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Beey:
Please refer to my previous post.You are responding to a half- baked story because you've not seen the whoke baked stuff.If she made meals,that's her business since am Beey & not Beyonce .As for me,I have no business cooking meals for a boyfriend.Like I said in my previous post,boyfriends are just boyfriends & shouldn't be enjoying husband privileges.I can make him a meal once in a while if he wants to know whether I can cook but I'll make it at my place.However,it shouldn't be an everytime kind of expectation.I cook coz I want to.I also said that I can cook for him in odd circumstances such as sickness.But when a lady gets into the habit of cooking & doing laundry, it doesn't guarantee that he'll marry you.It's not an automatic ticket to marriage.Should the relationship fail,you are left feeling hurt & used.If am food enough to cook, am also good enough to wife. Please,any girl reading these comments, has freedom of choice.They don't have to take my advice.There are many advisers & they can pick the advice of their choice.Am just voicing my opinion just like Anyone else on this forum.

Standing ovation!!

Ijawboi:
By the way, people like @TahariX nai boyfriend they beat for house, and she will still be like " leave him, i love him, na you him slap?"

Ah the sweet smell of ignorance ^.^

GoodGirl2:
I know girls who can't even boil eggs and are happily married.
I know great cooks who are seriously single and searching.

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GoodGirl2:
Big, fat lie paraded around by our grannies!
You'll cook for him all the recipes you know from all the cuisines in this world.
You'll even have a mini-library of recipe books in your house, trying out all those recipes every time he comes over.
If a guy isn't into you, no type of cooking skills will get him to love you.

Exactly oh!!!

tintingz:
Sorry...you think all guys do what you just posted?

And having sex is enjoyed by both party, a mere girlfriend not even engaged to the man cooking and washing for a lazy dude is like a maid, she will be the one to the cooking ish.

If she willingly do it, it is her choice but if a guy expected or forced her to do it, she's like a maid.

a shameful posts by some guys in this thread.

Lol.

rotimilax:
But u can have sex with ur bf while u r not married. What hypocrisy. U go mfm tire.

When did I say I was having sex?! Lmao

zoe123:
if u are up to 29 chances are u must have had more than one relationship if ur a lady what happened? ur cooking cudnt hold him? if ur a man wat happened? her cooking is not good enof? like I said in my earlier post I have played d cooking cleaning & laundry girl.I even sponsored his final year in school with my money, went to write one of his exams for him cos he said he was "sick" not knowing he was avoiding some cultist,those guys almost butchered me when dey didn't see him but me.it still didn't stop him from screwing n marrying my best friend,some said its just young school experience I shouldn't carry it for mind, bro it was 3yrs of my life n near death experience. ladies if u wan cook for ur bf by all means do.but it won't guarantee marriage. my opinion sha

Your ex sounds like the devil himself. I'm sorry you had to go through all that.

hayorbaami:
Thank you o my sister. Am sure most of the guys talking here will not advice thier own sister to perform a wife's role to an ordinary boyfriend. If he wants to test your cooking abilities he should come over to your house. Maybe when he graduates from boyfriend to fiance you can start doing all the wifely role.

Lol abi!

datalossvictim1:
Saay whaaat??

Girl, your hair is GORGEOUS!!

nikkyshyne:
Speak english please. What is all these jagons

Adaeze003:
I'm sorry, who is a black woman? Go back even to the stone age, you will never see it as acceptable to treat a bf as a husband... ehm r we even meant to date or be in relationships? Ehn? R those not white concepts?

A black woman btw is who ever she says she is! We are much more than the list in your head...

Tell them! Black women are not a monolith! We don't all fit into the narrow box society has created for us!

Adaeze003:
Btw, to each his own sha... There's no hard n fast rule about this.

Live your life like YOU want. If u want to cook, fine! I have a friend who coiks 4 her bf n seeing them, they're like kids with each other and that's cute.

Just be urself I guess...

Exactly. I don't see the point in getting all riled up or pissed just because someone (a stranger for that matter!) doesn't share your views.

maggdon:
.... Hahhaaha wud ve loved to gv u handkerchief but take as u gv is d law

Lol

Pamcrest:
Precisely! Communication is very essential in relationships....each person knows from d get-go what to expect, what s/he can give and each other's limitations. But some dickhead can't comprehend that!
My humble submission

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maggdon:
..... Hahahaha if u get me as ur bf (which is not possible).. I wnt even ask twice bf u cook and even beg me to eat.. Get sum class gal.. Cooking shows respect and its reciprocal

LMAO!!! Wow!!! I'm in tears!

maggdon:
In pato voice dis hoes ain't loyal"... Wats more romantic Dan bin in d kitchen togeda performing magic.. Hogly set of gals wit no attractive physico-mind ppts

Are YOU seriously calling people ugly? Irony at its finest.

Adaeze003:
I agree with the op...

I seriously aint cooking 4 you in ur abode... u want to know if I can cook, come to my abode... if we're engaged the tale will be different tho.

Even cleaning sef... lemme add, can't even be with a scruffy sm1. lol! I berra not meet ur crib upside down...

For the guys babbling "someone else will do it" ehm, is that meant to scare me? Ehm... o well, I guess ya'll will fall for a lady af far as shez cleaning ur bum after pooping. smh... that's how people fall 4 pretenders.

For em childish boys calling people ugly n posting pictures can we see ur pic pls? Smh...

100% agreed!

eminex:
u said ur parent/family only spends on u. den in conclusion, in ur relationship history if only there is any, u guys haven't gone out on dates & he hasn't sent u airtime & d likes.
except if u mean he(boyfriend) is a family member. lolzzzz

I don't understand what you wrote:/

miztola:
I'm not dating a guy so he can pay my bills.

You've said this 200 times now but they'll still keep bringing it up.

eminex:
but u can lie oooo. lolzzz. u said u can both eat out if he can't cook when u come around. so who is doing d spending? I tire for u. u be proper chop & clean mouth. lolzzzz.

When did I say this? I need a direct quote.

patwilly:
I would have, only I'm not as fugly as you. I sense u ask yourself questions about how you were born this uggly and as such you're unhappy with your parents. Too bad you want to transfer that hate/aggression to we innocent gentlemen and as such corrupt the minds of a few sensible ones who should make us good wives in future. I'll see to it you dont succeed in this direction as it affects my future directly. I'm onto you on this thread! bite me!

LMAOO Goodnight

Pamcrest:
Interesting topic. Methinks it depends on d lady. I never cooked for my bfs, I never saw d need to visit him n start cooking....for what naa...that isn't in d T&Cs of our relationship. When we are hungry we go out to eat or just nibble on snacks around his house. When he visits me, same thing. It used to amuse me when I see my friends cooking, cleaning n doing laundry for a bf! And then after some months, d affair is all over, so what was d essence of all that labour of "love"? It's more rewarding cooking for my husband n kids.....taking good care of my family, not slaving for a "waka come waka go"

As it should be.

IPADEOLAOLADELE:
Eeya, & God knws we ain't compatible. Cos u must cook anytime u visit me. Aw amma gon knw u can cook if u don't??

How did all of you manage to miss the part where I said I'd cook only if he's coming over to my place? Selective reading?

patwilly:
If ever I were born a girl and I was as fugly as you, I'll hang myself on my 18th birthday.

Please do the world a favor and hang yourself right now.

Sirnuel:
Lmao

E don do na... U want make she commit suicide??

Suicide?! Because two faceless he goats called me ugly?! Haba!!!!!!!

patwilly:
Very Ugly! I go circumcise my prick for the second time if e ever attempt to stand for this kain girl unclothedness. .

Funny how you're both faceless tho. Mr Universe and his runner up.

miztola:
don't mind him

This entire thread is too hilarious

bomkizle:
I swear with my life i don't know how to prepare indomie
All my life i do only enter the kitchen for just one reason and that is when my mum says "bobo go and take your food"
Now my girlfriend will now tell me shez not gonna cook whenever she comes visiting.... she go Chop snacks die

LMAO!! Ajebutter!!

Donpuffy:
Choi

This girl don really suffer 4 her stupidity. I dey feel 4 her Sha. I think say na only me see her ugly chestbone

Lmao!! You tried it.

meyri:
Same topic with different OPs! So I'l give the same reply as before.
I don't like to cook (that doesn't mean I can't). So cooking for myself,let alone someone else is a chore. So I avoid it if I can. But I have to eat and save money so I cook. If my boyfriend want to chop he know he can come to my house and chop, he's just like any other guest. If I chop, my guest will chop. So I don't go out of way to cook for my bf, unless a occasion calls for it. It's a mutual thing. As long a two individual mutually agree to do this or that for each other, that one should no concern nobody. So there nothing right or wrong about cooking for your bf. In my opinion cooking, cleaning, doing laundry and the like on a consistent basis is too much if your title is just girlfriend.

Agreed!!

eminex:
I bet if ur guy doesn't spend or buy tins for u in a month u would nag & start tinking of an alternative guy.

My parents/ family are the only ones who spend money on me.