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PoliticsRe: Obiano's Opertaion Light Up Anambra State Continues (pics) by talk2chixy(m): 7:34pm On Jul 06, 2016
Even if they are, there are different power specs of solar that lasts much longer. Its corruption that leads the present crop of solar devices delapitate at short times

NextGovernor:
I hope those aren't solar powered light because those stuff don't last more than 1year n Nigeria due to lack of maintenance from the government.
Jokes EtcRe: Oby Ezekwesili's Tweet About Chelsea by talk2chixy(m): 11:55am On Dec 19, 2015
Lwkmd
Christianity EtcRe: Advice For Backsliding Christians. by talk2chixy(m): 12:12pm On Oct 04, 2015
Pls re read the passage u just quoted. The true meaning of backsliding are not what u listed below. What u listed below are only fruits of backsliding.

The bible says..".....For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness,than,after they
have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them."

What the above text means is that backsliding is going from God's Grace offered at the cross by His blood to trying to obey the laws of the old testament which the bible already says is a ministry of death. Obeying the 10 commandments is like telling God that you can be righteous by yourself instead of by Jesus. Thats self righteousness which is detested by God.

A lot of xtians are guilty of this most likely as a result how we were raised

malvisguy212:
2 Peter 2:20-22, we read of the real
possibility and serious consequences
of backsliding:

2 Peter 2:20-22,
"For if after they have escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge of the Lord and Saviour Jesus
Christ,they are again entangled therein, and overcome, the latter end is worse with them than the beginning.For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness,than,after they
have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them.But it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The dog is turned to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her wallowing in the mire."

Yes, this is interesting, we find this passage coming from the pen of peter. If anyone know the reality of firsthand backsliding, it must be peter , the night he betrayed our Lord Jesus christ .

The process of backsliding is a gradual one, often overtaking one by surprise (peter could not believe,he will deny Jesus) . And lest we fall from our own steadfastness, We shall carefully examine the process that led to Peter's denial of Christ, followed by noticing how Peter's own words in his epistles are designed to prevent the same from happening to us!

1. PRIDE.
Mark 14:27-31,
"And Jesus saith unto them, All ye shall be offended because of me this night: for it is written, I will smite the shepherd, and the sheep shall be scattered. But after that I am risen, I will go before you into Galilee. But Peter said unto him, ALTHOUGH ALL SHALL BE
OFFENDED, YET WILL NOT I. And Jesus saith unto him, Verily I say unto thee, That this day, even in this night, before the cock crow twice, thou shalt deny me thrice. But he spake the more vehemently, If I should die with thee, I will not deny thee in any wise. Likewise also said they all."

In a boastful manner, Peter claims he
will not fall away or deny Christ! In
doing so, Peter takes the first step in
backsliding: "pride" (Proverbs 16:18).
Why is this the "first" step? Because
the first step in entering the kingdom
is HUMILITY( Mathew 18:3-4). So if we
lose "humility", we take that first step
BACKWARD.

2.COWARDICE.
Mark 14:54,
"AND PETER FOLLOW HIM AFAR OFF , even into the palace of the high priest: and he sat with the servants, and warmed himself at the fire."

Is this not cowardice? When Jesus was healing and the people love Him , peter walk by His side, and now when Jesus was unpopular, he walk afar off,is this not the same peter who vow to follow Jesus ? . Peter was unprepared for the challenge of facing ridicule and persecution. Without diligent preparation, we too can become guilty of cowardice! Ashamed to be seen carrying the scriptures. Ashamed to be seen giving thanks. Ashamed to be seen with other believers in Christ. Perhaps
even ashamed to let others know that
we are believers! And yet, Jesus has made it clear what He thinks of "cowardice" (Mark 8:38)

3. DENIAL.
Mark 14:66-71,
"And as Peter was beneath in the palace, there cometh one of the maids of the high priest: And when she saw
Peter warming himself, she looked upon him, and said, And thou also wast with Jesus of Nazareth.But he DENIED, saying, I know not, neither understand I
what thou sayest. And he went out into the porch; and the cock crew. And a maid saw him again,and began to say to them that stood by, This is one of them.
And he DENIED IT AGAIN. And a little after, they that stood by said again to Peter, Surely thou art one of them: for thou art a Galilaean, and thy speech
agreeth thereto. But he began to CURSE AND SWEAR , saying, I know not this man of whom ye speak."

First he "DENIED" and later he" CURSE AND SWEAR "(which Jesus Himself warn against) Away from Christ, at comfort with those in the world, Peter finds himself denying His Lord and Savior! In so doing, he has put himself in grave
danger (Matthew 10:32-33). Though
we may never actually deny Jesus in
"words", we can easily backslide to
the point of denying Him in "action."

In conclusion, amazingly, it was peter himself who give advice from backsliding christians;

1. To Guard Against Pride:
Peter enjoins "humility" (1Peter 5:5-6).
Indeed, "God resists the PROUD, but gives grace to the HUMBLE."
2. Instead of Cowardice:
Peter charges us to "glorify God" (1 Peter 4:16). Think NOT of what it means to
you, BUT what it means to God!
3. Instead Of Denial:
Peter exhorts us to ever be ready to "give a defense" (1Peter 3:15).
By careful preparation, we will "DEFEND " Christ, and NOT "DENY" Christ!
Christianity EtcRe: How To Receive HOLY GHOST Baptism by talk2chixy(m): 12:54pm On Sep 27, 2015
247notire:
Only ur good deeds, the love u showed while on earth will save u, fucck speaking in tongues man, it won't help ur heavenly race.
My dear friend, ur good deeds cannot take u to heaven. Thats self righteouness. Only ur belief in Jesus Christ can take u to heaven. Even if u believe and act wrongly, u will still go to heaven bu suffer the repercussions of the wrong deeds here on earth.

Your sins when committed as a believer cannot over power the blood of Jesus shed on the cross for u.

Jesus is the ONLY way, the truth and the life
PoliticsRe: Buhari Orders MDAs To Run Treasury Single Account by talk2chixy(m): 9:30am On Aug 10, 2015
yang:
This was done by GEJ
Yes this began by GEJ but wasnt well implemented like many other laudable projects
Christianity EtcRe: Stephanie Rose: I Would Rather Burn In Hell Than Worship A Monster Called God by talk2chixy(m): 10:45pm On Aug 04, 2015
She/he is obviously deluded. There was a difference between living under the law and under Grace. Under the law, there were great demands to meet the requirements or else you suffer the consequences of death for all have fallen short of the glory of God. The bible said behold, i place before you Life and Death; blesings and curses. Keep the law and get blessing. Break the law and get curses, so the onus was on man to choose. Righteousness was based on man's actions or not.

Under Grace, He is merciful and just and remembers our sins no more. Under Grace, its not about man to choose but about Jesus who has chosen on our behalf because we are unable to keep the law. Spot light is on Jesus. He is the giver and He freely gives. Righteousness is not based on man's actions or not but on Jesus' works on the cross

Notice all he/she's bible quotes were from the old testament were the law reigned

Bottomline is God is merciful, good, kind, all loving, awesome, provider, healer, great, wonderful councellor, almighty.

He has given man the free will to choose between life and death, blessings and curses. If u choose to live under the law, obviously you choose curses cos the law is regarded as the ministry of death in the bible while Grace by the Holy Spirit is regarded as the ministry of Life.

So choose grace, choose Jesus, be born again and choose life and life over abundantly.

Note: Being born again is not about changing ur attitude and actions even though thats very important but the root of it is changing your mindset. Once your mindset is changed towards Jesus, your attitude and actions will automatically change for the better.

True repentance is all about changing your mindset and believing in the finished works of Jesus at the cross.

Dont get it twisted.
PoliticsRe: Tony Elumelu Meets With Obama In Kenya by talk2chixy(m): 11:08am On Jul 25, 2015
Guys, did u notice the posture of both men in this pix. Obama is leaning forward in respect to Elumelu.

Big up to naija


newsworthy:
Tony Elumele meets with Obama in Kenya

https://naijalog.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/nole.jpg

Tony Elumelu , chairman of Heirs Holding in a post on his Facebook page shared with followers how his week went.
The billionaire also shared a picture of himself and United States president, Barack Obama who is on a 5-day trip to Africa.

The two met on Friday in Nairobi at the the 2015 Global Entrepreneurship Summit (GES) which the United State president is co-hosting. See how Elumelu’s week went,

Read how Elumele's week went here:

It has certainly been a hectic week for me, with travels to four countries in a matter of days. The week began with a visit to promote African entrepreneurship in Washington DC where I travelled as an invitee of the Federal Government. During his visit to the US, His Excellency, President Muhammadu Buhari GCFR addressed a business roundtable dinner organised by the US Ch…

I flew straight on to speak at the Forbes Afrique Forum in Brazzaville, Congo at the request of the publisher, Lucien Ebata, a good friend and supporter of The Tony Elumelu Foundation (TEF). It also proved an opportunity to meet briefly with United Bank for Africa Plc staff in the country – there is no substitute for meeting our people on the ground.

Now I have just landed in Nairobi, Kenya, to be one of the speakers at the historic 2015 Global Entrepreneurship Summit (GES), that will be headlined by President Barack Obama. This year’s GES is particularly symbolic, as it is the first time that the forum will be held in sub-Saharan Africa.

I am proud to be part of an event that focuses on entrepreneurship-led development in Africa, as this is so central to what TEEP and my Foundation are committed to.


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10152899502071949&id=17335426948&refid=17
FamilyRe: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by talk2chixy(m): 7:32pm On Jul 15, 2015
cheesy cheesy My dear, you are allowed to do anything in marriage without restrictions. His body is urs and urs, his. Whatever sexual acts he wants, give it to him and vice versa.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed in marriage. It has nothing to do with ur spiritual lives. U need to get away from "RELIGIOUS" beliefs and actions and enjoy what God has given u in marriage.

I wouldnt support him watching porn and all but hey, i guess if u guys were open to each other devoid of RELIGIOUS acts and beliefs, you wont be as shocked. Maybe, just maybe by the Holy Spirit, you would have talked him out of watching porn.

ConfessionsNgr:
I’m a 27-year-old lady and my husband is 31 years. We got married four months ago, we attend the same church, we even met in the church and we are both active. He is in the ushering department while am in the choir and we are both born again. Am telling you all this for you to know we are not babies in the spirit. Our courtship was sex free, as you know now, no touching, kissing nor romancing. We seldom visit each other at home due to our church strict restriction on that. And when I do I never went beyond his sitting room maybe if I had done otherwise, I would have known about this before now. Our wedding ceremony was great and we settled down to marital life. Two months after, my husband has a cause to travel out of town, it was on a Saturday and I decided to clean the room as I was re-arranging the clothes in the wardrobe, a parcel fell on my leg, at first I ignored it but on a second thought I picked it up to check what was inside, I received the greatest shock of my life, my husband has been watching pornography! The parcel actually contained different porn movies. I felt sad and dejected. I tried to check his laptop if he has such things there but it has been pass-worded. I didn’t confront when he returned and I pretended as if nothing happened. That night I took his phone when he was fast asleep and searched through it, behold he has porn movies on his phone too! But I still kept my cool. I had to let the cat out of the bag when one month later he asked if I like MouthAction and he want us to it give a trial. He said watched porn movies so that he will be able to satisfy me in bed. To say that I was shocked is an understatement. I told him I can’t indulge in MouthAction. He has been pestering me for this. How can I engage the same mouth I use to pray, to speak in tongues in MouthAction? Since then he has been behaving funny. He keeps to himself; he is not even interested in making love with me and I’m yet to get pregnant. Is this right? Doesn't feel right to me.


Posted anonymously on www.confessionsnigeria.com
http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/140/i-cant-believe-my-husband-is-asking-me-for-this
Christianity EtcRe: 5 Reasons Why Should Always Pray In The Morning by talk2chixy(m): 12:29pm On Jul 12, 2015
Listen, prayer is a form of worship. U r not praying to remind God but to constantly have a rship with Him in worship. Its who ur closer to that will always be top of d mind for u. Simple!!


herald9:
So your God doesn't know his duty or he just forget it on purpose so you need to remind him all the time.

Isn't he your heavenly father again? imagine how it would be if you have to remind your dad every time to provide food for you!

Indirectly you're asserting he's suffering from dementia. Lol.

And please, you guys should Stop using the misfortune of others as a point in thanking your god. It's normal assumption that God loves everybody and doesn't segregate, then why thanking your god because 'you are not like the other guy who slept yesterday and never woke up'. That's hypocrisy.

In my opinion tho.
ComputersRe: Am I The Only One Suffering From Smile 4G LTE. by talk2chixy(m): 8:51am On Jul 08, 2015
I had the same issue until i blocked all cloud syncs like dropbox and google, also blocked the torrents which gives connection access to third parties by visiting a torrented site. In short, i blocked everything except youtube downloads which i hardly use.

I also brought down my speed from 4G to the least one. Cant remember the name used.

Now, i'm fine.
RomanceRe: At 28 No Man Has Ever Approached Me For Sex, A Lady Laments(photo) by talk2chixy(m): 7:49pm On Jun 18, 2015
Its a spiritual matter
PoliticsRe: APC Plans Fresh Offensive To Regain Control Of National Assembly by talk2chixy(m): 12:17pm On Jun 12, 2015
hotice01:
I'm yet to meet a fanatic APC loyalist that's devoid of insults when try to make he points known.

I'm nonpartisan,and I say things the way they are.By the way I guess u havnt been listening,watching or reading news lately.

Pls rid urself of myopic political sentiments and be objective.
Well I guess u wanted to be noticed by quoting me and probably get likes,now that you have done that wat next?

APC grabbing and conquering without occupying and managing powers and territories conquered.

Mention,quote and insult me all u like,I won't give you the honor and privilege of a reply.
Awesome response. APC fans must always bring insults and tribal sentiments into political and national discuss.

Myopic indeed.
Christianity EtcRe: 8 Most Dangerous Prayer Lines. by talk2chixy(m): 5:08pm On May 31, 2015
Why not? Your prayers are majorly acknowledging His works and thanking Him with praise and worship.

All you seek and ask for has already been taken care of more than 2,000 yrs ago. So express faith by believing and thanking Him



Kingbilo:
In that case you should never pray na
Christianity EtcRe: 8 Most Dangerous Prayer Lines. by talk2chixy(m): 5:01pm On May 31, 2015
All these prayers are very religious prayers that expresses sublime doubt. You are asking for God to give you these things when you should believe that He has already given them to you.

He says His Grace is sufficient for you. So pray by acknowledging these things backed up with His words and with receptive hands while you thank Him for what you believe He has already given to you.

Sveen:
There are different forms of Christian prayer,
but whether you have a set prayer time or seek
to communicate with God throughout the day
(or some combination of both), here are 10
Christian prayers that are extremely dangerous
to pray. This doesn’t mean we shouldn’t pray
them … we should! It just means that when we
pray them, we should watch out!


1. Teach me humility.

After you pray this Christian prayer for
humility, be ready for people to badmouth you,
slander you, and drag your name through the
mud. If you pray for humility, be ready for false
accusations, for that “skeleton in the closet” to
be revealed, or for people to belittle you and
talk down to you as if you were inferior.
The only way to learn humility is to be placed
in humbling situations, so if you pray for
humility, be ready!

2. Teach me patience.

If you pray for patience, get ready to be
surrounded by the most annoying people you
have ever met. Get ready for your car to break
down when you are late for an appointment.
Get ready for your children to go bonkers. Get
ready for prayers to not get answered. Get
ready for setbacks, roadblocks, and pitfalls.
Just like with all the other Christian prayers on
this list, God teaches us patience by taking us
through trying times.

3. Lead me wherever you want me to go.

One way this Christian prayer is often prayed
is with the words, “Here I am, Lord, send me.”
Usually when we pray this Christian prayer, we
think that God is going to send us into high
profile ministry positions, places of honor and
glory, and opportunities to be heard. This is
why ministry leaders almost never “feel the
leading of God” to go to smaller ministries and
places of lesser significance. God always
seems to “call” pastors and ministry
professionals to bigger churches, richer
ministries, and positions with greater power.

While I do not deny that God sometimes leads
people in these directions, I think that more
often than not, God wants to lead us
downward, but we refuse to go. Of course, this
does not mean that we will stay in the gutter if
God leads us there. God may very well lift us
up out of the gutter to a place of prominence,
but when He does so, He gets the glory
instead of us.

That’s why this is such a dangerous Christian
prayer. We want to be used by God for great
things in His kingdom, but God’s path to
greatness usually does not mirror what we had
in mind. God’s path to greatness usually leads
to prison, death, and the gates of hell.
Also (and this fits with #1 above), when we
pray this prayer, we will often be faced with a
choice between two ministry positions, one
that leads to honor, glory, and fame, and one
that leads to obscurity and insignificance.
Though the temptation is to choose glory and
honor, such decisions may actually be a choice
to follow Jesus downward into humility.

I once heard Francis Schaeffer say in an
interview that if given the choice between two
ministry positions, we should choose the one
with less fame and glory.

4. Help me understand the
plight of the poor.

This Christian prayer is like asking God to make
you poor. Yikes! How can you understand the
plight of the poor unless you become poor
yourself?!
So do you like your nice house, your two cars,
your steak dinners, and your Caribbean
vacations? Don’t ask God to help you
understand the plight of the poor.

5. Make me more like
Jesus.

In one way or another, this has been a constant
life prayer of mine. A couple years back, I
realized that this prayer ruined my life.
I had my life all figure out, and it was all going
according to my perfect plan. Then I started
praying this prayer. Before long, all my hopes
and dreams lay shattered around my feet. I often
tried to pick up the pieces and glue everything
back together, but God would come through with
His baseball bat and smash it all to hell (almost
literally… all of my plans and dreams deserved
nothing more).
When you pray to be like Jesus, God will begin to
break down, burn away, and slough off anything
and everything in your life that does not look like
Jesus. This sounds nice until you begin to
experience it. The purification of our life may be
with God’s refining fire, but it sill burns!.

6. Give me more faith.

Christians like our beliefs in nice, neat packages.
But life is not like that, and neither is life with
God.
When Christians pray for God to give us more
faith, we are likely to enter into some of the
difficult and doubt-filled times of our lives. You
will begin to question everything you have never
known and everything you have ever believed.
You may even begin to doubt God’s goodness
and maybe even His existence.
This is not bad. Embrace the doubts. Understand
that if what you believe it true, it can stand up
against all questions. Truth does not fear a
challenge. There is no other way for your faith to
grow than for your faith to be tested.

7. Give me victory over sin
and temptation.

How do you think victory comes, except through
ever-increasing cycles of temptation? Sure, God
does not send the temptations, and He never
allows us to be tempted with more than we can
bear, but if we pray for God to give us victory
over sin and temptation, this is the same thing
as asking God to strengthen us so that we can
stand up under greater and greater temptations!
So if you pray this Christian prayer, be ready for
an onslaught of all the wiles of the devil.

8. Please help my
annoying neighbor/
coworker come to Christ.

This is a great Christian prayer. Except guess
how God is going to help your annoying neighbor
or coworker come to Christ? That’s right. He’s
going to use you.
I once heard a story of a Bible study group who
decided to make a prayer list of all the people
they “disliked” the most, and then pray for these
people every week as part of the Bible study.
Over the course of the next ten years, all but one
of the people on that list became believers, and
almost all of them became Christians because
the members of that Bible study showed grace,
love, mercy, and forgiveness to these “annoying”
people.

If you are going to pray for someone, be
prepared to answer your own prayers.

http://www.gltrends.com/8-dangerous-christian-prayers-no-7-not-easy/
PoliticsRe: Buhari May Soon Wish He Did Not Win 2015 Presidential Polls – Ben Bruce. by talk2chixy(m): 11:15am On May 01, 2015
SuperSuave:
I didn't read the thrash cos I know its full of hate speech. That man is a doubting Thomas, he still doesn't believe change is here, well he shall see it with his own eyes smiley oniranu oshi
I dont get you. If you havent read what he wrote so why trash him. 'Assumption is the mother of all eff ups"

Pls read. No atom of hate speach here
PoliticsRe: Jonathan To Be Appointed U.N Global Crises Envoy by talk2chixy(m): 9:41pm On Apr 27, 2015
sayitout1:
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With all the brains your fam*ly, Una don raise any counselor.

Ode!!! Learn to appreciate people.
LWKMD. No be small tin. Dis dude shud learn to appreciate and be happy not talk down and hate. And right question.....how many dem don raise for him family?
WebmastersRe: How To Be A Successful Web-developer by talk2chixy(m): 11:32am On Apr 27, 2015
oapeleo:
Thanks guys

LESSON TWO: FINDING THE RIGHT HOST
When it comes to small projects i use whogohost or syskay.com. Hostgator and Godaddy for big projects.

Its advisable to create a separate account for your clients. So if they wish to discontinue your services, you can hand over to them their login details to cpanel and others. If the webhost supports an affiliate program, use it on their account. And get discount for other jobs.

Whogohost and syskay.com are both nigeria webhost providers and are both good. But syskay now has a problem with sending mails.
All mails sent from the website you hosting with them goes to spam box. I dont know why?
This cost me my reputation at a time. An ecommerce site i created had all its payment, cart, check out messages going to the mail spam. This would ruin the reputation of your site. So lets put it aside for now. (Tested one 3 others websites same problem)

I havent had any problem with whogohost yet. And they have 24 hours customer care service, cheaper, good speed, affiliate program and help you with webpay integration.

IF YOU KNOW ANY OTHER GOOD NIGERIA WEB HOST BLA BLA LET US KNOW

If you doing a big project go for foreign hosts like hostgator or godaddy. They are more expensive (dollar ish u know) but reliable. They can handle websites with lost of traffic.

Now a lil secret, to get cheaper charge on hostgator use this coupon SOCIAL.

Next lesson FINDING THE RIGHT CMS
please comment to encourage more post.
I use HOSTGATOR and its awesome and reliable. Even with the dollar ish, its not as expensive. What people want is reliability and at least 99% up time.

Great post tho
Christianity EtcRe: Are Long Prayers Usually The Most Effective? by talk2chixy(m): 12:40pm On Apr 19, 2015
kunletiwoo:
IMO... Lack of faith is the reason behind every LONG prayers

***Modified***

Biblical Ref: Matthew 6:7
Very very true. Why do we want to be like the pharasees with long repetitive prayers as if God were a robot. Bible says even before we as, He has answered and while we are still speaking, He has heard. So why lack faith with long prayers?

In fact, we should do much more of speaking in tongues than words we can understand (doing this in private prayer sessions, edifying yourself)

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