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patwilly:
You heart is as Uugly as you look. for once I'm glad you uploaded your picture. You must have been raised by very evil parents.

einsteino:
it is a matter of choice and personal opinion, it has never been labelled a compulsion. nonetheless it is advisable to, i for one do not see myself getting serious with someone that cant at least cook my meals. just the same way i wont advise a lady to take serious a guy that does not once in a while spend a little on her(actually this is applicable to both parties). you pamper someone you hold dear, courtship is like an interview for marriage. if she is too big to cook for me while we are courting, then how much more when she is now Mummy Junior.

Remember what makes someone miss you are the things you do when you are around. So once in a while flaunt your cooking talent, it is a rare gift in this generation of INDOMIE girls. However one should do it with moderation, that whenever you are around cooking might be mistaken for desperation by some immature guys.

miztola:
Thank you for pointing that out,need I remind you not every lady carries marriage on their head like gala.


Stay dia de sample 'husband' privileges,no marry.

Donpuffy:
Girl U're even ugly. U can't also cook 4 ur bf, I wonder if u've even dated any guy b4 in ur life.

bomkizle:
i don't know how to cook and you come visiting forming that you can't Cook for us... I will just simply buy groundnut, sugar and soak garri
problem solved!

bomkizle:
i don't know how to cook and you come visiting forming that you can't Cook for us... I will just simply buy groundnut, sugar and soak garri
problem solved!

hayorbaami:
Why should I cook for my boyfriend? He no get hands to cook? It is either he does the cooking or we eat out. I cannot play the role of a wife to a man am not married to . I don't mind cooking for him if he comes over to my house. if you like cook all the delicacies if a man wants to leave you he will.

Deefuray:
I really do not blame them, it's just the notion most girls has given them

LORETA:
@taharix....forget about GRAMMER..the most important is you know the message we are passing here,follish teeneger like you.....i suppose the sperm that was use to bring you to this life was kept in the fridge before it was fertilized........you better wait till you get to a more mature age before you start giving advice....you think having sex and having a teenage boyfriend that comes to your house makes you matured.......................................when i was in poland (gdynia) i used to sleep in my polish girlfriend room while her dad sleeps in the sitting room....that is western world..so dont tell us what u dont know..foool miss america my ASS

UniqueGem:
A poor attempt to make yourself sound older, matured and wise at same time. At least now we all know we've been quoting and re-quoting a kid.
Advice; please learn to type without punch lines and insults, it won't only make you look matured, but also make you wiser. Adios kid.

MhizMonnaie:
Cooking for a BF in his house is a NO for me, wen I start cooking for a guy while courting,what would make d difference in his taste wen we got married, if I av 2 cook everytym I went 2 his place n we later end up wit breakup,d story would be like he slaved me throughout d tym of courtship.,its not advisable my dear ladies

Deefuray:
Oh that? Buying things for me should be at his discretion. Giving in a relationship shouldn't be a one sided thing. I can also buy him things.

As for catering for my needs.... That's my father's job.

I also do not buy the idea of a guy catering for my needs. As long as I was paying my bills before I met him, why can't I continue after?

UniqueGem:
Now u're trying to adopt the method which says 'if you can't beat them, then correct their grammar' just skip it because we already know it. Just answer the question asked. Were you born out of wedlock or u're just a kid(19yrs). We all are waiting.
Advice; Go for the fairer option(if u're wise enough)

Isiterere:
I owe you a bottle for this post.

Btw, I don't need them cooking anymore, will prefer the BODY and they will remain the gf.
Where is that 19years old Taharix ?

ALL IZZ WELL

UniqueGem:
They've been married for 21years, this justifies the claim that u're either 19years or below unless you were born out of wedlock. So sweety where you born out of wedlock or just a kid(19yrs)?
One thing you don't know sweety, if you talk too much, you won't know when you'll start spilling the truth.

LORETA:
you are an idiot as i can see.that you don't even know why you are here..well you need to go find your type to throw words at. ARROGANT AND LAZY BITCH.you better find a job to do to assist your self and stop thinking of running to a lesser school.

LORETA:
you are an idiot as i can see.that you don't even know why you are here..well you need to go find your type to throw words at. ARROGANT AND LAZY BITCH.you better find a job to do to assist your self and stop thinking of running to a lesser school.

Sapphire86:
And you lack etiquette n decorum. If you don't like my opinion, jump over the 3rd mainland bridge.

LORETA:
then what made your sorry ass think someone here has never traveled out from his village and his country.....because you think you are staying in heaven...baby sitter like you..i have told you come to nigeria let me see what a looser like you can offer the country..i am not surprised when everyone sees you like a child with no experience..i have told you read their view and try to reason like a mature african /dont know where from self.....before you open your mouth and blah blah blah blah

Mystic1:
Bro please forgive her, she's my very close friend(offline), i know how senseless she can be. BTW; she has never ever been outside dis our state(Gombe state) that topic she created is only a fluke. It was an enquiry a distant friend asked her to make. So please try to understand her. Tahar please forgive me for blowing your cover, i just have to save you from this man.

Fourwinds:
LORETA leave am. she never know d world she entre. dey laugh dat girl. make she forget about marriage here in Nigeria. how men go condole such attitude.? she just dey spill out nonsense. marriage no be 1yr ., 2yrs.,3 yrs... na till death do u apart. she better begin think how she go do am.

WoodcrestMayor:
I see so many old skool men on dis thread


If I visit a girl and she cooks,I eat .
If I meet her cooking,I play cheerleader (from d sitting room )

If she visits me and I av cooked,she eats

If she meets me cooking,d least I expect is for her to pop in and play cheerleader (inside d kitchen).Even if na only water she go carry from fridge put for table.


I'm totally against Ekaetterism

gidjah:
IT very much does,this is because most of the ladies supportin this opinion should either be;very young naive girls,still tied to the aprons of their parents,or married(who want to deceive other girls).even your parents would not support this myopic ideas you all brought up!

LORETA:
AT TAHARIX....you are a losser...you cannot pay school fees in US ..you want to come to Nigeria..STORY FOR THE GODS

LORETA:
AT TAHARIX....you are a losser...you cannot pay school fees in US ..you want to come to Nigeria..STORY FOR THE GODS

LORETA:
AT TAHARIX...fool like you...check my past write ups...hahahahah am a international sailor by profession working in gas ship...am even in the atlantic heading to turkey by on the 8th ...been in 12 european countries for the past three years,stayed in four countries for over 6 months..fool i have over 6 country visas..you think when living in nigeria ....we wont make it ...can u travel from where you are atlll.when you cant feed yourself..well as i told you u better not come to nigeria if you dont have jesus in your life...

shaqhead:
Hmm I have nevr seen it as a RIGHT for my GIRLFRIEND to cook for me and some have been turned to laundry woman, cleaner and what not which I personaly dont subscribe to. She cooks for me when I get to her place or bring some over when I cant afford to cook. She assists at her discretion if she meets me cooking. For me I feel their are certain rights and priviledges attached to levels of relationships....am feeling lyk Tambuwal ryt nw for postin ds..hope U wl stand up for me wen dy com biting...lol..ma opinion!

UniqueGem:
Madam, if not for that fact that i have an online Gf who have cautioned me to always respect others opinion online(i know she's watching), i would have placed you an inch closer to hell.

LORETA:
[b]Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by TahariX(f): 8:33pm


that is why poverty wants to kill you in the so called place where you are...when you run back to nigeria as you are planning..dont hold God well..you will see how you will end up..as a drop out..i feel sorry for you.You will need jesus in nigeria..or you will end up as a prostitute.

LORETA:
dont mind her she dosent have any life in her..may god save your soul.taharix

UniqueGem:
THE BIBLE IS FULL OF TRASH? Did you just type that? I pity the man who takes you in. Okay guys, thread closed because if trumpet sound now, nobody viewing this thread will be safe.

LORETA:
guys we shouldnt waste our time listening to most girls views here.most of them are just 16-19 years.....