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To the Op,
Your girlfriend made a good / bad decision

Good- she invest quite an amount but as long as that isn't the entire money then it's alright because one thing is that the risk in Forex in something to put in mind. But the reward outstands the risk if just ONE trade is successful.

Bad- It would have been better (if not the best) if she had learnt it herself because the person she gave the money to won't be accountable for any loss due to any mismanaged or mishandled risks.

Ignore anyone here telling you that the money is gone... As long as you've put your time, burnt night candles, eliminated greed(a deadly disease an average Nigerian suffers from) and practice well with a demo, your success will be inevitable.

Is there a way to receive payment from damages for being accused wrongly?

Because for me, it either you pay me in millions (serious millions oo) or you rot in prison. Bet me, I won't even look at that your father on a cheel hair or your mother that's crying for the entire Atlantic ocean. Obi adiro boys mma this days.

It's very easy to prove a false rape accusation wrong as long as you're a very smart fellow.

Stephenmoka4:
What if the woman is career driven, an educated and independent woman, the type that can burn her time with her friends; if the man isn't up for anything.
Doesn't care if you are a bed freak, she isn't moved by that or probably have a low drive. I hope she isn't the travel type. How do one handle that.

Women with the bolden attributes (that offends without remorse) hardly(never) gets married in the first place, if they did, well that one na storey for another day..

AND...

Please don't say what you don't know about women not being moved by their partners performance or are you not aware of how some wives complain about their husbands poor performance and even go about to look for who'll do a better job .

Well if a man is great in bed, has a good skill/business/career, a good cook and has good grooming...

If he's married and the wife misbehaves and (forms unapologetic), then I pity that wife cos by the time she feels she's married to herself, her face will clear, even those ones forming hardened ( hardened my left femur)...

That's why it's very essential for men to learn how to be GREAT (not good o) in bed and have a good standing in life undisputed. (They didn't born that wife well to form hardened)...

But when a man is not good in bed and probably has nothing doing with his life why would she send when you start rejecting food and bed biz. (Even when she offends you)... I've noticed some women hate apologising when they're wrong especially married ones...

Ignore those ones saying it's 'childish' - it's just another social blackmail to put you in a condition to have false feeling of inferiority and less masculinity.

Because ignoring a wife or anything 'female' (when she misbehaves) brings her to a point of weakness and complete subordination.

Capability?? Smallie bumbum you're such a naughty brat joor. If you want to know my capability you'd have to pay me joor cos it's not free.duh

XhosaNostra:
Dream on thinking you got under my skin. You don't have the capability.

E pain am... ..
Mission accomplished.

Odeee... E be like say when you dey vex you dey get big head and smallie bumbum.

XhosaNostra:
Oh, just fùck off & take your weak machismo with you. I said what I said & if you don't like it I care zero.

Abeg abeg shuddifok joor.
Every guy you see is now a player, which kind of rubbish is that sef, dey blow English like say you be Cortana, no go marry dey there dey form feminyash or whatever the smelly movement is called.

iLegend how is my troublemaking?

XhosaNostra:
It's a slippery slope because he could also be a game player who's not worthy of any sympathy.
If he's going through "stuff", then shouldn't she be his place of comfort as his partner, even if he's not spilling out his guts to her in the process? Radio silence just make it seem like you don't matter much in someone's life & imo, should be met with the kind of disdain it deserves.

Why do I have this gut feeling that this is harddon's other account??

E dey obvious sef... Don..hezzy

Donhezzy:
I wrote my last paper on Monday n get to text er d time n venue on Tuesday morning ( school Cafeteria by 4:00pm), obviously not gonna take er to my crib for d tutorial.

So she called me around 3:55pm to tell me she's bin at d school cafeteria ever since buh just cant seem to find me inside or anywhere near by, she asked me if i forgot about d plan we both made.I Told er to calm down dat its not even 4:00pm yet n dis one shes stressing er self over d time issue, it just seems like she and her crew wants to gang rape me n I'm beginning to ve second thought about coming. She laughed it out n told me to come fast dat she hates being kept waiting, well told er to chill n relax dat seems like shes missing me already n she shouldn't worry herself cuz once I'm done wit wat I'm doing i'll be wit her shortly, n she should give me 10mins to round up. truth is i wasnt really doing anything just wanted er to get d memo " I'm a very busy guy n she gat to be thankful for sharing my time n space ". I end d call n continue wit wat i was doing wic was irrelevant btw b4 i decided to freshen up.

I finally hit d road n got to d cafeteria around 4:30pm n saw her sitting down like sum1 wus aunt just locked out of d auz, I took a quick glance at her n saw she was putting on some short black sexy gawn, drinking an Eva water while pressing er iphone.

I went to were she was brought out a chair n sat close to er. She looked at me n asked if it was d time we both agreed on wic i told er I was busy handling some important stuff n had to even cancel it to come meet er cuz i was worried she might fail d course if didn't show up. She asked me wat I was busy doing wic i neglected by saying its confidential den i ordered some snacks n soft drink n told her to bring d physics note for me to take a look at it.

They brought d snacks n soft drinks wic we both ate, n after she was done wit hers I whispered into her ears n said " did she really think i was gonna teach her in dis place, nah i don't want ur mind go playing pranks on u wen I'm busy teaching u, might go having random thoughts about me wen u suppose to pay attention " I immediately told her to take all er stuffs n follow me.

I took her to one of my fav classes n we began d tutorial. She was a fast learner n surprisingly didnt give me any tough time n dat made my work very much easy. I was able to cover d course b4 d day went dark, actually we got to round up around 7:15pm

After we were done wit d tutorial we den decided to head home cuz d day was getting dark. While going home, we held hands n was walking slowly. Things suddenly became tense, there was silence for about a mins ( i guess d nice serene environment, sunset n sexy cool breeze was playing a major role wic made d whole scenario romantic, like u nid to take a walk wit one of ur babe during evening time in school to get wat I'm saying). Then she finally manage to iniate a convo

SHE: thanks for putting me tru wit d physics, neva thought i could understand phy dis much let alone get to solve d calculations.

ME: Dont thank me yet, u've got to score A for me to accept ur gratitude n u should know I'm selling ur Indian, Brazilian, Cameeroon n Aba artificial hair if u end up scoring B.

SHE: * laughed hard * u ain't serious, I don't put on artificial hair not to talk of Aba. Anything u see on my head is pure human hair n u know dat cost a fortune

ME: lol wats d essence of putting on hair from diff countries but havent being to any of dem.... U beta go n return dose hair n use d money to take me out to a posh place, u can probably use d rest to buy some bleashing cream for urself cuz I'm finding it hard to see ur face dis evening, if i decide to call u darky now u will think m just making gest of u( said it wit an edge to my voice )

SHE: * she was laughing hard * U re not serious, u re talking as if u re lighter dan me oya come here let me shame u ( she held my hands trying to compare d both of us cuz she knew I was darker, even a blind man could tell from afar. she was trying to poke fun out of d situation )

ME: oh! u've finally succeeded in using dose filthy hands of urz to touch me.....now i've got to call 911 cuz I'm afraid u might just rape me if u go using dose hands on me ( said dat putting on a serious face, I knew she was trying to make gest of me n i didn't want er to get away wit it )

SHE: ( laughed hard, I guess she just love laughing buh if u see er on a norm's u won't know she's dis carefree) Stop joor, y do u just like twisting every of my word.

ME: Lol, I don't nid to cuz ur heart is giving u out cheaply even wen u seem not to admit btw My trouser is off limit n I'm buying padlock dis nyt inshort let me come n be going b4 ur crew shows up( removed my hands from hers n decide to walk fast)

she was laughing hard n didn't even realise i gave er quite some distance, wen she eventually got to know i was far from er, she den ran to catch up Buh as soon as I saw her edging towards me, i went d opposite direction. she got to plead n promised not to use dose hands of hers to touch me buh I wasn't allowing all wat she was saying to get to me. When we finally got out of d school walls I told er to come to my crib during d weekend dat ders something i wud like to show her. She agreed on coming buh insist on me telling her d thing i intend to show her. I told her not to worry dat wen she comes, she will find out herself n I'm going to text er were I live wen I get home. I den board a bike wished her success on her exam n b4 she cud thank me d bike was long gone.



to be continued.......

I was so pissed and angry at the OP Until I saw this guy's write up...

There's Hope for Men at last.
Atimes I wonder why I have to be so mean to some girls but when I see these things OP is going through it becomes clear that they deserve being mistreated...

MARX77:
Permit me to list out a few things

1. From the beginning of the relationship, you have probably given this girl d mindset that if she leaves u, u r done for.

2. Bro, if u use money take open relationship, ready to dey drop money... So all this your expenses here and there na u cos am. Never use money as a means to hold down a woman, they're always in need, and most of them will go for the highest bidder.

3. I don't know who needs to hear this, except the girl na ur wife, never ever let a lady influence decisions that u know can make your life better. NEVER DO THAT. Make decisions to better ur life, Bleep whatever she thinks.

4. Boss, any girl when dey look for consent to marry you don go already. Forget her...

5. You're lucky you passed your exam, you for know afa

6. I can bet my left ass that your lady has someone already promising her the moon and the stars. SHE'S GONE BRO.

MY ADVICE: Brace yourself, retrace your steps and before she drops the bombshell on you,
Break up with her in a very dope way, like stars do, no fight, no insults.

YOUR FUTURE IS BRIGHT MAN, take it from me, ON GOD.

*Drops mic*

Claimsfit:
Damn

Instead of investing in a Ponzi, just do this instead. I've gotten 2k in just 2days I started..
Go to Playstore and search 'Branch App' (roughly 4MB)

Install the App successfully,

Register the Branch App with your original mobile number(OTP Stuffs)
You'll need to provide these
Real Name
• Date of birth
Bank Name
Bank Acct. No
BVN (If you don't know urs, dial *565*0#, service charge na just N20)

Select 'personal use'

Select any package (But for me I used N10,000 - N50,000 range)

Now Request a loan of N1,000!! only ooo, they'll credit your bank immediately
THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART,
CLICK ON THE TAB AT THE TOP-MOST LEFT>>GO TO PROMOTIONS>>ENTER THIS CODE 'ARTHUR3FC89' (If you don't do it, no N500 bonus for you be that)..

Once you've received the alert of N1,000, REPAY them immediately (no fear, you can still hold it for 28days tho)... you'll be repaying back N1,200, but once you do that, that N500 bonus becomes accessible(so las las, you didn't loose anything)

Anytime you make a loan, ALWAYS USE 'ARTHUR3FC89' on the 'PROMOTIONS' tab so that you'll get N500 bonus...
More importantly, if you INVITE FRIENDS to this App with your unique code(just as you'll be using mine) and they completely repay their loan, N1,500 will be credited to you

for 5persons = 5 x N1,500 = N7,500
for 10persons = 10 x N1,500 = N15,000
for 20persons = 20 x N1,500 = N30,000

N30,000 at the expense of 4MB and an initial N200 with smartphone and smart work, instead of chatting away time and data let these things work for you especially during these trying times...

I'm available for any questions....

Albertone:
What are you saying?
Most of the things you mentioned up there, are they good characteristics of a normal lady?



Unless you are trying to be sarcastic.....

The guy's a simp...
He's probably trying to have his own share by asslicking the confused fellow... Dude even asslicked to the point of advising her to friendzone some set of people not knowing he's a complete example of friendzone material himself.

History001:
HARDDON The Don, I need your help here.

I met this new hottie about a month or so. She walked passed me and after she had passed and i turned back that was when i saw how endowered she was from behind. Before i could blink she had hopped into a vehicle and left. At this moment i accepted the challenge and set out to hunt her. After a week, i finaly got her contact from someone who happens to work with her. Then i put a call through and we eventually met. She try to know how i got her contact before speaking further,but i guess my respond was convincing enuf so she relaxed and we became friends. After then we had met twice. On both occasions, i neva told her what i wanted from her. Note she live not too far frm my place so occassionally i do see her from a distance and from my observation she has alot of toasters or wud i say boyfrends. Summary what i want from her is just to to flirt and nothing more oo. I cant date her cos shes too exposed for my liking, however, i love her shape and wud want to get down with her. Cos of this corona lockdown she had to go back to her family house which is in a different town so i havent seen or met with her for over 2 wks now. 4days ago we got chatting and suddenly i just told her i was attracted to her. Maybe to cut long story short, I will paste our chat here for easy comprehension and for your advice.


ME: How today na

[b][/b]Babe: Fine

[b][/b]Babe: How are you doing?

ME: Doing great

ME: Babe am crazy about u. Really.

[b][/b]Babe: Okay

ME: Wen u walked passed me d oda day, i tot, well it's one of those days wen u get to see a pretty babe and dats all.

ME: After that moment, was wen it dawned on me how much i felt about the lady that walked past me. And i started regretting not making use of d opportunity

ME: And that was when i set out to find you.

ME: Took me quite alot of effort

ME: Quite a lot

ME: It was crazy. But i guess dat best describes how i felt

[b][/b]Babe: Woow

ME: Naturally i wouldnt come at you this way. But can't help it anymore

ME: Its not everyday one gets to meet a gal as hot as you are.

[b][/b]Babe: For real?

ME: Absolutely

ME: Like i have tried to forget about u. But ur tot keep flashing my head.

ME: Everytin is on a whole new scale..esp after the couple of meetings

ME: Mehn babe u ar super hot and attractive

ME: Hav tried to get u out of ma head but. D more i try, d more i possible it get

ME: Babe am attracted to you. Damn right i am. I won't be so wrong if i say its love.

[b][/b]Babe: Arhh

ME: Sounds crazy. But i dont no wat to say or how to say it again

ME: Hello Babe you aren't saying anything?

[b][/b]Babe: I don't have anything to say

ME: Ok. I understand

ME: Lets see tommorrow then

[b][/b]Babe: I am not around. I went home to my family

ME: Really. How did u do that

ME: I tot the roads are closed

[b][/b]Babe: It's open somehow

ME: wow. Ok. Looking forward to your return

NOTE: After this chat, i called her 2days after and we spoke about this same conversation and all she could say was that she doesnt know what to say oo. And like it ended in the chat I jus said i understand but will be holding on till we see next week when she returns (she told me she will be returning next week during our fone conversation).

I am still at lost how to approach her when we get to meet next week. My primary objective is to nail this babe and not a relationship..i know she has guys dats for sure but am looking for a way to put it to her that i jus want us to be fuckers and not lovers. Please Don HARDDON, Guide me on the next steps abeg before i go go flop. Looking forward to your response. Thanks

Before they tell you to start reading from the first page, do this first;

Go to that table over there and lie down flat lemme use cane and redesign ya brain to default factory settings.

Even on default factory settings, this kind of wussieness is not possible sef.

If you thought my write up seemed like I sound intimidated then I guess I was wrong about you.

QuinModah:
So, where did I write it from? You guys here are intimidated by intelligent ladies who are very articulate.

Lemme just ask, those ones wey turn from female to male, which gblokos wee they use to do the iduploplo??

Make I no jam any specie of trans..

If you wrote this from your brain, then there's still hope for these ladies..
Unfortunately these kinds are rare.

QuinModah:
A few reasons come to mind:

Women are encouraged/allowed to be extremely petty. There is seemingly no lower limit of socially acceptable pettiness among women. This gives more tendency to find reasons to hate another woman.

Women are encouraged to take a victim mentality. And also to use claims of victimsation as a tool for manipulation, authority to tell others what to do, and bullying as an alleged self-defense.

Women are encouraged to be passive, dependent, and to avoid full responsibility, thereby increasing the victim mentality. This leads to hatred of other women who are actively control thier own life

A common resentment dynamic is a woman who buys into the LifeScript of getting into a financially dependent marriage, having children, and then feeling trapped. She then meets a single, childfree woman, and hatred ensues.
Women are encouraged to have a pretense of “cooperation” over competition. However, this can encourage the view that, another woman who excels (or even just shows basic competence) in any way, is violating the “cooperation” mandate. Which can become, “You are obligated to cooperate by sinking down to my level (finances, status, intellect, autonomy, etc), or I will enlist other women to cooperate with me in viewing you as the enemy”.

“Cooperation” is also linked to “fairness”, which can be twisted into everyone receiving the same results, regardless of personal behaviour. And hatred for anyone doing better through her own higher effort or discipline.
Women may use a false, “I am being compassionate and trying to help you” pretense as a cover for pressuring another woman to “cooperate”, and sink down. And then as justification for bullying the ingrate who refused to do so.

Women are trained to emphasise interpersonal relationships, including platonic friendship. And so will fear being cast out and lonely, and/or having low status in a clique. Which then rebounds to bullying another woman with threats of interpersonal/social rejection.

Male-style competition is the drive to get more (money, status, etc) for one’s self. While female-style competition is the demand that, another woman must be pushed down, even with zero practical benefit to bully. Men need to win, while women need other women to lose.

The pushing-down impulse has a common pattern where, immediately upon meeting, the first order of business may be to confirm that, the other woman is at the bottom-of-the-barrel socioeconomically/materially. If she is doing any better (through harder/smarter work), hatred ensues.

There is mass insecurity over appearance, and this goes far beyond competition for male attention. A woman who is already in a stable marriage may still hate another woman whom she thinks looks better. This includes not only face and body, but also things like health habits (smoking, exercising, eating).

Another area separate from male attention/resources is homosexual females. They can be amazingly hostile towards another woman, and it tends to be competition-oriented. A related point is the huge sense of fear and victimisation that accompanies the numerical difficulty in small social circles and mating-markets. They meet another woman who isn’t their “type” of prospective sex partner, and so then defaults to being a competitor to be bullied. Some of the most petty, arrogant, false-victim, gaslighting bullies I’ve ever encountered were women.

Atimes the way guys stoop very low to disgrace themselves all because of cunt makes me sick... Fvck!!

for pete's sake there are more women than men globally but for some sickening reason you'd rather st to someone who wants to be loyal to her man...

code name for this mo'er fvckvr ====>> Man Wh0.re

No offence intended tho.

marttol:
I have been on this girl for sometimes now...she is my colleague at work...I have wooed her severally all she keeps saying is that she doesn't want to cheat on her guy...this that...and I told her is it certain she is gonna marry him,that I don't wanna lose her to someone else if eventually the guys leaves her...we play alot I have even use the opportunity to kiss her,more like I forced it...she didn't respond...but yesterday,she busted my head , though at first I tried forcing her ,but later she consented and now responded back...but the problem now is that...when I was escorting her home yesterday,she said she made a great mistake today that it's never gonna happen again,that she is regretting it...it's like she has betrayed her bf...she said she is gonna act as if it didn't happen...so this girl came to work today and told me that... yesterday stuff just happened that she can't double date that she is sorry...that she doesn't want to be a bad person in her guy's face ...I asked her that does that mean I should keep my feels to myself,she said she doesn't know ooo...

But we are good...she said we should just be friends and I told her I can't be her friend cos anything that makes us friends I will still ask her out...that the best is that if we don't talk at all...she didn't say much Sha...

But I love her...guys what should I do ??


Pardon my grammatical errors!!

ElasticStone:
You don't need to be mean if you have no solution to profer.

It was your fault to even reply to the stupid bitch...

What makes you think that a[b] bitch who thinks with her cunt[/b] will offer any valid comments ehh??

I came into this thread and got a strong gut feeling that this MIGHT be ubunja behind this monicker. Aside from the fact the account was created very recently and the way you respond to people being similar to that of ubunja...
plus the fact that it won't cost ubunja anything to use a female ID since he usually uses the (f) atimes...

I MAY be wrong, it won't affect me. If i'm correct, it still won't move me.

The man that says 'he can' and[b]'he can't'[/b] isn't always wrong...

Sandra8:
What's wrong in being my love doctor . Nairaland babes can be fun too. But you like infidelity

Ewoo Chaii...
Nothing in which musa hasn't seen at the gate!!

NNaah ehh...

Mtchteeeewwwww.....

Dey dia na...

What baffles me the most among these set of vagabonds is that they'll have the guts to be offended when they are being referred to as sex objects... The arrogance of sense entitlement...

This one has nothing to offer... Just another piece of nothingness in the face of the planet who just wants to eat, sleep, club, sit in the front seat of a car, twerk on social media, bleep off her destiny, demand.... It's people like this that'll later form 'feminist' when they become evening hags.

Seen...

XhosaNostra:
Play on, playa.

XhosaNostra:
1st of all, nobody is going to fùcking chase you, princess. This stuff doesn't work on all women. You become unavailable & toss just enough my way to keep me hooked, eventually I will get bored of you. Point blank. It doesn't make you one bit mysterious or more attractive being "too busy" while you're a bum living an ordinary life. CEOs can claim to be busy, not you an average John Doe. I'll cut your stupid, game-playing ass right off, so you can take your childishness back to the jungle gym, where you belong.

Why the vexing now?.... You know you girls play this game too and still be expecting us to fall ain't it?... One sef is currently playing it on me but guess what... It's back-firing, she playing and yet she's still the one falling ..

Whatever that's good for the goose is good as well for the gander... Vex on

Whatever your brain wishes to tell you.... I ain't give a sh!t

ccffwx:
[s]No need for long epistles.
Women control men.

[/s]

LillyVal:
The truth Hurts,init?

I'm sure it's because of the miseducations that made you bring up this write up... You are afraid men are becoming wiser by the day aren't you... It scares the sh!t outta you that #RedPill reveals your nature... Like it or not, you were created to be submissive and it's beyond you, you can never escape it... YOU in particular will fall MADLY for the guy that won't give a sh!t and can control you... WHY? it's just in your nature..

Your write up means you want to be the one in control of the Man right?... Nahh Real Men won't fall for such, only sissies would and they would still be set free... The funny part is that you will even loose interest for any guy you can control and it happens subconsciously and you can't control your subconscious. Attraction happens subconsciously, hence you can't get attracted to someone at will, it happens on it's own will(whether you give a sh!t or not)...

Anyways keep trying to control your men and watch them diss you (unless you're into sissies though)... I'll just see this write up as something you intended to use to sate the egos of you and your fellow believers...

iLegendd:
When a frustrated man I have ignored for years jams a depressed man I have ignored for months, they cooperate like lost friends. Let me watch as the digitally wayward kids unite to cause mayhem.

Everybody, just watch.

Gee... It's like they are catching feelings for you o... maybe they are falling in love with you since you've been ignoring them . Hence they are working sooo hard to get your attention... ladies do this shaa... very funny set of creatures... Enjoy yourself as they keep trying to impress you joor

But be very watchful before one of them asks you to turn ya back to kill a mosquitoe

Me wars olso wants to goesd to a USA. Pris how many types of USAs does we haveded

adaksbullet:
while? while we me a hole prof date these kind off gilr? while?


spelted seen instead off scene? bus can u dated him? say true!

Evun me was not has zee abiriti to be dates soch a gilr...

BareFacedLies:
In that case she has every reason to be bitter towards you cos shr probably turned away other potentiol suitors cos of your promise

Niqq... the moment the girl cheated on the guy, she lost every reason to vex... would you have allowed him to marry a slut, or would you even like to marry one?... i think not dude. She should have comported herself based on the fact that she ll soon become someone's wife.. but the b!tch didn't..