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I totally agree with Oprah,it is a well known fact around the world that Nigerians are indeed corrupt!Some are corrupt subconciously maybe because of the society they grew up in ,something like that.All the nigerians i`ve associated with find no fault in giving a bribe for a visa,passport,document or stuff like that.They may be good people but they contribute largely to the corruption in their country by trying to cover it up and trying to compare themselves with other nations.IF YOU CAN NOT FACE YOUR PROBLEMS AND TRY TO LIVE IN DENIAL who the hell will save Nigeria?By blaming Judge Judy and Oprah you are all being corrupt because you do not want to face the reality of the situation,instead you want to live a lie and pretend Nigeria is as good as any other nation.

Romeo don`t be too judgemental

get a life romeo

amrock!!
If that`s how you define love in your vocabulary then you have a long road to travel dearie.I`m not destroying her happiness but i`m saving her from being played by her so called ibgo boyfriend.I know what true love is all about and for your own information there`s an ibgo guy dying to marry me.Just that i`ll never lose myself to go that far.Just because i share a different opinion from you doesn`t give you the right to call me a hater!

Ibgo guys tell me about those girl! This sounds like someone playing you big time,just leave his sorry ass and find someone else.He doesn`t love you and when an ibgo guy loves you ,you`ll never have any shadow of doubt in your mind.But one thing for sure, they like playing people and hurting people.Just move on girl and get yourself someone who loves you and appreciates you.

Just be careful of African men in general because they are all the same!

Seun,mamaput and everyone who has contributed positively to my problems thank you so much.I will certainly keep my distance and take caution!!

I`m not asking you to believe me but what i`m saying is the truth.Just don`t read my posts period.I`m not an american if you had followed the story from the beginning you would have known i`m an african.I am just stating things that are happening in my life and it might happen to somebody else who is naive as i was.Not so many goodpeople out there!

Everything has turned upside down for me.I accidentally viewed one of my boyfriend`s recordings  online.Everything is clear nd shockingly true!!I saw it with my own eyes and i saw his face on the camera,this was during his easter vacation in Lagos.He is indeed a drug baron and a lot of things are starting to make sense to me.6 cellphones,cash, flashy cars,i`m just confused and at this point i just thank God how he has miraculously revealed it to me.I didn`t tell him what i saw and he doesn`t suspect anything,i don`t know where to turn,sleeping everyday with a criminal and living on blood money.I shudder to think how i could have been so blind.
I`m sorry i didn`t find the link to write a new post.

Thank you guys for being so helpful to me.Everything is crystal clear now and i got my answers from the only person who Knows how he is living his life.There are no drugs and will definitely be no rituals,it`s too bad that i put fear first before everything and i can`t believe that my boyfriend still continues to be supportive to me after putting him through hell.I`ll make up for everything and i`m happy to say that he`s clean,just because he is a well- off nigerian doesn`t mean he is into bad business.

Cute ass i really want to know that`s why i`m coming to this forum.I will marry him regardless of whatever he may be or not be doing.I`ll go to Ngeria and take the risk at all costs.That is what love is about, i`m tired of taking precautions and being suspicious but i do not choose to be insecure.I am not prejudiced but i guess a lot of my friends areand pple will always talk, and i`m at the point where i have accepted everything as it comes.
Thanks for your sound advice!

My boyfriend came back from Nigeria and we had a heart to heart talk.I believe him and he`s not into that stuff at all,the coast is clear and he`s been very honest and sincere with me.I`m glad i didn`t run and love is just burning in our home.
My workmates were advising me not to visit Nigeria this June because i might be sacrificed.They said his love is too good to be true and nigerians can never be trusted.I really don`t know again

Thanks you guys i guess time will tell.I love him and if he happens to be i`ll try to help him to stop but if he`s not well we`ll let the good times roll.Pray for me!

His sis called me during easter and was asking when i`ll visit to Nigeria.I did a bit of investigations and i learnt that he sent 10 000 euro to Nigeria and some of his friends were present , that`s when they became suspicious.According to a man at the african shop,my boyfriend made his money a long time ago and he`s got a lot of investments in Nigeria.He goes to clear his cars as he says and he is not a drug baron.
He does not work but is currently studying,he only travels once in every 3 months and he does not have a lot of friends.He receives calls once in a while, i don`t live with him so i wouldn`t know what happens during my absence.He has never bought anything in my name and he wants to marry me this summer,he`s got his own european nationality and i really don`t think he`s out to use me in any way.He gives me money,wants me to study and have a good career,i really don`t know . I come from a poor family and everything i`ve got is because of him.I`m trying to trust him and i will continue to give him the benefit of the doubt.He`ll be back on Tuesday and i`ll have to face him and tell him what i`ve had.He`s a christian,he loves God and he`s always helping his pple.

lol white rose if it was that simple i could just enjoy but i don`t wanna end up in jail or with a bullet in my head.Or him being dead i can`t stand that, i have to know that`s the best.But thanks anyways i feel a lot better!

Cute-ass thanks for your advice i feel so much better and i feel you are right.I have to face him and find out the truth,he has loved me beyond my expectations and has always been good to me.I will hae to face him and know the truth for myself then i will decide.

I`m really confused , ?I really don`t know how i`m gona find out and i even suspected hat his friend`s could be lying but what if they are not?Seems like i`ve put my life in a mess i`m still in shock and i`m scared.

I`ve been dating a nigerian guy who frequently travels to nigerian,almost every 3 months.Now he`s gone for Easter holidays and some pple were telling me that he`s a drug baron!I`m so scared and i don`t really know what this is ,as i`n not nigerian.He told me he was a car dealer but some of his pple were saying he`s a baron and i`m putting my life in danger.I really loved this guy with all my heart and i can`t even pick his calls anymore.I`m planning to run away to another city before he comes back.Please help me knowwhat this all means.