beg her to love them…

The trick is never do any of these things other guys do but rather, do the direct opposite.

Why?

Because the old method of praising girls, telling them how you feel about them and buying things for them don’t work anymore – it might have worked when you were a teenager but guy, babes don wise up – as they grow older they become more akpo.

If the old method of always trying to impress girls work then the girls you’ve chased in the past for dey trip for you die

For instance, instead of praising a girl – tease her.

Don’t say: “You are beautiful” (It’s a dry praise she hears all the time. In Fact she has heard it so much that it just boosts her ego without making her feel anything for who said it)

Turn it around and make it more sexy by saying something more manly:

Take for instance:

On a date you can say something like: “on a scale of 1- 10. For your face, I will give you 5 points. I will need to see some qualities in you before I give you the other 5 points”

Now, if you keep face like mess and say this to a girl she will think you are an arrogant . The trick is to say it playfully – smile, relax and say it.
Most times when you say this to a girl she would go like: “For your mind. What are the qualities sha?”.
And you’ve hooked her…

You could throw in more teasing to turn up the tension by saying “Quality number one: give me 6 twins at a go for 2 points”.

So why does this works so well to set you apart from other guys?

It is simple plain psychology – human beings only LOVE interacting with people who are their level or above their level.
Trying to impress a girl you are chasing is like walking into her room crawling, with your hands stretched out as you beg for attention.
It makes a girl see you as someone below her.

Also, this method makes a girl go like WTF. Why is he so different from other guys, there must be something special about him – that’s just why he would behave this way.

MORE EXAMPLES FOR PROJECTING EMOTIONAL SUPERIORITY

# Never ask a girl how she feels about you. Never ever ever do it. My wahala is that even after reading this some guys will go out and still do it. when you ask a girl how she feels about you it makes her see you as someone who she has under her control. and when a girl feels she has you under her control, it kills every interest she has in you.

Women like men that are in control.

–#1. Never tell a girl how you feel about her TOO EARLY. I will keep saying this. Before you tell a girl how you feel about her you have to be sure she feels two times the same way for you. In eBook, The bang rule, i explained 3 steps you have to take before you let a girl know how you feel about her. follow those 3 steps in the exact way i explained them in the eBook and she would never think of friend zoning you.
– #2 Stop Seeking Her Approval. Even if you did not get any other thing from this article – just get this. I don’t preach disrespecting ladies, but still, guy – you are the man, not she. When you take your whole power as a guy and give it over to her, you are shooting yourself in the leg.

Some of the way most guys make this particular mistake is:

– They call a girl up and beg her to see them. Like, they beg.
– They beg a girl to call them. I overhead a guy saying something like this to a girl on phone one day: “Call me now, you never call me. Call me now”

Haba na. When you BEG a girl for anything you are handing your power to her and girls Never date a guy who is “weak”

In the book I went into details on how to be emotionally superior on Pages 59 – 66. The tips in those pages would ensure that the girls you like would always select you over other guys, These secrets are the same powerful leverage that “players” use to get girls who are dating rich men to cheat on those rich men for them.

To get the ebook sent to you today; Click: SHOW ME DETAILS.

In my ebook, The Bang Rule, I also revealed the following

– Two things you need to do within the first five minutes of walking up to a girl that would make her instantly like you…. Page 52

– One trick MOST GUYS DON’T KNOW that you can use to make a woman want to come over to your house to pay you a visit, even when she knows you have the intention of having sex with her… Page 25.

– How to make a girl take massive interest in you even to the extent of chasing you shamelessly…page 45

– One way to start a conversation with a girl you just met that will cripple all her defenses and make her polite with you. This ONE WAY will ensure that girls never embarrass you when you walk up to them to woo them… pages 55-56

– What to do that will make a girl always coming back to you, even if you treat her badly. This is the same secret players use to make a girl rush back to them after every quarrel…pages 66 – 67

– One thing you need to do around a girl you are asking out that will make her feel lucky that you are asking her out…. page 69

Plus many many more.

To get the ebook today, send a Whatsapp message on 08145371017

RealityKings:
Its a life of choices, after all David got Bathsheba from Uriah the same way. It's not about the man, it's always about the woman.
Its funny people always push moral-responsibilities and sexual responsibilities on Men

uche87:
Osahon George Osayimwen is a UK-based Nigerian journalist

uche87:
stooped idiot bastttarrddd
Spewing trash everywhere animal

Osahon George Osayimwen is a UK-based Nigerian journalist

Rosaline5000:
The 2 of them are bad, both rape and paternity fruad.
Just because you dislike women doesn't mean you will do mental gymnastics of comparing 2 immoral acts together.
What is bad is bad no comparison, all your long story just show you are just a misogynistic person

sorosoke101:
I have my own room. Nah conditions make crayfish bend ,I was not living with her b4 but when I lost my job I had to head back home to plan my life.

Islandlady:
How old are you?

I asked because you wants a serious relationship with a 19years old girl A girl that is still very young & naive! A girl that is not emotionally and morally ready for a serious relationship or marriage!

Kindly leave that girl and go look for a very mature woman for a serious relationship to protect your mental health, becos your crying just dey start tho!

kennybuluro:
Don't rush to update your PS4 console, e get why!

Updating your console deprives you alot of privilege as a typical Nigerian ooo.

Some say update your console so you can enjoy online gaming, no be for person wey dey stay for village oo, even some places for inside town sef, you go need dey find network inside your room. E come be now , wey 1gb be like 10mb.

A customer sent me this screenshot early this morning, I was like if you had not updated your console, shebi we would have installed all this games for just 1k each.

You buy a PS4 game Disc for 6k minimum, and you finish playing the game in like 3 hours, am sure you will be like your money don go. Because most gamers hardly replay the games they've finished playing.

Before you update that your console, ask questions, to avoid what happened in 1805. Don't come and start asking me what happened in 1805 oo.

The tori don dey long.

We sell hackable PS4 console
He hack PS4 console
And we also install your favorite games on your PS4 console for as low as 1k, you see am say e cheap abi, inflation no dey affect our price.

Call/What'sapp:08110193544

kennybuluro:
Ikorodu people I hail una specially this beautiful afternoon. To all my other customers too, I love you all.

A customer contacted us for a slim PS4 all the way from ikorodu. Thanks for choosing us.

As you already know, giving you the best value for your money is what we do for a living!!!

Stayed tuned as we unveil this customers console.

Story don dey long, I get games to install for this customer oo.

2braithe:
That person asked what the essence of the post was not what should be done.

Open your eyes while reading.
Now repeat after me "I will always open my eyes when reading no matter what."

IamV:
Can't deal with blabbing, tonight.
Good night.

Premiumwriter:
entitlement is a disease

Premiumwriter:
now read what you typed here and see if it has the same meaning as the below quote you are talking about



Some of you are just in a hurry to talk instead of first connecting your brain to your mouth before talking.