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Technology Market / Re: Order Your Goods On Ebay, Amazon And All Pickup Sites! Shipping @ $4.60/lbs NGR by Talltom: 7:50pm On Nov 28, 2018 |
PS4 deal, with controller $130. Contact on signature.. |
Technology Market / Re: Samsung S8 SOLD... by Talltom: 7:34am On Oct 23, 2018 |
Device now in Lagos. |
Technology Market / Re: Samsung S8 SOLD... by Talltom: 4:46pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
folaz: Check his thread. |
Technology Market / Re: Order Your Goods On Ebay, Amazon And All Pickup Sites! Shipping @ $4.60/lbs NGR by Talltom: 8:59pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
Samsung s8 cracked and carrier is Verizon but seller says other carriers can use it as well and main screen is not affected. TLC is $160 Item was shipped by lionlee last week, should be arriving any day from now.
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Technology Market / Re: Samsung S8 SOLD... by Talltom: 6:05am On Oct 03, 2018 |
folaz: No |
Technology Market / Re: Samsung S8 SOLD... by Talltom: 9:41pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
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Technology Market / Re: Order Your Goods On Ebay, Amazon And All Pickup Sites! Shipping @ $4.60/lbs NGR by Talltom: 9:59pm On Sep 29, 2018 |
Samsung galaxy s8 Carrier is Verizon but seller says other carriers can use it as well. Screen is cracked, not main screen according to seller.Not an expert on that though. Back just need to be cleaned,was in a case. From picture. Item is already in lionlee’s possession Total TLC is $160.
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Technology Market / Re: Samsung S8 SOLD... by Talltom: 6:42pm On Sep 29, 2018 |
FantasticJ: Ok |
Technology Market / Re: Samsung S8 SOLD... by Talltom: 2:00pm On Sep 29, 2018 |
FantasticJ: Yes picture is from him. Price is $160 to Lagos. You can convert that. |
Technology Market / Re: Iphone 6s Att Locked by Talltom: 1:58pm On Sep 29, 2018 |
[quote author=FantasticJ post=71631468][/quote] Gone |
Technology Market / Samsung S8 SOLD... by Talltom: 10:49am On Sep 29, 2018 |
Samsung galaxy s8 Carrier is Verizon but seller says other carriers can use it as well. Screen is cracked, not main screen according to seller.Not an expert on that though. Back just need to be cleaned,was in a case. From picture. Item is already in lionlee’s possession Total TLC is $160. Get in touch first if interested.
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Technology Market / Samsung S8 by Talltom: 10:40am On Sep 29, 2018 |
Samsung galaxy s8 Carrier is Verizon but seller says other carriers can use it as well. Screen is cracked, not main screen. Item is already in lionlee’s possession Total TLC is $160. |
Technology Market / Iphone 6s Att Locked by Talltom: 11:12pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Iphone 6s att 16gb. 57k, whatsap for pics. |
Technology Market / Re: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by Talltom: 7:04pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Gbengard: 15 r2 alienware |
Technology Market / Re: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by Talltom: 6:51pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
cybertek: 15 r2 alienware |
Technology Market / Re: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by Talltom: 6:09pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
adetola44: Saw one earlier, whats your budget? |
Technology Market / Re: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by Talltom: 6:08pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
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Technology Market / Re: Order Your Goods On Ebay, Amazon And All Pickup Sites! Shipping @ $4.60/lbs NGR by Talltom: 9:48am On Sep 07, 2018 |
Iphone 6s deal. Carrier is att, 16gb. Already picked up by lionlee. Contact on my signature. |
Business / Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Talltom: 7:22pm On May 11, 2018 |
Clone2020: Probably one of the few legit exchangers left, tried and true. Sure way if you don't want to risk your hard earned bucks. 1 Like |
Technology Market / Re: Mint 500 Gb Xboxone.s For Sale by Talltom: 11:26pm On Feb 10, 2018 |
livebynite: Whatsap contact? |
Technology Market / Re: Btw 10k To 25k Off!!( Iphone Deals)...FREE SHIPPING!!!(sold out) by Talltom: 10:44am On Feb 03, 2018 |
What does the 3pcs for the 85k mean |
Family / Re: Moving Out/marrying A Non-african Man by Talltom: 2:41pm On Jan 31, 2018 |
LuminousLace: You have been seeing this guy for a decade and your mom is now knowing about it or what? How come she is opposing it now. Explain. It's very dicey, on one hand u can go ahead and move with this guy, but if u do that be ready, subconsciously u will expect a lot from him since u have sacrificed a lot in this case your mom for him which may be unrealistic or sudden for him. I also see a greater propensity for him to misbehave and expect you to put up with since you won't have anyone to run to now that you have no one "technically". On the other hand you can listen to your mom and stay put and marry an African man. Honestly it may take time to find yet another like you have but it would be very possible, luckily time is still on your side.If you pick this however then know your mom will forever dictate to you, especially on the crucial decisions in life which will essentially mean u have no life, because who are we if not the decisions we make. Bottom line make a choice whichever one and be prepared to live with the consequences, things would have been easier if you knew your mom's stance earlier before u committed. |
Family / Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Talltom: 11:39pm On Oct 19, 2017 |
THT80: Where were you when others were ineptly contributing and dishing advice here and there. Sincerely you are not the only to have noticed this degrade, I won't mention names or threads but it's pretty obvious that some great and experienced folks have left this once very helpful forum. Nonetheless, few others are holding out and new ones have surfaced, in short be the change you wish to see in here. Begin by constructive criticism and open mindedness about human individuality which you may agree to or otherwise because believe it or not as unconventional as some advice come it may have worked for some based on their time, circumstances and experience. Lastly you came off well but ended poorly, if you are even half as wise or smart or whatever, render an apology to the well meaning but misconstrued commenters and set a good start for a good cause. |
Travel / Re: Physical Practices, Training Of The Shaolin Kungfu That Will Blow Your Mind. by Talltom: 11:58am On Apr 26, 2017 |
Explorers: I don't think it's even fair to try and compare a kunfu master to a skilled archer, from what am seeing here these people train for more than half their lives, imagine how many clips one can empty and reload into the dark after that many years of train. Oh there is also nightvision. Soldiers have that too for good measure. Nice thread though. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Ashes For Love. My Heart Bleeds Please I Need Your Advice by Talltom: 11:43pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
dusseldorf: I didn't or hope I didn't imply that your story is annoying, but yes you have to take action, ultimately only you can help yourself. I will remember you in my little prayers. |
Family / Re: Ashes For Love. My Heart Bleeds Please I Need Your Advice by Talltom: 12:55am On Feb 05, 2017 |
dusseldorf: Your statements are constantly filled with "advice" from others, quite unfortunately, I am certain it's part of the reason you are here, in this mess, no one REALLY understands your problem or your wife that's why thier advice hasnt helped, usually when we give an account of a problem, we tend to be biased, only a few a able to isolate their view from the truth and give concise information( most times unknowingly). In short you are all the help you are going to get, no one can revive this marriage except you( I believe you have to work on it, for the children sake at least), there is no clear cut solution to this ( don't look forward to one) , no one can give you the perfect answer, even if I had been in this instance before, am sure the individual involved would have been of different behavior or temperance. While this post may not be as relieving, I think I should emphasis that there are some basis you can start off with, why did u fall in love with her in the first place?, I shudder to think you married her because your pastor or immediates urged you to, they probably helped you to see better what you were looking at but none forced your hand. You said she is sidelining members of the family and church folk, humans are social beings so she is taking consolation and advice elsewhere, find out, we are usually the friends we keep afterall. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Ashes For Love. My Heart Bleeds Please I Need Your Advice by Talltom: 12:17am On Feb 05, 2017 |
From what I can gather, there isn't an iota of goodness this woman is bringing to the table, makes me wonder two things, 1.What has kept you going on for a whooping 10 years. 2. Why now, what finally broke the camel's back, these things you talk of, u also stated she has been doing consistently, it's not like she is just starting. |
Family / Re: Help A Depress Dude by Talltom: 12:35am On Feb 03, 2017 |
No one has the magic formula that will quench your emotions, only you can manage it, everyone has been in such a situation before, some worse than yours. When I completed my basic certificate exams, I gathered some funds and started inter city trade around 17 years old, no one in my family had a single hint, the risks, the fears, even the happy moments, I had no one to share them with because they wouldn't have approved. After I gathered enough funds, I bought forms and registered for my university, paid my fees and accommodation, being born a male puts a certain level of responsibility on you ,some brace up quicker than others and step up, everyone has emotions too. The way I see it, a Turkish cert has a greater sway and will certainly open more doors for you or you can park up and join your beloved family (which is not going anywhere btw) and waste time and resources you can't recoup. Family is good, forget that, family is everything but it's your time to step up and remember why you left in the first place. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Don't Know What This Topic Should Be: But It's All About Family Life by Talltom: 11:33am On Jan 27, 2017 |
He is probably holding you to a standard, my mom for instance use to take care of the house, and children of my elder siblings, cooking, cleaning, taking them to school, sure she didn't work but she didn't have a maid plus she was a church treasurer, so she was practically involved in every church sitting at spontaneous times. She rarely complained or did anything shabbily, if has seen it done he won't be sympathetic to your case. Your efforts may appear as a deliberate way to rope him into sharing your half of the responsibilities you have judicated yourselves. Pick a wig today, carry garbage tomorrow, or diapers or... that's how these things start, once the line is crossed there is no "reasonable" reason not to do the other and he knows it so he is standing his ground. Bottom line: don't start this, it won't end well, besides its trivial(not too trivial to start something bigger though), just ask him to more patient and work on being more tidy. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My 'Yahoo' Brothers Are The Ones Fending For Us, I Don't Feel Good About It by Talltom: 12:59pm On Jan 19, 2017 |
Confusedsoul: They have come to accept that the end justifies the means and yahoo yahoo can be such an easy way of destroying ones life because it can avail you to a lot of money which you didn't work hard for too early. Regardless of how much gainful employment affords them it will still be very hardworking them to quit completely.( That's the truth and u probably already realised it). The problem isn't just with the lack of jobs to absorb them, their perception about an honest living has been compromised.Get them to realise that there is dignity in labour and refrain from accepting help from them, half of their motivation lies in believing their doing this for the greater good. (i.e providing for u and your mom). 8 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My 'Yahoo' Brothers Are The Ones Fending For Us, I Don't Feel Good About It by Talltom: 12:58pm On Jan 19, 2017 |
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Family / Re: Please Help A Sister In Need Of Advice Immediately by Talltom: 1:31pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
whitepump: What about your father? your siblings, what are their concerns, especially your father, this is a long term decision and it would help mentally if at least one of them was on board. He could also try to talk her in. Your mom raised a fairly reasonable point and that is to say that he MAY get aprehensive or suspicious later when you settle( disabilities for lack of a better word doesn't cause this, however self esteem does and disabled people often times suffer esteem loss. Should you decide to go ahead with this, in future, keep your activities in plain site, so he doesn't raise flags.) Clearly your moms opinion holds water to you(and rightly so) so don't sweep it under the rug, else your marriage might seem to be based on a sacrifice you made( choosing your man over your mom) and you may hold him on great account in different ways( knowingly or otherwise) to make that sacrifice worth it, to which he may not be able to step up to. 2 Likes |
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