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pasqal09:
Then how would she graduate to become a wife?

Graduate to become a wife? I don't think that's how relationships work lol.

How would you "graduate" to become a husband?

pasqal09:
Being submissive doesn't mean being a slave you know.

I hate that word. I hate that being with someone means I have to lose myself. Regardless of whether I'm dating or married, I'm still an individual with opinions and principles that may be different from my SO's. The idea of submissiveness means -to me- that I no longer get to be a person. I'm just supposed to be okay with whatever my SO says or does.

And I cannot picture myself living like that.

pasqal09:
In a way, yes. How can I cook when she's around? That's just not right.

Is she your house girl?

pasqal09:
No, but its a criteria for getting a guy to fall completely. Guys hate ladies that aren't submissive.

Some of us don't want guys that'll love us for being submissive (whatever that means). I actually stay away from those kind of guys.

mascot87:
See her mouth yanyanyan
Na people like u go cook 3 times a day for ur bf when u visit him.You go even dey kneel down dey give him d food self, you come dey make mouth for here.Abegi go sleep it's getting late

Lmao. Eyah I guess your tiny brain cannot process the fact that a girlfriend isn't the same as a housemaid.

Princecalm:
Look at what girls of this days are turning into.Imaging you went to your BF house and you met him cooking and instead of taking over the cooking from him you sit and watch him do the cooking and still serve you.Even the whites which you guys are emulating have not started doing this.

What kind of low mentality is this?

pasqal09:
Ok, she'll keep remaining a guest while another lady will become the wife.

Lmao. You do realize she is not under any sort of obligation to cook for her boyfriend, right? You probably think cooking is a "feminine thing" anyways.

pasqal09:
So what's the girlfriend suppose to do when she visits? Balance on his bed while he cooks for her?

Of course!!

I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.

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Any UniPort 2014/2015 aspirants here?? I plan to major in accounting.

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Thank you.

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Hi guys. Does anyone know if it's possible to transfer from an American university to a Nigerian university? I'm a biology (pre-med) major at the university of Houston but due to financial reasons I'll be returning to Nigeria. Is it possible to transfer my credits to a Nigerian university? Thanks

Hi guys. Does anyone know if it's possible to transfer from an American university to a Nigerian university? I'm a biology major at the university of Houston but due to financial reasons I'll be returning to Nigeria. Is it possible to transfer my credits to a Nigerian university? Thanks