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I am thirty and single. Alreay did the married thing. Not impressed with it. I do not need to rely an a man to make me happy. I am perfectly content being on my own. If the right man comes along who is worth my time then I'll let you know. For now being thirty and single is as fun as you make it. And I am having a great time.

I had alot of interest in your story I defenitely thing it will help me. I only wish when it helps my brain it could help my heart too. Tahnk you for sharing such a personal subject.

Thank you I did just read the story it was very enlighting to my situatuion, You should know while i was reading it the married man called me and i did not answer the phone, Very tempted to call back but I am not doing it. I would really like to tell him and not just avoid him but it is really hard to talk to him and not get sucked in. HOW DO i DO THIS THE RIGHT WAY??

I feel for you. I am in a similar situation. I am involved with a married man. I have only met the wife once but I felt like shit. I am trying to just be friends with this man but it is so hard to let go. I don't want to lose him totally. Alot of people have alot to say who are not in the sitation but unless you are it is easy to judge. I believe you can not help who you love. Good luck and God bless.

It is a horrible situation, I used to hate woman who did this thing, especially because I had it happen to me. Some girl stole my husband and broke up my family. I have met a man about a yaer ago and I am toyally in love with him. Yes, He is married. I never thought I could do such a thing to anyone else but I truley believe you can not help who you fall in love with. I can not stop thinking about him when am not talking to him or seeing him. I know it is wrong and every week tell him I can not do it any more but then he'll call me or I'll call him. He is not only someone I love but he has become my best friend. I talk to him a couple times a day. I don't know how to stop. I wanna let go but I can't. The whole thing really sucks.